this is sad

[can i watch]

i havent been here very long and joined this site for my bf who is bi. well that bf , love of my life, guy i have and would do anything for..just broke up with me in the worst meanest possible way. eight years this month and he just threw me away. as a matter of fact...as i write this, he is chatting it up on fb without a care in the world of how he ripped me apart.

i have enjoyed immensely coming here for my own fun and had the pleasure of chatting with a few people here, but i need to go. i was here for him...and now hes gone.

be well all xo

[Gearbox]

Sorry to hear that. Doesn't mean you have to go, but can see what a bad memory this place might be. BUT I'm sure you can express here as he does on FB if that helps.
Pop back if you need to just talk about what a **** he is etc.

[Cast Iron]

Some may have enjoyed your dramatic entrance, but I shall enjoy your dramatic depature.

[CelticBerserker]

Some may have enjoyed your dramatic entrance, but I shall enjoy your dramatic depature.


8066
Just my opinion, do with it what you will.

[DuckiesDarling]

Well, sweetie, you don't have to leave us cause he left you, not all bi guys are asses like the way you just posted your ex is. Hugs and be well no matter what you do.

[Cast Iron]

That's just it, try finding your way without a consensus of opinion.

[falcondfw]

Some may have enjoyed your dramatic entrance, but I shall enjoy your dramatic depature.

HEY! Cast Iron. Don't be an ass. Find a heart under all that iron. She just had her heart stepped on. How would you feel if your SO of 8 years ended things with you?

Some people on this board are just ridiculous.

Another one for the iggy button.

[falcondfw]

i havent been here very long and joined this site for my bf who is bi. well that bf , love of my life, guy i have and would do anything for..just broke up with me in the worst meanest possible way. eight years this month and he just threw me away. as a matter of fact...as i write this, he is chatting it up on fb without a care in the world of how he ripped me apart.

i have enjoyed immensely coming here for my own fun and had the pleasure of chatting with a few people here, but i need to go. i was here for him...and now hes gone.

be well all xo




Can I,
You don't have to go just because he ended things. But I understand if being here brings back bad or difficult memories for you. I hope you don't go, but if you do, I hope you heal quickly and decide to return. I am sorry that things happened this way for you. It is always difficult when a relationship ends and 8 years is a long time to dedicate, only for it to end.

[tenni]

Good fortune to you. Break ups suck and not in a good way.

I agree that I don't see a reason for you to stay unless you see your next relationship with a biguy. You seemed to enjoy posting here though. Your "If you had a penis" thread was interesting. I hope that your time here was beneficial in some respect for you.

[can i watch]

​thanks for some kind words...im too devastated to address the negative. and btw..wtf was my grand entrance? later people.

[Long Duck Dong]

hugs can I watch, I am not sure how many friends you have made or are making in this site, but you can add me to the list of people that will continue to welcome you and others to the site cos we enjoy your company and your posts......there is no point in looking for the beauty in the rainbow if there is half the colours missing......lol

give ya ex gf a smack upside the head for me, please..... cos you come across as a lady that most guys would love to share their lives with....

[can i watch]

not looking for attention, im in the worst possible shape and alone. there is no one i can talk to. thank you to those people here who are sweet and kind and understand what this feels like.

this is taking me down.

[CelticBerserker]

not looking for attention, im in the worst possible shape and alone. there is no one i can talk to. thank you to those people here who are sweet and kind and understand what this feels like.

this is taking me down.
Terribly sorry to hear of your misfortune. I got distracted by that jerk and forgot to extend my sympathy for what you're dealing with. Something similar happened to me a few years back and it damn near killed me. Feel free to msg if you need to talk. If not, that's cool too. I wish you well.

With kind regards-
Tom

[MelissaPDX]

Hey, can I watch! Slit yer fucking wrists already. Your drama has been since the day you joined. What I find friggen hilarious, is the total fucking idiots that buy your brand of bullshit and feed into it. What in the hell does that say about this place? What about your own drama?

[falcondfw]

Hey, can I watch! Slit yer fucking wrists already. Your drama has been since the day you joined. What I find friggen hilarious, is the total fucking idiots that buy your brand of bullshit and feed into it. What in the hell does that say about this place?

And what does it say about you that you can't find an ounce of compassion in your black-hearted soul for someone going through a breakup? Do you know the OP personally? Do you know she is lying? If not, then STFU. If you don't like the thread, don't read it. Don't bother responding. You have joined the quickly growing list of esteemed idiots who are on ignore.

[can i watch]

Hey, can I watch! Slit yer fucking wrists already. Your drama has been since the day you joined. What I find friggen hilarious, is the total fucking idiots that buy your brand of bullshit and feed into it. What in the hell does that say about this place?

MY DRAMA?? And what would that be? I joined about 6 weeks ago. Look at all my posts. What drama are you talking about?
I have posted fun, sexy and relevant posts. Where do you get off talking to me like that ? And how dare you slam people for showing compassion towards me. Hater! I was in bad shape yesterday and not much better today.How dare you joke about slitting...NOT FUNNY ! With all the topics people share on this site.....why would you comment on a thread thats about a chick getting her heart destroyed? Classless! Drama??? Heres some drama for you..STFU! And FYI in all the years and all the sites ive ever posted to, ive NEVER been rude or malicious..this is the first time. If you cant say something nice , dont say anything at all.

To the rest of those who were kind and reached out..THANK YOU for being sweet. Im sorry if this post/topic disturbed anyone in any way. I needed to vent and throw it out there. I enjoy this site and have met some very cool people.
No drama. Just a fact.

[chicagom]

If it makes you feel better, you have one less hater. Cast Iron and Ollie are one and the same. Without knowing you, I know you have , and wil have , more friends here than detractors. The co-nippleheads I mentioned earlier would say black if you said white....that's all.

[tenni]

can i wait
I think with all the drama that has been on this site lately, please take some of the heartless comments lightly. I think that you need to look at the reason why you came to this site. It may not be like other sites that you have been on. I'm not sure if you have people that you can turn to in real time and your real life. That may be a wiser option. It is a painful time that most of us have experienced at least one time in our lives. We can give all the electronic hugs but real hugs will help you more. You don't need these nasty comments directed towards you at this point in your life. I'm sorry that it has happened to you.

[MyTimeNow]

i havent been here very long and joined this site for my bf who is bi. well that bf , love of my life, guy i have and would do anything for..just broke up with me in the worst meanest possible way. eight years this month and he just threw me away. as a matter of fact...as i write this, he is chatting it up on fb without a care in the world of how he ripped me apart.

i have enjoyed immensely coming here for my own fun and had the pleasure of chatting with a few people here, but i need to go. i was here for him...and now hes gone.

be well all xo



This may not help right now, but for what it's worth - when you're involved with someone and love that person (and especially for 8 years which I've also been there for), there is a certain level of respect you give that person, despite the reasoning's behind the break up. What you got is the real person from the inside - doing it in a mean way and then acting like nothing after he hurt someone he was supposed to love - and though it may not feel like it now, you're going to be better off without him in a little while from now and certainly feel better. I speak from experience when I tell you that karma is indeed a bitch and he'll be regretting this soon enough.

I don't know you and haven't been a member on this site as long as some others (though I've known this site for a month before I joined), but if you do need to talk or vent, my inbox is open. I've been there and the best thing aside from distraction, is talking about it. You're going to be ok.

[sodacan3]

I am so very sorry about your breakup. To be so dedicated to a guy for eight years says something about what a great partner you would be to someone who would really appreciate you. Somewhere out there is someone who would appreciate you, love you, respect you, and honor you. After the hurt starts to abate, find that person. You and he deserve each other and deserve to have the kind of loving relationship that you desire. Add me to the list of someone who wishes you all the best as you move beyond this breakup.

[falcondfw]

If it makes you feel better, you have one less hater. Cast Iron and Ollie are one and the same. Without knowing you, I know you have , and wil have , more friends here than detractors. The co-nippleheads I mentioned earlier would say black if you said white....that's all.

Well, that explains why Ollie attacked me out of nowhere when I had never had a conversation with him or commented on anything of his. Thanks for the explanation. Sad that people have such empty lives.

[dick_pumper]

Can I Watch
I am sorry that your relationship has come to an end. I don't know you, but applaud you for joining up to this site for your bf. I don't know if you were approving of his bisexuality or just coming here to learn more about it? If it was the former and you were supportive of his bisexuality, then he is a damned fool for dumping you like he has. I can only dream that my wife would be supportive of my bisexuality. She thinks you are either straight or gay, there is no Bi. So I must keep my desires under wraps and when I found this site I was very happy. I hope you stay and can use us to help get you over the pain of the breakup.

[darkeyes]

Well, that explains why Ollie attacked me out of nowhere when I had never had a conversation with him or commented on anything of his. Thanks for the explanation. Sad that people have such empty lives.
Don't count on the fact that u have never had a convo or at least some communication with 'im Falcon.. u may well have... cos am actually not too sure I haven't.. sussies only but sussies r there...wishing me raped by a Royal Marine officer was a bit harsh...an' that alone hints at summat...' apart from fact that 'e is a rite nasty piece of work... and to b so shitty on a thread full of such sadness and heartbreak was callous in the extreme...

...mostly we care Can I hun.. and I feel for u... no... we feel for u...have been through break up and know how bad it can be.. but time heals pain, and there are others in this world who r not as he.. most are not as he... feel the sadness but try and allow ur anger and hurt not to turn to bitterness.. do that and life will have so many joys for u in times to come... and it will make u the more attractive to one who will make u happy..:bigrin:

[Warrior Poet 69]

C I W....you will LIVE again and you will LOVE again! Until that happens try to remember that you are not the one who list here, he is! Find what's left of your self worth and hold onto it as well as your true friends, be they real world, here our elsewhere. This event, right here, right now, happening to you could turn out to be the catalyst that brings you to the greatest love of your life. I hope you find it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Babygirl, this is just my humble opinion, but rather than go, shouldnt you stay and get a bit of support from those that you Have come to talk to, read on, and know? Break ups are always hard, but its how we bounce back and stand on our feet firmly that matters most. Ignore the idiocy of fools who dont understand.
You do what'cha gotta do for you, Girlfriend.
Cat

[falcondfw]

Fran,
What i meant was, I HAVE had conversations with Cast Iron and took IT to task for several things, but i had never spoken with Ollie. If, as Chicago says, Ollie and Cast Iron are one and the same, that explains why Ollie attacked me on another thread when I had not interacted with him as Ollie.

CIW,
You have friends here. Most of us have been through bad break ups. You will get through this. I promise. You will find your center again. You will go on. You will find love again. I know it doesn't seem like you will. I didn't think I would either. But i pushed through, eventually. You will too. Most of the people here, especially those that were not trying to get band, have been very supportive and want to help. You have to do what you have to do. But we do feel for you and want to help.

[hudson9]

Just a note - if you quote an offensive post in your reply, then even if Drew deletes it, it will remain visible in your reply.

But more importantly - my sympathy to you, caniwatch, and let me add to the welcome to you to stay that others have expressed.

(Don't feed the Troll!)