bi...or just a sex fiend?

[Warrior Poet 69]

Ok, this is just to satisfy my own curiosity and see what the majority think. I recently read on this site a definition of bisexual that said equally attracted to both sexes. Here's the deal. I consider myself bi as does my wife. However, I have never, not most likely will I ever, been attracted to a man. A big beautiful hard cock, YES! An actual man, no. Can I look at a guy and say he's attractive? Certainly. That doesn't mean I have any desire to kiss him or snuggle or anything of that nature. Basically, if you're clean, intelligent, into men and women and the wife finds you attractive, let's get it on! I love sucking cock and getting my ass pounded but I am not attracted to guys. So am I bi? Or just a sex fiend?

[MyTimeNow]

Reading that, you're pretty much describing how I feel. I'm not attracted to men at all, but I like the sexuality involved. I agree with what you wrote, about it basically being about the cock and such. I don't have the experience I'd like to have, but enough to where I'm comfortable. I've never labeled myself (IF I had to at all, since I hate labels), it would be quarter bi or having bi-tendencies - I don't consider myself a full fledged bi at all. I've always been a "sex fiend" who could just about get into anything. I'm a very sexual person. I don't know if "sex fiend" is the proper definition of it (I honestly don't know what it), but going by your two choices, I'd say sex fiend. I would like to consider my self a full bi, but I'm just not according to most definitions I've come across. As with everything else, opinions vary and that is mine.

[berryhard]

same here, appreciate a hansome man but dont get excited by the whole package jsut the package below the belt! all about cock for me. Seeing a woman makes me hard and is exciting.
maybe im not gay or even bi just a little bit less then Straight ? Sure do love to suck cock though ! Maybe Suck/fuck buddy is a good term ?

[tenni]

Imo you are bisexual Warrior.

The more standard definition of bisexual includes such a statement. You are "sexually and/ or emotionally attracted to both men and women." I think that it was drew who used the abbreviated form "attracted to both genders". It doesn't say "emotionally" or attracted to all parts of each gender. A cock is part of a man. You are attracted to sexual male bits. You are also perhaps attracted to female sexual bits? ;) Lots of biguys are only attracted to cock..which is part of a man.

[MyTimeNow]

Imo you are bisexual Warrior.

The more standard definition of bisexual includes such a statement. You are "sexually and/ or emotionally attracted to both men and women." I think that it was drew who used the abbreviated form "attracted to both genders". It doesn't say "emotionally" or attracted to all parts of each gender. A cock is part of a man. You are attracted to sexual male bits. You are also perhaps attracted to female sexual bits? ;) Lots of biguys are only attracted to cock..which is part of a man.

Nice point.

[Warrior Poet 69]

LOL yes I'm attracted to female bits. I could be a dog food commercial...nipples and tits, cocks and bits, I wanna get me some sexy naughty bits! LOL Thanks four the input so far y'all. Don't honestly care about the label. I'm happy, the wife is happy, that's all that really matters! Just a curiosity thing.

[Binproud]

I'm about 60 / 40 -- women over men. I like everything from the knees to navel on either sex. Not into the emotional part of the relationship with a man - just sharing the pleasures of the male flesh! :bigrin: For me its a craving - an itch that has to be scratched and has been for many years. Bi - I think so..:) A sex fiend -O heck Yeah!

[falcondfw]

In response to the OP's question that is the subject of this thread, where is the check mark for both?

[ohbimale]

As time passes I find myself attracted to bo
th sexes on every level. Consequently I can see myself in the arms of a man, cuddling, kissing, having sex and even falling for him as in a relationship. To this point I have always compartmentalizzed men for sex only, however those compartments are breaking down. I am not worrying about, just enjoying the ride.

So my advice would be not to worry about it and go with the flow.

[Realist]

I've always felt I was different and this thread is just one more reminder that I am. I have never cared about sex without a relationship, getting to know the person, first. Being flexible and somewhat adaptable, I have experienced platonic and romantic relationships with both genders. But, the romantic ones were always best for me.

[louther]

I've never labeled myself as bi, but like others here I do like both cock and pussy. In either case I don't care much what they are attached to, fat, skinny, tall, short etc. I do like people I can at least carry on a conversation with though. I just like sex! If there can be more than 2 people involved, I like it even more. I've always went by the motto "try it, if you like it try it more".

Now, seeing that there are a bunch of guys that say they aren't attracted to men, but just want cock...it makes me wonder why so many older or chubby guys seem to not have any luck finding other men to play with lol!!

[keladry]

I like the idea of what the asexuals have done. Asexual but not aromantic, asexual and aromantic, etc.

So for bisexuals... Some people are bisexual, monoromantic, and some people are bisexual, biromantic. That's kind of how I view it. As for me, I go with the who-the-fuck-cares, I'll date who I want : ] and their gender is what it is

[Gearbox]

Now, seeing that there are a bunch of guys that say they aren't attracted to men, but just want cock...it makes me wonder why so many older or chubby guys seem to not have any luck finding other men to play with lol!
If we could somehow get them all together on a special hooking up site, what a party they could all have.lol
I know LOTS that are absolutely desperate to have cock fun, but unfortunately I AM attracted to men (the full package) and their cocks don't 'do it' for me. Could send in the 'just the cock' cavalry.:tongue:

[tenni]

I've never labeled myself as bi, but like others here I do like both cock and pussy. In either case I don't care much what they are attached to, fat, skinny, tall, short etc. I do like people I can at least carry on a conversation with though. I just like sex! If there can be more than 2 people involved, I like it even more. I've always went by the motto "try it, if you like it try it more".

Now, seeing that there are a bunch of guys that say they aren't attracted to men, but just want cock...it makes me wonder why so many older or chubby guys seem to not have any luck finding other men to play with lol!!

This is a very interesting point.

I think that the guys who say that they are not interested in anything about the guy except his cock are really trying to separate themselves from another guy who may be interested in the "guy personality" beyond cock. They are interested in the fact that the cock is not attached to someone who they physically are uncomfortable with. They just don't need an adonis body attached to the cock or have to think that the guy is facially " cute" etc. There are guys who like glory holes and they won't care if the body is fat under that circumstance.

[MyTimeNow]

This is a very interesting point.

I think that the guys who say that they are not interested in anything about the guy except his cock are really trying to separate themselves from another guy who may be interested in the "guy personality" beyond cock. They are interested in the fact that the cock is not attached to someone who they physically are uncomfortable with. They just don't need an adonis body attached to the cock or have to think that the guy is facially " cute" etc. There are guys who like glory holes and they won't care if the body is fat under that circumstance.


I can't speak for others, but I do have standards myself. I have no desire for glory holes and certainly if the cock is attached to a douche or someone the complete opposite of an Adonis, that cock won't be near me. No, I'm not attracted to men in that way, but for me at least - the sexuality is important. Hard to really explain, but I can get very sexual with a male, without being attracted to them. (There have been girls I wasn't attracted to in the past that I've fooled around with). Each person is different and has different tastes. To lump all "cock lovers" in a category just isn't accurate - this isn't directed to you personally, just a general statement for the thread. I don't have to be attracted to men in the same way I'm attracted to women to get down and dirty, but I'm not a hard up desperate guy either who'll just bed any male because they have a cock.

[tenni]

"if the cock is attached to a douche or someone the complete opposite of an Adonis, that cock won't be near me. "
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That is fine. The above statement tells me that you do have expectations beyond the cock as an object. You want to know something about the person. You are not into casual impersonal sex. Those that are interested in only the cock and would use a glory hole have different interests, excitement factors and priorities. You are quite correct though that lumping all cock lovers into one category is not fair. I did not mean to infer that.

To focus on this aspect of cock as an object of desire rather than the man or woman is wandering too far away from the purpose of this thread. If you are attracted in any form to man and women, you are bisexual.

[MyTimeNow]

It's all good - just had to make my point clear. I appreciate your response.

[biblkman]

I feel similar to Warrior, but would like a lasting friendship outside of the bedroom as well.

But I agree with teni also

But I consider myself to be a find, cause I like sex be it male or female, and just about every kind of porn gets me turned on except kiddie porn , smut (rape scenes ) and beastiality, and defacating porn...gross.

I'm in a monogamous relationship...sigh, that may be why I'm a fiend, not doing what I would love to do sexually.

But I don't think being bi is synonymous with being a fiend.

[Bikash Pandey]

" I LIKE TO GET MY HANDS INTO ANYBODY'S PANTS AND ENJOY WITH WHATEVER I FIND.. lollzz..:bigrin:

[dafydd]

you're definitely bi and you're definitely a sex fiend.
welcome!