Squirting

[Lunatic1966]

just a question, am not sure if it has been asked here before.
do women who squirt during/after intercourse have a better or more active sex life than women who don't?
Thanks for your opinions/comments

[csrakate]

I have an active sex life and I squirt....Can't say whether or not the two are related. I can, however, say that the squirting came later in life....after I turned 50....and unlike many women in their 50's, I do not suffer from some of the post menopausal maladies that afflict so many women around my age. I had a hysterectomy over two years ago and once I got my hormone replacement situation taken care of, my sex life is not only intact, it is more active than ever.

[darkeyes]

I do squirt too.. and very yummie it is too.. but I dont quite like the girls and women I've seen in porn.. I don't gush like a fountain.. and have never been with many woman or girl who do either... but I don't haff go all wobbly all over and it certainly isn't wise to try and stand up for a min or so... gives me partner a laff if I squirt standing up.... cos I dont tend to be able 2 stand up for long...:eek2: But she is ver nice and caring and holds me up as I wobble like I've had a few 2 many...

[csrakate]

I do squirt too.. and very yummie it is too.. but I dont quite like the girls and women I've seen in porn.. I don't gush like a fountain.. and have never been with many woman or girl who do either... but I don't haff go all wobbly all over and it certainly isn't wise to try and stand up for a min or so... gives me partner a laff if I squirt standing up.... cos I dont tend to be able 2 stand up for long...:eek2: But she is ver nice and caring and holds me up as I wobble like I've had a few 2 many...

I think the big gush in porno must be faked....it is never quite like that for me....THANK GOODNESS!! Wobbly is a certainty.....and it has given me a whole new appreciation for the male ejaculation. I suspect that squirting is a tiny bit like what a man goes through....but not quite as amplified.....Probably a good thing cause I might never walk again if it were more intense.

[tenni]

I've never been with a woman who squirts a lot so that bed sheets need replacing or a guy needs to wear his glasses to protect his vision during lunch time..:yikes2:. I was watching a programme just the other day discussing orgasms. Funny, but I was only half paying attention though. It discussed it from a historical studies perspective about female orgasm(yep on the good ol CBC). I believe that it said that all women squirt when having a g spot orgasm and it come from the g spot (which is the equivalent of the prostrate). It is the amount that varies from woman to woman and better/ best orgasms. Then again, I was only half paying attention. Wish that I could recall the rest of the discussion.

[littlerayofsunshine]

I'm a squirter/gusher. I don't think that the ability to squirt means your sex life is more active. It's not related to drive as much as it is to arousal and stimulation during the moment. But I will say this... There are times when being sexual, that I feel I HAVE to squirt to feel satisfied. During those occasions, I call upon my dear old Hitachi to finish the job. Hubby likes to call those times "Dessert and a Show".

IDK if it's comparable to a man's ejaculate. But when I squirt I uncontrollably yell/moan/scream louder than I have ever heard a man do when they cum.

[csrakate]

I've never been with a woman who squirts a lot so that bed sheets need replacing or a guy needs to wear his glasses to protect his vision during lunch time..:yikes2:. I was watching a programme just the other day discussing orgasms. Funny, but I was only half paying attention though. It discussed it from a historical studies perspective about female orgasm(yep on the good ol CBC). I believe that it said that all women squirt when having a g spot orgasm and it come from the g spot (which is the equivalent of the prostrate). It is the amount that varies from woman to woman and better/ best orgasms. Then again, I was only half paying attention. Wish that I could recall the rest of the discussion.

I have found that squirting, in my case, usually takes place when there is a great deal of clitoral stimulation, much like jacking a cock but my memory is a bit fuzzy as to anything else that may have been going on at the time but I am sure my g-spot was probably getting a good workout as well.:confused: The sensation definitely seems to originate there and for the naysayers, the fluid definitely isn't urine....the viscosity is a bit more like a runny lube and it is basically odorless. I'm sure some women squirt more than others.

[tommyswing]

What ever it is it's wonderful.

[Bicouple4f]

I want to squirt but idk how to do it, can someone help me?

[CelticBerserker]

A former girlfriend and I didn't know she was a squirter until one night I guess I did something right and got drenched. Nothing quite like it :)

[Warrior Poet 69]

Bi couple 4f...let your partner get you good and worked up...a nice snacking should work! :tongue: then have him slide a couple fingers in and make a come here gesture so that he is massaging just behind your clit. Have him resume his snack and if you don't already you should soon feel like you need to pee. This is why most women don't squirt. You don't need to pee. You need to relax and go with it! Trust me on this. Took my wife 20 yrs to let go and believe me but now? Now she can't get enough! Massage that g spot right and any woman will squirt. Some more than others, but most self abort out of fear they are going to pee on their partner. If your partner doesn't drown they will probably enjoy it almost as much as you! Happy Squirting and let me know how it goes!

[MyTimeNow]

I was with a girl once who did squirt, unfortunately I was a little intoxicated and in the dark, so I missed it. :(

[by~his~side]

I've experienced the pleasure of squirting. And like Cate, I was a little older when it first happened. 46.
Direct stimulation of the clit with a wonderful little vibe is how I got there.
As WP69 stated....it definitely felt like I needed to pee. I stayed with it and *whoosh*....nothing had ever come
close to that feeling before.
For me I know I need to feel relaxed, comfortable, safe, and accepted. Not sure I could get there with anyone else
present except hubby. Gotta be comfortable on many levels.

Nice thread.
~D~

[Bicouple4f]

Warrior poet 69, thank you for ur help. The feeling of peeing is surely not a problem since it is another one of our kinky sides ;) however the movement is something I didn't know. I really hope this works, and I hope if it does I'm a gusher. I want to soak him in my fluids ;-) I will let him know about what u suggested and we shall definitely give it a try. Thank you and wish us luck!!

[Lunatic1966]

So, squirting is not tied to the sex drive or frequency of making love?
I too made love to a woman once that was a gusher.......wow, nice to see the results of all the hard work,,,hehehehehehe.
Thanks for all you information.............

[Warrior Poet 69]

Bc4f...you're welcome! I hope it works for you too! Good luck and like I said, let me know. Would love to know I was able to help. Lunatic...I'm no doc but to my knowledge, no frequency has nothing to do with it other than exhausting her! My wife and I have played around with Fisting and man that really does it for her! She's gushed like 5 or 6 times in under an hour and each was just as much as the last in volume. Kept washing away the lube! as for sex drive I would imagine that someone with a higher drive might be more relaxed and open to it but that's a head thing not physical.

[NjbiGuy01]

I've been with two squirters. One just ran like she was peeing (it was not pee, I tasted it...), the other screamed and yelled and sprayed...she claimed she "soaked through a mattress once" and I believed that...I imagine each person can be different. In any case, I gotta try to teach the wife !:oh:

[innaminka]

I squirted first time in my late 30's (not a real gush - more an enthusiastic dribble)
I don't think that act had any significance on my sex life per-se. It was good before and just as good after. But then I don't hang out for it. When it happens it happens and it's nice. No squirt?? so what, everything else was great; I don't feel "deprived."

It just means I've got to change the sheets.

[bi4asplay]

I the first lady the I helped squirt was a lady that I lived with. She loved to peg me and would cum several time while doing so. One night after she had ridden me for a very long time I was giving her oral. She told me that she was cuming and could not hold back any longer. I kept loving her clit. When she came it was so hard that my face was covered. My hair was wet I even had it in my ears and on my left shoulder. I came almost as hard as she did. After that she would squirt almost every time I gave her oral, a daily happening.

[pam53218]

I squirt when i'am having sex

[funwithbiguys]

My wife squirts all the time, i'm golden in that dept.

[Committed bi guy]

My partner of six years is a phenomenal squirter and we keep a good hand towel in the bed between our pillows because we like keeping the bed somewhat dry. Sometimes it's just a matter of getting the towel in place on time. When we met, she was under the impression that she had a urinary problem because that is what her gynecologist had told her. She had never had a squirting event until after she got divorced and was past menopause. However, she found that when she again became sexually active she had started to squirt when she orgasmed. Not knowing what was going on, she went to her doctor for an answer. Anyway, when we first became intimate, she was very uncomfortable because of her "problem" and warned me. As one might guess, she was shocked and rather unsure when I told her that her squirting was not only not a problem but a HUGE bonus to our sex life. We are both sixty-two, we both love sex and we have a great sex life. So, don't always trust the medical establishment and keep a towel handy. Yes, I often get my face, neck, ears and hair drenched and I love it ;) What a wonderful thing to be able to please your partner to such an extent. By the way, she easily comes and squirts with just a good licking to her clit and a general licking and tongue probing, so penetration or g-spot stimulation are not the only way to achieve this most excellent climax!

[Jorja]

Am I ever happy to read this post!! Wow...I have been squirting for a few years, since I was about 36 or 37 and cannot have sex without squirting. With the right partner, any and all stimulation will set me off, the force is enough that my entire body contorts and the sounds that come out of me! lol I have found during sex, my pussy will completely push a cock out, that is when I squirt, it seems harder with it still inside. Has anyone else experienced that?? I am a squirter who not only dribbles ad gushes, but I have literally squirted three to four feet, I have soaked my bed to the point where I use plastic sheets during sex and a towel when I masturbate, I have soaked my laptop and any and all other objects nearby, including my partner lol The only problem I have found with this? Having spontaneous random sex like in a car or when you are a houseguest somewhere has become something I either have to plan for, or abstain from :P

[vaddieman]

My wife squirts most of the times we have sex. She is 68 yrs old. We always double up a thick towel to put under her and even if she doesn't she lubricates enough to make a wet spot, not to mention mine.

[hasty1]

I spent most of my life being a non squirter then a particularly talented frenchman unlocked my ability to do this. I've always been a sexual person, there was no sex for 10 years in my marriage and I used to fantasise about giving head, although the desire went away for long periods of time too. I've always loved sex, I can remember a conversation that made me wonder if I was different to most women. I was at a party of some sort, where there were only women and one of them said that if she never had sex again it wouldn't bother her. The rest of the women enthusiastically agreed, I said nothing and hoped no one would notice! The problem with the question is that it's subjective, who knows what it would be like to have/not have this ability. I know that during sex now I'm motivated to squirt, it offers a release that feels like nothing else, but when I didn't do it I didn't notice it's absence, I had nothing to compare it to. Not sure if this helps answer the question but this is my experience.

ps - my partner and I used to soak through several layers of towel down to the bed sheets so I bought a couple of re-usable incontinence bed pads, they're plastic backed and are very absorbent. After use you just wash and go, even better the bed more often than not is completely dry, unless I've missed of course! :)

[curiouslibidos]

I may have mentioned before that my lovely wife is also able to squirt. The first time, many years ago happened quite by accident. Since then we learned her trigger and "pull" it often. Now for all those that share this ability we'd like to recommend the Liberator - Fascinator Throw. It's a water proof blanket that is worth every penny. No need for anyone to get the wet spot. Check it out if you're lucky enough to need one ....

[art0711]

I dated a squirter in NY for a while. It was so hot! she went nuts when she came over and over and it turned me on so much!

[Alexandra and Greg]

The first time my guy had me squirt, he was standing while I lay on my back. Using his fingers he massaged my inside to the point that when I climaxed, my fluid went over his head!! He is 5'9" tall, and for it to go over his head....NOT A CLICHE OR PUN....LOL...
I had to have squirted no less than 6 feet into the air!!!

Had both of us laughing histerically......its become one of our daily events since