Having sex or masturbating with non-participants in the room

[anacsa]

I didn't go to college but for 6-7 years i worked on the road with a large group of people mainly in their 20's and we worked and lived together for about 10 months a year. For the most part you had to room with another person and over the years there were many occasions where i quietly jerked off while i thought my room mate was sleeping or had sex with my GF or some other girl who was kind enough to fool around with me.

I had one room mate who I WANTED to have join in and i must say that i wasn't so discreet in front of him as far as having sex with a girl but no luck, he never bit AND i never "caught" him doing anything much to my chagrin. i remember jerking off and hoping that this one dude would comment on what i was doing or start jerking off too but those scenarios never made it out of my head.

the closest i think it ever came was when him and i were visiting a friend of ours who was spending her last weekend at her apartment in NYC before moving. we were hanging out all weekend and on the saturday night before she had to move out she had a party and me and it was determined pretty early in the day that it would be best if we stayed over instead of driving after the party.

after everyone split we were winding down and there were only two beds and i grabbed a spot in our friends bed as we had hooked up before so it was the least awkward set up. we were all crashing when the girl got up and grabbed a note book and went out into the hallway. after like 5-10 minutes i asked my buddy if he was still up and if he had any idea where our friend went. he said no, he was wondering too and less than a minute later she came back. she took her shorts off and hopped into bed and pressed her tight little ass right into my crotch. then she reached back and grabbed my hand and put it down her panties. we ended up fucking, sucking, etc a mere 5 feet from my buddy who i knew was awake when she came back.

now if that was me in his bed, i at least would have jerked off i think, but nothing. i asked him some time later if he heard us (he said no) and that i was hoping he'd join in which he didn't really comment on.

so what about you? have you ever been the person having sex or masturbating OR the non-participating room mate. how do you feel about the whole subject and any good stories to tell?

[welickit]

We have had sex with others around any number of times over the years. Neither of us is shy about it and for the most part it has been a spur of the moment type thing as opposed to having been planned. A recent example is the wife and I and a friend sitting watching TV. Being nudists we were dressed appropriately. The wife and friend were on the couch, me in my recliner. The conversation turned to sex and I started jerking off. The wife is used to watching so when our friend started jerking it wasn't a problem she watched both of us. I went over and she started blowing me while he watched and jerked. She stopped sucking long enough to look over and grab his cock then continued sucking me and jerking him. He had seen her naked before but never done anything sexual. I guess you could say that to us sex is just an extension of friendship. Although his wife wasn't happy when she found out.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I attended an all male military school during high school and lived with a roommate in a small room. We had a metal frame bunk bed with thin mattresses. I jerked off numerous times while we were both in bed, and felt the bed shaking when he was doing it.

A few years later, I was stationed in Taiwan and during a visit to Taipei wife and I were staying in a hotel room with two beds. After touring some of the wilder places and all of us receiving rather erotic massages we went to our room. I don't recall why or how, but each of the ladies ended up in a bed and the other guy and I were sitting there in our underwear. I stood up and began to remove my shorts and the other lady said "You wouldn't dare!!!", the exact wrong thing to say to me. I dropped my shorts, walked accross the room with my hard cock bobbing in front of me, and climbed in bed with my wife. We started fooling around and were soon fucking. I stopped moving and looked at the bed next to us and the sheet was moving up and down and I could hear her moaning. Didn't get much sleep that night, but it was most enjoyable.

[i_shoot_blanks]

On another occasion in Taipei, wife and I decided we wanted some action pictures. I had a poloroid camera, but of course it did not have a self photograpy capability. We wandered the street among the prostitutes and finally found one, we called her mama-san, a little older and could speak fairly good english. She came back to the room with us. We all three stripped to nothing, and wife and I started fooling around. Mama-san even coached a little bit. As things worked out, we would start fucking in a position and Mama-san would take a picture or two. We would stop, I would get up and process the picture and then we would start again, oral sex or fucking in another position. Fourty years later and we still have those pictures.

Besides photography, Mama-san was had several other talents, as I found out in later visits to Taipei.

[tenni]

There was a time in my early 20's when I had a roomie and we shared a small room. There were two single beds in this small room so it was a navigational effort to get around. My roomie was an identical twin and he was use to being naked with his brother. All of us went away together and had great laughs. There was one time when we shared a woman but got nowhere with her. It was more like he tried and then I tried with her. Later we found out that neither were successful and we thought each other had scored. A couple of times more than a couple he would hop out of bed naked with a hard on in the morning. He'd slap it down as he walked by me pretending to sleep. His cock was pretty close to me but I wasn't into guys then. Another time, I recall waking up and I had not cum in awhile. I woke up as I came and then realized that I had masturbated in a semi sleep mode with him in our room. I felt horrified a bit. I don't remember if I asked him (think I did). He said that he didn't wake up to see me cum but he had done it when I was sleeping too. I don't recall being awake when he wanked. I do recall coming home when he had a woman in the bedroom though.

Those were fun days all right. At one point we had five guys living in a two bedroom apartment..screwing women and craziness all round. Most of us saw each other naked. His twin ended up living with us too. One was cut and one was uncut so that their parents could tell who was who..lol Wiping out a dick as a joke was common in the apartment. Being in the exact same room as a roomie got sex was not that common.

[anacsa]

great stories - i'm jealous!

part of my dilemma is that ive been attracted to so few particular guys so my odds of anything happening are pretty slim. i was in las vegas with some buddies once and after partying and gambling all night one of my buddies says lets call some hookers. two friends decline right off the bat and another one as he's making the call so its just me and my one friend. two girls come by and we end up both getting head in the same room and at one point i look over towards him and he's looking at me and my girl with a big smile and thumbs up.

if that was one of the 4-5 friends who i've gotten off to before i probably would have shot my load right then but unfortunately that wasn't the case.

yeah i'd love to get into the scenario you experienced blanks especially if it was with certain couples.

based on the number of dorm and college themed pornos out there featurning non-pros i get the feeling that:

a) maybe i SHOULD have gone to college
b) i was born too early
c) it's never too late to continue my education ;)

[anacsa]

>>>Those were fun days all right. At one point we had five guys living in a two bedroom apartment..screwing women and craziness all round. Most of us saw each other naked. His twin ended up living with us too. One was cut and one was uncut so that their parents could tell who was who..lol Wiping out a dick as a joke was fairly common in the apartment.

maybe i just grew up being so afraid of being thought of as gay that i never allowed myself to be in a situation like that. between being self conscious about my cock size (only seeing porn cocks didn't help im sure) and worrying that i'd get a hard on when i "shouldn't" - i avoided showering after gym class or soccer/baseball.

i think maybe if i was in a house with four other guys who were comfortable being naked in front of other dudes and fucking around in front of them that some of my mental hang ups might have been worked out. ive never been one to fantasize about movie stars or famous people but rather it was always people i knew so i think i'd have enjoyed your set up.

[tenni]

funny thing was no one saw the behaviour as gay. I guess it was the twins and the fact that they also had an older brother. Estonians were just comfortable with their bodies. It was seen as a big laughable joke to prove a point. Oh, ya..well suck this was a line that I recall..lol

[anacsa]

good point. my brain got messed with at a young age and sex and being a teenager wasn't fun at all because of it. between my catholic upbringing, (masturbation was supposed to send you to hell! thank God i didn't buy all that) being molested, getting in trouble a few times for playing doctor and other things, i was hampered.

your situation seems like it would not only be one that would promote a healthy sexual mind but it would be fun too

[dick_pumper]

Way back in high school, I was spending the weekend at my friends house and the kids rooms were upstairs. At the top of the stairs to the left was the sisters room and to the right the two brothers shared a bedroom. So the two brothers were going to sleep in the one bed and I could have the other. The first night, I was walking up the stairs and his sister had her stereo on and I stopped and looked into her room and was shocked by what I saw. She was lying on her bed masturbating away, I have a sister and had never seen something like that and was just standing there in awe. Well she turns and sees me and starts crying so I went in to comfort her, I didn't know what else to do, and I was telling her it's normal to masturbate, I do it all the time, so she stops crying and then starts asking me about how guys do it and as I was telling her she pulls back her blanket and takes my hand and shows me how to finger her. So I'm sitting on her bed fingering her and we hear someone coming up the stairs and it's my friend (her brother) and he stops in the room and asks what was I doing and I said just talking to your sister. So she is covered and he didn't know she was naked below the waist and she hooks my hand with her heel of her foot and starts pulling my hand to her pussy so I slide my finger in and start to finger her some more, all while her brother and I are talking. He never knew anything. So he leaves and she tells me to come back later that night to do more. Well, I visited her room that night and just as I got my underwear off her mother calls up the stairs to see what was going on. So I grabbed one of her pillows and carrying it across my body I say her brothers have both pillows and I needed one. So that was all for that night.
The next night, as we boys were getting ready to sleep, we dared each other to sleep naked, and we all stripped and went to bed. An hour or so later I feel a hand on me and wake up and it's his sister, naked and she slides into bed with me. We start to kiss and she is feeling my cock and I am playing with her and she says I want you to fuck me right now. So I get on top and she helps me slide in. I was a virgin to that point, it was fantastic and so exciting to be having sex but to be doing it to my best friends sister in his bed while him and his brother are sleeping 2 feet away. We were being very quiet and I was so into it and enjoying my first time, I feel a bump on my lips and I open my eyes and her brother, my best friend, is standing there with his cock against my lips. Open up or I tell he said. So all of a sudden I am fucking my first girl and sucking my first cock, with the other brother fast asleep near us. His sister is egging us on and telling me to fuck her while I suck his cock and he suddenly grabs my head and shoves i deep and cums in my mouth, and she tells me to swallow it and as I am doing this I blow my load in her as she cums. The next day her parents were out and the one brother had gone with them so we all got together and got naked and she wanted to watch her brother and I suck each other off together (69), and then she let me fuck her one more time. Well, needless to say, I spent more then a few weekends at their house, and him at mine. She always said she wanted to see us fuck each other, her brother and I but we never did. But him and I ate a lot of cum after that 1st weekend.
This is entirely true, only names have been left out to protect the guilty. This was early 80's and they moved to Texas during the big oil boom around '82?? I'll never forget those weekend sleepovers.

[anacsa]

well done dick pumper. i think after that i'm going to do some dick pumping myself. wow.

i'm glad those buzz-kill adults/parents/etc didn't keep you from this uber-memorable experience. :P

anything else to share?

[ExSailor]

I've done this tons of times, what's the point of the question? It is better when everyone in the room is participating and it's an orgy or 3 way. :)

[jackbirdjay]

When I was 15 my best buuy same age use to jerk together never any touching. We lived in a apartment complex that had a pool with a man and womens shower room. We use to jump the fence on hot sticky late nights and go skinny dipping. This one night I got hard, he said nice hard on I said thanks it has a mind of it's own he said yea tell me about it. He said how often u jerk off I said everyday U he said same. We got out went to get dressed. He said want to jerk-off? I said thought u would never ask. We had a flash light I shoot first he had the flash light on me when I shoot my load. I said ok your turn. He was hard but had trouble cumming. I joked if u need a hand he got mad said go fuck your self. I said relax just kidding. (Even thou if he wanted a bj I would have gotten on my knees) We never touched each other but did jerk-off together alot well into our 20's. Then when we were 18 we went on a double date. He was in the back seat with his gf I was driving with my gf rubbing my hard on though my pants. They were in to heavy making out. I said lets go parking he was for it but the girls took a long time to get them to say yes. Ended up with my girl on her hands and knees me fucking her from behind. I looked back his gf was on top riding him with her big tits out bouncing up and down. The car smelled of sex.

[MyTimeNow]

When I was 14, I masturbated under the covers in front of a friend (I thought he was doing the same, but turns out he was only seeing if I would do it). I was actually surprised I was able to cum at all due to nervousness, but I did it and was proud.

Several times later on, I had a friend who'd come to my house with his girl and they'd fuck on my bed because they needed a place. I used to watch through a cliched key hole (which worked). I did hear him try to convince her to let me join in on one of the occasions - "you want to be in a sandwich" I overheard him say. I really wanted to participate, but though she was a little reluctant, she wasn't ready. Another occasion, after a drunken party, the same couple were asleep on the bed while I was on the floor next to the bed and they had sex while I pretended to be passed out. Didn't get to see, but hearing it right next to me was pretty hot.

I also fucked an ex in front of a friend of mine twice. First night was more or less a dare, the second night was a continuation. He watched and I could tell he was enjoying it. Best part was on the second night, the 3 of us were laying in bed and she just opened my pants and started to blow me, with him right behind her. She wanted him to join in and the thought of it was a real turn on for me, but because he was involved with someone himself (and a little shy), he didn't. Ever since then, I wanted to be in a 3 way, but haven't had the luck yet for whatever reason. :(

[lolguy]

I am fortunate to be a member of a group that embraces masturbation, voyeurism, group play and ???? I love masturbating, and being masturbated by others and being watched only adds to the excitement. This group is mostly heterosexual, but certainly embraces FF play and is not adverse to TG/M or even MM play. Very nice, open minded folks. I have had some wonderful times there.

[lolguy]

Not an issue, in fact, I very much enjoy being watched and find myself sometimes even getting more into it knowing I am part of a play