Women's view of adult and erotic movies

[SJMurph]

What are women's view and attitude of adult and erotic movies given the changing social dynamic? Given that men, historically, are the largest consumers of adult movie content, do you find that women are becoming more open and interested in strong sexually erotic movie content?

[Jobelorocks]

I am a woman and I know pretty much all my female friends and I watch porn. I think women are sexual creatures as well and like to view pornography. I do find though that most porn is aimed at men (probably due to the fact they are the ones who watch it the most). I can't tell you how annoying it is in porn to see the woman start by giving a guy a blow job, maybe he licks her nipples some and then it goes right to sex without him going down on her or many times without even fingering her. I also find some porn to set unrealistic standards of beauty for women (huge boobs, really thin, tiny short labia hidden by little skin puffs on the side, no razor burn, lol) and an unrealistic standard of cock size and totally shaven men (big turn off for me). Sometimes I watch porn and just laugh because ya I know that move looks good on camera, but I am pretty sure it doesn't do anything for either of them. I prefer the more home-made stuff that looks similar to what I actually do and what actually feels good.

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[DuckiesDarling]

Porn to be me has to have the erotic element rather than just sex, there has to be a bit of story I can get into and I have to actually feel some energy. I'm not a big fan of porn outright but the last few years been surfing around trying to find something that peeks my interest. Like Jobelo said, I have no interest in the professional and prefer the amateur. One exception, I have found is www.twilightwomen.com (http://www.twilightwomen.com), found that through Xhamsters "Female Choice" section that pretty much showcases the porn that other female users rated highest. I can't see paying for that site right now but I may in the future as the entire movie to this clip would be available to download. http://xhamster.com/movies/967677/dungeon_5.html There was just something about that clip that caught my attention and I'd be interested in seeing the entire movie in one go.

[Rhevan]

I'm not really a big fan of porn at all but I really need to have the erotic element in anything I watch to have it actually be watched instead of the "pop in the rented dvd and spend the night snuggled with partner making fun of the well used body parts and pointing out the surgery lines" times that I have had. That being said, amateur porn can be quite enjoyable and sometimes you even see a new position that you know is possible to achieve without being a gymnast.

Rhevan

[welickit]

I was looking for regular TV programs to bring up on my computer today and found another site with a full load. The adult section has some good amateur stuff but it seems to get added and deleted frequently. Pretty much a full spectrum of everything from Skynews UK to ESPN to adult. It streams really well.

As for the female point of view, commercial porn is shit.


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[æonpax]

I understand there is a certain sexual rush for a female actually being in a porn film that can be intoxicating....so to speak.

[darkeyes]

I understand there is a certain sexual rush for a female actually being in a porn film that can be intoxicating....so to speak.Am not and never have been a fan of porn particularly.. the reasons aren't that important and I have explained them several times in the past... mostly porn to me is a bit of a turn off... but occasionally there been a bit of porn which has really grabbed me.. and one, which was an all girl orgy caught my attention and really did get the juices flowing...

..most of that vid was pretty duff, and of the kind we have all seen before.. but one part.. a girl being gently teased to orgasm.. a particularly beautiful and very sexy girl... had me breathless with excitement.. the gentleness and beauty of it and the way she found herself being pleasured and becoming hotter and as her orgasm came closer, the noises she made as she grew near are the most convincing scenes I have seen on vid... and the explosion as she did cum, the sounds she made, the way her body reacted so wildly and ecstatically at its power and pleasure made me almost wish that the one offer I have ever had to take part in a naughty vid I had taken up... the 500 quid offered I laughed at.. but for that kind of orgasm and that kind of pleasure, I would gladly have made that vid for bugger all... and if I knew for certain the orgasm would do for me what it did for her, I may even have paid for the privilege..

....intoxicating was the word.. very appropriate... I have no idea if it was real that orgasmic delight.. but if it wasn't it is the most convincing I have ever seen on vid...

[MelissaPDX]

I understand there is a certain sexual rush for a female actually being in a porn film that can be intoxicating....so to speak. This only happens if she's a whore. Most women including myself do not want anything to do with being in porn and a lot of us find most porn to be a major turn off since it's fake.

[darkeyes]

This only happens if she's a whore. Most women including myself do not want anything to do with being in porn and a lot of us find most porn to be a major turn off since it's fake.
If u hadn't used the first sentence I may, just may have some sympathy for what u say.. personally I have no objection to any woman making a living from selling her body.. whether it be through prostitution or making porn or being pictured for the selling of knickers.. I am not a great lover of porn or prostitution because they are not for me desperately, but neither do I condemn it. I have concerns about the making of porn and prostitution but one if them is not women (or men) making a living out of it or a bit of extra cash or as is increasingly the case nowadays, to finance their way through university. And if they make porn for no money and do it on an amateur basis for fun.. like any other sex act who are we to condemn something which is done consensually? Sex is about fun and enjoyment... and what others do consensually isn't for us to slag off by referring to them as sluts or whores... whatever their gender..

You may find it a turn off... it may mostly be fake. But your contempt for women shows, and indeed your contempt for men also.. for are they not also "whores" if they do as Joan suggests and find their participation in porn intoxicating? Unless of course it is ok for men... what people do to have fun or to make a living or finance their education or to entertain is not something you or I have a right to condemn if it is consensual... your terminology is contemptuous of all of humanity and its search for sexual fulfilment and shows a puritanism and hypocrisy which has no place in our world... unfortunately those who are as judgemental as you exist in all too common numbers and both our societies are poisoned by such as your venomous contempt of what others do. You display a streak of narrow minded misogyny, intolerance and loathing befitting the worst of men....

I suggest that you begin to participate in things other than tea parties and sip something a little more palatable and let your hair down a little more than you do... you never know, you may find it enjoyable and more pleasurable than bitching about the proclivities and activities of other people and attaching to them epithets which display your insensitivity, stupidity and crass hypocrisy...

[blugirl789]

I personally enjoy it. There is some bad porn, and there is really some good stuff out there. I can just close my eyes, and the sounds of the act and pleasure excite me. Oh yeah. I know what I'm doing tonight. Lol

[Lustylove]

I love it aslong as it looks real, i hate watching a girl who is obviously scared of gettin cum in her face, or when she fake moans in pleasure when jackin him off. i love the amateur stuff, that or very good quality porn stars :) i love suprises, like if she turns out to be a squirter or something :) I like it aslong as its not obviously made by a horny bloke doing it for himself while making some money out of it :)

[The Bisexual Virgin]

I love porn, and erotic porn. In fact I am a writer myself.I was thinking about writing a mmf story,where the two main male characters the woman completely.