View Full Version : What can you say about group sex?

Jul 22, 2012, 1:23 PM
Is that really fun and full of excitement?

Jul 22, 2012, 2:03 PM
My wildest fantasy is to be in a threesome with a MF couple. Unfortunately, I have yet to have an opportunity.
On the other hand, I have been with a group of bi and gay guys. I don't recall the number of different cocks I sucked nor the number of different mouths that tasted mine, but it was fun and exciting.

Jul 22, 2012, 2:50 PM
Is that really fun and full of excitement? Yes, we love it. However we understand that not everyone likes group sex or orgies or wants to do them.

Jul 22, 2012, 8:15 PM
Like group anything, it largely depends on the group. Group sex with cool people who are on the same page as you is great.

Jul 22, 2012, 8:18 PM
Hmmmm......... It depends how many are in the group for me personally (although the husband may disagree..grin). I like to share but don't want to get lost in the crowd! And since I have to have some sort of "connection" to enjoy sex, anonymous group orgies wouldn't do it for me. My favourite number was, is and always will be: 3 :)

Jul 22, 2012, 8:56 PM
I lived with a married couple for 13 months........that was plenty of participants, for me!

I was 21 and they were 39-40.

What a fantastic relationship....absolutely ideal!

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Jul 23, 2012, 7:18 AM
I am with BorderCpl - three is my favorite number (two can be pretty darn good as well!). With two or three, I can appreciate being with my partners. I've done a foursome. One of us was always taking a break on the sidelines, so that it turned into a rotating threesome.
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Jul 23, 2012, 9:02 AM
Group sex can be fun and is very exciting 3 or 4 people is plenty lol. We have have had a couple encounters with some swinger friends of ours and its really exciting but as I'm bi I don't to indulge that side of me when we play with them. It would be nice to find a couple who are comfortable with themselves and their partner to be able to have four way group sex where everyone is able to play with each other.

Jul 23, 2012, 9:47 AM
The most enjoyable sexual experience I've had since becoming actively bi was with a man/woman couple where she was teaching him to be bi -- for real! He was a realy good student and she had more ideas that a two-bit hooker who had run out of change. She was also teaching me how to participate in a bi mmw threesome, and it was all wonderful. They asked me back for a second time, a full day. Second day was even better. I've had some mmm threesomes but each time the other two (two different pairs) were pretty lackluster. Very exciting the first time, the other times not as good as an intimate setting with a single guy who knew my body and whose body I knew. Girlfriend and I have done a couple of oral-only mmw threesomes, both with very considerate, gentlemanly hosts, and enjoyed them well. It was very erotic to have a woman I knew well (in all senses of the word) participate with a stranger.

But I think the comment above, "It depends on the group," is most appropriate.

Jul 23, 2012, 10:03 AM
I've had experiences with mixed male/female groups up to 10, and find that one extra guy is the best way to go. I'd have to say that a five-some (3 guys/2 girls) was my favorite. Part of the excitement of groups is that you can "come up for air" and just watch, and 5 people allows for plenty of watching, while not putting an end to the action.

"Depends on the group" is definitely the right phrase. A group that knows and cares about each other is way more erotic and fun than a group of strangers. :grouphug:

Jul 23, 2012, 10:07 AM
In response to sexual26 - I met my husband IN the swinging lifestyle. I know what you mean about the homophobic aspects of it (which always struck me as strange that a fringe group could be so vehemently against an inclusive fringe activity!!!!). It was after my very first time watching my then b/f with a gay man that several things struck me: 1) This was much "hotter" for me than watching him with another woman 2) It put into an odd perspective how HE must have felt in the swinging lifestyle: allowed to look but never touch. I'm not sure I could have been as understanding in the same situation! Never even CONSIDERED swinging with a couple where the woman was straight! 3) Much easier for 2 men to keep up with me...than 1 man trying to keep up with 2 women. lol

It was after that night that we dropped out of the lifestyle. It was actually "boring" in comparison to the sex we had alone or with one other invited guest :)

Jul 23, 2012, 11:14 AM
Is that really fun and full of excitement?

It depends on the people you associate with. I have no doubt that there are a few sexually powerful Walter Mitty's around but what you need is a catalyst in your group. I say this because in my own youth, I was at two supposedly planned group sex parties where I ended up longing for the excitement of a tupperware party.

Now, consider the idea of a spontaneous group sex because everyone felt at ease and comfortable with each other. This is sexual energy born out of friendship and respect. It happens because people are connected on a level above mere words. We dance first as ethereal spirits, then when the moment climaxes...we lose our contrived human facets such as shame and guilt, and physically rejoice in each other.

Jul 23, 2012, 3:32 PM
Awesome till that one creepy guy wont leave you alone

Jul 23, 2012, 10:55 PM
If the group is the right group, then I'd have to say, yes, it is really fun and full of excitement. As long as everyone is respectful of each others limits and doesn't take anything too seriously.

Jul 24, 2012, 4:21 AM
Man I need to live where you guys are. People are so boring here in Milwaukee.

Jul 24, 2012, 10:47 PM
lol Group sex Can be fun and very exciting. For me, anything past 4 is a major distraction, tho. I cant concentrateon but 2 men at a time, or 2 women and one man.3 people is bout all I can handle anymore..
I'm like a kid in the candy store, I wanna sample ever'thang at once..lol (Shup Rich)
And if youre talking full blown orgy, or mini orgy, those can be Quite fun, especially if you have a "Dark Room"--to where you dont know who is what is where..lol Confusing at times, but delightful...lol
Too many moving parts for this old Cat anymore..:}

Jul 29, 2012, 11:15 AM
I'll be experience it soon this coming August in triathlon event NY with my co-mates I don't exactly know if it is threesome or really a group sex? All I know I'm just excited, exhausted body then Sex (http://racewithabang.com/).:suave:

Jul 29, 2012, 3:47 PM
I have enjoyed 6 or 7 MMF threesums and totally enjoyed it. I would be open to anything tho. Helping men with 1 woman would be my fantasy, 3 dicks in her would be heaven or even a 4th in my ass at the same time. Just imagine 5 people cumming at the same time!

Jul 29, 2012, 4:54 PM
It is what you make it. First you have to like all involved. Second you have to realy like all involved. Third but most important, don't think you will be the center of the show.

Jul 29, 2012, 6:01 PM
Well, my hubby and I have had several experiences with this and some were better some, not so much. Good communication is key and well, some people there is just less chemistry with than others. We recently met a couple and swapped and such and it was awesome and exciting. We generally don't play on the first date, but with this couple, things just clicked and we ended up in the bedroom. They were awesome people, good looking, and very respectful. There is just something so hot about watching my husband with another woman while I am with another man. I love it. We had a very good time and will def meet up with them again.

It isn't for everyone though. Some people prefer only 1 on 1 sex, some have issues with jealousy, some are uncomfortable or self-conscious in groups, and some just have no wanting to be with multiple people. If it works for you, great, if not that is fine too. Everyone is unique.

Jul 29, 2012, 6:12 PM
I wished I could say something about group sex, one way or the other, but since I haven't had it it's not possible for me to make a comment on this---other than I do admit that to have group sex is one of "my bucket list" of things that I want to do before my ticket down here is up!!! :suave:

Jul 30, 2012, 12:38 AM
lol Group sex Can be fun and very exciting. For me, anything past 4 is a major distraction, tho. I cant concentrateon but 2 men at a time, or 2 women and one man.3 people is bout all I can handle anymore..
I'm like a kid in the candy store, I wanna sample ever'thang at once..lol (Shup Rich)
And if youre talking full blown orgy, or mini orgy, those can be Quite fun, especially if you have a "Dark Room"--to where you dont know who is what is where..lol Confusing at times, but delightful...lol
Too many moving parts for this old Cat anymore..:}

DARK ROOM!!! Now that sounds like fun!!!! Everytime I play, it's in a dark room... Just haven't had the pleasure of someone suprising me in the dark in a while... But I LOVE the thought!!! :love87:

Jul 31, 2012, 10:14 AM
My experience has been very mixed. If all the participants get into it and passionately let themselves go with the flow it can be very enjoyable. However, if there is one that's reticent for any reason it can get rather awkward. The majority of my encounters have been good to excellent.

Aug 2, 2012, 12:23 AM
Awesome till that one creepy guy wont leave you alone

How many times to I have to say I'm sorry ? Geeze! ;)

Aug 2, 2012, 10:05 AM
Been to a few house parties where there were about 20 - 30 people all involved in some form of sexual activity. It really is a different kind of experience and I thoroughly enjoyed it. You only live once and should try it!

Aug 2, 2012, 10:24 AM
My biggest "group" has been a MFM threesome, but I would love to partake in an Orgy of all bi participants...anyone in NJ want me ?

Aug 2, 2012, 12:05 PM
Had agroup of friends (about 5) when we were in high school and used to fuck this girl about once or twice a week . She loved cock and would take our cum in her mouth and pussy. Sometimes we would all jack off on her , her sister joined us a few times but would only suck cock.

Aug 2, 2012, 12:58 PM
You have to find an established group party and, generarlly get an invitation. The event is normaly held at someone's LARGE, secluded home. (Smaller parties are held in residential neighborhoods, but they are much smaller and have to be kept quiet.) In the more sophisticated parties, they wil have lockers for the guests, shower room, etc. Donations are normally required. These can range from $65 - $125 depending on the size of the party. For the men, the bad thing is that women are usually more populous at these events and mostly with significant others. The number of single men is therefore limited based on these ratios. The best thing to do it to get involved with blogs and let your needs be known (subtley). Get to know as many of such groups as possible and you will be brought into the group and be more likely to be invited.

At the events, there are specific rules and regulations. For example, gay activity between women may be allowed but noy gay activity between men; gangbanging a woman may be perfectly okay assuming it's okay with her. If you want to have sex with someone's significant other; make some chit-chat and comments about the objective of you lustr; and ask permission to take her off. The same holds true of both men and women. You don't walk up to someone you like and just say "Hey! Wanna fuck?" You may also want to ask the significant other to participate. Drinks may be provided or BYOB. Very often ALL sorts of recreational drugs are verboten. Safe-sex is encouraged; but nobody is watching so it becomes a matter of choice.

Groups in LARGE homes are always more fun because they will have extra private bedrooms, one or more "recreation/group rooms" and several open areas when you can watch an NCAA basketball game while getting a blow-job or, for the women, watching Lifetime with your clit nicely being kissed and licked and sucked. They may also have a pool and cabanas. And don't forget the porn on the big-screen TVs.

Of course, impromptu sex in a small group can be good but unpolished and lacking in the sensuality and building excitement. Established groups have their rules --- nothing that I have ever found goes to the extent of Tom Cruise's experience in "Eyes Wide Shut" --- but the rules make your enjoyment all the better. It' like an airplane landing. A landing is nothing more than a controlled fall that results in a much more satisfactory outcome than an uncontrolled fall. Uncontrolled group sex is like an airplane's uncontrolled landing.

You can't just jump into a great group sexperience. Work on it and you'll never want to go any other way again.