I never knew that some women liked seeing two guys together

[anacsa]

Unfortunately i'm one of the people who never expressed my sexuality outwardly in an honest way because i was afraid of what other people would think. Ever since i was in 1st or 2nd grade i remember being attracted to both boys and girls. Having two older brothers there was an ample supply of pornography around and i was turned on by not only the girls but some of the dudes too, well more specifically turned on by their cocks. I was lucky enough to fool around with a couple of my guy-school friends before one of my brothers found out that i was playing dr with some of the boys and threatened to out me unless i blew him too. suddenly my fun sexual liasons with guys and girls my age became something i was forced into doing with someone i didn't want to do that with.

he ruined sex for me for a long time and until i was a sophmore in high school i sat on the sidelines as far as sex went.

but that didn't keep me from fantasizing and threesome scenarios with me and a various guy friends and various girls our age became on of my favorites. I never in a million years thought those fantasies could actually happen for many reasons, one of which being that i didn't think any girl would ever be a willing participant in that scene.

and i could never imagine being able to share with any girlfriend that i fantasized about dudes, that on occasion i watched gay porn and jerked off to it.

i'm curious to hear any stories from dudes who did talk to their female partners about that and what the reaction was.

[FinkDoodle]

With me it was the other way around. I never really had an interest in guys until a girl I knew asked me if I'd be interested in giving that a try with her and a bi friend. I was kind of interested in her so I gave it a shot and was pleasantly surprised how natural it all felt.

[anacsa]

oh wow that's interesting! i wish that had happened to me!

so even though some dudes have been on my mind most of my life, the acts that interest me are rather limited. first and foremost i fantasize about sucking cock. very rarely am i fucking or getting fucked. and the range of guys that turn me on is pretty limited to. they pretty much look like me, white, slim, hairless - in other words byron even in a situation like you had i'm not so sure i'd be at all attracted to the dude, so how did that work for you and did he want to do anything that you didn't?

and did the girl get off on watching you and her other guy friend together?

[FinkDoodle]

Regarding what he and I did, I was naive enough to not really have thought things through so we did wind up doing a little more than I'd originally figured . . like, everything . . It didn't really bother me since none of it was anything people haven't been doing for a million years anyway . . and the young lady was, shall we say, rather adept at making me feel comfortable with each new experiment. So it wasn't really whether I was attracted or not attracted to the other guy . . it was more about experiencing the variety in the sex. As to our female participant . .Let's just say she was very pleased with our interaction . . :)

[Long Duck Dong]

had a ex gf that was very keen on seeing two guys making out, told me once that if I was as good with a guy as I was with her, she would cream herself just watching.....

she knew I was bisexual and had no issues with it at all, she even pushed for a few encounters but due to my concerns about her and her mouth ( gossip) I sidestepped the issue, as I was not interested in having other peoples private lives becoming public knowledge....

I have been lucky to spend time with and share experiences with ladies in the past that have had a wide range of interests, and for me, its been interesting learning and experiencing new and unusual things.....

I will not say that being out as a bisexual, gave me a advantage in that area..... I perfer to think it was the way I treated the ladies like ladies that gave me a edge over some of the guys that were bisexual and less appealing to the ladies

[fredtyg]

I met a girl some years ago that told me her "one real fetish" was watching guys get it on with each other. She was a real fan of guy on guy porn. Unfortunately, I never managed to get in a situation where she could watch me with another guy. I would have really gotten off having some girl watch if I'd known she was really into it.

[anacsa]

Thanks for your input guys! My current GF thought i was going over the top when i brought up the idea of a threesome with an extra girl so i wouldn't ever bring up the idea of one with an extra guy. I still have a hang up about my attraction to some guys and the idea of having a female partner who i'd feel comfortable bringing the subject up with sounds tremendous. I'm sure my head would explode if she encouraged and helped facilitate a MMF 3 way.

I'd probably have a better chance at having that happen if i was the extra guy who hooked up with a couple.

I got off last night thinking about me blowing a good friend of mine while another girl i know watched and masturbated. I'm resigned to the fact that this will remain a dream but who knows, maybe through this site i might meet some one who could help bring this fantasy to reality.

[fredtyg]

I got off last night thinking about me blowing a good friend of mine while another girl i know watched and masturbated. I'm resigned to the fact that this will remain a dream but who knows,

A bit off-topic perhaps but maybe you'd get off just having someone watch while you jacked off? I know I had one of my more erotic sex experiences just jacking off in front of a girl years ago.

In that case it wasn't really like I wrote about above: having a girl who was interested watch. This girl was more of a squeaky clean type and I don't know that I would have gotten off as much as I did had she actually been into it.

I went over to her house one night. We'd kinda had sex before (she made me pull out for orgasm that time). I was horny so tried again. This time she wouldn't let me inside her. Once I realized I was at a dead end with getting into her I gave up and was getting ready to get dressed when I asked her, "Do you care if I jack off?". She said "Go ahead".

We go out into her living room and I lay down on the floor naked. She sat down in a big chair maybe ten feet away and I started jacking. As I jacked I spoke to her telling her what I liked about jacking off and how I was feeling.

The whole time she didn't say a thing and just watched rather impassively, but she did watch and was paying attention. From the expression on her face I couldn't tell if she was disgusted (which wouldn't have surprised me, knowing her), or secretly turned on. She just stared, emotionless.

When I approached orgasm I described all my feelings to her, finally blowing my load and groaning quite loud. I felt like I was putting on a show for her. Boy, Did I get off on that!

Once I was done, as I lay there looking at the load on my belly she calmly asked if I'd like a towel to clean up. She went in to the bathroom, got a towel, I wiped myself off and she took the towel back into the bathroom.

For some reason that whole thing really got me off big time. I still think it's one of my hottest encounters. I don't know that I would have enjoyed it as much if I thought she was really into it as I was.

I'm sure I'd enjoy watching other guys or gals masturbate, too. Every now and then I'll see a M4M ad on Craigslist asking for guys that want to jack off with someone. I've replied to those ads a few times asking if they cared if I just watched them jack off (hoping I might get a taste of cum after they're done). I never had anyone accept my offer.

I even posted an ad offering to watch guys jack off. No replies to that one, either.

[anacsa]

Yeah that idea intrigues me a lot, based on my current hard-on! I would love to masturbate in front of an interested audience - in person it would matter more if i was comfortable with them but i think on line (like over skype or something similar) it wouldn't matter as much.

Were the ads you were responding to or posting specifically regarding in person encounters or does on-line intrigue you at all?

[JP1986UM]

After my coming out, my wife began to fantasize about being in a MMF.

Situations have dictated that after I found a BF now, she's not around to be with us because of distance (we moved, but I had to stay in place temporarily due to work related obligations). So I can have great MM sex but she's not here to blend in and participate.

So we agreed that after I get back we'll search for a bicouple, as she's also turned on by the thought of having sex with another woman too. They are out there are they not?

[fredtyg]

The ads I posted and responded to were on Craigslist and were for in- person encounters. I'm not much into cyber but don't mind using chat just to get to know someone in advance of an in-person encounter. You might want to consider moving about 250 miles north. I live in Eureka so we might be able to dispense with the cyber stuff.:bigrin:

As an aside, after I made my post above I got interested in posting another Craigslist m4m ad, so I did. It said I was interested in watching guys jack off so if you're one of the kind that enjoy being watched, maybe we could get together.

I came home to find 3 replies plus a CL notification. 2 of the 3 replies seem like decent ones. The third one was a one liner asking to prove I'm real by e-mailing back- that normally means they're spammers. The CL notice was that someone flagged my ad for removal. Unbelievable, but all too common. I hate the jerks that do that.

[JP1986UM]

I can't get the CL skype thing honestly. TO each their own.

[fredtyg]

Me neither, but each to their own, as you said. It could be useful for getting to know someone, though, even if all you did was talk and show body parts. Better than meeting someone without ever having seen them before.

[blugirl789]

As a woman, I find it very sexy to see two men together. I've seen a bi mm couple in intimate situations which I found exciting. Well, more promising than totally exciting. Only 1 of the 2 were good looking. I did not find the other appealing at all. Now if the 2 men were hot, then I'd get hot. Lol

[fredtyg]

Well, more promising than totally exciting. Only 1 of the 2 were good looking. I did not find the other appealing at all. Now if the 2 men were hot, then I'd get hot. Lol

lol. Wouldn't that suck if you fantasized, looked and looked for that perfect fantasy encounter. You finally find that opportunity but one or two of the guys involved just weren't acceptable?

[querty]

Oh they are out there (the girls that enjoy bi-guys and the bi-couples). I've three friends (girls) that really enjoy it and find it very erotic. I've been fortunate enough to have an MMFF, and when I was going down on him the girls were going nuts....it was awesome! But I haven't found that bi couple yet - still looking....

[luvtocum]

I'm here to tell you that my fuck buddys wife loves seeing her husband suck my cock. She often joins in and really loves having cum sucked out of her pussy. She also gets into lubing my ass up and guiding his cock in and watching him fuck me. She often sucks my cock while he screws the hell out of me.

[BiJoe696]

Met my wife via a Swing Mag ad about 25 years ago, so have always been open about our sexual desires, makes life so much easier.

[BDMcGee]

I have some female friends who just can't get enough guy-on-guy action. One in particular loves it when she and I trade off sucking her boyfriend's cock, and she always begs me to fuck him while he jerks off on her face.

Yeah, that's pretty hot.

[Paddarick69]

there are DEFINITELY women who adore seeing men have sex with men!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Not only do I like to See, I love to participate, direct, and help out in the fun process. Its Very arousing to watch two men together, and even more fun to have Both, or to fluff both, then sit back and watch whilst taking matters into my own paws...lol
Definately a Bi-lover here..:}
Cat

[anacsa]

That's hot as hell Cat TY and everyone else for their posts!

I have never been involved with a MMF 3-some. Personally, even though i've fantasized about certain other guys ever since i was a young boy, it's pretty much been exclusively my sucking cock or being blown, hand jobs or on the occasion where my friend who i was jerking off to wasn't hairy, giving him a rim job. Maybe in real life i'd become more receptive to kissing or anal but it's never been a fantasy turn on.

The guys ive fantasized about have been a pretty small group of friends or acquaintances as well, and my attraction never has been immediate but one due to varying circumstances that occurs over time. Normally there are another girl or two (or five) - involved, although ive definitely jerked off just thinking of one of them one on one.

What i'd give to be 69'ing with one of the girls in my masturbation rolodex and have my buddy Paul or Alex fucking her from behind while i'm working on her clit with my mouth at the same time. As i'm getting blown i have the best view in town of their cock loving life intertwined with her hot wet pussy and they ease their cock out and ask if i want to suck it. i scoot up a bit and lean my head over the edge of the bed and they guide their cock into my mouth and down the back of my throat. whew

and later when they cum inside my friends pussy i go down on her and eat her out while i lap up as much of his cum and her pussy juice as i can

[rusty69]

The jury is still out on my partner's reaction to the news that I fantasize about sex with men. I dropped that on her about 3 weeks ago but so far she seems okay with it, but I don't think totally accepting?? I'm waiting to tell her my ultimate fantasy, a threesome with her and another guy where I could fully act out my bisexual urges while she watches and participates.

[Paddarick69]

I dropped that on my wife last week! It's been rough but it's softened by the fact she has ALWAYS know since mebbe even our first date (?) 15 years ago that I'm bi and we love each other deeply. She knows I ache to be with a man and to share that guy with her. No word on that yet and, frankly, that's secondary to her being happy, no matter what the future brings :) I may have luck though, lol, she's always thought a Bi MMF to be sexy!

[Waylon]

Was on a business trip years ago and went to the hotel bar around 10pm. Another couple were there and we started talking. She was hot and he was too and after a few drinks, we went back to my room. She expressed great desire to see us give each other a blowjob. We started sucking each other in a 69 and she went nuts with excitement, fingering herself like crazy and wanted us both to finish on her which we did. It was quite kinky but enjoyable at the time.

[ChiFunGuy]

I find it sort of funny that I have a female friend that wants to watch me and another guy, yet can not seem to find anyone here that would be up for it. Lot's of "that sounds hot" but no takers when it comes time to set something up. Hopefully it will happen. I'd be totally into it and based on our conversation, she would be too. Maybe even join in?

[chiguy2000]

Blue, you never told me about this experience. Recently? How do you find the time? lol

[bibiboy]

my gf sort of drug my bi-curiosity out of me a while back. She would be totally into a mmf arrangement or a mmff one as well. We don't want to swap partners per se but rather each of us wants to be with and watch the other be with a same sex partner. We've met a couple (sorta) on this site and hopefully after a bit more communication to see how compatible we'd be, we'll be getting together with them sooner rather than later. She really wants to watch me suck another guy's cock and I'm anxious to do that for and with her. It's wierd but if she weren't invovled I'm not sure I'd have any interest in the whole thing to be honest. We have a great "normal" sex life but when we decide to look into something "kinky" or "different" it's the absolute best! I absolutely love doing stuff with this woman, what ever she wants, I want!

[funin951]

Being with a m/f couple is the best. Its a huge turn on finding other people that are openminded and love having sex with no thought of male or female. There are plenty of women that love watching gay porn rather then straight porn. When they find guys that are willing to play together its just as much a treat for them as it is for the guys. Keep looking, there are plenty of women out there that want 2 guys to play with.

[BorderCpl]

What's not to like?????!!!??? Guys together are HOTTT! It's hard on hard rather than the sapphic soft on soft. Smile..and...we get to see more than you boys do on us :) To watch...to join...to direct....sigh :) So many possibilities. It's always hard to find someone to join in though! A lot of guys fantasize about the mmf but never can make the jump to do it. I think part of them wants to keep their hetero and homo sides completely separated. Some believe it isn't cheating if it's NOT with someone of the opposite sex. Some are just plain scared to take that first step.

[zigzig]

It's beautiful like in yaoi.