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fox1085
Jun 13, 2006, 8:48 PM
OK boys and girls whenever u are out and u see a atractive :male: :female: u like :male: :female: come and talk to you or u like to take the lead and be the first, cause personaly i like that :male: :female: take the lead and talk to me.
come on i want to see you're opinion... :)

citystyleguy
Jun 13, 2006, 9:04 PM
i will exercise restraint at first, as friends/spouse say i can come on too strong, what with my temperment/impatience; if i still like what i see, i will make the move!

billy_campbell
Jun 13, 2006, 9:10 PM
Either way is fine with me. I like to take lead at times and I like when the other person ( :male: or :female: ) else takes to lead and approaches me first. There is a thrill in both the "hunt" and in being "hunted" if you know what I mean.

strawberry8302
Jun 13, 2006, 11:24 PM
Well personally, I like to be persued. It's how I avoid rejection and embarrassment if I approach someone who isn't a lesbian or bi. And I want someone to like me, so they can approach me if they like what they see. I also like the feeling of being flattered. :flag1:

wenanded
Jun 14, 2006, 12:18 AM
I honestly have the MOST trouble pursuing...maybe I'm shy who knows!!!...so I guess being pursued would be my pref. :female:

innaminka
Jun 14, 2006, 4:01 AM
Bisexual also means bi in the way I answer.

In my past naughty days, I tended to allow a :male: who appealed chase a bit. Earn whatever i was willing to share.

In my present naughty days, when I see a :female: who appeals, .... I'll be pretty forward. I'll offer; is it to be taken up??

Avocado
Jun 14, 2006, 4:20 AM
I'm autistic so would never plan on making the move if I was single.

jenniferhell@hotmail
Jun 14, 2006, 4:50 AM
if its a :female: i take the lead i love the hunt if a :male: i still take the lead lol i love the hunt im a hunter lol :bipride:

BI BOYTOY
Jun 14, 2006, 5:25 AM
if i see a :male: i like i would prefer them to come up to me.it is hard to adress another :male: in that why i nver know how they will react.for a :female: i usaualy go up to them and attempt to talk. dont always work i get nervous.my wife came up to me wene we first met. i overcame my nervousness when she got me drunk. the rest is history, he he he he in these days it does not realy matter hunters com in both sexes. thankgoodness :bibounce: :bibounce: :bigrin:

yama23
Jun 14, 2006, 2:55 PM
I would rather they came to me, i am a pretty shy guy i guess. Although if i have had a little liquid courage, i would surly go to them.

smokey
Jun 14, 2006, 3:51 PM
sometimes I want to be passive and sometimes I want to be aggressive...sometimes I just wanna be me :bigrin: