Sex by the numbers

[R. R. Wayne]

Today I decided to sit down and make a list of everyone I have ever had sex with. My "definition of sex" as a verb was limited to those people with whom I have had oral, vaginal or anal sex and resulted in ejaculation for both of us.

I made two lists. One for women and one for men.

My lifetime count is 20 women and 26 men.

Care to share your statistics?

[FunE1]

26 men, 11 women

[Gearbox]

About 20-30 women and 50- ? men.

[tenni]

Men are so much easier to bed than women. It doesn't surprise me that bi guys will have more male partners than female if the biguy is sexually casually active as a bisexual. I have counted the women in the past but my memory fades to redo it...lol I actually have kept a list for the past eight years of my sexual contacts but I'm discreet and not telling even the numbers.

[nutme]

I must be the slob here; so many women that even I can not remember........has to be at least 80, while the men I can count on both hands.

[csrakate]

I can count my partners by using the fingers on one hand and I still have fingers left over! But don't feel sorry for me....I have had and continue to have a very rich and wonderful sex life!

P.S. I'm also not dead yet!!! LOL!

[darkeyes]

I don't know... could find out, cos every single encounter is logged wiv names, gender, description, pics wer available, address if known, rated an' commented upon in me journals... have a ver rough idea.. but that's my biz.. but sufficient 2 live up to me reputation as a lil tart...:impleased

..an' Fran's journals r ver handy things 2 have if she wants 2 make a few quid through a lil bitta blackmail...:bigrin: not that I wud of course... but who can tell wen they mite come in handy at some future stage in me life...;)

[clyde terwilliger]

very interesting R.R.--I would change my apread sheet to include those with whom I have had an ejaculaton not necessarily both of us. 51 women--38 guys. add 5 males that include frottage ejaculations by me..

[slipnslide]

Jeebus. I guess I really do have a significantly lower sex drive.

[darkeyes]

Jeebus. I guess I really do have a significantly lower sex drive.Chill Slippy.. me dad, wise an' witty ole bugger that 'e was said bout sex braggin' spesh the case of guys... Haff the score.. divide by 3 take away 7 an' quarter the result... ne minus scores 'e reckoned wos number of masturbations in a week..:tongue:

[nutme]

Darkeyes; the addage goes, men who talk and not shut up about having sex, are the ones who aren't getting any. The ones who do brag and are having sex, well, you can best guess that they have an ample supply of paper bags stashed somewhere.

[cornholejoe]

i never kept count

[tempest4all]

27 women and 6 men. Should have been 7. My biggest regret was not doing that really hot black guy in college who grabbed my package at a party. Instead I tried to bed a girl and struck out......dumbass!

[Plumhead2]

I don't rightly know for sure. I once tried to estimate. It was something north of 60 women. 0 men. But I am not proud about it. The high numbers come in my youth when I was "servicing" young women in college so I could pay my way at my school. Most of them, I didn't even know their names and some of them, I didn't even see their faces. I was and am ashamed and it was not the great thing that guys might boast about. I felt used, and I stopped one morning and never went back to it.

[innaminka]

far too many of both for a respectable lady. yeah right!!!!
Any regrets - NONE!!!!!! :impleased

[grayhound]

Today I decided to sit down and make a list of everyone I have ever had sex with. My "definition of sex" as a verb was limited to those people with whom I have had oral, vaginal or anal sex and resulted in ejaculation for both of us.

I made two lists. One for women and one for men.

My lifetime count is 20 women and 26 men.

Care to share your statistics?

I guess I lived a sheltered life. Using your index, where both got off, 3 ladies and 1 guy. Darn, I feel so left out.

[njbiman]

8 women, more men, no coupless or groups. Only 1 manhas given me anal...need to fix that number

[ibop5]

18 woman
7 Guys
My sex drive is much higher than my numbers cuz Im cautious and picky

[ExSailor]

I have been with a lot of people of the same gender, in the triple digits. It may seem like a lot to people who were not around before HIV/AIDS but it's actually quite common for bisexual and gay men who are my age to have had this many sexual partners or even into the quadruple digits. I was active with male friends and peers at a young age. I have also been with a lot of women too. Most of this happened during the late 60s and through the mid 70s. HIV was not around or known about during the decades I was highly sexually active. It was height of the sexual revolution and even straight people were partaking in lots of sex and bar pickups were what people did. In the mid and late 70s discos became popular but I didn't like them. I was a hustler for a few years of my life, and back in those days I would hitchike as a lot of people did then. Bi and gay men would pick me up and take me to another city I was going to or after I had been to a bar pull over and ask me if I wanted to party more with them. If I was attracted to the man or men who picked me up I'd have them suck my dick and try to cum multiple times in their mouth or down their throat. I enjoyed having sex and have had lots of it during my life. Being on the make for pussy and cock was fun too. No I did not have sex with every single man, woman, or m/m m/f couple that approached me. When I was in the navy I would be stationed in countries where the bisexual and gay men there all expected to be paid if you were a foreigner and having sex with them as it was their cultural custom. I also would go out with other sailor and marine buddies in those countries and we would pool our cash together and fuck a female prostitute, or sometimes if I was horny and wanting pussy and in another country I'd pay for a prostitute. I did this in Amsterdam.

[nudistharry]

Kinda difficult for me to imagine the totals many are posting here since I've only hade a handfull of sex partners. It's not from lack of trying, I'm just no good at chatting up someone for sex.

[cbj4162]

30 women 20 men

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I dont rightly know. All I know is I've had more sex in the last 10 years than in all of the 30 that I was married. And is there any shame in my game? Not One Iota...:}
Shameless Cat;)

[BiCplAz]

I have tried to count many times but I keep remembering ones that I didn't count. I am sure it was 250+ women and probably about 50+- guys. I am doing a lot more guys now that I'm "old". My SO has lost interest but we were bi swingers for years but I did a lot more before I met her. You can see by our pics some of the bi swing parties we had or attended.

[slipnslide]

lol I dont rightly know. All I know is I've had more sex in the last 10 years than in all of the 30 that I was married. And is there any shame in my game? Not One Iota...:}
Shameless Cat;)

haha! 30 years of "same" sex marriage? ;)

[BigZipper]

30+ women, two men and one threesome. Really want to up the men count but opportunity is not arising!

[Bisexual Explorer]

Women - 3. All beautiful and outstanding sexually. Thank you ladies.

Men - 12. Great cocks, mouths, and asses. Thank you gentlemen.

Quality more than quantity. Of course more quality quantity would be good.


Bisexual Explorer

[dafydd]

Beyond count.

[olmizzou42]

14 Men...9 Women...and I hope more of each to come.

[NjbiGuy01]

I once started a word document called "play friends". I started playing at 15 and I'm currently in my early 50's. Over a few weeks I kept coming up with men, women, or couples names, or situations (where I didn't remember or know their names), and ended around 100.... is there a scale to know if I am officially a slut ? :)

[ron_n_pitt]

32 women, 50+ men, 8 mf couples plus those in groups I didn't count...(who has time??LOL)

[dafydd]

I once started a word document called "play friends". I started playing at 15 and I'm currently in my early 50's. Over a few weeks I kept coming up with men, women, or couples names, or situations (where I didn't remember or know their names), and ended around 100.... is there a scale to know if I am officially a slut ? :)

surely Excel would be a better application for that. you could tabulate a line graph and more easily keep track of your proxmity to exceeding the slut barrier (which should never be set in stone anyway). You could even make projections using a dive bar chart or create a cherry pie chart see what areas need more attention. i think using Powerpoint may be a little over-indulgent though.

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[MelissaPDX]

Not that many men, and even a smaller number of women.