billy_campbell
Jun 13, 2006, 6:03 PM
CFNM stands for 'Clothed Female Naked Male', a scenario becoming increasingly popular among both male and female spectators. Girls like it because It's about female power and dominance, having fun and playing with men's pleasure at their will.
Our sexual culture and perception of sexual roles have changed significantly in the last half of a century. For example, fellatio, or oral sex, and/or the stimulation the penis by hand is no longer considered as a way to please a men only. Girls can feel free to enjoy it as well. Why? Because it's not only a physical stimulation, but also a sexual dominance game on the other side. Men may still enjoy the stimulation itsself, but the emphasis is on the dominance factor from a women's point of view. Because men's joy or sorrow lies in her hands (by both means), and she can decide about her partner's pleasure alone. She is the one directing the situation, she can tease, touch or just watch, whatever she can reach with her eyes, feet, hands or lips. Or, she can also deny satisfaction at free will, at any point.
This is why it's the perfect dominance game for a girl, using a men just as a sexual toy. She doesn't even have to undress. That's the point, "Clothed Female" in the CFNM acronym stands just for that. Leaving her clothes on symbolizes female dominance, or popularry referred to as total "girl-power" in the situation. She doesn't have to show what men want to see, thus positioning herself as the godess, or nymph of pleasure. Men can only see as much as she wants to show. On the other hand "Naked Men" means that he has to show everything, positioning himself as a toy, an object of the sexual game. Or the Kent-doll for the 21th century Barbie, if you like.
Anyone into CFNM?
Our sexual culture and perception of sexual roles have changed significantly in the last half of a century. For example, fellatio, or oral sex, and/or the stimulation the penis by hand is no longer considered as a way to please a men only. Girls can feel free to enjoy it as well. Why? Because it's not only a physical stimulation, but also a sexual dominance game on the other side. Men may still enjoy the stimulation itsself, but the emphasis is on the dominance factor from a women's point of view. Because men's joy or sorrow lies in her hands (by both means), and she can decide about her partner's pleasure alone. She is the one directing the situation, she can tease, touch or just watch, whatever she can reach with her eyes, feet, hands or lips. Or, she can also deny satisfaction at free will, at any point.
This is why it's the perfect dominance game for a girl, using a men just as a sexual toy. She doesn't even have to undress. That's the point, "Clothed Female" in the CFNM acronym stands just for that. Leaving her clothes on symbolizes female dominance, or popularry referred to as total "girl-power" in the situation. She doesn't have to show what men want to see, thus positioning herself as the godess, or nymph of pleasure. Men can only see as much as she wants to show. On the other hand "Naked Men" means that he has to show everything, positioning himself as a toy, an object of the sexual game. Or the Kent-doll for the 21th century Barbie, if you like.
Anyone into CFNM?