New here: What does sex with a man feel like?

[B-don]

Hey everyone,

I recently decided to join this forum because of my ever growing bisexual desires.
Though I suppose a better "classification" (if we can ever/should classify ourselves) would be "str8," because of my love for women; both sexually and emotionally. ...But also because of my BURNING lust for a penis!

I have endless fantasies about penises: Giving head and receptive anal sex are pretty much the hottest fantasies in my book.
And more recently, my fantasies have broadened--and as I've accepted myself more--to full male bodies, with strong abs and muscles. I have this visualization of a man's abdomen flexing in and out of me.
...but I digress.

It's strange. Though I recognize male beauty, a man's face, no matter how attractive, turns me off. Kissing a guy... no.
So it may be some time before, or if, I'm ever comfortable with exploring this with someone I trust in the real world, and I'm okay with that.

For now, though, for both men and women, what does sex with a man feel like?
And to those not so experienced, what is your greatest fantasy with a man?

Happy Dabbling! :bigrin:

[Gearbox]

Give me a kiss and I'll tell you.:suave:

Not that I'd have a lot to tell, even after lots of sex with lots of men&women.lol Well it's sex. I adore m&f bodies as much as I adore sex, so it feels pretty much the same, but in different ways for different reasons.
But what I found with both m&f, is that the physical beauty doesn't always match the sexual beauty. It's not enough to have a buffed body under/above you. There's got to be a connection, a sexual chemistry. Which I've found vastly more important than the physical attributes.
But that may not be true for all. As you point out about kissing, you don't seem to need that 'personal edge' to enjoy the physical side. For me, the level of pleasure depends upon how open they are to me, and that can be measured with a kiss.
Sex with men is great btw.:tongue:

[Nextyearsxmassgifts]

B-don, you sound a lot like me when I first decided to allow my self to have similar fantasizes? I realized at some point, I have always found men attractive. Dont get me wrong, I LOVE woman. There is nothing in this world that is as sexy as a confident woman that knows who she is. With that said. I went though the same steps as you to get to where I am now. I first started thinking about penis. Then I excepted that I found the whole of the males body sexy. But the face....and to think of kissing a man!!!! For get it!!!

In time I learned to except all of who I am. That includes my sexuality and the duality of feelings. I have loved in my life, true soul splitting love. Twice in my life. I dont think I could ever love a man like that. But Ive excepted that I can feel vary passionate and care deeply for a man. Yes I have found that I can and will kiss a man. If I cant kiss someone and allow there tong in my mouth. I dont want there penis in me...LOL

As for sex with a man. It is different for everyone. For me it brings out my inner most feminine side. I find a big strong man sexy, even more so when he knows what he wants and likes to take charge. On the other side of the coin. I like to be the big strong man, when Im with my girlfriend. I realized that for me, that's who I am inside.

[welickit]

No disrespect intended, the only way you will ever know fact from fantasy is to experience it. Obviously your post is fantasy and we suspect you are in for a different experience that is more fact when you finally try it out.

Shoot for the moon but keep your feet on the ground.

[steve04937]

I can relate to your post I have absolutely no desire to kiss a man but all the rest I am definitely wanting

[12voltman59]

Well---asking how sex with a man feels is like also asking what sex with a woman feels like--as others said---it is something that if you think you really have to have---then you simply do have to try doing so---just don't expect to "go all the way" on your first try---the first time you do get with another guy---you may not have all that good of an experience---but that might not have anything to do with whether you actually like doing such things or not---its simply the normal sort of thing that perhaps you and the other person didn't "have any chemistry" or similar sort of thing.

As far as not kissing another guy---I at first said I would not do that---but once I did----I found it was pretty nice too---and think about it---if you are going to do things like suck another guy's cock--he sucks yours or you let him fuck you----you mean to tell me that since you allowed such intense intimacies to be exchanged with you and another guy----that it is somehow so bad that you could not exchange the intimacy of kissing as well??? I figured myself----if I had gone so far purely sexually---it is really pretty damn hard not to kiss too---and I can tell you----that once you do it--it is actually kinda nice---and now---if guy tells me that he might want to fuck me, have me suck his cock, etc., but "we aren't going to kiss"--well---I don't wind up getting with him because it does make it so much hotter to make out with another guy when we are having sex or done doing so.

I am just letting you know something that I have realized thanks to my experience with this these past few years---and with this issue---like so many others in life---"Never Say Never!"

[B-don]

You are so right 12voltman59!
We really can't afford to say never. I wonder though, if, like you say, my real life experience would be far different from my fantasy (of course it always is). I'm not sure when I want to, but I'm certainly looking forward to future experimentation!!

Nextyearxmass and steve04, it's great to hear you're similiar experiences.
It's funny. I used to suffer from HOCD two years ago (not sure if anyone here is familiar with that). What's funny is that a year after my recovery, I became very open to homosexual fantasies and desires. x)

[Long Duck Dong]

HOCD.... yes I know about it..... I used to help a couple of people with it ( counselling and therapy ) and its one of the most interesting forms of OCD I have come across....
as long as you do not get the horny goat weed confused with the st johns wort, you are doing well

being with a male and a female is different for each person and cos we are attracted and interested in them in different ways, its hard to answer your question lol

one of my friends reckons its like sex with a female with a 5 o clock shadow lol


just out of curiosity, do you have the option to experiment with a guy on a regular / semi regular basis and the option to take your time with them.... as that may be the best way to go a step at a time and learn more about your interests, desires and about the reality v's the fantasy...lol.....

[B-don]

Unfortunatly, no, I don't.
I have one friend that is gay (That I know of) but I'm not attracted to him in the least, which stinks.
What stinks even more is I don't really feel a physical attraction to any dude in real life that I know--but all I really want to do is grab a cock and go to town!!!
It's like I want to, but don't want- an annoying contradiction!
Sometimes, though, when a guy touches me, for whatever the reason may be, it can feel like when a girl I like touches me and it gets me excited. So maybe in the future I wouldn't mind.

BTW... what's goat weed? Was that a drug reference? LOL

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Horny goat weed, Hon. Male sexual enhancer--all herbal, safe, non-habit forming and not harmful on the kidneys and liver like Viagra is.
And the only way you'll find out Sugar, is to try it..:} No one can explain it to you, its an experiance that you have to live to understand and appreciate..:}
Cat
Everybody's feline.

[Long Duck Dong]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epimedium no its a naturally occurring plant but I used to suggest it to people with depression that were having sexual disinterest

[tenni]

I agree a lot with Voltie and Gear. When I first started mucking about with a guy, I turned my head away when he went to kiss me. I've done a complete reversal. If a man is unwilling to kiss, I may not be interested in him. The male body up against my own is mirror like in comparison to a woman's body which I find softer and those breasts are cushions for love. Each body is unique regardless of the gender. Each person's kissing is unique. If a man knows how to kiss sensually it is speaking with our mouths and tongues. The same holds true for women. Kissing is now #1 in my list.

[**Peg**]

been so long I can't remember LOL:tong:

[darkeyes]

been so long I can't remember LOL:tong:tee hee.. I'm wiv u Granmumsie...;):tongue:

[pepperjack]

tee hee.. I'm wiv u Granmumsie...;):tongue:

Had some great sex wiv my Granmusie of 62 awhile back. She had a shapely, well proportioned body that could have rivaled a woman at least 20 years her junior. All is relative & a state of mind.;)

[**Peg**]

tee hee.. I'm wiv u Granmumsie...;):tongue:


omg LOL !!

[elian]

Hmm..

There is more than one kind of love (or lust) - there is physical attraction and also emotional attraction. To be honest I've never been a huge fan of open mouth kissing with either gender although last boyfriend was starting to convince me otherwise.

What does sex with a man feel like?

Well there are always one night stands and I have had a few, but by and large I've always thought of sex as a gift that people share with one another.

I think it's probably slightly different with every partner - like others have said it's a bunch of factors between two people..some of their desires people will tell you outright, and some they express non-verbally.

I've always been really BAD at wrestling, always getting pinned, probably waay too easily, but usually with a smile on my face.. I guess sex is much the same.

It's nice to be the object of desire, to be held by strong warm, probing but patient arms (legs, thighs, hips,...)

It's equally nice to be the one gets to adore someone who gives themselves over to you - to hold them tightly, kiss them gently, feel their warmth against you, feel their heartbeat, tension, their scent.

Waiting and watching the other person as the excitement builds. There is joy in giving and joy in receiving. When there is trust, it feels so good to want to be with someone that badly. ..then all of that tension releases,

In that moment in time you are seeing someone quite possibly at their most vulnerable point..the storm is over and they are in YOUR arms..really just makes me want to gather them up, cuddle with them, kiss them..I've found that I'm actually very oral - just don't like open mouth kissing - but necking and other things I find quite erotic.

[Bisexual Explorer]

It's impossible to generalize what sex with a man or sex with a woman feels like. It's equally impossible to generalize what sex with two different men or sex with two different women feels like. I would say that for me that sucking cock is much, much more satisfying than oral sex with a woman (even though I do love oral sex with a woman). Kissing a guy isn't much different from kissing a woman, except for the beard (on the guy I mean).
Bisexual Explorer (formerly known as gsp156)

[bluesky55]

What does sex with a man feel like? The question borderlines on ridiculous. How sex feels with either man or a woman is only answerable by how it feels to the people having sex and it's different for both participants, different by situation and any other number of factors. This damn near sounds like some 1st yr psych student seeing how people answer an unanswerable question. You might as well have asked "What does it feel like to piss on an electric fence?" and wait for the myriad of ways that people can say something from "hurt like hell" to "wonderful". Time for a reality check here. If you really want to know, go try it.

[B-don]

I suppose I should clarify.

By my question I was more specifically referring to the acute sexual experiences unique to the male (i.e. receptive anal sex, giving head; things that cannot be truly experienced with women.)
I'm eager to here about others' experiences with men in that sense, as I'm relatively new to being open to the real life possibility.
So let me hear it! :) What did it feel like? As in the unique experiences had only with a man?

[axlton]

Well---asking how sex with a man feels is like also asking what sex with a woman feels like--as others said---it is something that if you think you really have to have---then you simply do have to try doing so---just don't expect to "go all the way" on your first try---the first time you do get with another guy---you may not have all that good of an experience---but that might not have anything to do with whether you actually like doing such things or not---its simply the normal sort of thing that perhaps you and the other person didn't "have any chemistry" or similar sort of thing.

As far as not kissing another guy---I at first said I would not do that---but once I did----I found it was pretty nice too---and think about it---if you are going to do things like suck another guy's cock--he sucks yours or you let him fuck you----you mean to tell me that since you allowed such intense intimacies to be exchanged with you and another guy----that it is somehow so bad that you could not exchange the intimacy of kissing as well??? I figured myself----if I had gone so far purely sexually---it is really pretty damn hard not to kiss too---and I can tell you----that once you do it--it is actually kinda nice---and now---if guy tells me that he might want to fuck me, have me suck his cock, etc., but "we aren't going to kiss"--well---I don't wind up getting with him because it does make it so much hotter to make out with another guy when we are having sex or done doing so.

I am just letting you know something that I have realized thanks to my experience with this these past few years---and with this issue---like so many others in life---"Never Say Never!"

I know what you mean about "you may not have all that good of and experience" after a nearly 4 year drought of sex with men I'm in the middle of a string of bad experiences. But knowing full well how good it can be I don't intend to stop trying, eventually I know it will all click again, and I'll find myself back in the swing of things.

On the kissing as well, I've long had an aversion to kissing guys, but I've had much more experience with women than men over the years and have gotten used to a large amount of foreplay. I'm finding it difficult now to get aroused when I'm with another guy, and I think it definitely has something to do with the lack of kissing and foreplay that I've become accustomed to. I've got something set up soon, a guy is going to try to help me get over that and I hope to learn to relax and just let it happen, to bring some passion back to the whole thing.

Anyway, on to the subject at hand, If you have a bad experience the first time out don't be afraid to give it another shot. Sex with another guy can be an earth shattering experience, but everything has to fall into place just right. It takes some time and practice to get it right, just like anything else.

As for oral, well It's hard to describe the feeling of a cock in your mouth. For me it doesn't become much of a turn on until I reach a point where the precum is flowing freely, and not only can I taste it but feel a guys cock throbing in my mouth. That's when I really start to get into it. For me the turn on is knowing the kind of pleasure that I'm giving to the other person.

As for receiving anal, well that's another story altogether. Guys tend to disagree on this one, some love it some hate it, but I can tell you what I get out of it. When everything is hitting just right It feels like a continuous and extremly intense non-stop orgasm. Then when It's all over and you allow yourself release, It get's even more intense, likely the most intense orgasm you'll ever feel in your life.

This is one where I definitely think a lot of guys have a bad experience the first time or two they try it and just write it off as something they don't like. If a guy just jam's his dick in there and goes to town then it's going to hurt badly. You need to find someone who is going to start gentle let you get used to the feeling of it being there and let that initial pain subside before he starts actually fucking you. Once the initial bit of pain subsides, however, you should find that you can get fucked quite hard and it feels nothing but good. Once you have a bit more experience receiving you'll learn to relax right off the bat and should experience little to no pain at all.

Hope this helps.

[cisnedorado]

Same here. My desires for topin a man and feel my self rubbing his buddy is growing up
Personally I think must be very good feeling getting stimulate for other man same than
holding his penis and do everything come to their mind in the moment of pleasure.

[shewolf50]

I suppose I should clarify.

By my question I was more specifically referring to the acute sexual experiences unique to the male (i.e. receptive anal sex, giving head; things that cannot be truly experienced with women.)
I'm eager to here about others' experiences with men in that sense, as I'm relatively new to being open to the real life possibility.
So let me hear it! :) What did it feel like? As in the unique experiences had only with a man?




Ah I see you're fishing for one of those juicy tell it all stories and don't hold back! ( A.K.A. Porn)

We start out sitting comfortably on the sofa kissing, slow deep passionate, my favorite way. I love the way he kisses so soft and slow, taking time to savor and enjoy it. Softly touching our lips together I slip my tongue in his mouth as far as I can letting him gently suck on it until I slowly pull it back out. He in turn sticks his tongue in my mouth the same way, he has an amazingly long tongue. I don’t mean like grossly deformed or anything just proportionately long, feels nice as I gently suck on it. He is working his tongue in and out of my mouth like he’s fucking me with it, after a few strokes we switch and I do the same to him. We sit kissing like this for a long time and my hands begin to roam, exploring every inch of him. Running my fingers through his soft hair then down his back I lift up his shirt and pull it off over his head. Rubbing my hand over his smooth chest I can feel how hard his nipples are getting as I stick my tongue in his ear. Licking a nibbling on his earlobe and the spot rite behind the ear. I drink in the pheromones as the serotonin surges through his body. He does the same to me as I kiss and lick his neck drinking in the sent of him. Then with a long slow lick up his throat I plunge my tongue back into his mouth and have another deep hot passionate kiss. Kissing and licking my way down I find a hard nipple and I take it into my mouth and suck on it. I find it ever so to my liking that he is just plump enough that it seems like he has small breast and he has large nipples for a guy too! I lick and nibble on his nipples for a while before moving to sit on the edge of the sofa. Then I pull him up and have him stand in front of me. I wrap my arms around his waist and burry my face into his soft belly kissing and licking as my hands grab a hold of his round butt. Call me strange if you must but I love the feel of a mans ass and crotch through his jeans. I could spend hours here just rubbing and squeezing his butt, and his butt feels so nice through his tight jeans. Moving on though I go down and feel his hard cock through his jeans with my mouth. As I’m mouthing his cock through his jeans as he pulls my top off and un hooks my bra. I undo his pants as he reaches around me kneading and fondling my breast lightly pinching my nipples. I pull his jeans down and press my face into his crotch gobbling up his sweet musky man sent through his briefs. Pulling down his underwear I find that short cute and chubby just happens to be what he is there as well. What a beautiful little cock, six cute chubby inches, circumcised with a slight up curve. A gorgeous perfectly proportionate head on it and a nice pair of fat round chubby balls! Cupping his balls in my hand I lightly kiss the tip of his cock. Then with the very tip of my tongue I lick the drop of precum from his tip. I pull him down now as we lie down side by side I shove my tongue in his mouth and kiss him hard, deep and passionately. Feverishly sucking each others tongues he moves his hand up my thigh and under my skirt grabbing my ass and squeezing it. I feel his hard cock pressing against my belly as he’s rubbing my satin panties. He moves down and takes a nipple an starts sucking on it. Waves of pleasure surge through me as he gently nibbles. I reach down and take his cock in my hand and stroke him as he goes back and forth from one tit to the other. Finally I move down spreading his legs as I push the up and put my tongue flat against his asshole. Pushing firmly I lick one long slow stroke all the way up. Over his perineum stopping briefly to suck on each one of his balls, then up the shaft and over the head. Softly kissing the tip of his cock I gently press it into my mouth letting my lips slowly part sliding down over the head. Inch by inch I take him slowly all the way down until my nose is pressed into his pubic hair. With the head of his cock just into my throat I suck in lightly as if trying to swallow all of him at once. I pull my head up taking him all the way out as I lick down the shaft over his balls and down to where I began. Spreading his soft plump butt cheeks I run my tongue around his little button hole and stick the tip in teasing it some. Then just as he is starting to moan I stick it in his ass as far as I can. After tongue fucking him for a little bit I lick my way back to his cock. I take him all the way down and all the way out deep throating him every stroke while working my finger in and out of his asshole. Soon his asshole tightens up around my finger and his balls pull tight up around the base of his cock. He lets out a long low grown as the first squirt of cum jets into the back of my throat. I pull him out keeping just the head in my mouth moving my tongue back and forth over the frenulum. His balls contract in and out as his cock jerks and pumps gobs of hot creamy cum out over my tongue. I hold his cum in my mouth for a while savoring the rich creamy taste before swallowing every drop. I move back up beside him and we kiss long and slow for a while, our hands roaming and feeling each others body from head to toe. He moves down and sucks on my nipples sending shock waves of pleasure through me. Kissing and licking his way down over my belly he pulls my skirt and panties off as he moves in between my legs. Softly he licks both of my inner thighs before circling his tongue around my ass. He lightly tickles and teases my hole before sticking his long warm tongue deep in my ass. I hold his head running my fingers through his hair as he fucks me silly working his tongue in and out of my ass. Before long I feel the first orgasm starting, waves of pleasure ebbing and flowing in and out increasing to a mild peak before subsiding. He slowly pulls his tongue out and moves up as we tuck a pillow under my ass now. I could not be more ready for a good ass fucking and this hard thick six inches of his is the perfect tool for the job. I lube his cock up good as he moves up to suck on my nipples. I pull him up to kiss him as I reach down taking a hold of his cock and guide it to my hole. I feel the tip of his cock touching my ass as he moves it around the rim. He gently pushes a little as I push out to open for him. Slowly working it in this is my favorite part when my ass pops over the crown of a thick cock. Its not what I consider pain, to me it is a sharp sensation of pleasure fallowed by a tingling all the way to my toes. I have him hold it there for a minuet while I savor the feeling then slowly push it in the rest of the way. The sensations are incredible I can feel every inch of him in my ass. The tip of his thick cock is just touching the inner sphincter he is the perfect size. I feel full and warm as he holds me tight snuggling into my neck. Real short slow strokes at first he starts moving in and out grinding around from side to side. My shrunk up empty scrotum and tiny little nub of a penis is rubbing against his pubis mound as another orgasm surges through me. Senses heightened to the max now I feel every detail of his cock as he pulls it all most all the way out. I feel the full length of each vain that’s wrapped around the shaft. I especially feel the crown as my ass stretches over it just before the tip is out he slowly pushes it back in. My ass pops over the crown again then all the way back in to the hilt. God it feels so good as he slowly fucks me this way. I purr with delight as he pumps my ass in and out. Call me silly but this is the kind of fucking a person lives for. I tighten up on his shaft as another orgasm starts, he sticks his long tongue in mouth as he pushes deep into my ass and holds it there grinding my cock into his pubes. The orgasm is so intense I’m seeing spots when it finally subsides. Such stamina we fuck this way for what seems like for ever. When finally I sense he is getting near. I snuggle into his neck licking his ear as his sweet man sent engulfs my senses into over load. This is so erotic as he fucks my ass and beads of sweat seep from the pores on his neck. I wrap my legs around him and pull him in deep, rubbing my face into his neck as the manly sex flows from him. Over the edge I go this time the orgasm is so intense I nearly pass out. My god he has to be getting close by now. I push him up and draw my knees up thrusting my ass into him and say now fuck me baby. Fuck me like you mean it, give me that cock fast and hard. He just grins as he slowly pulls it all the way out pausing for a moment of suspended limbo. Then he lightly touches the tip to my hole and holds it there for one brief moment. Then quickly he slams it in to the hilt pushing hard against my ass. Oh god what a feeling as he repeats this a few more times. Then he picks up a steady pace fucking me harder and faster. I feel him tense as he grips my ankles a little harder. His breath starts to come in shorter pants as he nears an orgasm. I feel huge waves of orgasmic pleasure wracking my body into convulsions as he fucks my into oblivion. At that moment he holds his breath for a second as his ass clenches tight and he pulls back and lets out a long “uuunnnngggaaaaaahhhhhhh” as he jerks and slams back in hard and we cum at the same time. I feel his hot cum shooting out into my ass as he slams in a few more times before collapsing on top of me. I wrap my legs around him holding him in me not ever wanting it to end. I snuggle in to his neck feeling his full weight on me rubbing his sweaty back. I cling to every speck of the moment as I feel his cock go soft and he pulls it from my ass. I am truly sedated and content yet I long for the time when we do this again.

[axlton]

Wow, that was a novel of a post, what site did you copy that off of, or did you make the story up? Either way I'm sure everyones dick is harder than Chinese algebra after reading it. :)

[shewolf50]

Wow, that was a novel of a post, what site did you copy that off of, or did you make the story up? Either way I'm sure everyones dick is harder than Chinese algebra after reading it. :)


Just some of the stuff I write :oh: