To peg or Be pegged..lol

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

A couple of weeks back I had a FWB playmate tell me that he couldnt see me anymore on account of he was afraid that his enjoyment of me pegging him with my strapon was going to turn him Gay. He had never Been pegged before, and found that he Really liked it, and could cum just a minute or two into it. He'd often ask me for it during our playtime together. But I guess he got to thinking about it, and was afraid that he might start craving it if he was with another partner, and she'd be afraid that he might be having Gay feelings.....
I assured him that I didnt think that would happen, as he isnt even Bi, let alone Gay, but I told him I respected his wishes. I tried to tell him he'd be Shocked at how many men love being taken like that, and how many on another group actually seek it out from women who love to do it, but it didnt aleve his fear any. I still see him at the Butcher Shop where I shop and we're still friends, just not FWB any longer.

And since this topic was brought up in another group, what do You think? Could discovering that you have a taste for pegging mean that you have Bi or Gay feelings? I dont think so, I think that you should do whatever feels good to you, and is pleasurable as well. As long as its not hurting anyone else, you should endulge if you like something. ;)

What's your thoughts on this? :}
Cat

[axlton]

Well my personal feeling on this is that men are anatomically set up to enjoy this kind of thing, at least if it's done right. My wife and I have compared notes at some length and have determined that the feeling a man gets from anal is pretty much the exact same feeling a woman gets from having her G-spot hit just right. The good feeling that comes from that is undeniable. It's almost like a never ending orgasm, then when the final sexual release does come it is way more intense than it would other wise be.

Having said that, I think It could lead a man to experiment with Bisexuality. He may or man not find a part of himself that he never knew was there. But at the end of the day, I don't for one minute think that it is going to turn someone completely gay.

While I know first hand just how good it can feel to be on the receiving end of anal, I still have the same attraction to women that I always have. I love the softness of a woman. I also love the sense of intimacy I get when having sex with a woman that I don't ever feel when I'm with a man. So, I guess you could say that (for me at least) when it comes to guys it is strictly a sexual attraction, with women it is both a sexual attraction and an emotional attraction.

My personal feelings are: No man can do for me what a woman can, nor, can a woman necessarily do for me what a man can. My wife does peg me with a feeldoe when the mood strikes her, and it is very intense and just as good in some ways, but, well you just can't feel a rubber dick throbbing inside you.

So, overall... Could it lead him to bisexuality, maybe. Will it turn him gay, no.

[Sammysaid]

Well I think your ex was dumb. He should have listened to cuz you just can't turn gay. He liked it and that is all he should have be concerned with. It spunds like he only learns things the hard way. You shouldn't be discouraged because it wasn't anything you did, but it was only his insecurities that made him leave. Find someone better who would loved to be pegged I know I love it and I don't feel like I'm being dominated or humilitated either. I just love it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Thats what I tried to tell him but..each person has to walk their own path..:} Thanks for the in-put, Sugar.
Cat

[Long Duck Dong]

thats it.... I refuse to have a prostate examination by the doctor cos it may turn me gay cos my body will react to it in a manner that is most pleasurable and enjoyable lol

tell your friend to google prostate massaging..... and reassure them that having their prostate examined and massaged, doesn't turn a person gay or bisexual..... we all know that its something in the water that does that, the same way that women sitting on the toilet seat after a man has been to the toilet, will get a female pregnant.....lol

seriously tho, enjoyment of prostate massage is something that a male can enjoy, solo or with a partner, but the emotional / mental / sexual attraction to the same sex, is something separate and it can be suppressed or hidden within a person for years and be triggered by a event such as prostate massage..... but its got to be something that is already in the nature of a person for them to start to develop the attraction and interest.....

if your friend is so worried about turning gay, tell them that its perfectly fine, there are christian groups that can * pray the gay away *.....ROFLMAO.... or if he is really worried about being with other males, I hear rumours that aliens are big on anal probing, just look for the big shiny UFO and the lil green men...lol

[axlton]

thats it.... I refuse to have a prostate examination by the doctor cos it may turn me gay cos my body will react to it in a manner that is most pleasurable and enjoyable lol

tell your friend to google prostate massaging..... and reassure them that having their prostate examined and massaged, doesn't turn a person gay or bisexual..... we all know that its something in the water that does that, the same way that women sitting on the toilet seat after a man has been to the toilet, will get a female pregnant.....lol

seriously tho, enjoyment of prostate massage is something that a male can enjoy, solo or with a partner, but the emotional / mental / sexual attraction to the same sex, is something separate and it can be suppressed or hidden within a person for years and be triggered by a event such as prostate massage..... but its got to be something that is already in the nature of a person for them to start to develop the attraction and interest.....

if your friend is so worried about turning gay, tell them that its perfectly fine, there are christian groups that can * pray the gay away *.....ROFLMAO.... or if he is really worried about being with other males, I hear rumours that aliens are big on anal probing, just look for the big shiny UFO and the lil green men...lol

LMFAO! I'd forgotten that they could pray the gay away now. With all the advancements in Christian science though I suppose miracles will never cease. I disagree with you on the little green men, however. I think it is just an excuse that hillbillies throw around when they've decided to go off in the woods for a few days and shoe each other in the ass.

"Elmer why's them hemmoroids actin' up so bad"
"I done tole you Bertha, them durned aliens done got aholt a me with their probes again"
"O.K. Elmer I'll get on the tellerphone with the National Enquirer and that U.F.O show. Aaaaaaaagain."

[DuckiesDarling]

LMFAO! I'd forgotten that they could pray the gay away now. With all the advancements in Christian science though I suppose miracles will never cease. I disagree with you on the little green men, however. I think it is just an excuse that hillbillies throw around when they've decided to go off in the woods for a few days and shoe each other in the ass.

"Elmer why's them hemmoroids actin' up so bad"
"I done tole you Bertha, them durned aliens done got aholt a me with their probes again"
"O.K. Elmer I'll get on the tellerphone with the National Enquirer and that U.F.O show. Aaaaaaaagain."

ROFLMAO, guess those Texas hillbillies are "special"

[DuckiesDarling]

A couple of weeks back I had a FWB playmate tell me that he couldnt see me anymore on account of he was afraid that his enjoyment of me pegging him with my strapon was going to turn him Gay. He had never Been pegged before, and found that he Really liked it, and could cum just a minute or two into it. He'd often ask me for it during our playtime together. But I guess he got to thinking about it, and was afraid that he might start craving it if he was with another partner, and she'd be afraid that he might be having Gay feelings.....
I assured him that I didnt think that would happen, as he isnt even Bi, let alone Gay, but I told him I respected his wishes. I tried to tell him he'd be Shocked at how many men love being taken like that, and how many on another group actually seek it out from women who love to do it, but it didnt aleve his fear any. I still see him at the Butcher Shop where I shop and we're still friends, just not FWB any longer.

And since this topic was brought up in another group, what do You think? Could discovering that you have a taste for pegging mean that you have Bi or Gay feelings? I dont think so, I think that you should do whatever feels good to you, and is pleasurable as well. As long as its not hurting anyone else, you should endulge if you like something. ;)

What's your thoughts on this? :}
Cat

Now for the serious reply, I don't think you can make anyone be anything they aren't already. In my case, I've pegged one man, he was already bisexual so to him it was pleasure not turning him into anything other than what he was, the man I loved. I enjoyed the power that came through pegging him and I look forward to experimenting with the harness and dildo Kate told me about. I think that you should have him look up prostate massage and then ask himself the question "can ANYONE make me anything I am not?" I think he will honestly answer himself that no one can do anything if he has the will to be himself.

[falcondfw]

ROFLMAO, guess those Texas hillbillies are "special"
Ok. And Just why do they have to be Texans?????

[DuckiesDarling]

because Axl brought it up and that's where he's from? :)

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOL Axl did it! He did the accent and it was almost as bad as "mine" and I'm not even a Texan...lol. I say we girls lay him over my soft, warm, cushy, lap and give him a sound spankin'!!
Oh wait, thats another thread entirely..lol
Silly Cat

[elian]

I think it certainly could lead a man to question "just what he liked" - If he really is open and gets a taste of anal sex he MIGHT want to experiment even further. If there were ALREADY feelings there then MAYBE he could be influenced. However, I think you can still like women and toys without being attracted to men.

Has he considered the possibility of doing this type of thing with his other partner? Perhaps she doesn't enjoy that sort of thing?

Being single maybe I have a different perspective but I find the world works a whole lot better when I stop thinking that people are "out to get me" just because of who I am (who I love, what I believe, etc.) - sounds easy but it has taken me a while to learn to please other people for my sake rather than their own (just to feel like I've won their acceptance.)

..oh and I know you didn't ask, anal is not for everyone but with the right level of trust and love the whole idea seems very hot..oh wait - you said FWB..I remember my last lecture from tenni. Sorry I didn't mean to insinuate that FWB might care for each other.

[tenni]

Well, I'm bisexual and I don't want anal(pegging). I may top a guy though. I'm not that keen on sucking dick either. Go figure.

However, I would agree that if a guy wants anal that he may not really be hetero. He is going to want the real thing... a dick eventually in his butt.

I lectured you Elian? FWB is not sexual preference based.

[Bisexual Explorer]

Cat,
Having read your posts over the past few years, I must say that you do seem to find some partners totally undeserving of you. I wonder whether your exFWB knew that his enjoyment of being pegged (new term for me) was unleashing his surpressed bisexual tendencies. Quite different from the impossibility of making an otherwise straight person become bi. If so, admitting that he was bisexual must have been awfully frightening for him. Too bad. He probably couldn't find a better guide than you into exploring his bi side.
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[DrBimind]

WOW it just cracks me up how insecure most of the male gender is and can be....back in the 70s and 80s there was a saying "if it feels good do it" or something like that. Seriously though, can any one action turn someones attraction from one gender to the other? I don't believe so...and I think that most people, when all alone and being honest with themselves (good luck human race), can see the beauty in BOTH genders and the pleasure each has to offer. Nature provided two genders to keep the human race propagating, then make it pleasurable so as to be driven to continue propagating. Then it throws us a curve-ball by making same sex encounters, anal sex, clitoral stimulation and other acts so easy to be done solo or with another of either gender.

If your gay, your emotional attraction is same sex relationships and if your straight you're emotionally attractive to opposite sex relationships. Of course if you're Bi (thank goodness I am) you can/are attracted to both. But when it comes to sex, all bets are off since it is mostly about opportunity to engage in the most pleasurable action humans can experience. But if we all could get past what society says is right or wrong, we all could find the beauty and pleasure that each gender has to offer. So I think it comes down to what, how and why you feel about YOURSELF and let what the rest of the world thinks of you not matter. But of course that's an Utopian ideal that alas I'm afraid the human race will never be able to achieve.

:bigrin: My advice; don't beat yourself up over anything that makes you feel good as long as it does not hurt anyone else.

[tenni]

"Seriously though, can any one action turn someones attraction from one gender to the other?"

YES

[Gearbox]

God, don't we love to put completely retarded self imposed boundaries on ourselves? He OBVIOUSLY wants a real cock up his ass, it would be great, he'd cum like a bitch. But he'd be 'gay' if he did it.:rolleyes:

I don't see what's 'straight' about a woman gearing up with plastic MALE genitalia and performing anal sex on a man. I just don't get it. Where is the 'straight sex' bit in that?lol
BUT maybe THAT is a retarded boundary too? What exactly is 'gay sex' & 'straight sex'? Maybe there's just SEX, and genders just supply their own natural 'tools' for certain sexual acts?

@ Cat- Well you must have done a good job on him, so don't be too annoyed.;)

[dafydd]

come guys, having anything shoved up ur rectum for the 1st few times is a terrifying experience, even if u want try believe the hype. not every man enjoys getting butt fucked ok.... some guys never get used to it. and why should they? it fucking hurts. leave alone. if he doesnt want something inserted into his anus then drop it. move on to other things. we dont psychoanalyse women when they dont want to be penetrated, or ridicule them when they decline. no means no.

[shewolf50]

If you ask me Cat I would have to say that any man who is afraid of turning gay is not secure in his sexuality. It has been my understanding that most homophobes have had some form of same sex thoughts or feelings and due to social stigmatisms they fear it!
I have to agree with some of the other posters here “no one just turns gay” it’s not a choice.
I do how ever believe that as human beings we are sexual beings!
The Creation story "speaks of a time when people were not sexually differentiated". As opposed to European views of sexuality, Native Americans experience sex as more than a means of reproduction. It is also an activity to be enjoyed and appreciated. Sexual pleasure is considered a gift from the spirit world. As a result, most traditional tribes feel no inhibition in regard to sexual relations and some ceremonies involve sex on an orgy level. Additionally, sexual contact is not necessarily limited to one’s spouse or to the opposite sex.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Thank you all for your views and opinions, its exactly what I was looking for. :}
Dafy-honey, that the problem--He Wants it, loves it, but is afraid that someone Else might Think he's gay because he Does enjoy it. To me sex and pleasure is sex and pleasure...as long as everyone is happy with it, and concenting. But certain stygmas do remain in people. He has no interest in a live cock in his ass, (Altho I told him thats not a bad thing either) and had never entertained the thought.
I have only been into pegging for a couple of years now myself, but like DD said, its a mixture of sexual power and pleasure, and I love it. Its Not For every lover, but if they indicate that they would like to try, I have no prob in teaching..lol *Evil grin*
Like the old saying goes, "To each his(or her) own..:}
Cat

[cornholejoe]

so if a guy is bi whats the promblem i do like it better from a women for some reason its turns me on more the only time i like it from a man is when i am in a 3 some with a man and a women:impleased

[dafydd]

Thank you all for your views and opinions, its exactly what I was looking for. :}
Dafy-honey, that the problem--He Wants it, loves it, but is afraid that someone Else might Think he's gay because he Does enjoy it. To me sex and pleasure is sex and pleasure...as long as everyone is happy with it, and concenting. But certain stygmas do remain in people. He has no interest in a live cock in his ass, (Altho I told him thats not a bad thing either) and had never entertained the thought.
I have only been into pegging for a couple of years now myself, but like DD said, its a mixture of sexual power and pleasure, and I love it. Its Not For every lover, but if they indicate that they would like to try, I have no prob in teaching..lol *Evil grin*
Like the old saying goes, "To each his(or her) own..:}
Cat

ahh ok...fair enough :)
surely kitten, then the issue is not about him getting anally probed, rather it is an issue over trust...and whether or not he feels that he can trust you not to spread the word, about how you spread his cheeks.
your job now is not to waste time unpicking his absurd connection between a physical act and a mental state ("you're only gay if u get fucked")... but to provide him with a sexual sandpit in which he feels he can play without all due regard.....and you're NOT GOING TO EVER MENTION THIS TO ANYONE.
Babe.... it's down to you and how you're able to look a man in the eye, and tell him that "nothing....but nothing...will leave this room tonight."
'cos mountain cats, live by their word and nothing is more important than that.
If that works.....you won't even need to use lube on that ass...... it'll be open sesame and come on in!
damn ..you lucky bitch!:) I've tendered such souls for weeks, paid constant vigils at their bedsides.... guided them gently on their journey.... never hasty.... always patient... waiting until that level of trust was there...
but listen love... i bet it's 110% easier if you're a woman.. i always found it hard to convince them that it didn't mean they were gay, and even I knew how absurd that sounded, as I would gently press my cock head against either butt cheek, bring a muscled bicep around his chest and rubbed my beard on his shoulder.
Yeah....this isn't gay sex...sure.... just close ur eyes and pretend you're being fisted by a a flat chested girl from France.
(hopeless really to convince them.... especially after 'le petit mort deux', ....when still panting you reach over the bed side and throw them a *beach* towel to mop up ALL the cum .... yeah with 2 guys, a hand towel just won't cut it.
sorry chum.. definitetly gay sex.) :)


dx

[elian]

I lectured you Elian? FWB is not sexual preference based.

Well there was that one time I started to say that FWB could LOVE each other..

[Doggie_Wood]

ROFLMAO, guess those Texas hillbillies are "special"

Specially if'n they be from the "Hill Country" of Texas!

Doggie :doggie:

[tenni]

Well there was that one time I started to say that FWB could LOVE each other..

It wasn't lecturing or wasn't meant to be. I understand that you admitted that you really didn't know what a fwb was. Yep, they won't admit love between them. I wouldn't be surprised if there was affection.

I think that Gear has a point. A woman who pegs a man may be as gay repressed as all fuck...lol I've read where some women say that they enjoy the dominance role. Just using a man as a pussy really. But if they both enjoy it, there is nothing wrong with it. I wonder if any hetero female peggers eventually do check out pounding pussy?

[DuckiesDarling]

It wasn't lecturing or wasn't meant to be. I understand that you admitted that you really didn't know what a fwb was. Yep, they won't admit love between them. I wouldn't be surprised if there was affection.

I think that Gear has a point. A woman who pegs a man may be as gay repressed as all fuck...lol I've read where some women say that they enjoy the dominance role. Just using a man as a pussy really. But if they both enjoy it, there is nothing wrong with it. I wonder if any hetero female peggers eventually do check out pounding pussy?

Honestly, Tenni, the fact that you don't engage in pegging pretty much shows your ignorance when you try to say what it is about. The switching of roles is what the dominance is about. The female becomes the male the male becomes the female, it's still straight sex... albeit kinky sex, for most couples. To suggest that a hetero female is someone who would go on to "pounding pussy" is just ignorant. As a female that has pegged a male, I know what I'm talking about. You don't like it, fine, I get that, we ALL get that, so keep your mouth closed when you have no real clue about a sexual matter.

[tenni]

oh DD I know what I'm suggesting. It is just uncomfortable for you to realize that is what you are doing to some extent. Yes, it is about dominance and playing the male role. Dyke like to some extent.

[DuckiesDarling]

oh DD I know what I'm suggesting. It is just uncomfortable for you to realize that is what you are doing to some extent. Yes, it is about dominance and playing the male role. Dyke like to some extent.

No, it is not me being any sort of dyke, thank you very much. Again, you have no clue about the actual sexual act, you don't like, you've stated you don't like it. You don't do it, you don't want to do anything but possibly top a male. That is you being a bisexual male who does not regularly engage in both recieving and giving anal penetration. This is me being a heteroflexible female who does engage in anal penetration both the giving and the receiving. It does not change the fact that in a role reversal BOTH roles reverse. Therefore it's still STRAIGHT sex not LESBIAN or GAY Sex. It's just SEX between two loving partners or people that just want to have fun. You are really not qualified to comment about sexual acts you don't participate in and have no desire to participate in. You give the wrong impression to people about what pegging is. Those of us that have done it, have enjoyed it, will continue to enjoy it, know what we are talking about. You don't believe me, why don't you go do some research about it, if that won't take too much time from trying to pretend you already know what you really don't.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

*surely kitten, then the issue is not about him getting anally probed, rather it is an issue over trust...and whether or not he feels that he can trust you not to spread the word, about how you spread his cheeks.*

Sigh. Dafy, you Still arent understanding, but thats ok, Dear One. He was afraid He'd Like It Too Much and want it cfrom Other lovers too. Thats the whole crux of the matter here. And that they, the other lovers, might think he had gay tendancies because of this like. Thats it.
And you had Better have been smiling whren you called me a Bitch, Young Man...lol
Muahs.
Cat

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Tenni...Sugar Dumpling...are you refering to me as "Dyke-like" because I do find pleasure in taking a man anally??? Yes, it IS role reversal, yes it is exciting and mentally And physically arousing. And just because a man likes it, wants it, Does Not mean that eventiually he'll want the real thing. Its different in all instances for each person. Some men Love having a woman Dom them, some Need it. And some women relish the fact that the torch of power has been handed over to them, and its a Marvelous feeling. :}
And for the record: I may be a tallish, big, strapping and strapping on gal, but I'm anything but Dyke-like. Ask anyone who knows and loves me...lol
Cat

[tommyswing]

I've dated bi-sexual women who think if a guy likes any type of anal play, he must be gay. . I've talked with Haitians who believe that a man who has anal sex with a women could be gay. Culture plays a large part in our attitudes, I guess it is what it is. Many men who aren't at all gay enjoy anal probing, too bad so many peoples lives are run by fear.

[Long Duck Dong]

oh the feel of a woman, complete with well made, flexible strap on, pushing me against the wall, her eyes ablaze with passion and desire, hands holding me tight as a hot and passionate tongue presses apart my lips to explore my mouth with unbridled wanton need....

She whispers under her breath about how wanting my body pressed back onto the bed, feeling my legs pushed aside by hips pushing forward, that firm dildo easing into my body, filling me deeply as her feminine form moves with the essence of domineering passion..... " I want you to want me, need me, desire me to make you cling to me tightly, surrender to me, cry out my name " the purred growl echoes in my ears as I know that I want to belong to this warrior woman, this amazon... this lady that I love so dear....

yeah... its not about pounding a pussy, its about a erotic, passionate, powerful and empowering experience shared between two people

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I am fully expecting to be told, as usual, that my opinion and understanding is of no value, as I have a asexual nature, I am intersexed ( I have XXY aspect chromosones ) I regard my true sexuality as pansexual, not bisexual...... etc etc etc.... but all I care to say to that.... is I have been pegged, have you ?

[dafydd]

dearest venus in fur..... take it from ... a man , who once knew the simple life of a body with one entrance and one exit: who even bought Armani pour homme at 18 simply because the pour homme bottlle clearly tesselated with the female version: It had a slight protusion in its glass profile that docked like a cock into a slight feminine concavity on the bottle bought for my girlfriend like an amulet that would get me laid.. surely this would make me a man. and so by his late teens every single impulse in a guy is to fuck blindly like a pneunatic drill....... though strangely we percieve the urge as simply to insert, launch, thrust, fire or spike our dicks into and within... to insert, to push and push again........"Penis fits vagina" Camillia Lapagia was notably said. as boys we were brought up with clear instructions on how our dicks should be used. as tools, to insert, as keys to unlock. always a 'thing' to be used, a job to be done. men moved around, agents of direction and erection....whilst women hunkered down to one spot, rooted by mother to the very Earth. (see artwork of ) Boys had the eminent rights to insert, fire, launch, divide, push through , collide into and girls were the prophetic targets that we could never hope to hit.....who be the judges of or sucess or failure to do our one unique job) oh ...and we hated them for it.... as if somehow subonsciously at 9 or 10 we clustered together away from females like weak eunachs horrified of how they could ruin us,,,half males, barely stronger than each other ...wrong...unless at 10 or 11, we ignore girls completley though still aware of our fates. we looked at our small pathetic armory with dismay. under pressure from our male role models, we fretted....how could we rule our promised kingdoms or aim to shoot, to move and effect women as our teaching has taught us is our place in this life... our penises clung to our childhood like caterpillers afraid of flying. and our biology begins to take over. manyy boys find girls gross (intimidating) at that age cos we know how powerless our penises are, how dismally theyd fail us, and be crushed. from 11-17 every mans life is tense, fraught, but a wonderful race, to see our agency grow. some of us get together for training sessions, and slowly we biologically smith our own swords as girls talk about bleeding. We study our growth something what it will into. every old male friend of mine remembers the day they went for a slash and the weight of it suddenly becoming apparent in their hand. like noticing in a glance, the way you suddenly look ur age or older in those facebook pics from last weekends party. though the change was gradual it seems to store itself up for a sudden moment of awareness. Alll rememeber when they felt a weapon rather than a willy in their hand. i remember it as pissing all over the edge of the toilet seat onto the bathroom floor one day as i sat for a morning crap after my 16th bday. Fuck. it didnt hang down anymore in that tiny gap between my nuts which now itched every morning with a new ass of thick course dark hair: aching packs of self replicating ammo that seemed to go off like friendly in our group smithing sessiond at the skater ralley grounds behind the half pipe. we became used to the woodish smell of our fresh semen, wed never seen such odd goo and behind the skater park we kissed girls again and wondered if they knew wwhat we coud with our bodies, as we were so amazed. we made out only with girls and tried to cop a feel. but were partly to blame for our own mutiny in the brotherward as slowlyy our smithing made differences in our bodies that caused sham or pride and as men we slowly learned to never look at another cock lest it be huge and gutting though the temptation to see a lesser one was always tooo greart. this competing for the best guns...yes it starts early this competition...but our group found that the bigger dicks often had poor range. so then someone drew 2 lines in the dirt and cnother half moon curve like a baseeball reach, and one by one alone in the dark, we practised struck out to became men... our loaded guns and thats how we stayed, cocked and ready until the ammo runs dry. later that yeart the small wooden toilet seat in my mothers house was soon involved in a 'accident' and had to be replaced with one that could accomodate a man, who like any man should be allowed abig enuf latrine to piss and crap at the same time. For nothing ever goes anywhere but out and away like a miissle (and certainly never ever returns 'inward' for surely is self destruction. to the human males idea of his own duty to push forward into the world.. it took 2weeks to remember how much further to sit back on the loo seat just so 2 years of my ripenining thickness could be accomodated. Boys devolve quickly nto their egos when toilet seats arent big enub and wlike evlolving bipedal apes again we have to stand though leave the women below us this time. and so boys believe they devolve again because of their sex, and so we begin to idolise. when men stand up to piss in bar toilets theres an air of reverendce for what it symbolises. we were forced to hold it like a gun every day and aimed at dirt spots on th enamel like they are enemy hostiles to be neutralised on a radar in another Call of Duty. many public urinal have targets actually paiintd on them..power over working guns takes us over and we believe our own hype at their final bestowed powers to quell and turn womdn toward . mans triumph over the natural mother earth and the heavens. the moon the tides, winning thewar of the roses by planting oue sees is nothing then aa poorwayof describing how godlike amanfeels e themoment of orgasm if hes in control of his thunder.. The first of us to get ammo, juice, something we can fire......is the likeliest to survive the battle. Cat, whatever he says, hes struggling to turn his body from a gun to a flower, from a key to the lock. Its massive alteration from iron to ink....ur well to give this man the gift of alchemy that hes desperately seeking

[elian]

Hmm..wow, that's a pretty ...involved...description of one aspect of coming of age <hugs dafydd> - I hope it felt good to get that all out in the open? This wasn't brought on by the use of high energy caffeine drinks past 11PM at night was it?

I recently sent void the description of George Carlin's stand-up where he equates war and bombs with "dicks" and some of what I was reading above reminded me of that.

Anyway, yes Cat, we men (or boys), umm...love our mothers, but sometimes we have been programmed to be afraid to use (or lose) what we have. That is one sad aspect of male culture. For a time I fantacized quite a lot about giving myself to another person but the trust has to be absolute.. Maybe with time your friend and his other partner will grow more comfortable with those feelings..who knows. In a lot of ways I think the native ways of looking at things are a lot better..not quite as schizophrenic as the "victorian" way.

[elian]

I've dated bi-sexual women who think if a guy likes any type of anal play, he must be gay. . I've talked with Haitians who believe that a man who has anal sex with a women could be gay. Culture plays a large part in our attitudes, I guess it is what it is. Many men who aren't at all gay enjoy anal probing, too bad so many peoples lives are run by fear.

I think I know what you mean - although I know straight guys that like anal play too - toys, women and fingers feel good but they just aren't attracted to men.

[bikiniman]

Could discovering that you have a taste for pegging mean that you have Bi or Gay feelings? ;)
Cat

Firstly this is the first time I have seen the word "pegging" used in this context, fantastic!. Much better than "strapon anal"

I think that it is quite possible to enjoy pegging and not have any bi or gay feelings at all.

On the other hand I think it would be only natural if you enjoy it to then wonder what the real thing might feel like?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

He discovered that he loved being pegged, but has an Eww factor when it comes to men. He and I discussed this in depth one day, and altho he loves the feeling of a woman doing this to him, he had Zero interest in being done by a man. Will he change his mind someday? Only Heaven knows. I wish him well :}
Cat

[Long Duck Dong]

lol cat...... I am waiting for him to come back to the cat house cos he has a itch that needs stratching...lol......

pegging is more than just a lady with a dildo and a willing male, its also the lady that does it and the guy that knows the lady can sate him, that makes all the difference

[elian]

Oh "sated" ! the first time I heard that word was while I was watching this clip.. (speaking of dom vs. sub)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FYvxa9RKp0

[washlb58]

I'm a very lucky husband. My wife has the toys and will use them on me when we are in our hot tub. The other night I got into the hot tub before her and I was on on my knees with my arms over the edge of the hot tub. We have total privacy which allows us to be completly naked and free to do whatever, especially at night. It had been a few months since I was pegged by the wife, so I really never expect it to happen.

This night she moved behind me in tub and I felt a sweet hard object between by ass checks. I knew then that I was going to be fucked good. She slowly entered me with the dildo and began to move the toy in and out of my ass. At one point I asked her how far was it in and she said all the way. My cock gets hard when I'm fucked and my wife proceeded to reach around and grab my cock and play with it. She continued her fucking of me until my ass was sore from fucking, it felt great. She then finished me off with her hand and I shot my wad in the hot tub. I love being pegged.

I've never had a real cock up my ass, I believe that the dildo or anal probe does the thing for me.

[maxtor]

i have the factor of wanting to be pegged by a man. it feels much better than a man. i love feeling that penis up in me with the man hugging my waist and burying that cock in me. the man knows how to work that cock and make it feel good so anal sex is good with a woman but it is great with a man with a rock hard cock burying it in me. i will take what he dont want. i have time on most days during the late afternoon. just need that cock sex and letting me play with your cock before you peg me. :tongue:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LMAo I think youre right, Duck. When I went and got ground Bison for my pot luck on Saturday, he kept looking at me, and when I got home found a cute note on one on my meat packages "Miss you"
Maybe his current lady isnt feeding the need, but oh well. He can deal wif it..lol
Bad Cat

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

OMG E. I needed a laugh today and that was wonderful. C'mer and let me smootch yer cheek....:}
Laughing Cat

[elian]

<nuzzles/kisses> hope you are doing well :)

[silberwolf1960]

You can peg me a time Mama Minx!!!!!!!:oh:

[silberwolf1960]

Anytime

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOl Thank you Silber, but here I'm Cat, remember? lol Kisses
Cat

[dafydd]

dearest venus in fur..... take it from ... a man , who once knew the simple life of a body with one entrance and one exit: who even bought Armani pour homme at 18 simply because the pour homme bottlle clearly tesselated with the female version: It had a slight protusion in its glass profile that docked like a cock into a slight feminine concavity on the bottle bought for my girlfriend like an amulet that would get me laid.. surely this would make me a man. and so by his late teens every single impulse in a guy is to fuck blindly like a pneunatic drill....... though strangely we percieve the urge as simply to insert, launch, thrust, fire or spike our dicks into and within... to insert, to push and push again........"Penis fits vagina" Camillia Lapagia was notably said. as boys we were brought up with clear instructions on how our dicks should be used. as tools, to insert, as keys to unlock. always a 'thing' to be used, a job to be done. men moved around, agents of direction and erection....whilst women hunkered down to one spot, rooted by mother to the very Earth. (see artwork of ) Boys had the eminent rights to insert, fire, launch, divide, push through , collide into and girls were the prophetic targets that we could never hope to hit.....who be the judges of or sucess or failure to do our one unique job) oh ...and we hated them for it.... as if somehow subonsciously at 9 or 10 we clustered together away from females like weak eunachs horrified of how they could ruin us,,,half males, barely stronger than each other ...wrong...unless at 10 or 11, we ignore girls completley though still aware of our fates. we looked at our small pathetic armory with dismay. under pressure from our male role models, we fretted....how could we rule our promised kingdoms or aim to shoot, to move and effect women as our teaching has taught us is our place in this life... our penises clung to our childhood like caterpillers afraid of flying. and our biology begins to take over. manyy boys find girls gross (intimidating) at that age cos we know how powerless our penises are, how dismally theyd fail us, and be crushed. from 11-17 every mans life is tense, fraught, but a wonderful race, to see our agency grow. some of us get together for training sessions, and slowly we biologically smith our own swords as girls talk about bleeding. We study our growth something what it will into. every old male friend of mine remembers the day they went for a slash and the weight of it suddenly becoming apparent in their hand. like noticing in a glance, the way you suddenly look ur age or older in those facebook pics from last weekends party. though the change was gradual it seems to store itself up for a sudden moment of awareness. Alll rememeber when they felt a weapon rather than a willy in their hand. i remember it as pissing all over the edge of the toilet seat onto the bathroom floor one day as i sat for a morning crap after my 16th bday. Fuck. it didnt hang down anymore in that tiny gap between my nuts which now itched every morning with a new ass of thick course dark hair: aching packs of self replicating ammo that seemed to go off like friendly in our group smithing sessiond at the skater ralley grounds behind the half pipe. we became used to the woodish smell of our fresh semen, wed never seen such odd goo and behind the skater park we kissed girls again and wondered if they knew wwhat we coud with our bodies, as we were so amazed. we made out only with girls and tried to cop a feel. but were partly to blame for our own mutiny in the brotherward as slowlyy our smithing made differences in our bodies that caused sham or pride and as men we slowly learned to never look at another cock lest it be huge and gutting though the temptation to see a lesser one was always tooo greart. this competing for the best guns...yes it starts early this competition...but our group found that the bigger dicks often had poor range. so then someone drew 2 lines in the dirt and cnother half moon curve like a baseeball reach, and one by one alone in the dark, we practised struck out to became men... our loaded guns and thats how we stayed, cocked and ready until the ammo runs dry. later that yeart the small wooden toilet seat in my mothers house was soon involved in a 'accident' and had to be replaced with one that could accomodate a man, who like any man should be allowed abig enuf latrine to piss and crap at the same time. For nothing ever goes anywhere but out and away like a miissle (and certainly never ever returns 'inward' for surely is self destruction. to the human males idea of his own duty to push forward into the world.. it took 2weeks to remember how much further to sit back on the loo seat just so 2 years of my ripenining thickness could be accomodated. Boys devolve quickly nto their egos when toilet seats arent big enub and wlike evlolving bipedal apes again we have to stand though leave the women below us this time. and so boys believe they devolve again because of their sex, and so we begin to idolise. when men stand up to piss in bar toilets theres an air of reverendce for what it symbolises. we were forced to hold it like a gun every day and aimed at dirt spots on th enamel like they are enemy hostiles to be neutralised on a radar in another Call of Duty. many public urinal have targets actually paiintd on them..power over working guns takes us over and we believe our own hype at their final bestowed powers to quell and turn womdn toward . mans triumph over the natural mother earth and the heavens. the moon the tides, winning thewar of the roses by planting oue sees is nothing then aa poorwayof describing how godlike amanfeels e themoment of orgasm if hes in control of his thunder.. The first of us to get ammo, juice, something we can fire......is the likeliest to survive the battle. Cat, whatever he says, hes struggling to turn his body from a gun to a flower, from a key to the lock. Its massive alteration from iron to ink....ur well to give this man the gift of alchemy that hes desperately seeking WTF? jeez im really hurting from the missing option to delete ur own msgs

[darkeyes]

WTF? jeez im really hurting from the missing option to delete ur own msgs
An' u wer on wot wen u wrote that Daffy?:tongue:;)

[dafydd]

An' u wer on wot wen u wrote that Daffy?:tongue:;) whiskey? late... a riotous reverie..... ....most definitely i should have been stopped... ..... erghhhh d

[vikingtype65]

He discovered that he loved being pegged, but has an Eww factor when it comes to men. He and I discussed this in depth one day, and altho he loves the feeling of a woman doing this to him, he had Zero interest in being done by a man. Will he change his mind someday? Only Heaven knows. I wish him well :}
Cat


Cat

When I met my Mistress for the first time about 15 years ago, pegging was the first thing on the agenda, well second after she put the sub collar on me.
She made me get on all fours, got into the strap on and shall we say, 'She had her way with me." We both knew who was the Domme and who was the sub

Was it slightly humiliating? Yes, was it a power exchange? Yes, she was in charge, I was her submissive. As she said, "The one with the dick in their butt is the submissive."

Was it enjoyable? VERY.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I had never heard the term "pegged" used in this way. I have had the real thing a few times, but never experienced a strap-on endowed lady. I would love to try it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Like I said, pegging isnt for Everyone, but the role reversal is fun and very exciting. In some cases the woman doing the pegging can actually cum from it. Its the empowerment, the excitement of the pleasure and the total all around act. Its pleasure, pure and simple-- and if all parties want it, then yer good ta go. :} If you ladies discover a good "Bend over Boyfriend" then I recommend it most highly. :}
Bad Cat

[i_shoot_blanks]

Any time Miss Kitty, any time!!!!

[wanderingrichard]

Specially if'n they be from the "Hill Country" of Texas!

Doggie :doggie:
HEEYYYYYY......:eek2:

[wanderingrichard]

Tenni...Sugar Dumpling...are you refering to me as "Dyke-like" because I do find pleasure in taking a man anally??? Yes, it IS role reversal, yes it is exciting and mentally And physically arousing. And just because a man likes it, wants it, Does Not mean that eventiually he'll want the real thing. Its different in all instances for each person. Some men Love having a woman Dom them, some Need it. And some women relish the fact that the torch of power has been handed over to them, and its a Marvelous feeling. :}
And for the record: I may be a tallish, big, strapping and strapping on gal, but I'm anything but Dyke-like. Ask anyone who knows and loves me...lol
Cat

OMFG Cat i can't believe you got called a DYKE..... I guess thse nights with me and Geo in the Dark Room, were you just pretending???

[Tulsatomcat]

An Alien met me today
he has eight inches for play
up my butt it goes
he blows like a hose
then says as he goes,
"I thought I gave up humans for Lent"!

[elw®©d]

What's the question? ??

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOl Its ok Rich. Tenni and I have this Love-Hate relationship, and if I were to ever meet him, he'd see that I'm Clearly not a Dyke. lol I'd more'n likely sit in his lap on purpous just to mess up his sex life for the next 20 years, and do it with a sweet smile...just fer mean-ness sake...LOL

And dont get me started on you and Geo in the dark room...whew! *Fanning furiously* lol
Grinning Cat

[tenni]

LOl Its ok Rich. Tenni and I have this Love-Hate relationship, and if I were to ever meet him, he'd see that I'm Clearly not a Dyke. lol I'd more'n likely sit in his lap on purpous just to mess up his sex life for the next 20 years, and do it with a sweet smile...just fer mean-ness sake...LOL

And dont get me started on you and Geo in the dark room...whew! *Fanning furiously* lol
Grinning Cat

Dumpling
You are what you are.

If you enjoy using a strap on, you are certainly being alternative.

I dont think stereotypically dyke would suit you personally. Then again all lesbians are not dykes and certain neither are men with a penis ;). You enjoying pegging..yep dominance issues.

Sit on my lap? ....ya sure depends how you do it sweetheart. Don't be so hard on yourself.

mean-ness under your veneer? Why bless your heart!

Maybe, I missed it as it is an old thread. What do you physically enjoy by using a strap on? Clitoral stimulation?

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LMAO. Tenni.. I am Not a Lesbian, either. I enjoy Both sexes, I'm neither one nor 'Tother...:}
And as for pegging: Since you've never used a strapon I can understand your sense of confusion...Dumpling. It strictly depends on the situation at the time. Some men Love being the Submissive and being Dominated by a strong woman by having her "Top" him with a strapon.

Others love the sensations of being taken gently and easily, and pleasurably in the ass by a woman skilled in such manner. Others like it raw and nasty, rough and course, having that little ass pounded unmercifully...Some even love mounting a dong and sliding down on it.
Its all good.

And for the woman its a myriad of things and sensations. Some harness for dongs have a built-in vibrator that massages the clit as a women moves against her lover. Some can be Very powerful and cause sensation to Both partners; it can vibe her clit if its in the small pocket of a harness, or it can simply be a viber inside of her pussy that vibes beautifully. Mine vibes the male partner because the thick dong has a built-in viber inside of it., And I have a very powerful lil bullet that vibes my clit as I play..:}
So you see? Its all good.

AND, yes, there can be a feeling of Dominance exurted on the bottom as well. Its very thrilling, and can be a wonderful experiance for both, depends on what both are into..:}
Hope that answered your curiousity..Sugah...
Cat

[Beefeater]

Before I ever got pegged (corn holed, had my fudge packed etc, etc), I had a friend that I used to have oral sex with on an almost daily basis. After I was introduced to anal sex, he and I incorporated that into our sex play. This went on for about eight years. Did having oral or anal sex make me gay or bi? No. I just liked how it felt and I liked the fact that I could make my partner feel good too. Later, I had sex with a woman. Did it make me straight? Did it make me enjoy oral or anal sex any less? No. It just made me human.

[tenni]

" there can be a feeling of Dominance exurted on the bottom as well. Its very thrilling, and can be a wonderful experiance for both, depends on what both are into..:}
Hope that answered your curiousity..Sugah..."

Thanks Dumpling ;)

My point about dyke like behaviour was in jest and a poke of a different kind..lol It is about dominance in the traditional sense of taking a male role in a sexual role playing scenario.

As far as Beefeater's comment about being human, that all comes across as wishy washy rationalization. If you don't peg are you inhuman? I get more or less what you mean though.

Having oral or anal sex doesn't make you gay or bi? Technically if you are pegged by a woman, you are being submissive I would guess. Does it matter or make you a bad person I think is what you are trying to say when you used words like "human". If you had oral and anal sex with a man, you were having homosexual sex and yes you were at least bisexual.

[darkeyes]

" there can be a feeling of Dominance exurted on the bottom as well. Its very thrilling, and can be a wonderful experiance for both, depends on what both are into..:}
Hope that answered your curiousity..Sugah..."

Thanks Dumpling ;)

My point about dyke like behaviour was in jest and a poke of a different kind..lol It is about dominance in the traditional sense of taking a male role in a sexual role playing scenario.

As far as Beefeater's comment about being human, that all comes across as wishy washy. If you don't peg are you inhuman? I get more or less what you mean though. Having oral or anal sex doesn't make you gay or bi? Technically if you are pegged by a woman, you are being submissive. Does it matter or make you a bad person I think is what you are trying to say when youused words like "human".
I talk of being human all the time... am I too therefore wishy washy? What we like and what we do is part of our humanity is what Beefeater says and we are all human in different ways and we all like different things. None of what we do sexually in the sack.. or on kitchen table for that matter or anywhere else makes us bad.. as long as the person with whom we do it consents... and just how much do u know 'bout modern strap ons babes? In ne case... whether or not we get our pussy teased wile donning a strap on is immaterial in many ways cos sex isn't just 'bout pleasing ourselves.. neither is it all about dominance and submission... it is 'bout pleasure and making sex good and making each other feel good...

Trust me.. u can dominate a sex partner while he or she is in u almost as easily as u can while u are in her (and assume him since that is summat I have never done..).. and trust me on this also.. u can do it from the daft ole boring missionary position asya r lain onya back... and.. with a lil thought and imagination ya can dominate ya partner from the doggie or just 'bout ne other position u care 2 mention... we may adopt a submissive posture.. but that does not of itself mean we r being submissive... sexually I may be more naturally submissive.. but I do know how to turn the tables when the need and the mood arises while remaining in what is "technically" (your word) considered a submissive position...:impleased.. and by saying this, it should go without saying that one may be in a technically dominant position, but that can just as easily be turned into one of submission without a change of posture...

[tenni]

"am I too therefore wishy washy?"

Yep. It is slightly different in your context. It is idealism in your beliefs while in Beef it comes across to me as vagueness and a lack of clarity. Yes, some may be controlling while being penetrated but that is slightly different from concepts of male/female penetration roles. Domination is part of the pegging game is my point.

[DuckiesDarling]

Domination is part of the pegging game is my point. Your point is invalid, Tenni, when you don't actually participate in the sexual act itself. It's like someone who doesn't paint telling Michaelangelo he used the wrong colors on the Sistine Chapel.

[tenni]

"Your point is invalid, Tenni, when you don't actually participate in the sexual act itself. It's like someone who doesn't paint telling Michaelangelo he used the wrong colors on the Sistine Chapel."

Although there is some validity to the above statement there is also the report by Cat...;) One does learn more by participating and making personal statements on an experience. However, one does not have to participate to comment and be correct in the statement. To invalidate an opinion with personal report support as having no merit reflects control and domination tendencies imo.

Cat has admitted that domination is a part of pleasure that she receives by pegging a man. She mentions vibrators as part of the act but in reality a vibrator pleasure does not necessarily require a strap on. There are other reasons and Cat admits that dominating a man is part of the pleasure. Based upon first person reporting I believe that I have contextualized the domination /submissive aspect of pegging. That validates my point.

an aside
Of course, as an artist, I do paint but it has been a long time ago since I saw the Sistine Chapel. As I recall, it is not really the penultimate of the great masters. Its great for its era but when I saw it the colours were poor after centuries of abuse. I personally found Boticelli's "Primavera" and "Birth of Venus" superior to Michangelo's Sistine Chapel.
puts snotty art rag down.

[DuckiesDarling]

Yet you tell others we are wrong when we tell you it's about multiple factors but you are so caught up in your own little world that you fail to see the experience of others is more than your opinion.

[tenni]

"Yet you tell others we are wrong when we tell you it's about multiple factors but you are so caught up in your own little world that you fail to see the experience of others is more than your opinion."

I have no idea what you are referring to? "others" "we"? "own little world"(personal attack). It doesn't seem to be on topic of the thread?

Please stick to the issue of the thread and not 90o turn to personally attack. Personal experience is a basis for an opinion or an opinion may be based upon personal experience is another way of looking at things imo.

[12voltman59]

I think it really is funny in a way that so many guys hold that notion that if they like anything that is "gay" whatever that might be, sexual or not---then that in some way---might mean that "oh my god, maybe I am gay!" It is sort of sad too.

I know that I might be in the minority on this---but I have become totally convinced that even if a guy likes to have sex with another guy and actually does it even once let alone nearly all the time that does not mean that he is gay.

With "being gay" in our culture being so all encompassing on so many levels---the sexual component of "being gay" is only but one very small part of what it means to be gay.

[Beefeater]

I should have added that I've used a vibrator in my ass and enjoyed it. I guess that makes me an electrician!:confused:

[darkeyes]

I should have added that I've used a vibrator in my ass and enjoyed it. I guess that makes me an electrician!:confused:
Not necessarily...most vibes have battries.. they rear hens in battries some places.. mayb yas just an ole broiler...;)

[Solar]

My personal experience with this is as such; after a 9 month absence, I came home to a pregnant wife who delivered 3 days after I got home. She had a difficult delivery which entailed some cutting of the vagina,uterus or something and could not enjoy sex for a few months. She still wanted to get me off so she would stroke me with coconut oil until I got off. Unfortunately, I was not getting off. Why? We did not know. I suggested maybe a prostate massage. "In your butt?" Haha, yeah, in the butt. She proceeded to enter my ass and then she noticed the look of bliss on my face. She then started to anally fist me. She got a sly grin on her face at this point. She asked me if I was gay but she didn't think so because I liked women too much. As she continued to fist me I was getting harder and harder. Ah, what is this? Do you like men and women? Do you like being fucked in the ass? Have you been with guys? Yes, yes and yes. At this point, she was beaming from ear to ear. She then confessed to me that she was 100% lesbian but loved me and loved having sex with me. This was a new twist to things. This eventually brought other women into our bed and that was all great but she asked me one big favor. Would I consider living as a shemale so she could have a "girlfriend"? Well, let's give it a go. What a job being a girl!!! Just the right wig, plucked eyebrows, mascara, eyelashes, eye shadow, lipstick, blush, jewelry, a totally shaved (since waxed) body, nice bra, corset, nails, rings, earrings, panties, (grown to love panties), stockings or pantyhose, big shoes that are very expensive, dresses, spaghetti strap tops, skirts, etc,. whew! The reward? Being "pegged" by my wife wearing a 12" strapon. Nothing quite like it. We've done this alone, with other guys or girls and it's always fun. Another guy feels like he is with two women and another woman knows I am a man and feels the benefit of a couple.
For anyone considering the joys of anal sex, we started with a small blue vibrator, then a 6" dildo and then on to the 12" strapon. No feeling in the world can compare to the pleasure you will get from anal sex. Never really felt any pain. Just a touch after encountering the sphincter, but after that, greatest feeling in the world. I encourage everyone to try it.

[twntexas]

It just means that he is anal erotic. Nothing else. Now that he has discovered that, he's a fool for not getting satisfaction in a way that clicks with his sexuality.

[**Peg**]

It just means that he is anal erotic....


to whom are you referring, please? I just noticed this thread just now LOL (seriously ! ) .... you hush Fran !

PS I like that description: "anal erotic" ... huge grin

**Peg**

[WABIGuy]

How big is your peg cherokee mountain cat? Sounds like fun mabe I'd like that.

[darkeyes]

to whom are you referring, please? I just noticed this thread just now LOL (seriously ! ) .... you hush Fran !

PS I like that description: "anal erotic" ... huge grin

**Peg**
:yikes2::eek2:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Hi JP. I have 5 different ones that I use, Hon...from 4 inch to 9 inches and about as big around as a 1 liter Pepsi bottle. I also have "Starter" anal vibers that are as long and as slim as a pencil for those wishing to begin anal play. :}
And Tenni..Sugar Plum. Everyone has a right to their own personal percieptions of how things are done and Why. Pegging isnt Just about pure domance...its also Very pleasurable for role reversal, and Can make a woman cum because of the action of taking a man for HIS pleasure, and from the movements and the vibration on the clit or if its buried deep inside. Either or...its all good.
Some men you want to cause pure erotic pleasure to..others you wanta fuck with a cactus.
So until you've actually, seen it Live, or have had it done, then one cant make a personal assement on what its like. But you have a good weekend and Bless yer lil heart..:}
Smiling sweetly
Ya'll's Cat

[wanderingrichard]

Hey! let David out of this one,Cat, he's not here to defend himself.......:yikes2:

[**Peg**]

:yikes2::eek2:

therethere grambabes, just yankin ur chain LOL

>>hugs<<

[darkeyes]

therethere grambabes, just yankin ur chain LOL

>>hugs<<*Rests 'er poor throbbing,weary an woosy head 'gainst 'er granmumsie's cosy an welcoming shoulder, takes sip of irn bru an' sighs as humanity begins to return to 'er soul*:):kiss:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I wasnt refering to Pretty David Or Jp. I was meaning someone else, Rich..lol It was going back to that Mean-ness reference but wasnt pointed at anyone in general..(I think I've just scared hell out of JP..:(
Silly Cat

[wanderingrichard]

Poor David, i wonder if he ever did over come that trauma..........

[kurt101]

I want a girl to use a strap on on me. No interest in having a cock inside but would love to suck as a women is fucking me. I like to be dominated by a women and I guess having a strap on used is the ultimate submission

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Actually Kurt, its quite a bit of fun...if the man is Sub or not. If he's being taken in the ass, and is sucking on a nice hard cock, or dining on a tender little pussy at the same time, it's doubly delicious for Him...no pun intended..:}
Being a Sensual Mistress, I do this on occassion and Adore it. Its good erotic fun for all concerned..:}
And yes Rich, David has indeed got over his ordeal and has reciecved several Cacti for his Bday and at Christmas. I found an adorable one that had two little blue cactus growing at the base of a slightly taller straight one. HAD to have it for him last Christmas...*Evil grin*
Bad Cat

[bifemme]

*cringes* I never thought of this as a role reversal. When I beg a person, I love to hit that prostate and see the cum drip from the dick. I don't like using strap ons though. I like using my fingers, fist, or a dildo. Seeing that asshole being stretched with my fingers or fist or dildo, turns me on like no other. Watching that asshole move right along with my thrusting. Mmmmmm. Now I'm horny as fuck. LOL. With my ex, I wanted to peg him so bad. He had a nice ass. He thought pegging was gay. :rolleyes:

[bottom's up]

KAT YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT THAT POWER FEELINGA WOMAN THAT TOPPED ME ONCE SAID SHE KINDA UNDERSTOOD HOW A MAN FEELS WHEN SHE DOES IT& ON ANOTHER THOUGHT, YOU CAN GET DOWN HERE & PEG ME ANYTIME YOU LIKE

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol Well from one old Missisip gal to you, Hi there, and if I ever had the chance to go back home, I might just do that..:}
Cat;)

[twoforone16]

My wife and I are travleing in our motor home so I do have a regular plat mate so she will do me. I enjoy it and so does she some time she does like being the top

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Like I said Darlings, its just up to the individul. Some love it, others dont. Its all good either way..*Wink*
Bad Cat

[bi4asplay]

To one of the ladies that I played with for a couple of years before I moved away, it was about power. The first time that she used a strapon on me she could not beleive how it turned her on and got her off.She said that she had never known such a feeling of power.After the first time every time she would get off as soon as the head of the strapon entered me. Every time that she hit my spot she would get off.She loved it I loved it, so it was all very good. So to be pegged is fantastic.A couple of times a year she will make the 700 mile drive to visit.To her to peg is fantastic.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

One of my former sweetie's says that its my "Male side" emerging, and that the act of fucking a man's tight lil ass was power-endearing. He's right...lol But if it feels good to my partner, and gets me off too, then more power to Both of us..lol
Cat

[welickit]

Next time you see your friend in the butcher shop, tell him to stop eating pussy because he might become a lesbian. Give him something to think about.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

When I go in there these days, its all business, Hon. His new shrew-ish wife watches over him Pretty close now. lol All I do is go in, order my locker packs, and have it carried to the car. She doesnt allow him to talk to female customers outside of shop business whatsoever..lol. When he was with me, he was allowed to not only talk, but play as well..:}
I Will be wicked on occasion and casually consume of their huge dill pickles while waiting on a package to be put together, because I know he is watching. Man loved this mouth, and actually dropped a frozen chicken on his foot when I was there last week, because he was paying attention to me, and not watching what he was doing..lol
Last time I was there with a girlfriend, we were taking turns taking bites, talking low and being very bad. We's evil....
Bad Cat

[bottom's up]

well i just got the real deal for a holiday presentwho woulda thunka bakery chef with 8"oh my that stung....really really well& as for Kat she can peg me anytime she comes to the homeland

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOl Ty Sweetie. This old Miss. Cat hasnt been back home in Years. But ty for thinking of me. Muahs!
Cat

[Indywood]

I enjoy being taken by both, but would love to be pegged by Cat! Love your posts, God you're hot!

[wanderingrichard]

Yes, please... there's a soul song from the 80's, "Do Me Baby" ..about describes it. I am neither femme or sub, but love having my backside lovingly pounded by my lady partners.

Will have to dig back a few years, but this subject came up before, and i let my preference be known then. Some of what i said then, still applies.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

*Blushes* Ty Indy. :oh:
Cat

[bi4asplay]

A couple of weeks back I had a FWB playmate tell me that he couldnt see me anymore on account of he was afraid that his enjoyment of me pegging him with my strapon was going to turn him Gay. He had never Been pegged before, and found that he Really liked it, and could cum just a minute or two into it. He'd often ask me for it during our playtime together. But I guess he got to thinking about it, and was afraid that he might start craving it if he was with another partner, and she'd be afraid that he might be having Gay feelings.....
I assured him that I didnt think that would happen, as he isnt even Bi, let alone Gay, but I told him I respected his wishes. I tried to tell him he'd be Shocked at how many men love being taken like that, and how many on another group actually seek it out from women who love to do it, but it didnt aleve his fear any. I still see him at the Butcher Shop where I shop and we're still friends, just not FWB any longer.

And since this topic was brought up in another group, what do You think? Could discovering that you have a taste for pegging mean that you have Bi or Gay feelings? I dont think so, I think that you should do whatever feels good to you, and is pleasurable as well. As long as its not hurting anyone else, you should endulge if you like something. ;)

What's your thoughts on this? :}
Cat

Silly Cat
When my late wife first started doing my ass, I had never even thought of sex with another man. Did not think of it until she set it up a couple of years later. I still love to be pegged. I like the real thing to, but really love for a lady to do me. be it a man or a woman in my ass I have never felt fem or sub. Have never felt like I would all of a sudden become gay, if it kept happening. I never felt gay the couple of times that I played with just a guy, without a lady there. It just was not as fulfilling. I will always love women and like to play with men when a lady is also in the mix. No mater what else is going on my face in a lady's love is the finest thing in the world. Her pegging me runs a close second.

[gt4usphx]

I think he doesn't know what he is missing to have an open willing sex partner like you to enjoy all the erotica available. If we were next door neighbors, I would greatly appreciate your company.

[robert4friends]

I love getting pegged. I am not submissive. I just enjoy the experience and sensations in my body. I do like women who are assertive and sexually confident. If it empowers them it is a good thing. I always have a really good time when a woman wants and takes vigorous control during sex. Puts a big grin on my face.

[biguy1940]

so if a guy is bi whats the promblem i do like it better from a women for some reason its turns me on more the only time i like it from a man is when i am in a 3 some with a man and a women:impleased
my sentiments exactly

[pole_smoker]

I love getting pegged. I am not submissive. I just enjoy the experience and sensations in my body. I do like women who are assertive and sexually confident. If it empowers them it is a good thing. I always have a really good time when a woman wants and takes vigorous control during sex. Puts a big grin on my face.
Seriously? Why do you actually like being a woman's bitch that way during sex? Yes you are submissive even if you don't want to admit it.

If you were not submissive you would not think of being fucked up the ass with a dildo as "empowering" women or other BS, or want a woman who "takes control". :rolleyes:

[chongster]

I used to have a girlfriend that liked to peg me, I loved it but with a guy I prefer to be the top.

[LVTOGP]

I was opposite, I was dominant with women in most cases but being pegged taught me I have a submissive side that will take anything put to me

[zgay73]

Both. Give and take.

[Biwolf]

Love being pegged by a lady. I also like being the bottom with the guy.

[csreef]

As I am getting older, my views and outlook on a lot of things are changing....Would I like to be Pegged, maybe, just to further explore my sexuality. Who knows. . .

[sysper]

youth is wasted on the young. as i get older i'm beginning to understand that. if only there was that openmindedness at a younger age, how much more fun it would be!
As I am getting older, my views and outlook on a lot of things are changing....Would I like to be Pegged, maybe, just to further explore my sexuality. Who knows. . .

[imariver]

I have been pegged a couple of time by a female lover, but I didn't enjoy it too much. I think it was due to a cheep "less than quality" strap-on though, because I love the feeling of almost anything else that's inserted into my ass. Don't really give a damn if it's going to make me Gay, Bi, Sub, or anything else you'd like to call it. It just feel too good NOT to do!!

[JeffT]

Love having my wife use one of her vibrators on me. Prostate orgasms seem different, more intense.

[Zeeke]

I love it when my wife peggs me. It feels incredible. She doesn't take control we are both in it together. But one thing about it that turns me the hell on is to see her get off while she is pegging me. She gets so turned on I think she is going to explode sometimes

[Sundazzled]

I have only been pegged twice, both times during threesome play with my friends Bruce and Colleen, the couple I credit with prodding me to explore my bi side. On both occasions, Colleen worked a larger double-ended dildo in my backside while I masturbated and sucked her boyfriend’s cock. The first time out, I recall a pronounced feeling of pressure and fullness, but once that subsided, it wasn’t an entirely unpleasant experience. In fact, it made me curious to experience anal penetration with a real penis, something that remained a fantasy until a couple summers ago. The best part of that first pegging experience was that when I finally got to cum, my orgasm was particularly intense and my semen output copious. I’m told that was probably the result of prostate stimulation!

The second time was ostensibly the same, save for my position. On that occasion, Colleen had me lay on my back with my hips raised and my legs splayed over he’s shoulders. In that position, she was able to penetrate me, then inset the other end of the double dong into her own vagina. The feeling of surrender and being fucked by a woman while I fellated her boyfriend was just intense! Would love to experience that again someday!

[hairy69]

Wish I could get my wife interesting in pegging. You guys that have are SO LUCKY!! Wish I could experience the same.

[cleves]

I'm not into pegging either, giving or receiving. I'm into sucking cock only.