Bisexual female - Need help getting a girl in bed!

[madhatterxo]

Hello everyone! I'm new to this site and I thought it was a good place to post a question that's been on my mind recently. Within the past year or so, I have finally come to terms with my attraction to both males and females. I have been in a relationship with a man for 2 years now, and he is completely accepting of this about me, which is great. My problem is, I have never been with a female and I am absolutely DYING to have my first time. I have always had a bit of a confidence issue though. Not because of looks, as I am slender and good looking (or so I've been told, lol). I'm just not confident in my personality, or in my ability to get a girl in bed. I'm not close with a lot of girls, I have a few good girlfriends, but only one of whom knows I am bi and she's not that type, so she's not an option. My question to all you lovely folks is, what is a good way to try and get over my confidence issue and get a girl in bed? I guess you can say I don't really have "game"?? lol... I just really need to know effective ways to flirt with and eventually get a girl in bed with me. I think girls are so damn beautiful, and would really like to have my first time sometime soon.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!! Thanks!!

Amanda :)

[DuckiesDarling]

Try flirting with girls the same way you flirt with guys :)

[Long Duck Dong]

you grab her legs, I will grab her arms and we will swing on 3.... 1.....2...... 3.... thud..... I think we need to lift her higher next time.....

ok....you are trying to get another lady in bed ? first thing you need to do, is be yourself.... that helps to get people interested in you as a person and that can make a big difference.......

you sound like the sort of person that is better off to make friends in the site, lady friends that can help you and advise you and make suggestions that will help you now and in the future......so using the chat on here or PMing ladies that interest you, can be a good start.....

part of the trouble is that ladies can be a lil more picky than guys, and a grope in a dark alley may be fine for some guys, but most ladies perfer a lil more than that..... and a bad first time can leave you feeling rather nervous about doing it again, so as much as you wanna lose ya bisexual virginity, and knowing that you are a lil awkward, I would suggest taking your time and finding a lady that understands your wants and needs and helps you understand hers as well

some questions that will come up, is are you looking for a 3some for your first time, or just you and her, a one off or something that may be friends and occasionally more.... etc etc...... so you need to be a bit more clear in your thinking about what you seek and what type of person you seek and that can make it easier to advise you, even if it still takes some time to meet the lady that you are interested in being intimate with

[madhatterxo]

LOL!!! Literally spit out my drink reading that first sentence!

Thank you very much for the reply! I really think my biggest problem is being shy and a bit afraid to be 100% myself. I'm very sociable and friendly with everyone, but I think inside my head I doubt myself too much... so at the same time I really want this, I don't truly believe I have the capability to get it. Ya know?
To be more specific as to what I want.. I want a female friend who I'm intimate with frequently. My boyfriend and I did talk about the possibility of a threesome, and I want that as well... but I think that it would be best for my first encounter with a female to be JUST with her, instead of being overwhelmed by the 3 of us jumping into bed. I definitely hope to make some friends on this site who can advise me on this, because like I said... I'm ready for it, and I've wanted it for quite some time now. Thanks for your advice! If you have anything else to offer I'm more than happy to hear it :)

Amanda

[jbfree269]

Hi Amanda sweet girl,
i suggest that you enlist the man in your life to help you with this. Ask him to scout out the girls he knows and bring you home the pussy.

Jbfree269

[Realist]

Amanda, my 1st wife was bi and one thing that got her interested in another girl quickly was, if she was bi-curious but inexperienced. One of her biggest thrills was being a lady's first. She was very attracted to somewhat shy personalities, who were intelligent and sensuous, too. I wouldn't push the 3-some issue, unless someone you meet is obviously into it. I've known more than one bisexual lady, who was not interested in sharing.

That's about all I have...good luck......... I hope your first time is a magnificent experience.

[binow123]

Treat her like you want a man to treat you! You start opening car doors and doing little not so obivous things for her, she just might "get the picture"