Ever had a old man in his 70's fancy you?

[PrettyFlowingGown]

OK, I'm a crossdresser and i've come out to alot of people, as being a CD. I've only told my close freinds i'm bi though. I live in units, and 2 of my neighbours know i'm a CD, and they've seen me in my gear a few times. An old man who moved in about 4 months ago is one of those, and he seen me for the first time yesterday morning in my long satin nightgown and satin robe, when he came knocking at door. I let him in cause he knew of my dressing. He was in awe of me, and could'nt stop saying how pretty my gown was. When he came up beside me to look at something, he put his hand around me and was gently caressing the satin with his finger. he never did nothing more after that, but as he left, he said "you'd make a beautiful woman". he is into psychic stuff and he is a massauer aswell. he offered to massage me a few times but i've declined. i've got a feeling he fancy's me.....i have no problem with him liking me, but i'm worried if he asks me for anything sexual, should i go along with it? i'm not attracted to old men at all, even though hes a sweet guy.

[Jobelorocks]

If you aren't attracted to him at all certainly don't go along with it. Sweet or not, you are never obligated to do anything sexual with him.

[Herculoid Poirot]

If you aren't attracted to him at all certainly don't go along with it. Sweet or not, you are never obligated to do anything sexual with him.

agreed. I've had a few sweet older guys chat me up (mostly on the bus or train) but there is no need to do anything more than take it as a compliment and move on.

[**Peg**]

yes I have (been pursued by an older man) I was in my 50's he was mid-70's and the best lover I have EVER had... he passed away couple years ago... sad.

[Gearbox]

Don't matter what his age is. If your not interested, just politely refuse his sexual advances.
Could be a good friend if you play your cards right and not offend him.

[tenni]

How did you feel when he touched your clothes and complimented you on your appearance? That may be a point to ask him not to touch you. You may need to give him subtle messages or coming out blunt to tell him not to touch you.

[Realist]

Yes I have; my first lover was an older man. It didn't stop there.....when I was 21 I lived with a much older woman for over a year. They were both magnificent lovers and taught wonderful things, that I may have never known, if I hadn't had that time with them.

But, I agree with those above, who advised not to be with anyone you're not attracted to, or feel safe with.

[NjbiGuy01]

I was 18 or 19 when I had some 70 old creep on the subway offer me $ 50.00 to let him suck my dick. It was so gross to me I threw up... The concept of having my dick sucked was cool, the idea of HIM doing it wasn't.....

[PrettyFlowingGown]

How did you feel when he touched your clothes and complimented you on your appearance? That may be a point to ask him not to touch you. You may need to give him subtle messages or coming out blunt to tell him not to touch you.I did'nt mind him touching my clothes or complimenting me, i was quite comfy with it, its just i cant imagine myself with an older man. i do have a suspicion hes gay (even though he said he'd been married 40 years), hes very feminent, gentle and kind. I've never thought about being with a older man before, but he is taking early advances. I love being complimented though, so I felt quite good when he said it. I'm going to say "no", if he ever wants to do something more, but theres one side of me too, that likes the attention.

[sexual26]

I've been with an older man first experience was with a 60yo man it went on for several years he was nice gentle and didn't rush anything. It was quite a nice experience he taught me a lot and the experience helped to identify who I was but this was my experience. Everyone is different so I would say don't do anything you don't want to do.

[69luvr]

:tong:Please just do as your heart tells you to do. We do not know how you feel inside but you do. I suspect that you want to go with him but are a bit hesitant. Don't be because of age. If you are attracted to him let it happen naturally! enjoy life. its too short!

[Axeman]

I've always enjoyed older women...and have recently found myself very attracted to a woman who is 67.

Frankly, I'm rooting for the old guy and hoping he gets some !