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urban_fox
Feb 18, 2012, 9:55 AM
Hi Everyone,

New here! I'm wondering if anyone here has had similar feeling to this:

I'm a gay man in my early 30s - I've only ever been with guys, but lately I've found myself getting turned on by the idea of having sex with women. I guess I'm 'straight curious'.

I've been watching a lot of straight porn and find it really hot. I think I'd really like to experience eating a woman's pussy and having vaginal sex.

The thing is, since I'm a 'beginner', I'm not sure how to go about it - I mean, it would be a bit weird asking a female friend if I could 'have a go', picking up a woman somewhere might be odd without a bit of explanation - should I find an escort, maybe?

Has anyone here been in this position? What did you do?


Thanks guys!

LastGent
Feb 18, 2012, 10:14 AM
If you just want the sexual experience, then a prostitute may be the way to go; tell her you need to get your cherry popped. Of course, nowadays, there are friends with benefits, and perhaps one of your female companions has always been attracted to you. If you are attracted to women overall, and not just their vaginas, you can always ask.

Herculoid Poirot
Feb 18, 2012, 10:19 AM
I had a friend in the exact same position, although I think it was kind of upsetting for him as it really challenged his notion of himself. Anyway, in the end he actually asked a female friend if they could try it out together and she said yes. I don't know any more of the story, unfortunately.

slipnslide
Feb 18, 2012, 11:01 PM
I have two gay friends who have confided similar situations. One wants to have sex with a woman to try it, the other said that he met a woman one day and found himself incredibly attracted to her. Sexuality is complicated.

Maybe a dating site? Try okcupid.com and list yourself as bi. . .maybe?