Thoughts on CD

[cockmeat]

What is everyone's thoughts on crossdressing? Do y'all think its weird? Thoughts from the females would be great to.

[DuckiesDarling]

What is everyone's thoughts on crossdressing? Do y'all think its weird? Thoughts from the females would be great to.

Straight female here. No, I don't think it's weird. I do think it's unfair that a man could grab his wife's robe to answer door and be labeled as something other than normal, yet his wife can grab his shirt or robe and be considered sexy.


So much clothing is unisex these days anyway that most everyone is a crossdresser just to be fashionable.

Would I be worried if my partner decided he wanted to try on my silk panties or see how my lingerie looked? Nope, would I be horny? Probably but that would be after I stopped laughing at him trying to hold up the panties :2cents:

[Long Duck Dong]

is it weird ?? no.... we each have our own forms of sexual expression and / or non sexual expression......

I have found over the years that people that cross dress as a form of non sexual expression, are very interesting people, they have a depth and quality to them that can often separate them from others...... and for them, there is generally something about the clothing that allows them to openly deal with situations and issues better, in a lot of cases......

when I was doing counseling and therapy work, there was a few times that I suggested the males wear their partners underclothing ( with or without permission ) to a counseling session and the effect on them was very clear.... often more open and emotional......

likewise I have noticed that some females that wear masculine style clothing can be more aggressive and forward in their mannerism, but in a dress, they are softer and more warm......

so no, cross dressing is not weird in my eyes, it can bring out a side of people that is otherwise never seen

[Jobelorocks]

I am a bi woman and I don't see it as weird. I sometimes actually like it, but I am picky about it. I like mini-skirts and thigh highs with closed toed heels. But to each their own. We all have our little quirks and like different things.

[tenni]

My thoughts are that if that is what you want to do I'm fine with it. I'd rather not have sex with you while wearing some full blown CD outfit. Most look ridiculous but I understand that it makes you feel sexy. Generally, just not with me..thank you but no thank you. If I want to have sex with a woman in female clothes that is great. If I want to have sex with a man, I'd prefer one that looks masculine and not some blend. Sorry but that is just me. Some guys might like you as a CD and be turned on.

If it is one item of female clothing that I may strip off of you as I strip you sensually of other clothing (except for bras) kewl. Bras on a man do nothing for me and especially if he has a bra on a hairy chest. Sorry but yes I think that it is weird and a turn off to have sex with a man who has cross dressed.

[biguycancun]

I don't think it's weird at all. For me it is simultaneously a form of release and empowerment. I can release the tensions and responsibilities of my everyday life and embrace the strengths of womanhood, even in sexual activities, where although I "bottom" I clearly communicate my wants and desires to my partner while doing my best to give he or she pleasure of equal intensity.

[tenni]

biguycancun. Are you a cross dresser? It reads like you are? Or are you a guy who likes to have sex with CD's but doesn't cross dress himself?

This question has been asked before and what happened then was that all the CD men posted about how they found it empowering. That's fine but some CD's want sex with men while dressed. How many non CD men find it sexually arousing to have sex with a CD is another issue? How many would rather not? In other words, find it too weird to have sex with men who CD.

Just this week I was striping a guy down with lots of kisses and I discovered that he had women's panties on. He asked if I like it. I just said as long as I can strip them off you ok. That's all that he had on that was feminine and he was masculine otherwise. If I found that he also had a bra on, I might have stopped right there as he didn't mention any interest in CD. Or I might have just stripped him a bit faster...lol

[npitt]

I don't think that cross dressing is weird though it should not be too daring, though that is something that is subjective as well. What I mean here is: a woman can dress up like a man in terms of jeans and probably shirt. But it is a little different when a guy dresses up in a dress. Then again, it still is considered cross dressing, but in my context that is the "a little too overboard" level.

[cornholejoe]

i dont do it but men who do dont seem to be no different from any other man i know what ever floats your boat is the way i feel about it

[IndyBiFun]

I'm a guy and no, I don't find it strange either.

In fact, I think a hot CD is........hot.

My first bi experience was with a very passable CD. We had a great experience with on another.

[Michigan_cpl]

to answer your question,

no it is not wrong as long as you have a very understanding and willing partner. like i do, who loves and acepts me for who and what i am and that is a person.

i am the male half of this mariage and yes my wife does love and acept of me crossdressing,, as a matter of fact we also like others who do the same thing. my wife and i find it to be a huge turn for us. as a matter of fact we both go shopping together. like the saying goes " couples that play together stay together"

[Moonlight_BHI]

No its not weird. I like CDs as long as they look good. ;)

[biguycancun]

biguycancun. Are you a cross dresser? It reads like you are? Or are you a guy who likes to have sex with CD's but doesn't cross dress himself?


I am a cross dresser and quite passable. I was in a committed relationship with a pre-op transgendered woman (what the porn sites call "fully-functional") for the better part of two decades and traveled between my femme and masculine personas, deriving pleasure from both. She died early last year and the woman who we had brought into our life to help care for her nursed me through overwhelming grief and is now my companion and lover.

We had both been very successful in our chosen careers and I found myself able to retire shortly after her death. My new love is well aware of my dressing and enjoys it. We go out as a normal couple, whatever that means, and as girlfriends. Our sex life is vigorous, extremely sensual, and very satisfying. And everything I said in my previous post concerning my feelings of empowerment as a woman holds true.

[freezeplay]

I've thought of it very often. I have worn female lacy thongs and g-strings. I feel very sexy in them. I have a small frame and have a built like a woman. If i'm able to loose my small gut, I may cross dress as as a schoolgirl for halloween.

[jamieknyc]

I do it sometimes, although I couldn't pass. To me it is an occasional thrill. But it *is* fun.

[open2both]

Love doing it!
&
Love "doing" them! :tongue:

[Gearbox]

I think it's weird that we have female&male cloths at all. They are just cloths!
Even so, I prefer males to wear male cloths etc. Daft though really!:tongue:

[Realist]

In college, I had a classmate who was one of the prettiest boys I ever knew.

My GF once dressed him up with her clothes and make up...he was stunning! She was straight/slightly bi-curious, but said if she ever found a girl that pretty, she might just fall in love with her!

I did have sex with him and we were good together. I even asked him to go out with my GF and I, dressed as a girl, but he refused. Of the only very few CD's I've seen in public, he's the only one I thought would actually pass for a girl.

Still, I am not normally attracted to CDs and never thought of doing it, myself.

[bikiniman]

I am a bi woman and I don't see it as weird. I sometimes actually like it, but I am picky about it. I like mini-skirts and thigh highs with closed toed heels. But to each their own. We all have our little quirks and like different things.

Well Said! We all have are own little quirks and like different things! I like wearing women's bikinis and lingerie (in private). Its kinky and fun! Whats wrong with that?

[69luvr]

I'm a guy and no, I don't find it strange either.

In fact, I think a hot CD is........hot.

My first bi experience was with a very passable CD. We had a great experience with on another.

I luv to be with a smoking hot CD. To me that is the best of all worlds. :bipride:

[pantycouple]

I love dressing my husband up, its so fun and turns me on so much. Whats also fun is going shopping together for panties, lingerie, outfits and matching outfits, we get some funny looks at the checkout when we buy matching lingerie or outfits and they are two different sizes. Its just clothing and its really spices things up in the bedroom, more woman should be more open minded and playful in the bedroom, they would get a lot more pleasure from there men if they loosened up a bit. I enjoy how turned on my husband gets when I start to dress him, I know he will be more than willing to please me when I have completed dressing him. Having sex while both dressed feels so good, the combination of the fabrics rubbing together feels so good. Check out our profile for more about us.

[bettycd469]

well I am a CD and have quite abit of fun and sex as one. while I dont think I am pretty , I do think I look sexy. and have never gone out dressed as a girl and not been hit on at the club I was going to and most times on my way there, seem guys see a CD and think , oh boy an easy BJ, well in my case they r usually right lol

[eyeluv2look]

I have played with girls clothing since I was like 10 it comes and goes with me but never did I even think about sex while doing it. I just wanted to feel pretty. I wanted to be someone else for the moment. I have tryed to figure out why i get these urges have faught them but it's wired in my brain. I now have a partner that embraces it. I'm fairly new to the Bi seen but am enjoying it. I love taking pictures as you can see but have yet to dress for sexual reasons. My opinion is most are sexy in thier own way but I wouldn't be intrested in them sexually. Let me be the Gurl and he be the Man :)

[meflash]

I CD for fun & I'm male & staying that way but after a friend that was a suck buddy with asked me to CD I found it was a real rush. I'm not submissive as male but CD I find it very exciting as a sub CD. I have worked on my CD look & do go out to some clubs that have a CD night. Its now a new part of me & enjoy being a bi CD.

[*pan*]

Straight female here. No, I don't think it's weird. I do think it's unfair that a man could grab his wife's robe to answer door and be labeled as something other than normal, yet his wife can grab his shirt or robe and be considered sexy.


So much clothing is unisex these days anyway that most everyone is a crossdresser just to be fashionable.

Would I be worried if my partner decided he wanted to try on my silk panties or see how my lingerie looked? Nope, would I be horny? Probably but that would be after I stopped laughing at him trying to hold up the panties :2cents:

yes it is unfair and i for one never have felt a desire to dress in woman's clothes but have grabbed the wifes robe and slippers to go to the door, i see nothing wrong with it if someone else derives some pleasure from it, it is their life their feelings, their pleasure not mine. only they know how they feel. i think people are too quick to judge. but just because i would not do it dose not mean i believe it's wrong for someone else to do it. and no i don't think it's weird. i have even got turned on by some tranny's who look pretty hot in their woman's clothing lol.....:bipride::soapbox: and this is my :2cents: