CBRFAN
Jun 3, 2006, 3:29 PM
:bipride:
I feel so sad and frustrated and I really need as much advice as I can get, but please (you'll understand why as you read) don't write back to this message, write me e-mails to fancbr @ hotmail.com (without the spaces before/after @)...
Here's why I feel sad and frustrated: I've known for many years that I'm bisexual and I'm proud to be it, I'm 32 years old and in my lifetime I've had very few experiences (sexually speaking) with other men, once I went to a brothel to get sex, you can imagine how much I like sex with men, but my experiences are very few. The reason I feel sad and frustrated is because 8 years ago I moved to my country of birth (Colombia), and if you don't know much about Colombia is a very Macho stereotyped country, where a man MUST be a man otherwise he's not well accepted and opportunities might be missed.
For the past 8 years I've had may one night stands, girlfriends and even 2 live-in girlfriends, but I've always wanted to find either a bisexual girlfriend, a girlfriend who very discreatly agrees with my sexuallity, a group of bisexual friends and/or a bisexual (or top gay) man for fun and adventures, BUT considering my line of work, my family, my friends and the overall general culture here in Colombia it's so hard to find any of these types of relationships.
I want to explore my sexuallity MORE and MORE, but how can I if I have to be SUPER disceet, I can't let just anyone know I'm bisexual, I need to maintain (and this sounds bad but it's true) certain status, I feel like crying when I think of this. I don't want to go back and look for a brothel to find a man who can be my friend and maybe later become a sexual partner, or primarily a girlfriend that accpets my bisexuallity and is open to explore with me with sex toys, I need to be more in touch with my bisexuality, but I feel lost and don't know how to do it.
I've tried placing ads through the internet, I've tried telling one or two close people, I've tried placing ads in the local newspaper, but some people hace adviced me to go to bars, but first I don't like the bar scene and second I can not let myself be seeing at one of those...
WHAT CAN I DO??? please help me, I feel very lonely and sad, I need advices, please from the bottom of my heart help me... thank you.
I feel so sad and frustrated and I really need as much advice as I can get, but please (you'll understand why as you read) don't write back to this message, write me e-mails to fancbr @ hotmail.com (without the spaces before/after @)...
Here's why I feel sad and frustrated: I've known for many years that I'm bisexual and I'm proud to be it, I'm 32 years old and in my lifetime I've had very few experiences (sexually speaking) with other men, once I went to a brothel to get sex, you can imagine how much I like sex with men, but my experiences are very few. The reason I feel sad and frustrated is because 8 years ago I moved to my country of birth (Colombia), and if you don't know much about Colombia is a very Macho stereotyped country, where a man MUST be a man otherwise he's not well accepted and opportunities might be missed.
For the past 8 years I've had may one night stands, girlfriends and even 2 live-in girlfriends, but I've always wanted to find either a bisexual girlfriend, a girlfriend who very discreatly agrees with my sexuallity, a group of bisexual friends and/or a bisexual (or top gay) man for fun and adventures, BUT considering my line of work, my family, my friends and the overall general culture here in Colombia it's so hard to find any of these types of relationships.
I want to explore my sexuallity MORE and MORE, but how can I if I have to be SUPER disceet, I can't let just anyone know I'm bisexual, I need to maintain (and this sounds bad but it's true) certain status, I feel like crying when I think of this. I don't want to go back and look for a brothel to find a man who can be my friend and maybe later become a sexual partner, or primarily a girlfriend that accpets my bisexuallity and is open to explore with me with sex toys, I need to be more in touch with my bisexuality, but I feel lost and don't know how to do it.
I've tried placing ads through the internet, I've tried telling one or two close people, I've tried placing ads in the local newspaper, but some people hace adviced me to go to bars, but first I don't like the bar scene and second I can not let myself be seeing at one of those...
WHAT CAN I DO??? please help me, I feel very lonely and sad, I need advices, please from the bottom of my heart help me... thank you.