If not a Newbie, what am I

[toddr2929]

I am an older bi -- new to this site at 62. Would like to meet someone but want to be honest. I had experiences with three different guys in my teens/20s. One high school, one college, one after college. None lasted very long (3 months tops) but they were great.

However, that was so very long ago. Got married and did not stray (with a man). Have not kissed or sucked a guy in so long. So I feel like a newbie all over again. Still, I have a feeling that giving a blowjob is a little like riding a bicycle--once you learn . . . .

So is there a category for somebody like me? A once and (I hope) future bi?

[Long Duck Dong]

welcome to the site.... and yes there are others like you that are older males that are interested in the bisexual lifestyle.....

grab a chair and a butt or two :tong: and make yourself at home....

some people know of sites that are for older bisexual / males that are looking to make a connection and I am sure that they will gladly share the links with a fellow gentlemen like yourself......

[lizard-lix]

Like LDD said, welcome..

I am kinda in the same place, I'm 55, bi all my life, started with boys first in fact. But I got married to my wonderful wife and have been monogamous for 33 years..

A few years ago, my sexuality seemed to just start looming and I realized that I missed guys and kink... So I've been working it out with my wife, we've amped up our play and kink (with some success, yay!), and she is going to let me find a male fuck buddy (double yay! ...for those who have heard my story for so long, we finally got there just before Christmas, she gave me the play pass, with a few rules, all reasonable, pretty much all for safety, so I am just starting to look for a play pal)...

So I am in the same spot, horny and missing it.

Like you, I have not given a blow job, kissed a guy, or ever flirted (much) in a very long time, but somehow I do think it will all cum back as soon as I open my mouth or get on my knees (or see the right guy).

I'll give us the same title I give us older folks at work who came back to my part of the industry I work in, after doing other things: We are re-treads LOL, we have history, but new footing and are ready to have the rubber hit the road (or, well, in our case, maybe someplace else :bigrin:

But, regardless of the moniker, we're just bi guys, at different points in our passage, about to turn another corner...

So jump in, hang out with us here and good luck on your adventure!

Be safe, have fun!

[Realist]

Ah, Liz and Todd, you're just babies!

Anyway, Welcome Todd!

(LDD's still in diapers)

[lizard-lix]

Ah, Liz and Todd, you're just babies!

Anyway, Welcome Todd!

(LDD's still in diapers)

:bigrin:

But like when we first got married and folks asked 'How Long?' We'd say 6 months, or a year, or some such, and they'd laugh... My response was always 'Ya gotta start somewhere?' :tong:

Ok then, but I guess that makes me a Ba-bi lol

[DuckiesDarling]

Ah, Liz and Todd, you're just babies!

Anyway, Welcome Todd!

(LDD's still in diapers)

I am so not changing them, I don't go in for the age play stuff lol.



Welcome to the site, Todd :)

[tenni]

You are a bisexual man who is returning to same sex play after a long absence. You will be fine and in particular if you meet a guy who matches your desires. Don't worry about a category. Just relax and enjoy.:bigrin:

[ohmymy69]

Sounds like you're a newbie with 30+ years of experience! ;) :bigrin:

[toddr2929]

Hi--

Thanks to everyone for their encouraging words as a re-enter the bi world after a long absence. All good posts--again, thank you.

Lizard-lix, I really appreciated your comments and I am so glad that you have a wife who understands. You are a lucky man. In my case my wife is very religious and comes from a homophobic family. One of the reasons I have held off is that she would never approve. I do not like to do this in secret. But it has gotten harder and harder for me to deny this part of myself. Once you've tasted it, you miss it.

cheers and thanks again,

todd

[Realist]

There are a few older folks, here, who had done the same thing. They'd had experiences early, then went many years living the straight life, then those old urges returned. I never lost them, myself.

One lady, who had just turned 70, when I joined in 2008. She had never been with another female, until after her husband died. She moved in with another widow, so they could share expenses, then became lovers. Her lover had experience, but she had none. She was very pleased with the out-come!

I told her I thought most women her age usually lost their sexual drive. She said hers was stronger than ever, then!

Good for her!