Question for guys about sleeping with guys.

[Gold And Silver]

When having gay sex (receiving), are you meant to cum? I've never slept with a guy before, although I do own some sex toys, and although I like using them, I can't say I've cum or had an orgasm from them. Am I doing something wrong? Any tips?

[allbimyself]

For me at least, almost always, and not always with direct penile stimulation. A pure prostate orgasm is a wonderful thing.

Just need to find ur spot?

Sorry, that's not very helpful.

[globe_user2004]

When having gay sex (receiving), are you meant to cum? I've never slept with a guy before, although I do own some sex toys, and although I like using them, I can't say I've cum or had an orgasm from them. Am I doing something wrong? Any tips?

I always find it hard to cum during a first encounter (that is with different guys of course).

[shy-bi 56]

When having gay sex (receiving), are you meant to cum? I've never slept with a guy before, although I do own some sex toys, and although I like using them, I can't say I've cum or had an orgasm from them. Am I doing something wrong? Any tips?

Don't know...never had any experience...and i have some toys myself...

[jo69guy]

I have had prostate orgasms myself, but as far as ejaculation, I have to have more direct stimulation. Hope this helps. :male:

[hypershot]

Unfortuantely I'm a virgin in that area also, but I have had orgasms from stimulation (toys and things). Never come from it though. You're not alone!

;)

Love Chris
xXx

[Gold And Silver]

Thanks for all the advice, I appreciate it. Another thing I was wondering about, can guys have *multiple* orgasms from receiving, or not?

[hypershot]

Dunno about that one, know we have a g-spot though and it gives one heck of a big orgasm

[jo69guy]

When I was younger, and extreamly aroused, I could stay hard enough after an orgasm, and regain an erection, and shoot-off again in succession, without ever slipping out of my partner.


AHHHHHH Youth!

[gthommo]

In over 20 years of being fucked and fucking other guys I've never known anyone to cum without stimulation elsewhere. We're just not built for it. Take into account that a lot of women don't cum without extra stimulation then you'll see how unlikely it is.

So, no, you're doing nothing wrong. Just use the right/left hand that God gave you and get on with it!

[Sparks]

Yes, it is possible. I know from first hand experience that men can have spontanious ejaculation during anal sex. It's not every time, nor should it be expected. It all boils down to being patient and being in the right comfort zone at the time. For the most part, a bottom is there to please the top. However, with patience and guidance from your partner finding the G spot so to speak (be it a man or a woman) can be quite enjoyable. :2cents:

[mike9753]

I don't think there are "rules". I also don't think there are even guidelines. I would suggest you trust yourself get into the situation both with your head, your heart and more so with your dick. Have fun - don't worry about stuff, except being safe - no exchange of fluids.

[hoseboy88]

Yes, it is possible. I know from first hand experience that men can have spontanious ejaculation during anal sex. It's not every time, nor should it be expected. It all boils down to being patient and being in the right comfort zone at the time. For the most part, a bottom is there to please the top. However, with patience and guidance from your partner finding the G spot so to speak (be it a man or a woman) can be quite enjoyable. :2cents:



yeah..i agree.. the most important thing is guidance from your partner. constant communication is also as equally important. i too had spontaneous ejaculation during anal.

[quest111]

I agree that its hard to have an orgasm with a new guy. I also have trouble getting an erection with out stimulation with a new guy or in a semi public place where I have often had to settle for being bi and married. :2cents:

[Curious2knowmore]

Actually males have an A-spot. not a G-spot. here is a link for more info on the suject of A-spot. If you hit it and stimulate it enough, you will ejaculate w/o stimulating the penis. I've even ejaculated w/o having an erection with the A-spot. http://www.talksexwithsue.com/Aspot.html

[Apleasureseeker]

I'm not very experienced, & I'm not into anal much even as a heterosexual, but after watching a man getting bound & fucked in a European S&M club, I was fascinated. I had a girlfriend who loved dildoes & I surrendered my ass on a few occasions, but didn't get very much out of it, except for driving her wild, and I've always wondered if men cum from fucking, since you don't see that in porn (anybody got any flicks that show it). But then I saw sometihng that got me wondering. I mean, every aspect of male sexuality, from the first time we stroke through every sort of sexual behaviour, involves us doing something, either to ourselves or somebody else. But being passive, fucked, & orgasming from it is totally a differnt concept. Don't know if I'd be comfortable surrendering to it, but...

This is what i saw: Two women brought a submissive male to this bondage club. They tied his wrists & ankles to a sort of a doorframe device(hads overe head), and ome put on a large strap-on (pink jelly & thick!) while the other stripped down & then lubed the rubber cock. The male was quiet but breathong heavily, as the cockwoman got behind him, they were all talking softly & the mood was pretty gentle, as the woman in front put her hands on his outer hips to brace him for the woman behind (I couldn't see her) His cock swelled to half hardness & I could see his foresking was pierced with two barbells that prevented it from retracting (no penile orgasms for him anymore!), although, later when he was fully erect the skin would stretch back enought to expose the opening in his cockhead. He started to rock & grunt, and he girl i ront pushed forward on his hips a the girl behind (presumably) worked to enter him. It seemed like a struggle, not without the sound of pain, but the women worked slowly, stopping & starting, and talking softly the whole time. Finally, his whole body stiffened He became fully, fully erect, and we knew hed been fully penetrated. His body rocked as the fucking found it's rythem, and after a few moments the woman in front release his hips, & stod back to smoke a cigarette & watch. His penis became limp, soft & vulnerable & we could hear her body slapping against his as he took the full length inside him, infront of all of us. It seemed to take forever, but finallyhe begang to breath more heavily & the women began talking to each other, still fucking the entire time. he cockless girl knelt in front of him & began to talk, apparantly coaxing thre orgasm out of him It was excruciatingly slow, but he breathed faster, & his penis began to raise & stiffen, which got a big smile from the gal on her knees. Finally, now painfully hard, with the forskin stretched so tight that the piercings bit into the head of the cock, he began to buck & grunt, the cock bobing up, but still nothing came out. I could feel that he was aching for release, and everyone watching was enjoying the torment. Another few minutes that seemed like hours, a series of grunts form the man & now a bit of panting from the girl on her knees, and he released a torent of thick sperm onto her in a series of ejaculations that continued even after she stood up, and walked behind to help he other pull out of him. They blindfolded him & left him hanging there for a while so that we strangers could examine him. He was covered in sweat, half-hard , with the last few squirts & a flow of pre-cum dripping out of him.

Hot.

[lobo05]

While I have not had the joy of being fucked by a hot stud yet.... I know a litle about the second question,

Ejaculation will slowly exhaust a man how ever a man can become multi orgasmic with out ejaculation. You have to train your body to stop the ejaculation and still experience orgasim, how ever I have been trying for only two months now and have been succesfull twice, amazing!

Having an orgasim with out cumming alows you to stay hard and have more fun, the second time I was succesfull I lasted three orgasims before I lost control.

The book I read was called the multi orgasmic man... I can't remembe the author and the book is loaned out but I definatly recomend looking into it. With ou hesitation I can say the tangible benifit is even if I can not ontrol it yet I have gone from lasting 10 minutes max to at least 20 and even 30 mintues, no complaints there!

[DÆMØN]

wØØt ! Just what I was looking for, the multi's !

I've read about what appears to be a nifty little device called Aneros : http://www.malegspot.com/default.php costs around $66 at CAYA ( Canada's only Co-Op toystore ) Come As You Are. Check it out, I'm getting one soon as I can.

Meanwhiles... edutain me with more of these stories Peeps, its all very educational and whaoh very erotically stimulating if I may say so.

I'd also appreciate feedback from anyone else who's given Aneros a try or is going to consider it. Thanks Bunches.