Women not into oral?

[Bi209]

I'm an oral lover and giving oral to a woman is my favorite thing to do.I don't ask for anything in return or expect anything other than pleasing her.My problem is lately I've run across women who didn't want or enjoy receiving it at all and wouldn't let me lick them.I was stunned and beyond words when I was told it did nothing for them and no thank you.I was like a kid who'd just had his candy stolen...is this just a string of bad luck or ladies do you not like it as much as guys think?

[DuckiesDarling]

Depends on the woman in question. Some are very into it, some are not into it and some really don't get pleasure out of it for various reasons and some of those are medical.

Just relax, I'm sure there are still plenty of women out there for you to enjoy the way you want to enjoy them.

[keefer201]

I've ran into this once and like you I was flabbergasted. Like DD said, it can be for a variety of reasons ranging from the medical to the idea that their religious beliefs or upbringing wouldn't allow it. What is also amazing to me is the fact that there is a good percentage of men who will not go down on a woman. I find that way more stunning than a female not wanting it. Add that factor into what females deal with and when you find one that loves to have her cootie coddled with your mouth and you've got a gig going.

[æonpax]

I'm an oral lover and giving oral to a woman is my favorite thing to do.I don't ask for anything in return or expect anything other than pleasing her.My problem is lately I've run across women who didn't want or enjoy receiving it at all and wouldn't let me lick them.I was stunned and beyond words when I was told it did nothing for them and no thank you.I was like a kid who'd just had his candy stolen...is this just a string of bad luck or ladies do you not like it as much as guys think?

Statistically, it looks to be an age thing; http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html#sexpractices Personally, I don't know of any women who don't like it....unless, there is a medical or health reason.

[Long Duck Dong]

I have had a couple of partners that had no interest in oral sex... it was just not their thing, they had no interest in it.... one did enjoy giving oral to a guy and anal sex... both partners perfered penetration rather than oral sex and both climaxed very easily from penetration but neither of them climaxed from oral sex......

there doesn't need to be a reason for it... just a need to accept that some people enjoy it, some don't

[darkeyes]

Statistically, it looks to be an age thing; http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html#sexpractices Personally, I don't know of any women who don't like it....unless, there is a medical or health reason.

I know of one who didnt.. my Gran, long dead.. harridan, battleaxe and bane of my life, who battered the living daylights out of my cousin when she caught her going down on.... her husband... and who battered hell out of the husband too and told them never to darken her doors ever again. My gran who threw a rock at me when she heard me discussing orally induced orgasms with that same cousin. My Gran who screamed at her priest for daring to suggest that Mary Magdelene wasn't in fact a whore and that the Virgin Mary was most unlikely always to have been a virgin... My Gran who made Maggie Thatcher look like like a nymphomaniac, streetwalker, communist and pacifist and Genghis Khan a saint... my Gran.. who as a young woman is me dressed up (without style) in a 30's costume drama... scary...:eek::(

[jackbirdjay]

My wife of 21 years is not in to getting eaten. She much enjoys a vibrator on her clit than a tongue. Once every blue moon after we fuck she will ask me to lick her clean and of course I am thrilled to do it. Of all my past girl friends I found only one that enjoyed it a lot.

[Realist]

It's amazing to me how different our interests, desires, and needs are. What is a compelling focus for one, may be a total turn-off for another. I've known both genders, some who were fixated on oral sex, while others had no desire for it, at all.

It took me some time, when I first became sexually active, to realize that something that may get one person aroused, will turn another cold. I am the same way and it's soon evident that conflicting desires rarely generate compatibility. It's my opinion that, when a person begins a relationship, regardless of conflicting interests and desires, it is usually bound to fail.

To me, that is why it's important to get to know a potential lover, before you become intimate. The ability to communicate and listen is extremely important, if you care to ensure you and your partner are pleased with your relationship. In my limited experiences, the best results are gained from compatibility, mutual interests, and chemistry, too.

[Moonlight_BHI]

I haven't know a single woman not to like receiving oral. I myself would rather receive than give to a man. I would love to give to a woman though.

[sammie19]

Statistically, it looks to be an age thing; http://www.iub.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html#sexpractices Personally, I don't know of any women who don't like it....unless, there is a medical or health reason.

I know of a number who don't like oral sex, and a few men too. Older people who think missionary, or say they do. My mum tells me I should take the prudish comments of old ladies and gentlemen with a pinch of salt for they too were once young and hot blooded.

There must be some who don't like oral because sex still causes controversy. There are people who think oral sex disgusting or not natural, and some who have had nasty experiences which have put them off. I once worked with a woman who believed sex should only be performed when trying to have a baby and that recreational sex of any kind was not what the good lord intended, and conversely, one who did nothing but practice oral sex and other non penile penetrative things as a form of contraception. It takes all kinds.

[dickhand]

My dear departed enjoyed oral very much . I don't think she had been eaten much before me . At first she couldn't understand me liking her taste and enjoy her coming in my mouth . She was Mexican living in a Military town . A lot of macho to deal with there . She wasn't much for sucking dick either . She changed that on her own . I guess she thought it was only fair since she enjoyed receiving so much . It surprised me that she wanted me to cum in her mouth that first time and everytime she sucked me . I could have her cumming with in two or three minutes . I told her she was a "fast woman" because of that . I loved to mount her while she was still quivering and it wouldn't take me long to unload either . Then to go down and lick her clean and perhaps to another nice cum was not uncommon for us . I have yet to meet a woman who has not enjoyed my oral effort , or a man for that matter .

[littlerayofsunshine]

Some women have insecurities about their vaginas (Sight and Smell). I know I did at one point in my life. Just as men get picked on for the size of their cock or have imaginary fear someone will. Women Do go through the same things usually in high school when they are developing/exploring their own sexuality...

I never wanted a boy/man to see my vagina cause it deviated from what I was told to me normal. Camel Toe being the norm at that time. I definitely didn't want a woman to go down there, because of the same reason and they would know better than any man how a pussy should look. I usually preferred sex in the dark.

It took my husband showing me different vaginas to see I was one of many normals and how he found mine attractive. Now I am more open and expressive with my pussy and not shy when being shared with our lovers.


Now only to convince more people that female ejaculate is not piss and everything will be right as rain. LOL..

[darkeyes]

Some women have insecurities about their vaginas (Sight and Smell). I know I did at one point in my life. Just as men get picked on for the size of their cock or have imaginary fear someone will. Women Do go through the same things usually in high school when they are developing/exploring their own sexuality...

I never wanted a boy/man to see my vagina cause it deviated from what I was told to me normal. Camel Toe being the norm at that time. I definitely didn't want a woman to go down there, because of the same reason and they would know better than any man how a pussy should look. I usually preferred sex in the dark.

It took my husband showing me different vaginas to see I was one of many normals and how he found mine attractive. Now I am more open and expressive with my pussy and not shy when being shared with our lovers.


Now only to convince more people that female ejaculate is not piss and everything will be right as rain. LOL..

'scuse me miss.. can lil tart ask u to cut out chat bout oral sex an just ask for lil fluffin instead? Soz to go off topic... but it has been weeks!!!!!:eek::tong:

[littlerayofsunshine]

'scuse me miss.. can lil tart ask u to cut out chat bout oral sex an just ask for lil fluffin instead? Soz to go off topic... but it has been weeks!!!!!:eek::tong:


Hunny, I can't make any promises, It's been years for me and I have become so accustomed to holding my breath, if I had a chance with you I could be down there for hours without coming up for air :P

[Bi209]

Thank you to all that have replied and given their point of views.I was just amazed at the number of women I've talked to who didn't enjoy getting oral at all.I almost shot coffee out my nose when a good friend said "When a guy goes down on me I'm checking out my nails and thinking about what color I should put on next."

[darkeyes]

Hunny, I can't make any promises, It's been years for me and I have become so accustomed to holding my breath, if I had a chance with you I could be down there for hours without coming up for air :P

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*wafts 'erself wiv 'er paperback copy of the Kapital 2stop boilin ova an evaporatin'*

So much Sunshine an only 1 Ray.. wheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww...

[æonpax]

I like oral but my personal preference is, from other females.

[Darkside2009]

I know of one who didnt.. my Gran, long dead.. harridan, battleaxe and bane of my life, who battered the living daylights out of my cousin when she caught her going down on.... her husband... and who battered hell out of the husband too and told them never to darken her doors ever again. My gran who threw a rock at me when she heard me discussing orally induced orgasms with that same cousin. My Gran who screamed at her priest for daring to suggest that Mary Magdelene wasn't in fact a whore and that the Virgin Mary was most unlikely always to have been a virgin... My Gran who made Maggie Thatcher look like like a nymphomaniac, streetwalker, communist and pacifist and Genghis Khan a saint... my Gran.. who as a young woman is me dressed up (without style) in a 30's costume drama... scary...:eek::(

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So that's where you get the big gob from, I had been wondering. :rolleyes:

[darkeyes]

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So that's where you get the big gob from, I had been wondering. :rolleyes:

The gob.. not the niceness... the niceness is all me..:bigrin:

[Darkside2009]

[QUOTE=littlerayofsunshine;215591]

It took my husband showing me different vaginas to see I was one of many normals and how he found mine attractive...

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Your husband's holiday photographs sound like they might be fun. lol And here is one I took in Italy, as you can see...:tong:

[Darkside2009]

[QUOTE=Realist;215583]

... It's my opinion that, when a person begins a relationship, regardless of conflicting interests and desires, it is usually bound to fail...

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Would you like to try pitching that one more time? :bigrin:


Who would have thought oral sex could afford such amusement? lol :tong:

[Gearbox]

I've never met a woman who didn't like receiving oral, but I did have a gf who wouldn't give it. She licked it once! ONCE!:(

[littlerayofsunshine]

[QUOTE=littlerayofsunshine;215591]

It took my husband showing me different vaginas to see I was one of many normals and how he found mine attractive...

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Your husband's holiday photographs sound like they might be fun. lol And here is one I took in Italy, as you can see...:tong:


More along the lines of This (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showpost.php?p=181217&postcount=17) , But I can see where I left it for the imagination to run amuck :P

[æonpax]

I know of one who didnt.. my Gran, long dead.. harridan, battleaxe and bane of my life, who battered the living daylights out of my cousin when she caught her going down on.... her husband... and who battered hell out of the husband too and told them never to darken her doors ever again. My gran who threw a rock at me when she heard me discussing orally induced orgasms with that same cousin. My Gran who screamed at her priest for daring to suggest that Mary Magdelene wasn't in fact a whore and that the Virgin Mary was most unlikely always to have been a virgin... My Gran who made Maggie Thatcher look like like a nymphomaniac, streetwalker, communist and pacifist and Genghis Khan a saint... my Gran.. who as a young woman is me dressed up (without style) in a 30's costume drama... scary...:eek::(


Yikes! She makes Nurse Ratched look positively saintly.

[æonpax]

I know of a number who don't like oral sex, and a few men too. Older people who think missionary, or say they do. My mum tells me I should take the prudish comments of old ladies and gentlemen with a pinch of salt for they too were once young and hot blooded.

There must be some who don't like oral because sex still causes controversy. There are people who think oral sex disgusting or not natural, and some who have had nasty experiences which have put them off. I once worked with a woman who believed sex should only be performed when trying to have a baby and that recreational sex of any kind was not what the good lord intended, and conversely, one who did nothing but practice oral sex and other non penile penetrative things as a form of contraception. It takes all kinds.

I've met guys who are convinced that the vagina is a filthy organ and others, who complain that it smells like tuna.

A women's normal vaginal pH ranges between 3.8 and 4.5 which means the vagina is acidic and that if there is any odor there, she should see a doctor and keep away from them "feminine hygiene" concoctions.

[wetnude]

I'm an oral lover and giving oral to a woman is my favorite thing to do.I don't ask for anything in return or expect anything other than pleasing her.My problem is lately I've run across women who didn't want or enjoy receiving it at all and wouldn't let me lick them.I was stunned and beyond words when I was told it did nothing for them and no thank you.I was like a kid who'd just had his candy stolen...is this just a string of bad luck or ladies do you not like it as much as guys think?
I have the same experience.when I was single it was not easy to find a woman interested in oral.now I am married nothing has changed...still no oral. I have to go out to get /give a suck. Why is oral sex so good,why does our cock love being sucked sooooooooo much? It was made to be sucked in my opinion.To have our cocks sucked is a bonus.

[littlerayofsunshine]

I have the same experience.when I was single it was not easy to find a woman interested in oral.now I am married nothing has changed...still no oral. I have to go out to get /give a suck. Why is oral sex so good,why does our cock love being sucked sooooooooo much? It was made to be sucked in my opinion.To have our cocks sucked is a bonus.

Honey, Nuuuuu. It's not the same experience. The OP is referencing why women may be less likely to desire or respond positively to receiving oral sex. Not that women are void of giving Oral sex overall. Even when I didn't enjoy receiving oral sex I would go down in a heartbeat and relish every minute.

[tomishere]

From my perspective I say thank god it's rare to find a women who doesn't like receiving oral.

[innaminka]

From my perspective I say thank god it's rare to find a women who doesn't like receiving oral.

I would concur, but at the same time it is quite a reality that some women do have insecurities about the
*shape
*colour
*smell
* taste
of their vaginas.

It does inhibit some women. It's just I've never really had to deal with a girl with hangups.

[tomishere]

I would concur, but at the same time it is quite a reality that some women do have insecurities about the
*shape
*colour
*smell
* taste
of their vaginas.

It does inhibit some women. It's just I've never really had to deal with a girl with hangups.
I have it's amazing how many women worry about taste, smell and looseness. What they don't know is their taste, smell, color, lips, tightness or looseness is what makes each one special. I have loved the vagina on every women I have ever known because each had their own special taste and smell. And each had their own sensation when I was inside of them.

[dickhand]

Insecurity seemed to be my wifes problem as well . As I mentioned before she got over it . Someone mentioned "female" products and it reminded me of something I wanted to mention last time . She was so selfconscious about her odor that she used to use FDS after bathing or showering . Talk about dry mouth !!! Had to convince her that she did not smell bad and did not need it . She thought her feet smelled bad too . I loved smelling her toes while humping away in her pussy . I can say she was very comfortable with herself at the end , extra pounds wrinkles and all . Never did stop coloring her damn hair though ! Would have loved to have her naturally grey . couldn't begrudge her the one vanity .

[Fun guy 6969]

I'm an oral lover and giving oral to a woman is my favorite thing to do.I don't ask for anything in return or expect anything other than pleasing her.My problem is lately I've run across women who didn't want or enjoy receiving it at all and wouldn't let me lick them.I was stunned and beyond words when I was told it did nothing for them and no thank you.I was like a kid who'd just had his candy stolen...is this just a string of bad luck or ladies do you not like it as much as guys think?

whats the difference if she does not like it don't do it.