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cornholejoe
Nov 10, 2011, 1:15 PM
anyone ever had any sex with a trannie

mooon
Nov 10, 2011, 2:01 PM
No, I have not.
But I would love to.

I am very turned on by the pictures of MTF transexuals with beautiful feminine bodies and hard cocks.
I would love to have one top me. Its a great fantasy!
But it seems that many are bottom only, and may not even get hard due to the drugs & hormones.

I know that most transexuals are sensitive about being treated as sex objects. I have never met one in a social situation, so I don't know how to ever make it happen.

rukiddingme
Nov 10, 2011, 5:42 PM
Being bi inclined, my attraction to transexuals is by far the strongest. All my experiences have been with women, and more than the act of sex, I love passionate touches and kissing. But I don't find the same desire or attraction for that with a man. With a transexual (not CD), I would feel more comfortable and aroused with her...to kiss and touch as I would any female lover.

drawingboard3
Nov 10, 2011, 5:57 PM
Yes, I have. More than once.

DonDisner
Nov 10, 2011, 5:59 PM
I had the occasion to have sex with a couple of asian transsexuals in Singapore back in the early 70's.

All they were interested in was being bottoms and as hard (no pun intended!) as I tried they were not able to achieve an erection so I'm afraid what mooon said is a valid observation.

However, one day I hope to visit Thailand again and have a fling with a ladyboy who is capable of getting a hardon. I have seen many video clips of them wanking and being tops.

I too am extremely fascinated by beautiful transsexuals and often fantasize about being with them.

transcendMental
Nov 10, 2011, 6:19 PM
Are you sure it's transsexuals you are attracted to? Or is it the classical image of a hermaphrodite?

I am a M2F transsexual. But to look at me (yes, even without clothes), you wouldn't see much (if any) difference from a natural-born woman, except maybe that my breasts aren't as fully developed.

When I had a penis, I had no interest in a man touching it or doing anything with it. The whole concept was distressing, not because of my sexuality, but because that part of my body was foreign to me; something that did not belong.

And after a few months on female hormones, erections became painful and very difficult to maintain.

I could be wrong, but I really don't think this is what people who want sex with a transsexual are after. Sex with someone who is chronically unhappy with their body and how people interact with them in their lives, to the point they are willing to turn their lives upside-down to remedy the situation? And after we do that and reach a point where our bodies align with our souls, and finally begin to be whole and complete people, it seems to me that this is when fantasizers lose all interest in us. No more cock? Hardly worth your time, are we?

No, the fantasies described here and in other similar threads sound like something else: an idealized version of a sexy woman with a fully functional penis. Hearing these fantasies, but having lived the reality of dysphoria, transition and surgery, I find it hard not to see it as simple objectification of the body.

I'd love to be told I'm wrong about this.

want2havefun
Nov 10, 2011, 6:54 PM
You might be reading too much into what others want and why.
Some just like the idea of a girl with a penis....nothing more.
Or maybe just because its 'different', or 'naughty' etc.
It can be a simple fetish like any other one.

æonpax
Nov 10, 2011, 8:21 PM
I did. Once. She was a post-op. It was.....different. ;)

LastGent
Nov 10, 2011, 8:26 PM
I agree with transcendMental's concerns; all the posts I have read about 'shemale' porn or the ads I've seen about someone wanting "the best of both" (=trannie) convey the idea that persons with atypical genitilia are not humans but novelty sex toys. It is always assumed that persons with a transsex condition are bigenders-persons who are simultaneously two sexes (m/w; m/o; w/o ['o' is for 'onu', a third sex term I created for English using etymological methods]). Folk are still stuck in the Iron Age on this issue: my ancestors worshiped images of persons with weird looking genitals because they were believed to embody the union of two sexes. Guess a lot of folk here are from the same cultural milieu. This, though, does not apply to real people; very, very few humans are bigenders of any sort, you are more likely to bump into an onu. Then, even if you do find a bigender, they are more likely to be alternating sorts, simultaneous bigenders are even rarer. Folk with a transsex condition, an intersex condition or whatever else are simply, boringly, the biological sexes they know themselves to be. For what reasons it is believed that genital shape or chromosomes have anything to do with one's sex I cannot understand, and the idea that such a person is whatever sex you want them to be at the moment for your personal sexual gratification is a crime against humanity. If you want the "best of both" you need to have a sex orgy with biological males and females present. The whole concept of "trannie" needs to become obsolete-folk are not their medical diagnoses!

rukiddingme
Nov 11, 2011, 6:56 AM
... "best of both" you need to have a sex orgy with biological males and females present

Why does this situation have to be the only condition? Agree with want2havefun. It can be an individual choice (or non choice) who one is attracted to. Mine is more than the physical act of sex, but what happens outside of sex too. Holding hands, kissing, maybe going to dinner, coffee shop, or a movie. Looking across the table and seeing a male figure for some may be what is their attraction. For me not so much. But attracted to one who feels like a girl, looks like a girl, and wants to be "treated" like a girl- Yes a girl with a penis. I know some men and women feel more comfortable with the same sex and court their partner just as heterosexuals do the opposite sex. When holding hands, I want to look at her as a girl, and as which she she feels as girl in all aspects, only with a penis. All appearances to the observing world would see a "typical" boy/girl couple. And how we are intimate and with what parts we have are between the two of us.

Ms Baby
Nov 11, 2011, 8:19 AM
anyone ever had any sex with a trannie

Yes, I have. But I had to crawl under the car and drop it first! :tong:

But seriously folks, the answer is "Yes!"

othercat
Nov 11, 2011, 8:57 AM
not yet. it is definetly on my "to do" list!

Michigan_cpl
Nov 11, 2011, 1:12 PM
no i have not, but sure would love too

want2havefun
Nov 11, 2011, 1:33 PM
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Why does this situation have to be the only condition?...It can be an individual choice (or non choice) who one is attracted to.

Exactly.
In the LGBT arena there is sometimes a tendency to politicize things that are not political in nature in order to fit an 'agenda'.
There can also be tendency to read some deep social or mental implication into something that is nothing more than a mere personal sexual 'taste', 'fetish', 'interest', choice...etc
Such tendencies, whether in the LGBT or Str8 world, fail to consider the complex, individual, and fluid nature of human sexuality and our ability to simply like/enjoy or dislike/not enjoy something at any given time for no specific reason.

69luvr
Nov 11, 2011, 2:26 PM
You might be reading too much into what others want and why.
Some just like the idea of a girl with a penis....nothing more.
Or maybe just because its 'different', or 'naughty' etc.
It can be a simple fetish like any other one.

agreed! I love the idea of a penis on a very good looking woman. I love the feel of a hard one in my hand and beyond!

cornholejoe
Nov 11, 2011, 3:09 PM
well i have had it and have enjoyed it :bigrin:

transchk
Nov 11, 2011, 9:40 PM
I think bi guys want sex with "trannys" because they want cock but don't want anyone to know. As long as you can tell yourself you are having sex with a girl, but you still get cock, you're happy! You want all your friends to think you're all about the pussy, but really you want secret cock. That's why trans girls get killed or beat up, not because the guy finds out she has a dick, but because his friends found out she has a dick. If bi guys would man up and admit they like dick, they wouldn't have to lie to themselves, and everyone else! And by wanting a girl with a dick, you are not respecting her as a woman, you want a guy that looks like a woman!

dickhand
Nov 12, 2011, 8:15 AM
I have been with a female to male a few times . Love it . Would do it more if he wasn't in a commited realtionship now . It certainly is different . I am cyber friends with a male to female . Not more because she is into S&M and that just doesn't do anything for me . But I would love to connect with a male to female someday . Saw a spread in Hustler one time that had a roman centurian and two beautiful blond wenches . A little ways into the pictorial it was revealed that one of the ladys was packing meat . I was hooked after that . These were the result of being on AFF . I doubt if I ever would have had the opportunity to talk to or meet without the net .

bityme
Nov 12, 2011, 8:04 PM
I have only had experience with M2F transgendered individuals. I have had great experiences with pre-op ladies with functional penises as well as non-functional and with post-op ladies.

In each case, the attraction for me was their personality first, not the fact that they were transgendered. Most of the time the attraction was present even before I knew they were transgendered and in a couple of group party situations I found out after intimate contact had already begun. Each lady was different, had their own unique desires and responded in different ways.

I have not found that there is any set practice that would constitute "trannie sex."

Pappy

LastGent
Nov 12, 2011, 10:33 PM
TestiFYYY transchk! I agree with that, a lot of women who have a transsex condition think they simply have a long clitoris and saggy ovaries. I have also heard that some homosexual males use them to transition to a full-time homosexual lifestyle-they're not sure they should divorce their wives so they'll try it out "halfway" first. Disgusting! You know, you tranny fetish folk, having an intersex or transsex condition does not make this person's genitals a blank slate, and you can just randomly decide whether to perform fellatio or cunnilingus on the same person based on what season you're in. The biological sex she or he tells you he or she is determines whether you can perform fellatio or cunnilingus on that person, not his or her genital structure. Your outdated ideas on this matter is what is keeping folk born with these conditions from having equal rights in this country.

roy m cox
Nov 13, 2011, 12:24 AM
not yet. it is definetly on my "to do" list!

same :bigrin:

maxtor
Nov 13, 2011, 2:36 AM
i have adorned trannies all my mature life and always wanted to establish a serious relationship with one and live as man and wife but my military career stood in the way as male/male contact was scorned and punished and tossed out of the military. i know i missed out on what i really wanted but i also had a career to think about.

i am still looking for that TS/tv/tg to establish a relationship and see where it goes from there. i would want a trannie that would be a woman 24/7 and act as a woman 24/7 but times we could be doing things would require the male to come out to help out doing things. i would want her to be a pre-op for sure cause i enjoy playing with genitals and further into the relationship we would talk about going post op and gain a real woman with a functioning pussy and all. that would be some great times i would imagine being there for her and sexual contact satisfying both with our penisis and then being there for the post op surgery and helping her to recover just as a man should with a woman. i would be gaining a real woman that functions as normal vaginial sex which would be great. knowing that she used to be a man and now a woman sexually turns me on tremendously. we would be living as man and wife with few knowing the real story of us. she would be treated just as a woman from the old school of ettiquete and be loved just as she was always a woman.

this has always been my plight but i havent found that person. i would like to find a closet ts/tv/tg to date without knowledge of her community that she is a ts/tv/tg whereas we would have to leave that community to somewhere she is not known. we would be somewhere that she could start as wife/significant other and never will be known as a genetic male so thats why i want one that wants to be a woman 24/7.

maybe one day i could find one but with my age, there are very few out there in that catagory but never know. i may get lucky....

LastGent
Nov 13, 2011, 1:25 PM
In light of maxtor's post, I wonder if anyone ever reads my posts or those of the females with a transsex condition in this thread.
maxtor, the reason why you haven't found the woman of your dreams is because you don't want a woman, what you are describing is a bigender person, who alternates between being female and letting the "male come out", as you put it. I'm not sure about the percentages these days, but a lot of women with a transsex condition were never biological males-they knew they were female from the day they were born and simply wanted cosmetic surgery to make themselves prettier, like women everywhere now adays. To fulfill your dream in all its detail, you would need to find a really old person, sixty-something, a man who lived the perfect male life-wife, kids, who suddenly awoke one morning and wanted a sex change. This also happens to a lot of folk.
It sounds to me like you fantasize about being an invisible homosexual, when you say "no one would know the real story of us". In your view, you would be engaging in homosexual acts while everyone thought it was heterosexual. You also use the phrase "genetic male", which you never define. Sir, there is no way to determine, with any certainty, what the biological sex of a person is, short of asking that person. There is no DNA test, nor physical structure that can determine this. Clearly you have never come into contact with the Intersex Society of North America. I think it was through their website that I found a link to a scientific paper regarding recent discoveries about 'genetic sexing' and the lack of its dependability. Just read any of their stuff, then come back here and tell us what a "genetic male" is.

rukiddingme
Nov 13, 2011, 2:34 PM
Actually Lastgent there are DNA test to determine ones sex. A quick search:

Maria Jose Martinez-Patino, lost her first place finish in the 60-meter hurdles in Spain's 1986 national championships after an earlier test showed that she had a male's XY chromosomes instead of a female's XX chromosomes, and more recently Santhi Soundarajan lost her 800-meters silver medal upon failing a gender test at the Doha Asian Games in 2006.

But science aside, maybe some guys just want what they want. A female in all accounts yet still has a penis. If you haven't noticed here and many similar sites like this, tastes, desires, fantasies, and desires are so varied. Each person has their individual reasons to choose why.

transcendMental
Nov 13, 2011, 6:19 PM
LastGent, I appreciate your support, but I have to disagree with the notion that there are a lot of folk out there who just wake up one day and want a sex change. I'm not naive enough to suggest that this has never happened, but if so, then it's pretty rare and extremely ill-advised (in fact, no sane US surgeon would work with such a person, since it would fall drastically outside the Standards of Care for transsexuals).

Generally, anybody who is looking to transition (with or without surgery) has had it preying on their mind for years and years (unless we're talking about a young child who has always been aware of being the wrong sex, in which case "years and years" is slightly too strong).

rukidding, yes, there are tests that can figure out our chromosomal makeup. But they are really expensive, and really beyond the point, since there are XX persons born with a penis, XY persons born with a vagina, about 30 other chromosomal possibilities (that science currently knows about), and lots of physical possibilities for each, so I'm not sure of the use is of knowing.

Myself, I have no idea whether I was born XX or XY, and I'm pretty sure nobody else on this thread knows whether they were either. I know only that I was dubbed male at birth, figured out slowly and painfully that this wasn't the case, and finally in my 40s started to do something about it. The notion that someone finds something sexually arousing about the miserable and painful in-between state I was in for a while gives me the creeps.

But I know this is my issue, that such people exist, and that most women deal with some people thinking creepy things about them. I'm not condemning anyone. I brought it up only to shed some reality on the fantasy, and to help people who are seeking this Holy Grail realize how some of the people they think embody their goal actually feel about that goal.

tm

PrettyFlowingGown
Nov 13, 2011, 6:38 PM
i've been with 2 trannies, one i payed for in hollywood on holiday and one in sydney a few years ago. both beautifuyl experiences. i love beautiful breasts, soft smooth skin, and then a gorgous penis, below. the perfect woman in my opinion. i dont like pussy at all. i've had a few cd's too, but nowhere as good as a tranny. they are lovely, but you have to find a very beautiful one, which i did.

LastGent
Nov 13, 2011, 6:59 PM
Well, my comment about old transsexuals, transcendMental, is based on some memoirs I read and a parent I conversed with in my PFLAG days. This mother I was talking went to some gender support groups and all the mothers there, when talking about their sons in transition, said they didn't become dysphoric until their forties, and this article in a magazine about a school teacher I think, who didn't think anything was wrong until she was in her fifties. Maybe they're "clueles" , in the same way as "clueless" lesbians I met-women who spent the first forty years of their lives wondering why the sex sucked, why their marriages never worked-until a female roommate wants to play with them then they're like "oh, so that's the problem".
I think with these tranny fetish dudes (and they are all men, aren't they?), they might of had a dream about such a formed person, and it was the best wet dream they ever had or something, so they want to find the real thing. I must admit I've had a few dreams about persons of indeterminate sex, but I don't confuse these fantasies with what might be real. A case in point: I once dreamed of a person with a typical vulva, but the rest of the body looked like The Terminator. This suggests there are functioning testes somewhere in this person except for the fact dreamy here had an itsy-bitsy clitoris, which would not be the case with high testosterone levels. Some here might think "trannyman porn!" but men with a transsex condition have micropenes. Great dream sex, but it is very unlikely that such a person could in fact exist. So I don't go looking for specific genital structures to have sex with, and being a pansexual anyway, physical appearance is a nonissue to me. Definitely going to commit to weeding out folk who fantasize about "tranny sex" from my pool of prospective mates.
Thank you for thanking me, madam, I was wondering if my ideas made any sense to anyone else; whether I had got it wrong or if I was a thousand years ahead of my time. You may critique anything else I've said if you like.

the sacred night
Nov 13, 2011, 9:05 PM
I have slept with a transwoman, although she hadn't had any surgery, so she essentially still looked like a man.

It's not even specifically transpeople I'm attracted to; I just really like people who are open-minded about gender and able to accept and express it in nontraditional ways. My current heartthrob is a straight, cissexual man, but the biggest thing that attracts me to him is his willingness to explore his identity and interests without concern for whether those things are "manly" or whatever, and to treat me as no different from him despite the different shapes of our crotches.

the sacred night
Nov 13, 2011, 9:16 PM
The notion that someone finds something sexually arousing about the miserable and painful in-between state I was in for a while gives me the creeps.

Some transpeople don't consider it a miserable in-between state, though. Some choose only top surgery, or only hormones, or various other options that don't leave them looking like cissexuals, and choose to stay there. One of the most attractive transpeople I've seen was a transman who was muscular and traditionally "manly" looking except for his vulva. Hormones had enlarged his clitoris, but he chose not to have a penis constructed.

I agree with the rest of what you said and I don't support objectifying transpeople (or anyone) whether they fit some kind of fetishized stereotype or not. I just wanted to point out that not everyone minds the in-between state :2cents:

rukiddingme
Nov 13, 2011, 9:55 PM
Transend, I agree there are multiple possibilities for ones DNA which they have no choice, and also understand individuals may not have choice in their philological makeup. My point was simply a rebuttal to a test. I have meet someone who is transgendered, but will not discuss their personal business here out of respect and simply not my place. However my larger point was to state that a individual attraction does not have to be definable or have some deep seated underpinnings.

ErosUrge
Nov 13, 2011, 9:58 PM
yes and it was very good.........

dbltrbl69
Nov 14, 2011, 1:51 AM
Back to the "REAL" question... No we haven't but its our biggest fantasy, won't find one of those sexy beauties anywhere around here though.

transchk
Nov 14, 2011, 2:27 PM
Here's a video for you. Watch and learn!

http://youtu.be/mDX9zGQweaU

æonpax
Nov 14, 2011, 2:53 PM
The transperson I dated for about a month, was beautiful. She was a mix of Asian and white, with smooth, unblemished, almost translucent skin. Emotionally, she was as skittish as colt, when we first met. She still had her original plumbing, which if you could not see, you'd swear she was "natural", so to speak.

Our breaking apart started when she wanted to impregnate me, which I had no problem with IF it tied together our relationship. While we did have sex with that in mind, she told me she didn't want a long term relationship with me...and that, was that.

The sex was....excellent.

bitopman
Nov 14, 2011, 2:59 PM
I have had sex with both a MTF and FTM tranny. I have enjoyed it many times and hope to continue it down the line. I highly recommend it, but becareful though there are a lot of them out there who just want to be paid. If you look carefully enough you'll be able to find someone for a lasting relationship.

OscarG
Jan 25, 2012, 2:20 PM
I dated a transgendered woman for awhile. She takes female hormones and testosterone suppressant. I'm not into topping, I had to get drunk the first time I did her and a pretty good buzz going thereafter.

The poor girl is 6'3" and no way is passable even with full makeup, hairdo, and clothes, although she does look passable in some photos.

bibiboy
Mar 28, 2012, 12:58 PM
... "best of both" you need to have a sex orgy with biological males and females present

Why does this situation have to be the only condition? Agree with want2havefun. It can be an individual choice (or non choice) who one is attracted to. Mine is more than the physical act of sex, but what happens outside of sex too. Holding hands, kissing, maybe going to dinner, coffee shop, or a movie. Looking across the table and seeing a male figure for some may be what is their attraction. For me not so much. But attracted to one who feels like a girl, looks like a girl, and wants to be "treated" like a girl- Yes a girl with a penis. I know some men and women feel more comfortable with the same sex and court their partner just as heterosexuals do the opposite sex. When holding hands, I want to look at her as a girl, and as which she she feels as girl in all aspects, only with a penis. All appearances to the observing world would see a "typical" boy/girl couple. And how we are intimate and with what parts we have are between the two of us.

I absolutely agree with this!

cbj4162
Mar 29, 2012, 6:00 AM
no ..... and want to!

open2both
Mar 29, 2012, 6:12 PM
O-M-G!
FAB-U-LOUS!!
Thank gawd L.A. is LOADED with 'em and they're ALL good... TO THE LAST DROP!
My dream is one day relocate to Thailand aka GORGEOUS TRANNY HEAVEN!

wanderingrichard
Mar 30, 2012, 7:46 PM
I have only had experience with M2F transgendered individuals. I have had great experiences with pre-op ladies with functional penises as well as non-functional and with post-op ladies.

In each case, the attraction for me was their personality first, not the fact that they were transgendered. Most of the time the attraction was present even before I knew they were transgendered and in a couple of group party situations I found out after intimate contact had already begun. Each lady was different, had their own unique desires and responded in different ways.

I have not found that there is any set practice that would constitute "trannie sex."

Pappy

Same here. Cat into'd me to a lady several years ago and there was an immediate attraction. Only after we got nekkid and intimate did i realize she was transitioning... It doesn't matter. period.

cbj4162
Mar 30, 2012, 8:27 PM
no i have not ..... yet! wud luv 2! .... sign me up!

redngoldpride
Mar 31, 2012, 8:47 AM
Yes I have , It is my preference at the age of 14 i had a gf who has a very passable crossdressing brother and i was so taken with him....in short the three of us had a very hot intimate relationship that was just awesome. I have been hooked on crossdressers , transvestites , transexuals , shemales ever since . I not only love sex with these beautiful people but spending time with them such as going out to movies , clubs , dinner , dancing . Like i said it is my preference ever since my first experience and i have and do throughly enjoy this lifestyle along with swinging for many...many years with no regrets

dafydd
Apr 2, 2012, 1:23 AM
never met a transgendered person or transvestite who liked being called 'tranny'. trans members on this site shouldnt have 2 read school boy toilet-wall lingo like that. (unless theyve requested as such of course). ever had faggot or lezzo sex anyone? ok hold on, who hasnt? what 'bout faggotty tranny sex? ermm...

dafydd
Apr 2, 2012, 3:29 AM
I dated a transgendered woman for awhile. She takes female hormones and testosterone suppressant. I'm not into topping, I had to get drunk the first time I did her and a pretty good buzz going thereafter. The poor girl is 6'3" and no way is passable even with full makeup, hairdo, and clothes, although she does look passable in some photos. maybe its hard for anyone *not* to look manniish next to you. just saying

gr8tbut
Apr 2, 2012, 10:48 AM
no i have not, but sure would love too

ohbimale
Apr 3, 2012, 4:55 AM
I have never had the opportunity. I admit I would like the opportunity to have an ongoing relationship with a M to F transsexual person as either lovers or friends with benefits. Not because I am trying to fool the world. Most of my friends know I prefer a man in my bed naked next to me, but because I find transexual M to F people very alluring.

Samantha Sabrina
Apr 4, 2012, 4:52 PM
If someone is wanting to have sex with someone like me, (Non-Op M2F TG), it is not that they want sex with a "Tranny", but just a "Cock in a skirt".

A "True" M2F TG having had surgery would no longer have a cock/penis, thus she would be just like any natural born female.

A "True" F2M TG having had surgery would no longer have a pussy/vagina, thus he would be just like any natural born male.

I live 24/7 as a female, but I have had no surgery, nor do I plan on it, and for me finding men to date that want me for me as a female, (for me to do/play my part as a female), and not as a "Cock in a skirt" has been more than frustrating.

I more or less started out thinking of myself as a CD, (Crossdresser), but as time has passed I have come to realize I am much more than that, although I have never considered that I was a woman trapped in a man's body, I have come to realize I am 50/50 and just as if not more comfortable being a female as a male.

Unless someone sees me without clothing on or I tell them nobody knows I am not a real female.

The dating thing as I have experienced it goes something like this:

Gay men are not interested in CD/TG/TS, they want MEN!

Bi men interested in someone like me are looking for the best of both worlds....Thus a "Cock in a skirt"....Which I am NOT!

Straight men that "might" be interested in someone like me mostly just have a "Fantasy" that lasts just long enough to get off and then they have "Buyer's remorse" so to speak, (as in they feel like they have made a poor choice or something).

Of the few guys I have actually dated and had sex with I will say the straight guys are far less likely to show any interest in the male part of me, but the down side is stated above, thus they all turn out to be hit and runs, one time thing, ect.

This post is not intended to lump all men together as I am more than certain there are some guys out there that would date some like me for me as me and not as a "Cock in a skirt".

To our members that have had SRS and made the complete transition be it M2F or F2M, you have my complete support and respect.

I will not comment on the "Trannies" or "Shemales" in porn videos and movies, that is another subject for another time, lol.

Huggggggggggggs

Samantha

wanderingrichard
Apr 4, 2012, 8:39 PM
Yes, I have. But I had to crawl under the car and drop it first! :tong:

But seriously folks, the answer is "Yes!"
was that automatic or stick?:bigrin:

AngeLove32
Apr 5, 2012, 8:03 AM
Well it has been mentioned that sum men might B Turned On By A Classic Hermaphrodite, but what about Intersexed in My Case I Am!!! I Am By Far A Man & A Transexual Female Although I Still Am Pre~Op I Still Have2 Go through the Basic Essential Steps2 Get the Surgery Jus like A Transexual Female NOT2 Mentioned $20,000 that1 has2 come up with4 the initial surgery itself!!! I Am A Rare Breed Of Intersexed Female cuz Fortunely I Was Born with An Xrtra Female Chromosome Called Xxy Thus Y I look the way I do & I Also Have A Sexy Profound Females Voice2 boot!!! It Has Been My Xperience that The Men that I've been with in My Past All Tell Me That It's Very Natural Like They were with A Natural Female!!! O They Don't Call My Penis A Penis in fact they call it My Clit inwhich I Perfer if they Chose2 Oblige which Every1 Seems2 Enjoy it More Cuz That's What A Clit Is Anyways!!! It's A Small Penis & the Vagina is jus a penis turned inside the body cavity!!! When I Moan it's Very Intense cuz the Harder & Faster U Go I tend2 Moan Louder & Louder which In All Cases U Men Get Turned On Even More!!! I Still Have2 Take Female Hormones cuz I My Body Wasn't Producing Enuf!!! Even tho I was Born With Fallopian Tubes & Ovaries My Body Neva Developed Any Eggs so I had2 have a Partial Hysterectomy when I was Younger!!! My Breast Developed Very Natural & Very Quickly!!! For A Transexual Female She has2 take Hormones4 a yr thru2 yrs, but there Aureolas Doesn't Develope with the Growth of the Breast!!! They have2 have Another Hormone Called Pro~Esterogen2 Develope the Aureolas4 Another yr. Howeva I was Lucky2 Have Mine Start Growing in3 months & by 8 months NOT Only Have My Breast Developed in that short span, but so have My Aureolas as well & I'm A BeaUtifu C~Cup bcuz of the Women in My Life Have Larger Breast so I Was Fortunate2 have C~Cup inwhich the Guys lOve Them Hehehehe!!! Anywho, All of the Men I've been with All Say the same thing "THAT IT FEELS JUS LIKE THE REAL THING CUZ IT'S MORE NATURAL4 THEM HEHEHEHEHE!!! U Gotta lOve that Body UR In Always!!! <3

69luvr
Apr 5, 2012, 2:06 PM
There is a great place in Lexington for you!

lolguy
Apr 5, 2012, 10:45 PM
Yes. In Philippines on a couple of occasions, and recently in US which was a very pleasant experience at a party with a pre-op Tgurl who had sprouted nice breasts, but still had a very active 7-inch clit. Yummy.

abrim
Apr 6, 2012, 3:59 PM
I have not ! and i sure would like to have sex with one or two. along with having sex with a morphedite if i could find one!

abrim
Apr 6, 2012, 4:01 PM
:rolleyes: I'm open for most anything !

someguy00
Apr 7, 2012, 5:24 AM
You know, it trips me out every time this subject comes up. The general consensus always seems to be that if a man wants to have sex with a M2F transsexual, it's objectification. Has anyone considered that some M2F types get hormone therapy and implants but choose not the have the full on surgery? And is it fair to assume that anyone who wants to have sex with these people only sees them as sex objects? Perhaps one could be sexually and emotionally attracted to a person of that description. Perhaps someone could only be sexually attracted and the transsexual is OK with that and only wants sex and not a relationship.

Just because a dude would like to have sex with someone who "defies" gender, doesn't make him a perverted freak. Why does nearly every single thread on this site end up being about people victims of alleged persecution? I swear, some people just have a need to feel like everyone's out to get them in order to feel important.

Here's an idea. Let people be free to explore their sexuality in their own way, and if another person goes along with it, it's all good. To put it another way, if your opinion doesn't match that of another, maybe you should leave it alone and mind your own fucking business.

ohmymy69
Apr 7, 2012, 6:17 AM
You know, it trips me out every time this subject comes up. The general consensus always seems to be that if a man wants to have sex with a M2F transsexual, it's objectification. That may be your consensus but I don't see that pattern...is this possibly a case of oversensitivity or do you mean that's the consensus outside of this site?


I agree with your admonition to those of less understanding/open mindedness to allow consensual individuals of differing tastes/interests to pursue those same interests without suffering judgement from others. However the reality is that some people will never look for anything else to fill their time up with except judging those around them. That type of judgmental attitude is an emotional hole that can't be filled no matter how much they put others down, their own sense inferiority/insecurity will rarely allow them to "judge" their own actions clearly enough to stop so any effort to explain the above falls on deaf ears.

"Mind your own fucking business" is pretty harsh and judgmental if pointed selectively at someone! That also further negates any attempt at "educating" anyone!

Long Duck Dong
Apr 7, 2012, 6:45 AM
when I first came to the site, I was pretty open to the idea of being with a trans person.... and yes, as a long term partner.... cos I find some trans people to be the most interesting and amazing people... yes people, not trans / trannys / shemale etc but people... cos thats how I see them and a number of people posted in the threads about my honest and open understanding of the trans community as people......but back then you could talk about that aspect of sexuality and being sexual with a person....

what happened between then and now.... is simply a case of what I started to refer to as * poor trans syndrome *... every mention of a trans person, had to be about the issues of being trans, how trans suffered, how trans were objectified, how trans were victims etc etc etc..... and we started to lose the view of trans people as lovers, partners, husbands and wives..... and any mention of sex with a trans person, got a lecture about how trans were viewed as sex objects and treated like pieces of meat......

the damage was done cos people were not allowed to talk about their love of trans people and the experiences that they had had with trans people and thats why we have got to the point now.... where the trans voice in the site is mostly quiet... its a dammed shame that the need to push trans as victims every bloody time they were mentioned in the site... has resulted in the loss of the trans voice about how they are people too and people that enjoy sex with other people and how they are partners of other people and loved dearly.......

crying bloody shame if you ask me....

edmann35
Apr 7, 2012, 7:15 AM
YES!!!!!
was the best blow job EVER!!

john_jenn26
Apr 7, 2012, 7:31 AM
I love the thought of being with an intersexed. my girlfriend and I would love to be with one together. My profile says it all about what we would like. If there are any out there would love for one to contact us so that we could have the chance in meeting with one and get intimate. But with anybody"s sexual preference is their choice. Everyone should be happy with whatever they want to be...

darkeyes
Apr 7, 2012, 10:22 AM
when I first came to the site, I was pretty open to the idea of being with a trans person.... and yes, as a long term partner.... cos I find some trans people to be the most interesting and amazing people... yes people, not trans / trannys / shemale etc but people... cos thats how I see them and a number of people posted in the threads about my honest and open understanding of the trans community as people......but back then you could talk about that aspect of sexuality and being sexual with a person....

what happened between then and now.... is simply a case of what I started to refer to as * poor trans syndrome *... every mention of a trans person, had to be about the issues of being trans, how trans suffered, how trans were objectified, how trans were victims etc etc etc..... and we started to lose the view of trans people as lovers, partners, husbands and wives..... and any mention of sex with a trans person, got a lecture about how trans were viewed as sex objects and treated like pieces of meat......

the damage was done cos people were not allowed to talk about their love of trans people and the experiences that they had had with trans people and thats why we have got to the point now.... where the trans voice in the site is mostly quiet... its a dammed shame that the need to push trans as victims every bloody time they were mentioned in the site... has resulted in the loss of the trans voice about how they are people too and people that enjoy sex with other people and how they are partners of other people and loved dearly.......

crying bloody shame if you ask me....I think what u say here Duckie, is a crying shame, because it is not that it isn't true.. some of it is, but this site is about support and promoting understanding.. or at least I thought it was.. yes, it is about transpeeps being treated as human beings, but just flip through many of the threads on this site and u will see many did not consider and do not consider transpeeps as human beings at all, but as objects, and all too often there was and is no understanding of the issues of people who are trans. Transmen and women do suffer, are victims and are objectified... and on this site.. "she-males and trannies I love and wanna fuck" that has usual been the sort of comment that raised the hackles of transpeeps and those who at least tried to understand what they were abut and the difficulties they faced in their lives. And all too often their pleas for respect and understanding were met with derision by many on site. Why should they not raise their difficulties, and issues like how the world views and treats them? FFS bisexual members have been doing it on site ever since it first saw the light of day.. that is in large part why forums exist.

There was and always has been very little attempt by members who are not trans to foster the view that they were lovers, husbands, wives and partners... that they are people. Many don't even accept that they can be bisexual.. yet we know that there are bisexual transmen and women on site who are as bisexual as any... they have been and are in the main treated as a curiosity and for so many of one group of misunderstood, oppressed and troubled people to so dismiss another is a travesty. Especially when that group has many among its number who consider themselves treated even more horrendously by another misunderstood, oppressed and troubled group.. the homosexual community.

So I am not that surprised that those who are trans on this site have more or less fallen silent and taken their ball away and will play elsewhere.. much as I have loved this site over the years, what is by far the smallest and weakest group within the lgbt has been treated within it (and I do not excuse the gay community at large from this criticism) by so many abysmally and with absolute contempt..a numerically small group which has among its membership those who are as bisexual as any other on this site..

Of course we should discuss issues which show transpeeps to be human.. to be people as worthy of respect as any other.. and of course we should discuss them as people to be admired, even lusted after and wanted as lovers, but we should never dismiss the fact they have insecurities and difficulties, are often victimised and treated not nicely by many, and not just many in the heterosexual or homosexual communities either.. that they are sensitive human beings who don't want to be victims but just want to live in peace and be afforded a modicum of respect and proper support in furtherance of their own aims many of which coincide with yours and yes even mine, and from those who, like many of their number are bisexual, surely that is not something which is too much to ask.

The damage to the voices of those who are trans was not done because people were not allowed to speak of their love, desire or anything else for trans people.. the damage was done because of how so many people expressed a great deal of it and by ignoring their pleas to be listened to.. so much of what u say is right as far as it goes.. it is the conclusion which is very much in error...

DiggersDozen
Aug 21, 2012, 1:16 AM
I would still be interested regardless if a trans had a penis or not.

good93
Aug 21, 2012, 2:05 AM
I've wanted too but I have not found any nearby.

MyTimeNow
Aug 21, 2012, 7:28 AM
I've seen some really sexy looking tranny's before (and of course, not so sexy ones). I've never had any desires to "top" ever, but once in a while I'll see one that would probably make me change my mind. Provided (s)he was in good health, I'd probably try it at least once.

_Joe_
Aug 21, 2012, 3:16 PM
If someone is wanting to have sex with someone like me, (Non-Op M2F TG), it is not that they want sex with a "Tranny", but just a "Cock in a skirt".

A "True" M2F TG having had surgery would no longer have a cock/penis, thus she would be just like any natural born female.

A "True" F2M TG having had surgery would no longer have a pussy/vagina, thus he would be just like any natural born male.

I live 24/7 as a female, but I have had no surgery, nor do I plan on it, and for me finding men to date that want me for me as a female, (for me to do/play my part as a female), and not as a "Cock in a skirt" has been more than frustrating.

I more or less started out thinking of myself as a CD, (Crossdresser), but as time has passed I have come to realize I am much more than that, although I have never considered that I was a woman trapped in a man's body, I have come to realize I am 50/50 and just as if not more comfortable being a female as a male.

Unless someone sees me without clothing on or I tell them nobody knows I am not a real female.

The dating thing as I have experienced it goes something like this:

Gay men are not interested in CD/TG/TS, they want MEN!

Bi men interested in someone like me are looking for the best of both worlds....Thus a "Cock in a skirt"....Which I am NOT!

Straight men that "might" be interested in someone like me mostly just have a "Fantasy" that lasts just long enough to get off and then they have "Buyer's remorse" so to speak, (as in they feel like they have made a poor choice or something).

Of the few guys I have actually dated and had sex with I will say the straight guys are far less likely to show any interest in the male part of me, but the down side is stated above, thus they all turn out to be hit and runs, one time thing, ect.

This post is not intended to lump all men together as I am more than certain there are some guys out there that would date some like me for me as me and not as a "Cock in a skirt".

To our members that have had SRS and made the complete transition be it M2F or F2M, you have my complete support and respect.

I will not comment on the "Trannies" or "Shemales" in porn videos and movies, that is another subject for another time, lol.

Huggggggggggggs

Samantha

Nice read, really enjoyed thinking with the head on my shoulders and not the one in my pants on this one.

Basin_Bouy
Aug 21, 2012, 8:01 PM
Yes a couple of times, it was great. She was a MTF Pre-Op

lolguy
Aug 30, 2012, 12:10 AM
LOVE it.

bi4asplay
Jun 22, 2013, 1:02 PM
If you look at the pics in my profile you will see a ladyboi that is topping me. She played with my late wife and myself for about 10 years. Very nice.

pasadena1941
Jun 22, 2013, 4:29 PM
I'd like to say that you were wrong but, believe it to be true. I call myself bisexual and have always "wondered" about trannies since I first knew of them. I am attracted to their beauty and exoticness, if you were, but when it would come down to it, if I had the chance, I'm sure that I would want to suck their cock and nothing else. I would more than welcome a nice blowjob from them but beyond that I can't say that I would want anything else. Some would want to fuck them in the ass and that would be that. I don't know that I would really care for them as something other than a beautifl oddity. Isn't that a shame? What does it really say about my humanity? If I were really in a relationship with a real life tranny I'd have to give myself a real life check. Would blowjobs be enough? Right now in my life, probably yes, but the emotional commitment would be hard to guess at. I hope you find what you need and want !

hma87
Jun 22, 2013, 7:31 PM
I had an experience with a FTM transguy once. This was the only time that I've tried pussy, as I have never had sex with a woman. Despite not having a dick, he knew how to handle one. This was the first time I've topped a guy, albeit vaginally.

I would certainly be open to dating or having sex with a MTF as well. Trans people are ok with me, I wouldn't make a big deal over what "parts" they have. My bisexuality enables me to appreciate both. :)

berryhard
Jun 23, 2013, 8:35 PM
This is my big time fantasy ! The best of both worlds being bi. The idea of making love to a beautiful woman and also sucking a big hard cock or to be fucked by her is what I'm looking for. Anyone near by that can make a dream cum true ??

devil_squid
Jun 25, 2013, 6:07 PM
I prefer being with passable trannies over men, so YES I have and love it. Let a tranny take my anal virginity a few months back and enjoyed that as well!

Crowbarsal
Jul 14, 2013, 5:55 PM
This is by far my favorite type of bisexual activity. In all honesty I have only had sex with transsexuals and woman, never actually had sex with a guy. I love everything about having sex with transsexuals, I know I'm bi because I love to suck and get fucked by a transsexual.

centillini
Jul 16, 2013, 10:43 AM
I have shot and ate alot of. Cum to some tranny photos and movies. Without a doubt i would do anything one wanted. Getting hard thinking about it

good93
Jul 18, 2013, 1:03 AM
I want to! The thought of it always gets me excited and aroused. Fingers crossed to one day having one in my bed.

dutchmale
Jul 19, 2013, 1:44 PM
i have not ...

but would love to ~~ maybe its like best of both worlds ??

Asspussy302
Sep 16, 2013, 6:16 PM
I have been with a tranny, whatever reasons people want to come up with why guys like it don't matter. For me it was great. Smooth skin, great ass, nice tits, beautiful face, and perfect dick. We had sex quite a few times. I loved it

bbforu
Sep 16, 2013, 7:16 PM
I have found that transexuals are secrative, always bottoms and very sexy.

Nextyearsxmassgifts
Sep 17, 2013, 7:13 PM
I dated and was in a serious and real relationship with a MTF transsexual. She was beautiful inside and out. She was a model and did a lot of runway work. She liked and planed on keeping her penis. All though she did not call it her penis it was her vagina stick...lol She knew she was a women from when she was just a little girl/boy. Her penis was completely functional and yes she loved for me to give her oral and when the mood struck her. She would top. Sometimes she would spend the whole day topping until I had to run away because I was to sore...lol We loved each other and did everything together. No one knew she had a penis and she liked it that way. But didn't run and hide if someone found out. She was and is a vary strong person. One of the things I fell in love with. She had a penis but other then that birth-defect as she would say. She was all women! Transsexuals are people and are as different from each other as anyone else. It ended between us and it had nothing to do with her or my sexuality.

Wishful
Sep 17, 2013, 10:20 PM
The previous posts all had something of value to say, but they missed the key point for me. My fantasies about women with cocks are founded in a respect and admiration for them. They took the risk of public exposure, while I've spent my whole life "in the closet" regarding my sexual desires for cock. I would like to meet a Shemale - someone who enjoys being male enough to squirt cum, but also enjoys being treated as a female by her sexual partners. You can probably already tell that my sex life is mostly fantasy, but I could be nice to someone I met in real life as well. Reading what I just wrote makes me wonder if a CD would be just as exciting for me.

straponwilly
Nov 10, 2013, 12:03 AM
I have since moving to Asia and it's the greatest sexual thing ever. I'm a bottom so the search is always for one with a big enough cock that can get hard and is a top. I have had post op trans on a couple of occasions and really it's much less satisfying than a natural female. The pussy may look similar but they dont feel the same. When picking up a tranny the first few times I never asked if they could get hard or were willing to top etc. But after a few unsatisfying occasions I always do now. I met a real beautiful one recently in Northern Thailand and she was so beautiful with a cock similar size to me and we switched. I also fucked her, that is very rare as I don't even do anal sex with my wife. But she was such a good fuck that I wanted to give her pleasure as well. She fucked me so well, gently and we kissed and caressed. It was amazing. Often it's not like that, often they just want to get you naked make you come and take your money. She was a bit special and I saw her four times in two weeks each time was amazing. The feeling when she would pull her cock out and take off the condom before spraying me with cum was just so good.

steve10557
Nov 10, 2013, 6:57 AM
I am occasionally transvestite, rather than transexual, I am very happy to be a guy and just enjoy the femininity that is within me. I prefer to have sex with someone like me and not someone who wants to be a woman. I have known guys whose greatest desire would be to achieve being a woman, although this is not something I aspire to, I can appreciate their point of view even as I can see that this makes them mentally unbalanced in a way, difficult is probably an understatement of living a life where you are so unhappy with yourself.

Things my old Dad used to say, "To-morrow I may be Myself with Yesterday's Sev'n Thousand Years" (after Omar)

jjharden
Nov 10, 2013, 12:33 PM
I have many times with several. Started a thing with a black asian lady in Florida. She was/is very nice but I lived a ways away so it was hard to keep a relationship with her. She really loved my ass and I gotta say I loved having her inside me. I actually prefer trannies to anything, it truly is the best of both worlds.

hotcplnsj
Nov 15, 2013, 12:05 AM
My wife and I have been swinging since we met over 14 years ago. We have never been with a tranny but recently my wife told me she thinks it would be very kinky and highly erotic if we could have a 3-way with a transsexual, providing it was someone who was young, between early 20's and early 30's, petite, hairless, very feminine, not too tall with breast and a working cock. Problem is finding someone like that. We probably have a better chance hitting the mega lottery. Since my wife has told me that, I've been searching the swing sites online looking. I noticed the best looking pre-op transsexuals all seem to be younger Asians. They are the ones that look 99% women until you see the 1% that proves they are men (their cock). Wish we could find one. My wife told me she'd like to get fucked by one while she sucked on his/her breast and I fucked his/her ass. I wish she hadn't told me that because now I can't stop thinking about it.