Your first time with the same sex [Archive]

socalcurious

Nov 3, 2011, 3:03 AM

So I guess I can start this off. Mind you, I never had any gay or bi tendencies before this

It was about 7 years ago, I just broke up with a X girlfriend and I was feeling VERY horny . I went to a local "book store / arcade " to purchase some straight porn so I can enjoy some alone time. I started previewing some of the videos in the Booths and saw a gang bang flick with a very beautiful petite white girl being handled by some guys with huge cocks.

Feeling a bit risque, I started to unzip and started masturbating. what I didnt notice right away was a stranger staring at me through a "glory hole" I got scared at first and turned away but was right in the middle of a epic stroking session so i kept going but still turned away from the peering eye.

Now being there for the first time I didnt put the chain up at the entrance to the booth. Before I knew it , that stranger walked up behind me , put more coins into the meter and reached around to help me with my now raging hard cock. I never came sooo hard and fast in my life ! Then that feeling of being ashamed came over me of what just happened and I ran out of the Booth with my cock still dripping with cum and me never seeing what the guy looked like.

To this day I remember every detail of the encounter. I had mixed feelings of that day and some made me ill to me stomach but now I have a much more open view of the world sexually so I dont regret what I did. In fact I masturbate to it on occasion .

trentino

Nov 3, 2011, 8:35 AM

That is SO funny ! My first homosexual experience was very similar to yours...

It was in an adult movie theatre in a foreign city and I went into the room with the gay projection. I remember the film, it was shot on video, where the bodies are blown out to just vast swaths of white and the hair is dark, generally low resolution but mighty quite enough for me. It was a trio of boys, outside in a park or something. The vivid green of the grass they rolled around on. Now, this was in Europe, so I'm not sure about the laws, but the boys seemed just a bit too young. Not way too young. But they seemed very, pubescent. And could they cum ! One kid just kept jerking and jerking and came like three times over the course of 15 minutes or so. Maybe there was sucking and fucking but I mostly remember the young turkish looking boy with the ruddy mule cock stroking his stuff over and over.

I was sat next to an older gentleman. He was stroking his cock. He took my hand and placed it on his cock. To my amazement, it was one of those fat beer can cocks. My heart raced as I stroked his cock, it was so hard and large ! He reached into my lap and started toying with my fly, and I somewhat reluctantly relented and undid my jeans and freed my turgid hardness. He stroked me just a few times before I erupted ecstatically.

When I looked over at him, I could see that he was REALLY old. Like WWII old and this was quite a few years ago. He reminded me of a Nazi Nosferatu.Yet, he was sweet; he handed me some folded tissues to wipe myself and patted my hand, consoling me for spurting so prematurely.

I soon left as there was this Rasta guy who repeatedly waved his cock in my face, trying to stuff it into my gullet. I had to bat his bat away like a pesky fly until I was exasperated and left in a hurry, never looking back.

bityme

Nov 3, 2011, 9:14 AM

In another thread on a similar subject I wrote:

"Not too long after we started swinging, my wife and I became close with another couple. After a while the other husband and I got to watch our wives play with each other. gacat1969 is correct! It was Hot!

Even better, a few months later, she said "Come here!" then "Taste this!" and guided the first cock into my mouth. Looking into her eyes as we took turns was a wonderful first time experience. To this day, I am more turned on sharing a man with a woman than being one-on-one with a guy."

I feel fortunate that my first time was such a pleasurable construct. A combination of love, tenderness, shared pleasure, exploration, adventure, and discovery cherished as a memory oft recalled and as a model to be relived many times. And, yet, only one of many first experiences within the archives of an older, wiser and appreciative mind.

Pappy

dbltrbl69

Nov 3, 2011, 8:43 PM

I remember my first adult bi experience was in my early 20s. I have a fantasic blow job to a middle age man I met cruising a know pick up park a few blocks from my home. It was one sided since he just wanted to receive but have a great bj and swallowed his seed. Feeling guilty afterwards I swore never to do it again. Weeks later I was hungry for cock, eventually meeting a guy who showed me how hot anal sex could be. Long story short I have an awesome girlfriend who enjoys sharing cock with me and says watching me get fucked is a huge turn on. Guilt has been gone for a long time... Bring on the cock and pussy, we are waiting!!!!

nothings5d

Nov 3, 2011, 9:53 PM

My first time was a bit of a drunken mess in college.

I wasn't the one that was drunk though. I didn't find out 'till the next day how much he'd had before I showed up.

The thing that I find funny about the whole situation is that, according to stereotypes at least, if there are two people of the same sex having sex, one of them is having a first time experience, and one of them is drunk then it's usually the one having the first time experience who's drunk. He was openly gay, and I was barely feeling the alcohol. :rolleyes:

Bicuriousman

Nov 4, 2011, 12:07 AM

Very young 5-7 at a friends house,we were about the same age in his room and he asked me if i wanted to play "naked naked". next thing i knew we were under the blankets n our pants were down n so were we.

bikiniman

Nov 4, 2011, 1:39 AM

I recall in my early teenage years being naked with a cousin of mine and lying down together on a couch. Not quite sure how it came about. I can still recall the sensation of his cock rubbing against mine. I enjoyed it. This was not only the first time but the last time. I guess the opportunity never came up again and I went off chasing girls. I am now keen for a follow on experience.

roy m cox

Nov 4, 2011, 2:39 AM

my first time with the same sex was not fun at all i was to young and he was to old ,, and i will just leave it at that :(

dickhand

Nov 4, 2011, 7:44 AM

Mine was with a cousin of about the same age . We were around 12 or so . Didn't know anything so we were open to experiment . Started with anal first and progressed to include oral . We played well into our late 20's . By then we were both married with kids .

OrlandoBlows

Nov 4, 2011, 12:56 PM

I first started experimenting with friends around 10
Years old. One friend in particular was a few years older than me and we would give each other bjs while in our tree
House in the woods. We were 69ing before
We even knew what it was. Eventually it led to us involving
2 other friends of ours and we would mess around in groups and on our own. One of my friends and I eventually began messing around regularly and by 8th grade we were having full on sex 5 times a week. This lasted up thru graduation and he eventually moved out of state. It was def a blast.

torpedoman

Nov 4, 2011, 3:58 PM

mine was my best friend. I was 12 and he 14, We one day looked at his dads dirty mags and got boners. He pulled his pants down and told me to look. It was very nice and had hair around it. Mine didn't. He said touch it. I said no way guys will think i was queer. He said he will never tell. Then he told me to pull my pants down. I did and my 4" boner was hard. He touched it and then kissed it. Damn did it feel good. He then told me to do it so I touched his 6" and I was hooked. I then bent down and kissed it. He grabbed my head and pushed his dick in my mouth. He said suck it. I did but not too good. He then sucked mine and showed me how to do it. I thought I was going to pee in is mouth but he said that was cum. So I relaxed and it felt 100 times better then peeing. He then told me to suck him and he came in my mouth and I swallowed. It was good tasting. We then did it for the next 6 years until i went to college.

scorpio00768

Nov 5, 2011, 1:23 AM

My first time experiencing a penis was not a good memory. I wonder if the family member never did this to me would I like male sex? Was also malested by my sisters friend at a young,7ish. Need I say that some of them where hot and today she is gay and open, but smoking hot. So when I moved to a new neighborhood a friend and I were talking about seeing each others cocks and we were alone and took our pants to show our stuff. I went down to my knees and took him in my mouth for a few seconds. He was intriged and went down on me but longer. From that day on we had all the time for the next 30 years... it was greta but confusing.

dafydd

Nov 5, 2011, 2:10 AM

this sounds tacky, but it was the DJ at a big gay dance club in central London around 2000. I was 19 okay. I remember that we sat on a bench in the club against a wall and he moved into snog and I had no idea, and I just instantly lay down on the bench, like we were going to fuck there or something. He leant over, kissed me again, and then walked off, turned and motioned for me to follow him, but I could't move my legs and I just lay there, in the smoke staring up at a black ceiling crossed with metal bars and trying to count how many hairs on his 5 o'clock shadow had pressed against my lips and cheek.
That's all i remember.
I think i took him back to mine and i fucked and sucked him awkwardly, and i remember a door handle came off in his hand as he left. And he handed it to me and said "later then".
I did meet him again and we did stuff. It was fun. But I don't think he really was the DJ at the club.....i remember he gave me his business card and he did like small venues, parties, karoake with a little spinning globe of yellow, red and green lights and a plastic 'disco dancefloor'.
in my mind I like to think that letting me enjoy sex with a man like that kind of saved my life in some way. as the song goes. oh well. i haven't thought about him for over 10 years. i remember his name too.
thanks for this thread.
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mas8092

Nov 5, 2011, 10:35 AM

I was 46. Just divorced. I had thought about it a long time. Picked-up a man on AFF. He came over, unzipped his pants and I dropped to my knees and pulled it out. His cock grew larger as I went to work.

We went to my bed room where I was on my stomch sucking him. He touched my ass and I came, but kept sucking. Next, he stood on the floor while I was on my back and he fucked my mouth. Being a newbie, I gagged, but kept going. He pulled out and jacked off, cumming on my face and in my mouth. It tasted so good.

That was my first time.

dm330

Nov 5, 2011, 11:06 AM

Mine was pretty similar. I had walked into an adult store to buy a porn mag and noticed a video arcade in the back. It peaked my curiosities, but I didn't have the time to go back to see what it was about. A few months later I won a trip to Florida and chose to go alone just for some peace time. I walked into the book store there and saw the video arcade and checked it out. Started watching some porn, noticed a hole in the wall and a guy on the other side stroking his meat. I was straight up until the next day when I went back, got my dick sucked through the glory hole. I never jizzed so hard or so long in my life. I remember throwing my fists up against the wall as I came and my knees started to buckle, awesome time! Now all I need is a buddy here in Ohio close to my age to have some regular fun with.:cool:

jackbirdjay

Nov 5, 2011, 4:26 PM

My first time with a friend at 14 but no touching we use to jerk-off together looking at his fathers hard core mags. It was the 70's not as open like now. If he made a move I would have done it because I wanted to but was scared. I dreamed about sucking till I finely did it. I was 20 it was 1977 at a now closed adult drive-in theater. A older man in his 50's asked me back to his car. I gave him my first blow job and never looked back. I love women but need man to man action

seadoo1

Nov 5, 2011, 9:31 PM

I loved the feel off a cock in my mouth. My one friend came in my mouth several times. I would suck a fine looking cock now and drink cum.

Patrick43

Nov 5, 2011, 10:18 PM

like others, really young. We played this a way, that a way. Nothing serious.
It got to be more fun a few years later when I could cum.

Leo james

Nov 6, 2011, 12:37 AM

My dad died when i was 12. My Mom raised me alone with no other siblings. My Mom was a nurse & started working on weekends. When I was almost 14- one weekend- i was staying at my Uncle's house . He was my Mom's younger brother- unmarried - about 26. I had learned to masterbate & was doing it constantally. Uncle walked in the bedroom and caught me. Instead of scolding me- he pulled down his pants & showed me his cock. He told me to enjoy myself & he started masterbating. I started to cum & he kneeled down & took me in his mouth. He swallowed it all and then asked if I wanted to suck him. I said yes. he told me to savor & swallow. That weekend we sucked many times. For the next 2 years I stayed with him most weekends. He taught me to enjoy sucking. By the time I was 16- i had found girls- which he had told me all about. I was staying alone when mom worked. He got married & we did not get together again. he died several yrs later in a car crash.
I did not enjoy cock again until I was in college - me & roommate both had sexless dates- came home & had beers & he asked if i ever sucked - he was so horny. I have been Bi ever since. We continued to suck whenver dates would not put out. I left college after 2 yrs & went to Police Academy and he moved away & got married. .

curious4dudes13

Nov 7, 2011, 12:12 AM

my best friend and i in jr. high used to love wrestling with each other. one night we were in our boxers and one of us ended up grinding their cock into the other (i forget which), we were both so hard. i finally spoke up and said if you suck me, i'll suck you. before the words were out of my mouth my friend had his boxers off. he had such a huge magnificent cock. i loved sucking that thing. i always wanted to feel it in my ass but he never would. 69'ing and rimming were the best as well. every weekend for the next 2 years until he moved away, we spend the nights naked, hard and covered in cum. i long for a friend like that again.

want2havefun

Nov 7, 2011, 3:37 PM

Like some others here my first same sex encounter occurred when I was young, about 12-13. It was during a sleep over with a friend. We were talking about girls and all matter of horny sexual stuff and when discussing our likes & desires my friend got around to telling me that he also liked looking at cocks and that sometimes he would look at pics of guys while jerking off. At that point he began stroking himself under the covers and asked if I would let him look at my cock while he played. I was nervous but the idea excited me so I slid the covers and my underwear down and let him have a look. He then slipped out from under his covers and I could see him stroking his hard cock. My cock swelled at this naughty experience too so I went ahead and jerked off letting him watch me cum...which sent him over the edge.

My first experience at a mature adult was similar, a bi friend asked me if I would jerk off for his viewing pleasure.

NewnanBi

Nov 7, 2011, 6:15 PM

Good thread. I was 28 years old the first time I hooked up with the same sex. I had thought about it for some time and finally met a guy I was comfortable with on craigslist. It was his first time time too. I drove to his apartment very late at night. When I arrived, he offered me a drink. We both had a couple of drinks since we were both nervous. Eventually both of us took our pants off. I got on my knees and sucked his dick. He was very large and I was really turned on. Eventually he laid on his back and I sucked him while he jacked me off. Very hot. Good looking guy about the same age. Overall very good first experience I suppose.

ckman314

Nov 8, 2011, 12:32 PM

I was molested at 8 by my 16 year old neighbor he made me blow him and then he made me jerk off (which was my first time for that too) while he jerked off and he came on my face. Kicker is realized a few days later that I kinda enjoyed it. Then I spend a few years in limbo and kind of forgot about it till a friend asked me too jerk off with him in his pool with goggles on under the water at 13, needless too say I slept over that night and blew him and he blew me. This went on for a few months and then it stopped and we stopped talking then I met a guy when I was 19 and had a sexual relationship I would call it for about 4 years until he moved to Cali.

æonpax

Nov 8, 2011, 2:49 PM

ErosUrge

Nov 9, 2011, 1:02 PM

I can say that as a young female, it was my first and most definitive act that I had ever done..deliberately disobeyed my parents and defying their religion. Moreover, it ended up shaping the way I am.

Bisexuality, along with being gay/lesbian, is a predisposition we are born with. I discovered mine early. Most are not so lucky.

My experience was somewhat similar though my first experiences were with both sexes at an early age. First with boys my age and then girls when we were in our teens.

My very first experience was with a guy and it was nothing more than fondling each other. We both got very excited feeling our hard cocks in each other's hands. But we both loved it. He and I still to this very day get together from time to time. As the years have gone by, you can be sure we have done a lot more than just fondling.

My first notable experience with guys was in a backyard camp out inside a tent. I had always felt rumblings of wanting sex and never thought about whether it should be with one sex or the other. So when the 2 guys I was with in the tent presented their erect cocks to me to suck, I didn't understand at first. But when they told me to suck, I responded by doing it. It was a major turn on for me and I loved it. Though I didn't complete it for them, I still enjoyed it and loved watching them masturbate after and seeing them cum. That fascinated me to no end and then I joined in until I came also.

During that same year and a couple of months later, a girl who lived about 4 houses down showed up at my house while my parents were away. We kissed and got very turned on and she then grabbed my hand and led me to my bed where she took off her top and bra and eventuallty her shorts and panties and I followed her lead by stripping down too...though we didn't complete things because of my fear of pregnancy, I was again amazed at how wonderful sex was and this time with a girl. Though she was not pleased that I wouldn't go on and left shortly after, I masturbated once she was gone and regretted that I didn't finish with her.

After both these experiences, I continued to have sex with both though mostly with males since it was less complicated and easier usually and no fear of pregnancy. This was of course many years before the fear of STDs...
Once I got into my late teens and twenties, though I was still sexual with both, it seemed to go in cycles where sometimes I was more sexual with males for certain periods and then with women in other periods. And to this day that is still the case.

To answer the question as to whether I am still in contact with any of these people, no; except for the first guy I mentioned at the beginning.

From these early experiences in my teens, I didn't realize that I was bisexual. I just considered it to be part of the experience of sex and didn't question it until talking to others in in school realizing that comments about being queer were negative. That's when I learned that this kind of behavior was not acceptable to talk about publicly with just anyone. Even with the negative comments it didn't alter my appetite for sex with both sexes. And this is how it has always been.

BryanBiCurious

Nov 10, 2011, 4:53 PM

Where I lived, family lived very close to each other. I was about 10 or 12 when I went across the street to my cousin's property for a camp-out in a tent. We talked about our penis's and started to jack off. Now this was the first time I jacked off and I thought I was about to pee. My cousin said I was about to cum and to relax. I tried as much as I could. I did cum, but it was uncomfortable. The next time we did a camp out we jacked off again and I relaxed and it was a better experience than the last time. We camped again and this time we jacked each other off. Wow, I thought that felt so good. His parent's where at work one day and he invited me over. We got into there bed and he started to jack me off, and then he started to give me a blow job. I thought I was going to lose my mind. It was the greatest feeling that I could experience at that age. I blew my load in his mouth and then he went to the bathroom to spit my cum out. He got back to bed and I needed to blow him, because of the all-some feeling he gave me. I blew him to the point that he was about to cum, I withdrew and he came all over his belly. It was so wonderful experience that I wanted to invite his bother the next time we did this, because I was a little attached to him. But my cousin said I should not say anything. At about this time period my parents wanted to move. We did for 1 year and came back to the same house we rented. He asked me again if we could do the camp out again, but I said no. That was the last time I had a same sex adventure.

ejmichaels

Nov 11, 2011, 8:16 AM

Strangely, I don't remember much of it. (Prior to it, I had many encounters with the opposite sex.) I sort of remember the first kiss (something I liked a lot!), but I don't think we had sex. I know we were in bed together. I think she was worried I'd fall in love with her or something, so she avoided more contact then and after that night. What my memory labeled as "first sex" was with a woman I had met at the same event (a weekend LGBT conference, except that it was probably only LG back then). I remember almost nothing about the sex except that we did it. (I've never considered oral sex very memorable, and we probably did that.) She was pregnant at the time and was totally into being the top/butch with me. We stayed in touch by phone and mail. I didn't want a LTR (with her), but she did, at least until she got more seriously involved with that man.

Wynlvr1

Nov 11, 2011, 11:01 AM

I was 12. A friend that was one year older took me into the bushes at a local park, made me take off my shorts and lie face down on a piece of cardboard and laid on top of me and rubbed his hard cock in my ass crack. No penetration and I had no idea about what sex, gay sex or bi was about but remember enjoying it . He was nice and gentle. We did that many times. Then when I was 14 my cousin (how cliché right?) one day asked me if I would suck him and he would suck me. Up to that point we would play-wrestle and get hot.... Well, I did and he did and we did for about a year and I loved sucking him and swallowing. Then he got weirded out and wanted to stop. Then on I discovered girls had many girlfriends, a couple wifes and many same sex college, abs, gym sauna, pickup experiences . Never received anal but topped a few times. But funnily enough never labelled myself as bi. I just thought I enjoyed sex... Period... I love women, no emotional attachment to men... So far... I just think a hard cock is a beautiful erotic thing and turns me on. My first wife accepted my "experiences". She had a gay brother. Cancer took her unfortunately . My second freaked out and is divorcing me. Now I have a liberal bi girlfriend who accepts and I finally accept the label bi and don't mind. I'm 46 now and this may be the "one" :-) happy finally and looking forward to a MMF with her and many other adventures.

lilbitbi

Jan 6, 2012, 1:21 PM

sterculius

Jan 6, 2012, 5:47 PM

My first sexual encounter with anyone of either sex was with my best friend Larry. I was 15 but he was a year younger at 14. After we discovered that we both liked masturbating, we decided to try doing it together. Although I was older, taller and stronger than he was, I was amazed at the size of his cock!! It was much bigger and thicker than mine. He suggested that we try jerking each other off to see how that felt. I agreed, but really because I wanted to feel his massive cock filling my hand. It was so big that my fingers didn't meet around it! We would meet almost everyday to "fool around" and one day, I offered to suck his cock if he would reciprocate. We would alternate days giving each other blowjobs since after cumming, we lost the desire to blow the other. When he saw how much I obviously enjoyed sucking his big cock even more than getting a blowjob from him, he would suggest that I suck him off even if it happened to be my turn, offering to "do" me the next time, and I would always eagerly agree. At some point, he stopped blowing me altogether and by unspoken agreement I willingly became his own personal cocksucker, an arrangement that was highly satisfactory to us both. As my cocksucking skills improved, he became gradually more aggressive, forcing his cock each time deeper into my mouth until eventually I was able to take all of his cock completely down into my throat!! Although I was unable to breathe with his cock filling my throat, I loved the way it felt and so did he. This quickly became our preferred, default technique for me to give him his, by this time, daily blowjob. Whenever we would meet, I'd immediately drop to my knees and he would unzip his fly, take out his cock and force it deep into my throat. He would then hold onto the back of my head and roughly fuck my throat until he came. I absolutely loved it!!! We continued with this daily ritual until we both graduated from high school and moved away to college

Lay-Lay

Jan 6, 2012, 7:37 PM

I remember my first time with a girl. I have always known that I like both sexes ever since I can remember. So with that being said I was kind of young when I had my first interaction.

I was in the 5th grade and I was a a sleep over at a friends house. We we're playing truth or dare and of course I picked dare. I got dared to kiss my best friend at the time. So I did without thinking twice and so did she. After the sleepover her and I didn't talk much about it until the last day of school before summer break. She passed me a not in class and asked me if I wanted to sleep over at her house that night just me and her so we could talk about what we we're (that sounds a little grown up but at that age we we're all trying to act older) so I went. The usual stuff happened that night we played game we talked and we went swimming but after that is where it got interesting. We got out of the pool and went upstairs to change. I was always nervous about that part because I was the girl who developed fast but she came over to me and took my swim suit off and she told me not to be nervous and that I was cute. Then she started playing with my breasts and one thing lead to another. Needless to say we went way further then you think 5th graders should have gone. But its a great memory for me and I love thinking of it.

Me and the girl I had this experience with still talk and we are both very much still bi.

Goodone

Jan 6, 2012, 10:17 PM

I don't consider my first time as a true encounter as I had no choice, I was repeatedly sexually abused by my step father from the age of 8 through to 12 until my mother left him, thank god she did.

For some reason though and I believe the abuse had nothing to do with it because I did not enjoy it, I always knew I found boys attractive. My first true encounter was a guy I met at a friends BBQ when I was 15. He was about 25 and took me home after everything had finished. My mum was not home and we began to talk about girls etc. He noticed in my shorts that I had a raging hard on and before I knew it he was stroking me through my shorts and I was doing the same to him. Well things progressed, he blew me and I blew him. We continued to catch up until I went off to a boarding school. At first I did not want to accept that I enjoyed it afterwards, but I kept going back for more eventually getting into some anal as well.

I used to masturbate thinking of sucking him, making it pretty clear to me that I was bi but never really wanting to accept it. There have been 4 other guys since him with multiple encounters with all of them except 1 (he needed cocaine to get off which was a huge turn off for me).

Have I kept in contact with my first? No I have not seen him in 23 years and can not even remember his name now, but I remember the sex. I no longer try to suppress the memories like I used to, I am bi and very comfortable with it now. Thinking about it now gives me a tingle, can't wait for my next.

BiJoe696

Jan 7, 2012, 10:43 AM

My first time was as a teen when my boss at work called me into his office. I recorded the story and posted it on line several years ago. Hit the play button and let it load and I will tell you about it. :bipride:

http://www.5on1.com/Audio/AudioSample.asp

Stigandir

Jan 7, 2012, 10:58 PM

Wow. Very interesting thread, but I must say I feel almost left out, being 38 and not having had a real same-sex experience. However, I've always been highly sexual and my cock was bigger than most of my grade school buddies'. Though I was raised to feel a lot of guilt around any kind of sexuality (no more, thankfully!), I loved showing off to other boys and comparing, esp. as mine was always the larger cock. I had no knowledge of sexuality, having been kept completely in the dark, and certainly knew nothing about being gay or bi.

One day we were visiting a family from our church and school and I had taken this kid behind the house with me to show him my cock--I was probably 9 or 10 and he a couple years younger--and he asked whether he could touch it. So far no one had ever touched mine, nor I touched theirs--we only looked. He touched my hard cock with its foreskin retracted, something he could not do yet, and then panicked and headed back to the front of the house. It just so happened that his mom had come out of the house at the same time and saw us coming out of the dark from behind the house and immediately the kid confessed what we had done. Boy did we get in crap! I managed to avoid the strap that time, but my mom feared I'd be gay, something that to their mind was synonymous with 'child molester', and had a very serious talk with me. And I was stigmatised in the village from then on and kept a close eye on...

Despite remaining highly sexual and masturbating compulsively, I never showed off again and focused all my pubescent energy on liking girls. But growing up as I did, I ended up having very little sexual experience with either sex when I met my now female partner in high school. We've been together 18 years now, are the best of friends, and have a pretty decent sex life, but after coming to terms with my desires for men (long repressed and rationalized away) shortly after she came out to me 12 years ago as bisexual, I haven't yet acted on it and actually had same sex contact. I so crave it though! Sometimes more than other times...

It's been interesting and at times stimulating (;-)) reading...

JayGrimm

Jan 8, 2012, 2:34 PM

My first time was w/ a male friend at a young age (12 or 13). It was a typical "show me yours, I'll show you mine", which was suggested by my friend. Then we felt each others cock, and we even hugged (causing a fabulous cock2cock experience).

At some point, we ended up getting brave and took turns taking each others cock in our mouths. I never ever forgot that "first-time" feeling!..:tongue:

FunE1

Jan 8, 2012, 6:15 PM

My first MM sex play was when I was in 7th grade.

My hormones were starting to rage and I was just beginning to develop an interest in girls.... and boys. I would masturbate to fantasies of sex with the various classmates I thought were hot. And that included a pretty equal mix of boys and girls, including my best friend at the time.

Sleeping over at his house one night we started talking about girls we liked and the conversation went from that to girls we'd like to screw and then meandered to the "boys we'd screw IF WE ABSOLUTELY HAD TO"... Of course, we both mentioned each other, which led to showing each other our cocks (stiff as flagpoles by this time) which led to sucking each other.

After that, we tried to arrange sleepovers whenever we could (I was raised in the country and he lived about 12 miles away). And we always spent our time at night either jerking each other or sucking each other, but we never got around to anal... that just seemed like it was a step too far, I guess.

Unfortunately, his family moved away at the start of the next school year. 3 years later, another school mate and I would start a similar relationship in the end of our junior year of high school, but sadly, he moved at the start of senior year w/o us eve having done anal.

It wouldn't be until this past summer (27 years later) that I'd have MM play again and, finally, get to experience anal with a man.

CRAZMIN4EVERER

Jan 8, 2012, 8:57 PM

I went back home to visit my uncle family seven years ago. At night, I shared a bedroom with my male cousin. In the middle of the night, I heard some strange sounds that woke me up. I opened my eyes and saw him jacking off with his cousin on his mother side... A few nights after that, I felt a hand rubbing on my short and my cock was bulging big and hard like a rock. He took my hand to put by his penis .... i started to stroke for him too.... He suddenly pulled down my short and started to sit on my dick and pumped crazily... I was thrilled and helped him to pump harder until I cummed inside of him and he shot all over my chest .... We both now are married and having children. I will be going back to see them this April ..... I dont know what should I do? Shall I get with him again whenever We will have a chance... because whenever I think about this .... I really get horny and miss him .... He knows I will be coming home ... he already plans to take 5 days off from work to take me hiking for several days .... Please give me advice

lizard-lix

Jan 9, 2012, 11:11 AM

It's a very fond memory...

I was 11, me and my best buddy were just messing around and we started with the 'Hey, would you ever jack someone else off?' "No way, ick!" "ya wanna?" "sure" and then it started, we were blowing each other by the end of the week (after essentially the same conversation, except about blowjobs :tongue:

We were together from 6th grade till we split for college when I moved out in my sophomore year (but he did come to my first apartment and we traded blowjobs on the couch, on my first day out of my parents house - after my roomie left for class :bigrin:

We lost touch for 30 years, but got back to each other on Facebook, we are buds again now, but he stays away from conversations about sex :(

We were always there for each other, when we started dating girls, a tap on the other's bedroom window at any time of night would always get either of us a sympathy blowjob if we struck out on a date...

guild1717

Jan 9, 2012, 12:04 PM

Actually my first time was with my cousin who was 3 years older than me, I was about 10 or 11 at the time. He asked if I wanted to take turns licking each other, so we did and that was that, but the the next time was with a friend camping out and I never will forget it.

We were in my dads truck which had one of those toppers on it with a little light and a small bed, it was in the summer and we had been looking at my brother in laws dirty mags so we were both hard as a rock. After we turned the light out I asked him how big he was and he said he didn't really know so being almost pitch black and, me so horny, I reached over and started rubbing his cock and he reached over and started rubbing mine. I don't remember talking after that we just started kissing and taking turns sucking each other, him on top, me on top grinding our cocks together, it was incredible.

wetnude

Jan 9, 2012, 5:23 PM

First time with another man i was naked at an unofficial nude beach and saw another man masturbating.it turned me on.I sat next to him and he jerked me,and I reached over and jerked him. Started feeling guilty and told him to stop because I did not want him to make me cum.I love being masturbated .... who doesn't ? Now I don't feel guilty I just enjoy it:-) recently got jerked off in the back row of an adult cinema by an older man and I came too.:-) no more guilt, just pleasure.:three:

R. R. Wayne

Jan 9, 2012, 8:13 PM

CRAZMIN4EVERER

Jan 13, 2012, 3:29 PM

If he is taking you hiking and no one else is invited. Have sex with him. Whatever else he wants to do, he wants to have sex with you --otherwise he would not be alone with you. Enjoy. And report back to us. Please.

I know he plans to be together alone; so we can have some fun like the last time. Since it happened seven years ago, sometimes I have some feelings of craving for him too. But now is stronger because I m coming to visit them. If I tell my wife about this, She will place our marriage at the stop. I do not want that to happen. I think I should let it happen naturally .... go with the feeling I have at the time .... as long as every one is happy. Thank you for all advices.

MtnMan

Jan 13, 2012, 4:55 PM

I had been chatting at a swing site, just looking to see what my curb my lust. I struck up a conversation with a person and found out she and her mate lived about 120 miles from me--an easy drive out here in the West. We spent weeks from then, getting each other hot and bothered, and finally arranged a meeting. I didn't know at the time any of my bi was going to get tested! We met at a Denny's, then had a drink at a nearby bar, then spent the night at a motel together. A first time for all three of us, but before the night was over, we had covered every inch of her with our cocks and mouths, and then "accidents" happened, and I was really aroused! The first was me going down on her while he was entering her from behind. He slipped out and into my mouth, then quickly back into her. Later, I did the same to him. Later still, I had gone into the bathroom and when I came out, started licking her pussy. It had a new taste, and I knew he'd just cum in her while I was away! Everything was fun, exciting and new!

a2smith09

Jan 13, 2012, 9:07 PM

I was on staff at summer camp and shared a tent went a friend of mine that went to school with me. We had been at camp sharing the tent, showers, swimming, reading and jerking to porn together, etc. together for a couple of weeks so we were real comfortable around each other nude. It was on a saturday after the campers left. We had to pour some concrete to repair something at the camp before the next batch of campers arrived the next day.

Anyway I pulled a muscle in my back while lifting and moving bags of cement. Camp director told me to go lie on my bunk and rest. He told my bunkmate to help me. Anyway we were covered in dirt and cement and there was no way I wanted to mess my bed up I needed to take a shower first but I couldn't bend over.We stopped at the bathhouse next to the camp. So my bunkmate helped me to get undressed and parked me under a shower while he went to get our towels, soap, shampoo, and sandals. He came back and after washing himself first he helped wash me. I couldn't bend over so he stood behind me while he washed my backs, buttocks, and legs. I felt the plump head of his cock on the smooth skin of my ass as he stood behind me and jerked me off. After he finished washing me we dried off and wrapped our towels around our naked selve and walked to our tent.

When we got to our tent he said that he was a trainer for the HS Basketball team and was pretty good at massage, did I want him to work on my back. I said sure and dropped my towel lying face down on my bunk. He dropped his towel and climbed up on me. He used some Jergens his mom had given him and rubbed my back. He wasn't lying he was pretty good and massage and it really helped my back. Also the sensation on his naked heavy balls and hard cock tickling my back was wonderful. He really massaged my ass really good and I had a raging hardon when he told me to roll over.

I rolled over and two hard cocks sprang into view. He massaged and played with my hard cock for a few minutesd and I tentatively reached over and stroked his,. It felt good in my hands. After a few minutes of stroking each other he swapped ends so his cock was above my face and he took my hard cock into his mouth. it was my first blowjob. I watched him work my cock with his mouth for a couple of minutes. It felt wonderful. Then I took his into my mouth and we 69'ed for a few minutes before we both blew. We sucked each others cocks one more time before everyone else came back to camp.

Well we gave each other at least one and some days much more than that for the rest of the summer. He massaged my back 2-3 three times a day for about two weeks until it completely healed up. About the fourth or fifth day of massage he massaged, teased, licked and fingered my ass mercilessly until I was squirming and begging him to make me cum. He lubed his cock and my ass up really well with the Jergens and slowly worked his thick cock into my ass. It took a while but it felt real good after he was in and I had relaxed. He fucked my ass pretty good that day. It felt wonderful. It was about a week and a half before my back was in shape to returnn the favor.

We still keep in touch and spend a weekend or two a year together now almost 25 years later.

Daviecurious

Jan 14, 2012, 12:40 PM

A 2 part reply:

My first mm experience was when I was 12-13. Went to a friends house after school, and his parents were both gone; we had the house to ourselves. Were just doing what kids that age do, when he suggested that we jack off. (He was much more sexually aware at that time than I.) So OK, we dropped our jeans and did. No contact, but watched each other. My first orgasm, BTW.

Many years later, made e-contact w/another member on this site. After much e-mailing and PM'ing, we made arraingements to meet. We connected immediately, and after a fine afternoon of visiting, and a nice dinner, we went off to bed. Wonderful evening with a many firsts for me: First blow job from a guy, giving my first blow job, first time topping a guy, ect. Followed by the best part for me, giving the Good Morning/Wake Up blow job.

Sadly, not in contact with either anymore. Would like to re-connect with the second guy ........