Where to meet other guys?

[DCWatcher]

So, I'm looking to take the plunge as it were and after many, many, false starts I'm ready to explore desire for sex with other men.

The problem is... where do I find other guys? I've looked on Craigslist a lot for potential playmates but most of them, in my area at least, kinda creep me out or they aren't interested in a newbie. I know it's a waiting game but I'm getting impatient... and horny. LOL

So, besides there... where does a guy go to find other guys?

Thoughts, suggestions and tips will be greatly appreciated.

[b71112]

Well besides here, you can try adam4adam.com or as others have mentioned in other posts - I think craigslist is on a different level, atleast for me anyways, but some have luck with it. At any rate, just keep your eyes open and post to some sites, ask for what you are looking for and be open about yourself are the keys to finding someone. Good luck.

[FunE1]

Try getting on Adam4Adam.com and/or Squirt.org. Squirt has reviews of different "cruising" areas (to include bars, bath houses, theaters, etc.) which may give you some ideas.

I've had some luck on Adult Friend Finder by posting some videos, being active in a number of the groups & discussions, and webcamming/chatting. I think the more opportunities people have to "see you" the more comfortable they can be with the idea of meeting you -- and I suspect that holds on most sites, not just AFF.

I've found that it's best not to waste too much time with those online who are: a) overly agressive, especially about meeting (e.g., "I'm available RIGHT NOW. Can I come over?" "Are you free now? How soon can we fuck?"), b) unwilling to provide any photos at all, c) reluctant to share any personal contact info (phone #, email address, etc) ESPECIALLY when combined with d) reluctant to meet in public first.

I know that's not much help at all, really, but it's all I got.

[Realist]

Welcome, DC

You can start by posting something on the personal ads, here.

Come up with an interesting profile, state what you're looking for, and see what happens. Be honest, lay it on the line...then see what happens.

I found the love of my life here in 2008! I was only here a couple of months until we met.

Good luck.

[Long Duck Dong]

I would also recommend real life socialising at a gay bar or social group.... that way you can meet people face to face... and maybe find somebody that you enjoy the company of and form a connection that is benefical

[KevsBi]

Craigslist has aLOT of B.S. going on so you do have to weed out the weirdos but I have actually met a couple of really nice guys on there. Look for the ads where guys are traveling; staying in hotels, on business, etc.
People tend to want to explore their sexuality when away from home and from men whose wives have 'cut them off' in the bedroom.

[DCWatcher]

Thanks for the tips guys. It's rough when your first stepping out and it helps to have some advice from people who have been there before.

Have a great weekend!