Every profile pic is of a penis...

[adero08]

I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...okkkaayyy, but if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile. No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that. give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. You might get better, less creepy results....

Sorry, this is a rant. I had to put it out there. :banghead:

[CAVALIER70]

I cannot agree more, it's fine if you are well hung , Lucky you, but what about a brief message or a note, as much as I like penis I,d rather see it in my bedroom not on here.:female::male:

[RiverGuy]

i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...

One would think that bi men would be more imaginative and open and open-minded than they sometimes appear to be in venues like this. But it seems a lot of the guys here are ONLY interested in sex, and posting their erections is probably -- usually, typically -- a signal to this effect.

It is important to remember that not all bisexual guys are also biamorous. It appears that many bisexual men are only interested in casual (NSA) sex with men, while some of those are available for, shall we say, deeper and more lasting intimacy with women. Not all are even interested in or capable of that. Some are just all about the sex. Period.

I'm happy to be the sort of guy who can have full-spectrum intimacy with both men and women, and love both "romantically". We appear to be an exception to the rule. At the moment, I have two sweeties, one of each sex.

[MidMichCouple]

I couldn't agree more, it's one of the issues I've had here as well. I'm not the type who is into just random sex, sexting or just talking about sex. I would much rather have more of a "relationship" as I enjoy the intimacy and romance aspect of it a lot. You'll notice that while my wife and I have nude pics we've gone with a very nice pic of the two of us on our profile, clothed. What I hate the most is getting a message from someone I have never chatted with or anything asking if I would like to suck his d*ck, that's classless in my opinion. While we're admittedly a minority I'm glad there are others on here who would like to meet people on here (knowing what more than just their penis looks like) and actually get to know them rather than just trade pics and meet at a rest area. Yes I actually got a message from someone I didn't know asking if I would be interested in meeting at a rest area for sex, amazing.

[ZepZep]

~Adero~

Why not lead by example and put up a profile. :cool:

[RiverGuy]

~Adero~

Why not lead by example and put up a profile. :cool:

I just joined. Things take time. I'll get around to it. ... And I only send photos to people who are already online buddies. I don't post them in profiles.

[Gearbox]

I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...okkkaayyy, but if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile. No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that. give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. You might get better, less creepy results....

Sorry, this is a rant. I had to put it out there. :banghead:
I got a face pic! Will you bang my brains out now?:bigrin:

(don't look at my profile till the 4th date!:rolleyes:).

[adero08]

No gear box i won't. I like to get to know people before i fuck them. ZepZep, i do have a profile with a face pic. If my profile is sparse its because i am still learning the site and i am still getting used to things.

[softfruit]

While I share a lot of the original commenter's sentiment, I suppose it's a useful shorthand code -- if someone's localish, I tend to message them about bi stuff going on in the UK. That kind of Member Profile, gives me some idea whether I should drop the person a line or whether the things I'll tell them about are just not what they're interested in.

[lost1]

I agree, so I posted 1 sort of, aint the best but...

[obscuresage]

yr right of course about the penis pics....unless the person is in the closet and descretion is a requirement. Whats one of the first questions ....how big are you?????? well the pic gets that out of the way which could be good or bad. i am not a porn star and have not hooked up with anyone from this site soooo im LOL not a great source for advice. But nudity is not offenive to me, male or female so as far as im concerned...let all hang out and have fun.

Take care all

[tenni]

"if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile."
"I like to get to know people before i fuck them."


Well, there ya go. You have very different goals than the guys who are flashing their dicks. You want to get to know the person before you fuck 'm and they want to fuck em before they get to know them. Its their code as to what they want. ;)

What are you putting up as a profile picture? Is that a blue fairy? Isn't that code for a lesbian? (according to a lesbian video artist that I know who made a video by that name)

[jj671]

this from someone who hasnt even posted a profile. maybe your the type of person that gets off on rude comments... and yes it is a rant!

[NJCuriousMale]

It's the people with the blank profiles, like the OP, that I can't stand. They pvt msg you wanting to chat, but are hesitant to share "details" about themselves, such as their age or where they live, yet like to play 20 questions.

[DuckiesDarling]

I think one important thing that the OP is missing....some people resolutely will not post a picture of their face due to privacy concerns. Of course is you are banging everything in town I'm sure someone might also recognize the other end :tongue:

But really, it's up to people what they choose to share anywhere on the net. If you don't like seeing pictures of peoples penises and rather see there pansies then ignore the pics while reading the profile information. If there is no profile information simply go to another page. You can also choose on your preferences to not see "X rated" pictures. The thumbnails will not appear and you will have to click to see the full image. So you can solve your own issue rather handily.

[FloridaFun69]

Sheesh... doesn't seem to be anyway to make everybody happy!!

Some people want a cock-shot, others don't!

Some people want a fetish-induced shot, others don't.

Some people prefer to see somebody's face, and others don't give a crap.

We should start a poll!!! LOL



:bibounce:

[Annika L]

i do have a profile with a face pic. If my profile is sparse its because i am still learning the site and i am still getting used to things.

Um...it isn't sparse, hon...it's (currently) nonexistent. You need to check the box that makes it viewable by other members. This is the reason why some people are reacting badly to your complaints.

As to your OP point, people put stuff in their ad that they think helps them get what they want. It may not appeal to you or to me...but then it's not there to appeal to us...it's there to appeal to the sort of people it appeals to. And if it didn't work, I'm willing to bet fewer people would do it. It may be puzzling to you, since it's not to your taste...but that's your problem to work out, not theirs to solve for you by making their profile to your taste.

Put it this way: do you want the kind of person who would post their penis on the internet? I'm guessing not. So at least they are sending you a clear message that they are not the type of person you want...in real life, you would have no idea whether they're that kind of person or not until you had wasted a LOT more time getting to know them...here, they make it easy for you. :tong:

But I think an assumption that nobody would ever be interested in that kind of person is unwarranted.

[wanderingrichard]

I've never posted one, have no desire to.

Agree with you that it's discouraging and disheartening that many think it's the only way to get attention. As several other members have said in the past, Your first pic usually tells me where your brains are.

now, give a me pic of a nice sexy smile or body and then..........:tongue:

[bikiniman]

If people want to post a profile picture of their penis then fine, I don't mind, Its their profile. I for one like looking at them.

It would however be great to see more profile pics with a bit more imagination.

[pantytimbmd]

I love it, it's like a smorgasboard of delicious man meat. I like to see what I am getting up front. It eliminates the disappointment later of not liking what you find in someones pants. I like thicker, longer cocks and have seen alot of skinny short ones here.

[justlooking222]

.....because i am still learning the site and i am still getting used to things.

that makes you way too new to the site to start criticizing..- if you dont like cock pix, don't look at them .....simple!

[Annika L]

that makes you way too new to the site to start criticizing..- if you dont like cock pix, don't look at them .....simple!

Meh...she can criticize...she just needs to recognize how that might make her sound to the rest of us (especially if a large number of people are doing the thing to which she objects).

[R. R. Wayne]

I'd like to post a photo of my smiling face. People tell me that I am kind looking and handsome. However, I am not "out." All I need is someone who knows me to see the photo(s) and make the connection. Then I am open to embarrassment, loss of friends and blackmail. I know this sounds over the top, but many guys who need a sexaul outlet and find it in the bi-community feel the same way I do. How do I know that? I have become friends with a few over the years, have sucked their cocks and they told me this.

Also, I like to look at cocks. Those that have cum on them are especially hot.

[azirish]

If you don't like it don't look, that solves the problem. Easy, that took a lot of effort didn't it?



I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...okkkaayyy, but if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile. No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that. give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. You might get better, less creepy results....

Sorry, this is a rant. I had to put it out there. :banghead:

[Moonlight_BHI]

I don't like going on a (male's) profile and seeing a picture of a cock right there as well. But I don't complain or rant about it.

The men posts pictures of their cock and the women post nothing but photos of themselves clothed.

I have more of a problem with the women not showing more than the men showing with they got.

If the men want to show it let them, they can just use the x-rated button. if not, than theres nothing to be done unless someone talks to Drew about it. But this is a site for people to chat, make friends, build relationship, gain knowledge, maybe find a cyber buddy/buddies or maybe a physical fuck buddy/buddies.
They post those photos to show if someone is interested what they have if they like it woohoo, if not they can move on.

Think about the reasons before anything else.



I admit, I'm not probably sounding the best or nicest in this post but this is my opinion. Have a problem with it, than I'm sorry.

[darkeyes]

...am not and never have been a fan of what I call "nob" or "willy pics".. its not that I am particularly prudish and certainly am not narrow minded.. its not because I am a lesbian and so don't like looking at nobs hanging out in all their glory.. although I happily admit its not on my christmas wish list.. am not a huge fan of looking at pussy pics either... its just that people are much more than the substance of what their genitals have to offer.. I dont go out and expect to find a nob or a pussy flashed in my face in a club or pub or in the street... certainly not at work..

...in the days before I was partnered and went out on the pull, I didnt usually have my first sighting of a potential lay, man nuddy with hard cock or woman wet and glistening pussy all exposed for the world 2 see.. other things attracted.. how they walked, talked, their eyes, how they smiled, how they dressed and held themselves while my eyes and mind feasted upon the mystery of what lay underneath both their kit... and in their head.. I like to be teased and tantalised to interest and desire..

I have no objection to guys on their profiles showing off their bits.. if thats what they wanna do its fine with me.. guys are a bit more all hang out than we are and thats cool.. honest.. just not very edifying if they are on the pull and wish to meet peeps.. my opinion.. but thats me.. others might well and probably do have other opinions..

Instinctively I dont like censorship and so wouldnt ban them from doing it any more than I would ban them from breathing..but that they need to think a bit more of why they do it is unquestioned in my mind, and is it having the desired effect with their target audience? It wont turn me on.. inanimate pussy doesnt turn me on and I am rather fond of puss... I just like the journey to revealing the mystery and the joy of exploration and discovery.. wtf is the fun without that?:)

[The Black Knights]

I don't think posting nude pictures of genitals is so great or wise in this age of identity theft and getting in trouble over doing, showing and/or saying inappropriate stuff on social media or elsewhere in public. I realize many of us are visual and/or are hoping to hook up with someone on this board at some point, hence the need to see photos, which is fine. I look at profile photos too. I kind of think that sending the genital photos is too close to showing off. Not everyone has big breasts and/or penis, and not everyone prefers such for whatever reasons. Be proud of what you have, but don't be crude about it. We all can easily find that elsewhere. You can't get the measure of a person from a photo alone, no matter what the photo is (or is not) of.
With that said, if you wish to show it, then do so, but I personally think that if you do, show everything, including your face so that there is no question that said parts are yours! In this day and age, it is not hard to appropriate a photo of someone's "assets" from somewhere else on the Internet and pass it off as your own. People do it on craigslist and elsewhere all the time. Why do it here? True, sexuality and sex is a big part of this board, but it is not everything. Save the genital photos for private messaging, if you must exchange said photos.
For the record, in case anyone cares, yes, I am "well hung" (from what I am told). I do get a decent amount of compliments on my "assets", especially in recent years, as does my better half for her assets, though we have somewhat different physiques, other than us both being tall persons of color. However, though I (we) are often are nude at home by preference, I personally have never been into flaunting my assets anywhere (in public), even when I didn't know how blessed I was (I didn't fully realize such until my mid to late 20s), because I was raised to be modest in public. Call me old school. When you are in private however...well, that is another matter, I think we would all agree.

[ErosUrge]

I think one important thing that the OP is missing....some people resolutely will not post a picture of their face due to privacy concerns. Of course is you are banging everything in town I'm sure someone might also recognize the other end :tongue:

But really, it's up to people what they choose to share anywhere on the net. If you don't like seeing pictures of peoples penises and rather see there pansies then ignore the pics while reading the profile information. If there is no profile information simply go to another page. You can also choose on your preferences to not see "X rated" pictures. The thumbnails will not appear and you will have to click to see the full image. So you can solve your own issue rather handily.

ahh thanks DuckiesDarling for your comments; much appreciated. Everyone has their idea of the right and wrong of everything no matter what topic. And yet it all comes down to preferences and opinions. It took me years to accept the fact that I'm bi and though I'm out to most of my friends, there are still some people that I don't want to know about me. Therefore, no face pics. And I have my reasons. No one should dictate to anyone how they should set up their profile here. I certainly don't post my nudie pics out of desperation. My pics are there for my own enjoyment and for anyone who enjoys seeing my private 'bits'....and if I make a connection for the pleasure of getting together with someone sexually; so be it. But there is more to me than just trying to make a sexual connection. It's not the primary reason why I'm a part of this community. But I don't think anyone has the right to tell someone they shouldn't post pics of their cock here. If you don't like them, again, don't look! And don't be so quick to express that just because someone post pics of their cocks, they have no substance.

[clyde terwilliger]

I agree 100%

[IanBorthwick]

I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...okkkaayyy, but if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile. No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that. give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. You might get better, less creepy results....

Sorry, this is a rant. I had to put it out there. :banghead:

I take offense to this entire rant because it's not based on fact, but on opinion and ire. So many factually incoherent things here I don't know where to start. I'd first leave it at what DD said, but this does run into the nonsense of runaway feminism, which is to date still ire without focus.

First things first, there is no ALWAYS, no NEVER, and no EVERY except in small groups, but the "Every profile pic is of a penis..." is ridiculous because there ARE women members here, and they don't have said pictures, you couldn't have looked at every picture since you would have come across as many or more NOT showing franks and beans, and *I* have never posted such a picture even when I was very active here.

Second, "I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis..." the closing of this is an assumption, that men here want sex and therefore show off their penis...Have you asked them?

Third, "No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that." again, assumption. How do you know what others look for? Just because I wouldn't be attracted to such pictures that doesn't mean others do not. You do not speak for the flock, so please don't speak for the flock, that IS offensive despite the "No offense" disclaimer. We all go our own way here.

Fourth, "give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. ", my penis is not me, I am not my penis...you assume and project that idea that we live in our penises, and that our penises control our existence in some fashion. If I'm wrong, I'm sorry, but this statement is VERY offensive to me.

"You might get better, less creepy results...." They might...they might also get NO results, or get exactly the results they are looking for.

The entire rant is a SCREAM that the OP has an Omniscience that God would be jealous of, making decisions for the person and just being a pure feminist that doesn't realize her attitude is plain to see, rude to watch and vulgar in application.

Before anybody rants on ME, remember the truth is the truth, it can set you free, but it's not an insult. The OP pressed opinion as fact, I'm showing them to be opinions and not well thought out. I'm not here to be politic or nice, DD does a great job of that on her own. I'm just sick of watching men taking unneeded swings when they are PLENTY of titty shots with blurred faces here and the OP isn't squawking about those. Leads one to believe the very presence of a penis might be offensive BEFORE the pictures were displayed. Just me 2 cents.

[FinkDoodle]

The original poster seems to be of the opinion that everyone in the world thinks like him and neglects to realize that everyone has their own set of preferences . . some people like pics of genitals - some, less so. Weenie pics do indeed attract responses from a certain element, and if that's not to your liking, by all means feel free to skip them by and look at other individuals.

What I find downright reprehensible is a total newbie crashing into this site uninvited and unannounced and then immediately jumping into a diatribe as to how certain members aren't conducting themselves correctly, as though he personally now controls what is and is not acceptable conduct.

Further, when questioned on his own non-existant profile, he attempts to deflect the question by saying "hey, I'm new - these things take time." Yeah . . filling out a profile and posting a face photo must take all of five minutes . . ten, if you're surrounded by distractions or incredibly feeble.

I suggest to the membership that they continue as they were doing . . personally I don't appreciate the attempted intimidation by an arrogant newbie who sees fit to twist an online community into what fits his own ignorant image rather than to blend into a well established brethren that seemed to have minimal issues before his intrusion.

Just my own personal opinion . . take it as you will . .

[darkeyes]

New members need to be invited now do they? They don't have a right to an opinion? It has now become compulsory for them to have pics and profiles now before they comment on anything and express a view? Their opinion?

I don't consider the OP's post reprehensible in the least, nor is a particularly rant like even if she says it is.. its up to us all whether or not we say anything on our profile.. the only thing which seems to be compulsory is whether we are male or female.. and that me luffly is as it should be... you may disagree with what she said, but to feel it reprehensible that she had the temerity to say what she thought when she is new and had no profile? Take note.. SHE... turning quite so vehemently against a new member because she doesn't fit with your idea of what a member should be, should do.. and ripping into her because she says something with which you happen to disagree..

Such a nice way to greet a new member... it's happened before and it will happen again.. but a lil bit more understanding a lil bit less aggression would be nice especially to one who is a new member..

... and Ian's post is much as I expect from him.. an anti feminist anti feminine rant.. I do agree with him though that the OP wrote a post which is nothing but her own opinion.. but as best I can tell she says nothing to contradict that view.. it is her personal view that she and others dont like willie pix...she is right and that is an undeniable fact if I may contradict Ian...some, even many others don't... and for anyone to get so worked up about her opinion is a mystery to me.. she is not the only person to have expressed a view that willie pix are not for them.. I've done it myself and on this thread too if u care to look.. and others have also.. and peeps will do it again in time.. an equally undeniable fact is that a different group of others like them... what's the point of us all getting so worked up about it? We have one view others have another... no one is suggesting banning them.. from what I read she gave a lil bit of advice to those who flash their bits.. take it or leave it.. but there was no need for anyone to get bloody offensive about it..

I just hope that the over sensitivities of those who have freaked about a new member expressing, as is her right on this site, a view with which they disagree and the vehemence and unpleasantness with which that freakery was itself expressed haven't by their over the top criticism frightened Adero08 off.. this is supposed to be a welcoming place... some myself included have been concerned for some time that it is not as welcoming as it once was... the attitudes of some in the way they addressed the concerns of a new member don't exactly give us much confidence that our observations and feelings about that are wrong..

Adero08's opinion is as valid as other member who has contributed to this thread.. good on her.. live with guys.. argue if you will but try and argue without undue rancour...

[Realist]

I was lucky, when I first joined up.

I posted something that was not too cool and I didn't get an admonishment, but a polite helping hand from one of the "oldtimers".

The person nicely suggested that I observe a while and think before I posted.
That way, I could get a feel for the protocol, as it were. I felt welcomed and appreciated the guidance.

More than a few have left, because of being harassed, and some of them were excellent, interesting, posters, too.

[bigi56]

My pic is a penis. So what. I'm not here for love and a long term relationship. I like sex. Let me say that again. I like sex. I like sex with females and with males, but i have no desire for involvement. I want someone like me. Not interested in a relationship, just some good old fashioned sex. You don't néed my face for that and I don't need yours. Your cock shot tells me what I want to know. I understand that some peope want a commitmemt and a life of wonder. Personally, I'm not interested in that. I just want you to be willing to let me suck your cock and you can suck mine.

[FinkDoodle]

OK, darkeyes . . so it's your contention that anybody can join any online group at any time and immediately try to change the status quo merely because it either wasn't what they expected or it offends them in some way.

Certainly doesn't sound very fair to the established members, does it?

[littlerayofsunshine]

New members need to be invited now do they? They don't have a right to an opinion? It has now become compulsory for them to have pics and profiles now before they comment on anything and express a view? Their opinion?

I don't consider the OP's post reprehensible in the least, nor is a particularly rant like even if she says it is.. its up to us all whether or not we say anything on our profile.. the only thing which seems to be compulsory is whether we are male or female.. and that me luffly is as it should be... you may disagree with what she said, but to feel it reprehensible that she had the temerity to say what she thought when she is new and had no profile? Take note.. SHE... turning quite so vehemently against a new member because she doesn't fit with your idea of what a member should be, should do.. and ripping into her because she says something with which you happen to disagree..

Such a nice way to greet a new member... it's happened before and it will happen again.. but a lil bit more understanding a lil bit less aggression would be nice especially to one who is a new member..

... and Ian's post is much as I expect from him.. an anti feminist anti feminine rant.. I do agree with him though that the OP wrote a post which is nothing but her own opinion.. but as best I can tell she says nothing to contradict that view.. it is her personal view that she and others dont like willie pix...she is right and that is an undeniable fact if I may contradict Ian...some, even many others don't... and for anyone to get so worked up about her opinion is a mystery to me.. she is not the only person to have expressed a view that willie pix are not for them.. I've done it myself and on this thread too if u care to look.. and others have also.. and peeps will do it again in time.. an equally undeniable fact is that a different group of others like them... what's the point of us all getting so worked up about it? We have one view others have another... no one is suggesting banning them.. from what I read she gave a lil bit of advice to those who flash their bits.. take it or leave it.. but there was no need for anyone to get bloody offensive about it..

I just hope that the over sensitivities of those who have freaked about a new member expressing, as is her right on this site, a view with which they disagree and the vehemence and unpleasantness with which that freakery was itself expressed haven't by their over the top criticism frightened Adero08 off.. this is supposed to be a welcoming place... some myself included have been concerned for some time that it is not as welcoming as it once was... the attitudes of some in the way they addressed the concerns of a new member don't exactly give us much confidence that our observations and feelings about that are wrong..

Adero08's opinion is as valid as other member who has contributed to this thread.. good on her.. live with guys.. argue if you will but try and argue without undue rancour...


Hunny, he's only mad because its not a Man basically saying the same thing. (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2195)


Dear Adero,

Don't take Ian too personally. I think there's rarely a long time active female forum member that he hasn't thrown his "Feminist" stones or even trying to make up words that represent such.

As for the other one *Shrugs* I guess he got over excited cause he didn't even know you were a woman.

Oh and don't look at my profile. Imma woman, but there's a cock pic in there.

Just a heads up :tong:

[littlerayofsunshine]

OK, darkeyes . . so it's your contention that anybody can join any online group at any time and immediately try to change the status quo merely because it either wasn't what they expected or it offends them in some way.

Certainly doesn't sound very fair to the established members, does it?

I don't see her as trying to change anything. I see her trying to give some constructive criticism, but her own flavor w/her personality.

If you take her post as a whole. It basically says "This is what I prefer, if you want to get to know me. I'm going to respond to those that fit my preference" or something along those lines.

And in regards to n00bs. One part of being a human being, even from the time of us as infants. One of the basic skills we learn is finding our own feet. There are those that lurk for a long time before joining a site and start off with few if any oopsies, but then there is the 80 percent of everyone else that jump in head first. And sometimes that makes things come to life. Not always a bad thing mind you.

Try giving someone a break. If life didn't need to renew with someone fresher. We wouldn't have babies and life would die out. Same with forums. You were new once. You probably didn't have such a hard transition because people weren't spouting off how n00b you were and to shut your pie hole.

Lemme give ya a flip side.

You post on average 6 times A YEAR. Since you joined. In the forum world. You're a n00b and by your standards. You're just trying to change what has always been.

Just saying.

Oh btw, you have to listen to what I say, because I'm 2 mos. older than you :bigrin: ( Just Kidding)

[darkeyes]

OK, darkeyes . . so it's your contention that anybody can join any online group at any time and immediately try to change the status quo merely because it either wasn't what they expected or it offends them in some way.

Certainly doesn't sound very fair to the established members, does it?

errrr....yes.. and...

errrr... sounds perfectly fair to me...:)

[nudeorphic]

Totally agree. Where's the person? Hobbies? Interests?

[_Joe_]

I broke the mold months ago and drew a picture of my penis, tied in a knot. Suffice to say the artistic merits did not do much for conversation.

[tenni]

When I first joined this site in 2006 I had no problem as I only posted 8 times in three years. When I had to create a new profile and name, I posted again, It felt like I was being viscously attacked by these "regulars" who told me that I wasn't using proper wording. What was wrong with me etc. No niceness until one kind lady did say something to me and she tried to help me.

I think that this poor woman has fallen into this scenario. Sorry, miss if my words were sarcastic a bit. Are you still here?


I was lucky, when I first joined up.

I posted something that was not too cool and I didn't get an admonishment, but a polite helping hand from one of the "oldtimers".

The person nicely suggested that I observe a while and think before I posted.
That way, I could get a feel for the protocol, as it were. I felt welcomed and appreciated the guidance.

More than a few have left, because of being harassed, and some of them were excellent, interesting, posters, too.

[sexylacaman]

My immediate reaction is; "I know, isn't it GREAT!" :tongue: I love looking at guys cocks when they want to show them off!!! Only thing better is sucking a nice one & getting a big sweet load! I suppose I do understand though, you do want to see what the guy looks like. That's why I put a variety of pics on my profile...

[TaylorMade]

I have a sliding scale... if you've written something about yourself , and throw in a pic of your bits and pieces - or no picture at all - I'll write you back.

If you have no information, but a picture, I won't write back...

I admit I'm just OVER the pictures of peoples genitalia. I admit I don't use this site to meet people much anymore anyhow.

*Taylor*

[adero08]

So, i thank you all for your opinions...even though most of you attacking me and i never atteacked anyone, it wasn't written in a negative way, but apparently thats how it was taken...so i am going to now attack you....

First off, i am not saying anything bad about the people who have posted their penises as profile pics. Unless your mad because you posted a pic and your penis is tiny...oh so sorry to insult you over compensating sense of humor.

Second...yes my profile is now and back then was slightly blank....but guess what i had just joined the site...did it not occur to any of you bad mouthing mongrels that i was just getting to know the site, i was trying to understand how to use it...i apologize if it was taking me longer than usual to do that... apparently i am not supposed to have a life and stay on the computer all of them time.

Third...so what? I am the bad guy because i have an opinion...but i guess the world would be a better place if everyone had the same opinion...too bad, life's not fair. I don't sugar coat anything for anyone, i tell it how i see it, if you don't agree with my opinion say it nicely, don't be a bitch and sit there and say everything bad like i am the stupid one...i already have a diploma from high school, i have a degree and i am currently working on another, so i am not stupid, quite the contrary i think i know more about the world than you seem to.

Fourth....don't talk to me like a child. I am be young but i am far from it when it comes to everything i do in life, trust me a plenty of people will testify to that one.

Fifth...i want to thank you again for your opinion, because it shows how close minded some people can be. Especially on the internet, because because someone is not sitting to the person's face they feel the need to say every little thing they can because they don't have to see the person they are saying it to. You have all also successfully given me a damn good reason never to come back to this site and never recommend it to anyone who is actually looking for a place that they can voice their opinion and talk to equally minded and mature people. I am sure this is a victory to you all...because small victories in life, especially on a site where things are practically anonymous, are all that matters.

PS...To the people who agree with my opinion in the first place...i thank you(For real), its nice to know there are some people in the world who aren't being close minded. I apologize if anything i said offended you in this post or my original one.

Have a great day!

[æonpax]

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If a penis is all you are looking for then, it's no problemo. Were I inclined to look for a guy though (which I'm not) a penis is not on my list. A filled out profile, sincerity and cleverness is always a plus.
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[adero08]

I take offense to this entire rant because it's not based on fact, but on opinion and ire. So many factually incoherent things here I don't know where to start. I'd first leave it at what DD said, but this does run into the nonsense of runaway feminism, which is to date still ire without focus.

First things first, there is no ALWAYS, no NEVER, and no EVERY except in small groups, but the "Every profile pic is of a penis..." is ridiculous because there ARE women members here, and they don't have said pictures, you couldn't have looked at every picture since you would have come across as many or more NOT showing franks and beans, and *I* have never posted such a picture even when I was very active here.

Second, "I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis..." the closing of this is an assumption, that men here want sex and therefore show off their penis...Have you asked them?

Third, "No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that." again, assumption. How do you know what others look for? Just because I wouldn't be attracted to such pictures that doesn't mean others do not. You do not speak for the flock, so please don't speak for the flock, that IS offensive despite the "No offense" disclaimer. We all go our own way here.

Fourth, "give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. ", my penis is not me, I am not my penis...you assume and project that idea that we live in our penises, and that our penises control our existence in some fashion. If I'm wrong, I'm sorry, but this statement is VERY offensive to me.

"You might get better, less creepy results...." They might...they might also get NO results, or get exactly the results they are looking for.

The entire rant is a SCREAM that the OP has an Omniscience that God would be jealous of, making decisions for the person and just being a pure feminist that doesn't realize her attitude is plain to see, rude to watch and vulgar in application.

Before anybody rants on ME, remember the truth is the truth, it can set you free, but it's not an insult. The OP pressed opinion as fact, I'm showing them to be opinions and not well thought out. I'm not here to be politic or nice, DD does a great job of that on her own. I'm just sick of watching men taking unneeded swings when they are PLENTY of titty shots with blurred faces here and the OP isn't squawking about those. Leads one to believe the very presence of a penis might be offensive BEFORE the pictures were displayed. Just me 2 cents.

I Apologize Ian if i have to Harvard degree to post on a forum, being that said i don't really care what you think because your argument itself goes completely off topic from what i thinking in the first place...second your argument is saved better for a soapbox on the street.

[Phreade9x3]

actually i think you'll find mine has a torso & a leg or two:cool:

[12voltman59]

My profile has plenty of pics and among them--there are no face or body part pics---and for this site---I don't intend to post those sorts of pics----because on here---my purpose was never to really "hook up" with someone----even though I have met and been with a few people I have met on here.

My original purpose on here was to try to figure out why relatively late in life--I was really wanting to do something that I had done on a very limited basis when I was young (having sex with other guys) and I figured that I was somehow off kilter for that being so---but I of course found that there were many others "in the same boat" as me on that score.

Well--I now have a fair number of experiences with other guys in the years since I first came here and have a good idea the nature of my bisexuality and how it fits into my life, but I still feel the same way about this site--I am not particularly out to meet people from here for "hook ups" even though if I do that is fine---I wish to be a member of this "community" and would rather it be that while my bisexuality has some importance here of course---it is not all that I want to be known for here and that is why I post up on political stuff on the forum boards, post up photos on my profile and the forum board that I have taken and other things of that nature----with the hope that people like that part of me and like me for those things more than just my sexuality.

I am however a member of several web sites that for pictures---I have posted "cock pics" and that seems appropriate at those sites---at the one site--I have met guys from it and they have been nice and all----so it is not a bad thing to only have penis pics posted at a site-----you still need to see if you have something in common with someone else, that they seem to be "nice," safe and other things that would make you want to spend time with them beyond just hooking up for some sex.

[dbltrbl69]

Quit whining buddy! A penis pic is half the reason I read a profile. Menu is always better with a picture of the food, ya know what to expect rather than mystery meat!! I've sucked nice penis on an ugly guy... Wouldn't care if he had 3 eyes and a thumb growing out of his forehead.... Well ok maybe a little lmfao!!!

[Annika L]

So, i thank you all for your opinions...even though most of you attacking me and i never atteacked anyone, it wasn't written in a negative way, but apparently thats how it was taken...so i am going to now attack you....

Don't lower yourself to their level hon...no good can come of that. If people were upset with you, that's their issue, no? No reason to make it yours.


Second...yes my profile is now and back then was slightly blank....but guess what i had just joined the site...did it not occur to any of you bad mouthing mongrels that i was just getting to know the site, i was trying to understand how to use it...i apologize if it was taking me longer than usual to do that... apparently i am not supposed to have a life and stay on the computer all of them time.

You need to be aware that your profile is still non-viewable. This is an easy mistake for a newbie to make...and I addressed in a previous post how you can fix it. Certainly take your time and fix it at your leisure, but it's best not to get nasty with people before you know what you're talking about.

[xercisecoach]

I so agree with everyone here... I'm not interested in contacting any guy who has a pic of his dick only even if it is monstrous.... I'm more attracted to men and women with nice smiles and nice eyes... then when you meet them if you get along and the chemistry is right then there might be sex... I'm not interested in any guy who just wants to drop to his knees and suck me off or wants me to do that to him. I love foreplay and lots of it... lots of kissing, massaging, licking.
Great to have someone finally say what were all thinking... come on guys, throw a face pic up there of what you look like.... I'm more inclined to say hi then...

[DuckiesDarling]

So, i thank you all for your opinions...even though most of you attacking me and i never atteacked anyone, it wasn't written in a negative way, but apparently thats how it was taken...so i am going to now attack you....

First off, i am not saying anything bad about the people who have posted their penises as profile pics. Unless your mad because you posted a pic and your penis is tiny...oh so sorry to insult you over compensating sense of humor.

Second...yes my profile is now and back then was slightly blank....but guess what i had just joined the site...did it not occur to any of you bad mouthing mongrels that i was just getting to know the site, i was trying to understand how to use it...i apologize if it was taking me longer than usual to do that... apparently i am not supposed to have a life and stay on the computer all of them time.

Third...so what? I am the bad guy because i have an opinion...but i guess the world would be a better place if everyone had the same opinion...too bad, life's not fair. I don't sugar coat anything for anyone, i tell it how i see it, if you don't agree with my opinion say it nicely, don't be a bitch and sit there and say everything bad like i am the stupid one...i already have a diploma from high school, i have a degree and i am currently working on another, so i am not stupid, quite the contrary i think i know more about the world than you seem to.

Fourth....don't talk to me like a child. I am be young but i am far from it when it comes to everything i do in life, trust me a plenty of people will testify to that one.

Fifth...i want to thank you again for your opinion, because it shows how close minded some people can be. Especially on the internet, because because someone is not sitting to the person's face they feel the need to say every little thing they can because they don't have to see the person they are saying it to. You have all also successfully given me a damn good reason never to come back to this site and never recommend it to anyone who is actually looking for a place that they can voice their opinion and talk to equally minded and mature people. I am sure this is a victory to you all...because small victories in life, especially on a site where things are practically anonymous, are all that matters.

PS...To the people who agree with my opinion in the first place...i thank you(For real), its nice to know there are some people in the world who aren't being close minded. I apologize if anything i said offended you in this post or my original one.

Have a great day!

Aderos, I hope you didn't take what I said as an attack, I was merely pointing out that it could be handled by changing options on your profile. But there is some merit in what a few pointed out that no one complains about tits and ass shots. In the end what people want to see is what they will say they want to see and then complain about the other things. To each their own I say.

[want2havefun]

Every profile pic is of a penis...therefore we'd like to see ALOT more pussy!
C'mon ladies!! :tongue: :tongue:


Seriously though...this whole thread/topic is a waste of bandwidth.
If you like looking, look...if you dont like looking, dont. The end.

[dafydd]

This is the best thread ever. I read every single response - not just the short ones.

I don't even know where i stand on this (hmmm..)

The trouble is...if you'd prefer a site that doesn't have other men featuring their cock, it's probably better to find a site that doesn't have every other thread featuring some description of cum eating, or cock loving or size jousting contests.

Most of the guys on here write stuff which is even more gratuitous, filthy and sordid then a cock pic on their profile. These men get off on using language so graphically........

.........and I get off on reading it.

There aren't many other forums out there where men can make me wet with their prose and their pricks (apart from Shakespunk.com)

Personally i only recently decided to put up a full frontal even though i was only half throttle. I think with nude photos you should be understated, because only then can you really grow on people.

What I personally want to see is a lot more bollocks.

d

[berryhard]

im thinking that guys that post cock pics are looking for cock, get what u give. Those that post happy smilling face shots are looking for a more personal relationship, those that post a full body shot are more looking for full body contact and snuggling etcetc.
Just a guess based on my contact with others here.
I certainly do agree that OP is being very critical and if OP has a problem with cock pics should just move on to a profile that pleases OP.
I don't get why so many are so critical on a site where being open and understanding should be the main foucus for ALL here. This is a place where we come to open up and share. Getting criticised isn't helpful and that should be left for the "real world" where negativity abounds.

[12voltman59]

To me---I think its fine if someone only wants to post pics of their privates, or not---or of their face or not---there should not be any sort of damn rules here--other than be civil and courteous towards others on here----one thing is for sure about bisexuality just like most other things about people----everyone has their own unique take on things and that diversity to me is just fine too---we are not some monolithic block, marching in formation---and that is what I like about this site----I guess if ya are a recently joined member here and what is already here is not to your liking--whatever that thing is you don't like--if you cannot stand that--then move it on along--don't go bitching about the way the site has been long before you got here--it sort of reminded me of when I was working for a newspaper that the local airport was building new runways and people who had recently moved into the area near the airport--with the airport having been here since the days of the Wright brothers--were bitching, pissing and moaning about and trying to stop the new runways from being built---even though as a reporter I had to bite my tongue and let them bitch when I interviewed them---I wanted to get up and tell them--"you moved into an area that the airport long predates your arrival--why did ya buy a half million dollar plus house anywhere near a large commercial airport???"


I feel that way about people who have just become members bitching about the way this site is--you just have to learn to accept that not every thing about the site is gonna be to your liking and get over it or find another web site more to your liking.

[shaver6]

I know one thing...if someone has a profile with a penis....it sure catches my eye quicker then a face. :tongue: I remember a saying from the 70's, when someone would mention that a person had a nice face....the other person would say...."Are you still fucking faces??" :bigrin:

[keefer201]

All good with me. My profile pic is of me bum. :bigrin:

[want2havefun]

To me---I think its fine if someone only wants to post pics of their privates, or not---or of their face or not---there should not be any sort of damn rules here--other than be civil and courteous towards others on here----one thing is for sure about bisexuality just like most other things about people----everyone has their own unique take on things and that diversity to me is just fine too---we are not some monolithic block, marching in formation---and that is what I like about this site----I guess if ya are a recently joined member here and what is already here is not to your liking--whatever that thing is you don't like--if you cannot stand that--then move it on along--don't go bitching about the way the site has been long before you got here--it sort of reminded me of when I was working for a newspaper that the local airport was building new runways and people who had recently moved into the area near the airport--with the airport having been here since the days of the Wright brothers--were bitching, pissing and moaning about and trying to stop the new runways from being built---even though as a reporter I had to bite my tongue and let them bitch when I interviewed them---I wanted to get up and tell them--"you moved into an area that the airport long predates your arrival--why did ya buy a half million dollar plus house anywhere near a large commercial airport???"


I feel that way about people who have just become members bitching about the way this site is--you just have to learn to accept that not every thing about the site is gonna be to your liking and get over it or find another web site more to your liking.

Its is strange how on the net some folks will bitch about content, when the type of content is pretty much a given.

In another life I moderated an adults only forum designed for regular folks to share erotic and sexually explicit pics of themselves and discuss all manner of adult topics. It also had an adult chat room. The only rules...be polite, no flaming.
It never ceased to amaze me how some retards would join the site and then bitch about some x rated pictures they didnt like or say they were 'only there for friendship' etc. These same type morons would whine about people engaging in explicit conversation or cyber in the chat room etc.

This kind of stupidity is just like going to your local public library, stripping naked and talking extremely loud, then bitching about all the people who are wearing clothes and being quiet. ;)

[koopatroopa33]

I see nothing wrong here, although some more pussy would be nice :P

[dafydd]

I know one thing...if someone has a profile with a penis....it sure catches my eye quicker then a face. :tongue: I remember a saying from the 70's, when someone would mention that a person had a nice face....the other person would say...."Are you still fucking faces??" :bigrin:


lol priceless!

can i just say, that i do object to the use of the word 'penis' in this thread. stop it!
it's a very medical sounding word.
it's not sexy at all. thanks

d

[pantytimbmd]

I just love seeing the variety of cocks in the profile pics. I mostly could not care less about a face. I want to see what I am eating here!

[nudistharry]

My profile pic is one of my tattoos. I also have a face pic here. I have no penis pics on here. I have a few of my nude pics posted in a PW protected page on photobucket.

I don't care if others post nude pics here but if they do then it is nice to see more then just their penis or ass.

[ukcat69]

My first post. I skimmed and scanned the responses and didn't see this point raised. "What about those that are in the closet or do not want to be recognized by coworkers, friends, etc?"

[Paul B.]

Lions and tigers and penises-OH My!!!

[daldav]

I'm sure it's been said,but my take is this,if all you see is cock and balls chances are the person attached to said cock and balls is married,or is not ready to come out as a bisexual.I would love to post photos of all of me,but can't because I'm not ready to have my wife divorce me.My ugly mug probably would cause people to leave this site,and we don't want that.
Many of us just can't take the chance of being discovered,and I'm one of those.So please cut us some slack.There are many profiles that have nary a photo of anything,and that seems strange to me.
Once I get to know someone I gladly show my face in a photo,and then were all happy

[xdressslut]

Mine is not of my penis, although i have it included with the other pics because i'm asked to show it alot.

[mwmrichva]

Well I am interested in looking at hard cocks, I'm not looking for a romantic encounter, just sex with another guy. Unlike you I at least have a filled out a profile.

[RobUK]

I know what you mean - I'd love to meet someone on here, but I look at so many profiles with just dick photos! Not to say that isn't nice, but there isn't that much variation from one dick to another - I'd like to see their face somewhere on there...

[nudistharry]

I can fully understand why someone would not want to show their face on here. But surely they can show more then their penis. Pics from the shoulders down would be nice to see.

[void()]

Never been enough of an exhibitionist to think "gee, I'll just show everyone my cock." Never been vain enough either. Was told at a young age, "you're unique just like everyone else." Sometimes nice to see cocks, though. Sometimes it's not. I rather see a person and for me that's in the eyes. No worries tough if you want to post dick picks. It makes you unique, like everybody else. Overlook me I'm a nutter, and invisible.

[bcvegas4u]

I noticed all the penis posts years ago. That is when I decided to do something different....I posted my butt. It's easier to pick out of a crowded lineup &, if you tilt your head a little, there's even a bit of a smile.

[drugstore cowboy]

There are some hot pics of penises on this site!

[Dapper_Fellow]

So I uploaded photos for my account, yet I cannot seem to figure out how to assign one a profile picture. Perhaps this has been addressed in this thread already, but I got sick of reading the same types of responses over and over. I personally don't give a hoot if you want to show us your goods, I prefer to keep those pics to myself until I am sure that they won't fall into the wrong hands. Imagine how much it would suck to know that somebody is making money off of pictures of your junk, and you weren't getting a cut.

[TXLonestarTX69]

Yea, well at least there is a picture...and a profile...which is a lot more than can be said about yours...just saying. Please refrain from criticizing if you are not qualified to do so.

[QUOTE=adero08;211322]I know some men are proud of their penis. I get that, that is fine. i know some men want sex on this site, so they show off their penis...okkkaayyy, but if you really wanna hook someone stop getting hard and posting it on your profile. No offense, but i nor others would never ever be interested in something like that. give us a smile on your face once and a while and not your mini me. You might get better, less creepy results....

[biinlou]

I say yuck!

[switch8909]

I've tried to be a little different. In my full on crotch shot, I'm wearing a chastity device.

[BiCplAz]

There are several penis shots on my site but they are busy not just hanging or standing there.

[jcorlando]

I am afraid someone will recognize ... my tallywacker, with the mole near the meatus :)...but so far no problem!

[mas8092]

My picture is of me sucking a cock. The guy I sucked is proud of the photo! But, I'm not identifiable for many reasons. Being married is not one of them.

[Bicouplems19]

Ditto