Long Duck Dong
Sep 30, 2011, 2:37 AM
a group of my LGBT friends regularly meet at a local pub ( not a LGBT bar ), for fun, drinks and socialising..... its a casual group, and most of them are not into the casual sex scene... but a disturbing trend is starting to emerge for them..
they are beginning to notice that they are often hassled for quickie sex while out on the town, by strangers wanting casual sex in the toilets at the local bar, and started to find that they are getting more and more abused when they politely refuse.....
one of my friends has the classic surf body and looks, is attractive and poly.... so he attracts a lot of attention, but he is getting sick of being seen as good for a quickie.....something he is noticing, happens in other towns that he travels to as well.... and he is just one of a few of the group that are growing tired of constantly being hit on....
unfortunately its getting to the point that the group are thinking about shifting to a private home cos of the unwanted attentions.... and while some of them are fine with casual sex, they too have said that its getting so annoying that they can not even go out for a drink with friends without being expected to sneak into the toilets cos somebody wants to have a BJ etc etc
after a lil investigation, it came to light that the local LGBT support group was circulating a rumour about my friends gathering at the bar, that it was in fact a LGBT hook up group... part of a on going vendetta cos the LGBT support group was not attracting members while my friends group was very popular....
as a few of my friends said, its a emerging pattern in many social gatherings that you go to them, you are liable to be hit on a lot... and insulted if you say no....... and that it is getting to the point that its becoming more difficult for some of the people in the group to come out as lgbt, as they are facing the same BS.... the same misunderstanding that being LGBT, means that you will sleep with anybody whenever sex is offered or wanted.......
as a number of members of this site have noticed, you go to the chat and you will get hit on, or PMed even if you say not interested on your profile
what part of here for our enjoyment, not your pleasure, do people not understand about the LGBT, or are we just automatically labelled as available 24/7 for others pleasure, when we say we are LGBT ???
they are beginning to notice that they are often hassled for quickie sex while out on the town, by strangers wanting casual sex in the toilets at the local bar, and started to find that they are getting more and more abused when they politely refuse.....
one of my friends has the classic surf body and looks, is attractive and poly.... so he attracts a lot of attention, but he is getting sick of being seen as good for a quickie.....something he is noticing, happens in other towns that he travels to as well.... and he is just one of a few of the group that are growing tired of constantly being hit on....
unfortunately its getting to the point that the group are thinking about shifting to a private home cos of the unwanted attentions.... and while some of them are fine with casual sex, they too have said that its getting so annoying that they can not even go out for a drink with friends without being expected to sneak into the toilets cos somebody wants to have a BJ etc etc
after a lil investigation, it came to light that the local LGBT support group was circulating a rumour about my friends gathering at the bar, that it was in fact a LGBT hook up group... part of a on going vendetta cos the LGBT support group was not attracting members while my friends group was very popular....
as a few of my friends said, its a emerging pattern in many social gatherings that you go to them, you are liable to be hit on a lot... and insulted if you say no....... and that it is getting to the point that its becoming more difficult for some of the people in the group to come out as lgbt, as they are facing the same BS.... the same misunderstanding that being LGBT, means that you will sleep with anybody whenever sex is offered or wanted.......
as a number of members of this site have noticed, you go to the chat and you will get hit on, or PMed even if you say not interested on your profile
what part of here for our enjoyment, not your pleasure, do people not understand about the LGBT, or are we just automatically labelled as available 24/7 for others pleasure, when we say we are LGBT ???