giving a blow job

[Fun guy 6969]

I have not given a bj to another guy in awhile, but if things go right I will be in the very near future.
Like to get some ideas from more expierenced guys on how to give a bj to another guy so he and I really enjoy it. What are your thoughts and procedures?

[Chemo29]

Don't have to much to drink to calm your nerves. My second time with a guy he was very nervous and had to many drinks before we got together. We were 69'ing and he was so drunk he was dragging his teeth (rubbed a sore on my dick :yikes2:) I had to ask him to stop (which he didn't take to very well cause he was drunk) and we didn't see each other again.

[mnTIMIDguy]

If you can manage it, have your tongue pressing on his urethra while he's cumming. It's a remarkably intimate sensation for you (at least, it is for me).

[ErosUrge]

To me giving a blow job is a very special moment. I am usually one of those who goes into great detail about how to proceed with anything so I'll do my best to keep it to the point and short.

First of all, try to put yourself in his place, (whoever he is) and remember what it felt like when you received a great blow job. This can help. And then do it with passion. Simply get into it as though you love doing it....of course, it helps if you do love it. And if you do, there shouldn't be any problems. I would suggest staying with it all the way to the end and swallowing. If you don't think you can, I'd suggest trying to learn to appreciate it. It just feels so much better when the person sucking not only stays with it to the end but also swallows. Though the person receiving has a great orgasm, spitting it out can be a let down....

There are so many kinds of techniques to use. But if you pay close attention to his responses, you can't go wrong....

[pepperjack]

To me giving a blow job is a very special moment. I am usually one of those who goes into great detail about how to proceed with anything so I'll do my best to keep it to the point and short.

First of all, try to put yourself in his place, (whoever he is) and remember what it felt like when you received a great blow job. This can help. And then do it with passion. Simply get into it as though you love doing it....of course, it helps if you do love it. And if you do, there shouldn't be any problems. I would suggest staying with it all the way to the end and swallowing. If you don't think you can, I'd suggest trying to learn to appreciate it. It just feels so much better when the person sucking not only stays with it to the end but also swallows. Though the person receiving has a great orgasm, spitting it out can be a let down....

There are so many kinds of techniques to use. But if you pay close attention to his responses, you can't go wrong.... key words here are "his responses." My last guy was very unresponsive; basically a dead lay. I mentioned it a couple of times, he said he was enjoying it and I could tell by his cock's reactions he was, but it was disappointing. Half the fun for me is those moans of pleasure & physical spasms; the more he reacts, the more passionately I suck; I learned how to suck good by knowing how I like it & watching a lot of porn. He left sated anyway.

[goldenfinger]

Try so suck on a mint flavored lolly at the same time, should send him wild.

[cornholejoe]

the last guy i did was really into it in fact he got so hot i got to top him

[Realist]

Hopefully, he's a good communicator and can tell you what he likes.

Just because one person may want a certain technique, that doesn't mean the next person will want the same.


Lovers I've found the easiest to please were those who could direct me down the right path. I have no problem telling a lover what I like.

[ErosUrge]

key words here are "his responses." My last guy was very unresponsive; basically a dead lay. I mentioned it a couple of times, he said he was enjoying it and I could tell by his cock's reactions he was, but it was disappointing. Half the fun for me is those moans of pleasure & physical spasms; the more he reacts, the more passionately I suck; I learned how to suck good by knowing how I like it & watching a lot of porn. He left sated anyway.

Yes, no doubt that it adds so much more to your own pleasure of sucking when the person receiving is responding....otherwise as you've pointed out, it is indeed a "dead" lay....

[JennyKent]

I think 30% out of 100 women giving a blow job with their partner because they want more sexual intercourse and they enjoy it rather than blow job.

[pantytimbmd]

I like to start by lightly kissing the head, then the shaft, and then his balls. I then like to suck eack nut for awhile. Then I progress to taking just the head in my mouth and sucking it while swirling my tongue around it. Then, little by little I slowly tak him deeper and deeper in my mouth until I feel the head touch the back of my throat. Then I slide my mouth up and down increasing speed until he shoots that wonderful cum in my mouth and down my throat. Sometimes I feel a little nasty and have him shoot all over my face instead!

[guylooking4play]

First off I am one of those who believes that only a guy can give another guy a great blowjob since he has the same parts and knows what feels good. Working the head is a great way to start even lick the pee hole. Then slowly begin to lick and caress the shaft down to the balls wrap your hands and tongue arount it sliding up and down. Pop the balls into your mouth and wrap your tongue around them one at a time. You can also move your tongue down to that place between the bottom of the balls and the ahole give that area some attention with your tongue. Work the shaft in and out of your mouth while you are also using your hands on the shaft in a circular motion. This will cause a great eruption of wonderful warm delicious cum that you can savor.

[maxtor]

it has been a while since i gave a blow job. i have had my teeth out since i had a cock in my mouth so i am anxious to try and see what pleasure i can give without worrying about the teeth. i think i can get some good vacuum without the teeth. i think i may have found a friend within a distance that we can get together soon so i will be able to give him a big blow job. i want to give him so much pleasure without orgasm and then let him mount me and fuck me till he shoots me full of sperm. love to get sperm in me and let it ooze out down my legs.

[want2havefun]

First off I am one of those who believes that only a guy can give another guy a great blowjob since he has the same parts and knows what feels good.

I regard that as a huge myth often perpetuated by people on all sides of the coin who would prefer to think they are the 'best' at it. Factually speaking anyone who loves giving oral sex, understands human sexual anatomy, understands the male or female they are servicing, and has developed oral techniques accordingly, can can give oral pleasure as well anyone else...gender notwithstanding. And that is pretty much how it works. :)

Now, if you removed the word ONLY from your statement it would/could be true.

And if you wanted to argue that gay & bi males spend more time/effort perfecting the art of cock sucking than str8 women do that may be true also.

[want2havefun]

What are your thoughts and procedures?

My thought is dont call it a 'procedure'. lol...;)

The best oral sex given is generally given by the one who LOVES to give it.

[PrettyFlowingGown]

if its with a guy you really like and you thinks hes hot, make it as romantic as you can. i love foreplay, lots of kissing, touching, etc before i give a man or cd a blowjob. i caress it first, tickle it (a man loves that), play with it then kiss it up and down, and then lick it gently. i love licking a gorgous penis, and if its already hard by then, its easier and smoother to take it beautifully in my mouth, then I GO TO TOWN!!! on it.