GloryHoles...Yes or No

[BradNDallas]

Hey guys and gals, give me your opinions of gloryholes....Ive never experienced one but have thought about it and the idea of it sounds great. Would you advise for or against them.....Private or book store? What are y'alls thoughts?

[12voltman59]

The only way I would say it would be OK to do one-is to make one of your own and only do that with a guy or guys on a "role playing" basis that you can at least relatively trust are free of "the nasties" otherwise--it is simply a very dangerous thing to do in terms of picking up some form of STD to also include the kinds of places they tend to be---often in "seedier" locations that pose other risks such as an unsavory element that might want to rob people or worse.

If there are still glory holes in ABSs---that they are more public could lead to possibly getting you arrested--I know that in my area----there are usually more undercover cops checking out the booths in the stores than there are actual customers. They don't do it all the time like they did for a time here (they no longer need to on a regular basis)--but the local PDs used to run multi-department task forces to catch people doing things like that---then when they caught the people---splashed their faces and names on the local TV newscasts and in the local papers. Its not hardly worth the possible fun of doing a glory hole to have that sort of problem.

I guess this is my, as usual, long winded way of saying--NO--I don't think that gloryholes are a good idea for a number of reasons.

[Gearbox]

I've never tried, so I don't really know. But at the mo, I'm not drawn to trying it, because I like body contact and not really satisfied with just bj's.
I might be wrong though! The thrill of it might be really good.:tongue:

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Maybe Im just being a prude in my old age, but it just doesnt sound all that exciting to me. I mean..I like to pick and choose my lovers by personality and bearing, not by just some random cock stuck thru a hole..
Sorry, just my humble :2cents:
Cat, party pooper..LOL

[fredtyg]

I think you need to clarify what you mean about doing gloryholes: Getting sucked off at one, or doing the sucking?

I don't see all that much risk from disease by getting your dick sucked at a GH. Sucking random cocks at a GH would be, though.

It does sound kind of fun to me, regardless, but I'd really prefer to see the whole guy first before doing anything with him.

[tenni]

I also like the body contact and to know who I'm getting blown by. This isn't for me but I am aware that a lot of bi/gay men like the anonymity of this type of sex action whether it is glory holes, bj in parks, or bath houses etc. From what I hear it is all about the unknown, impersonal sex that excites some guys. I have also read where some guys will post on a Craiglist page for men that they have made a glory hole in their own home. They want a guy (stranger) to walk in and go to a certain room where there will be a hole. The "guest" sticks his dick through the hole and gets blown. Nothing is said and the "guest" leaves immediately.

I've never heard of a woman being involved but nothing is impossible. Since a lot of these glory holes are in men's washrooms, it would be unusual for a woman to walk in to a cubicle where there is a glory hole and a guy's dick on the other side:cool:

[mikey3000]

Yeah, I'm a big no. How do you know there isn't a psycho on the other side with a big knife? :eek:

[silverhunter]

Not to big on glory holes either, to strange...

[jackbirdjay]

now I wouldn't dare go there. back in the late 70's early 80's did go to them. Now to risky. I must say it was hot

[FinkDoodle]

Sorry . . I'm not quite that desperate . . .

[biguycancun]

Absolutely no! The risks are enormous. Granted, some get off on risks, like sex in public, crossdressing in public, etc. But putting your dick through a hole in a wall and blindly trusting whoever is on the other side of that wall is crazy, as is taking a strangers dick into your mouth or other orifice. Seems like a shortcut to disease at best and death at worst.

[Realist]

I was talking to a fellow who lives in Pa about this issue, today.

He told me he was in a truck stop in Ohio, a some years ago, and a truck driver stuck his cock through a hole in the patrician of the rest room stall, at a truck stop. Whoever was on the other side, ran an ice pick through it, robbed him, then left him standing there screaming!

He not only was he hurt and lost his money, , but the police stuck him with a big fine and some jail time!

Personally, I've never been interested in being intimate with anyone I don't know well.....and glory holes would put anyone in a very bad position for this same thing to happen!!

It hurt me just to hear him discuss it!

[fredtyg]

A short story related to my earlier post where I wrote I'd prefer to see the guy first. I was thinking about this today and remembered a story a fellow queer told me a few years ago:

He was up at a highway rest stop north of where I live. One of the toilet stalls had a glory hole that was supposedly pretty popular back in the day. He was sitting there waiting for action.

Some guy came and stuck a huge cock in the hole- one of the biggest and nicest he'd ever seen. He sucked on it, loving every second of it. The guy came a lot and he swallowed it all down. One of the best blow jobs he'd ever had the pleasure of giving, he said.

They were done and both left the stalls about the same time. It was the first time he got to see the whole guy with the awesome cock he'd just sucked. "Ugliest guy I've ever seen.", he said.

[drugstore cowboy]

Personally, I've never been interested in being intimate with anyone I don't know well...

It hurt me just to hear him discuss it!

It sounds as though you and your "friend" is just making up stories that are based on urban legends and scare tactics rather than actual facts.

[ErosUrge]

ugh!!!....I can't believe some of the comments about this....as if anyone who has ever or does engage in this kind of activity is only doing it in an unsafe manner or that some weirdo is on the other side and going to make mincemeat out of your dick....or only because you're desperate; dear me!...

How many times have criticisms been placed upon anyone who indulges in anal and especially if you're male?....or pleasuring males orally and swallowing their cum? or 3ways, 4ways, moreways, etc...Granted, it's not for everyone. There are certainly things I don't care for nor indulge in, but don't think it's my place to be critical. If one is engaging in this kind of play safely and they enjoy it, I simply don't think they are weirdos...If some don't care for it, of course that's okay. I just think it wrong to make such comments as though those who do indulge or have aren't quite right...at least that's the impression that's given from some of the comments.

Are there limits or should there be on sexual behavior?; of course. Especially when it harms others or imposes someone's will on another human being without their consent. I just don't think that this kind of activity fits into that mold.

I realize all the reasoning about disease and risk taking; please, no lectures on that as that is so obvious...I'm not talking about the obvious here....

[barebum4]

Seems like an incredibly dangerous thing to engage in!

[Jobelorocks]

I think you need to clarify what you mean about doing gloryholes: Getting sucked off at one, or doing the sucking?

I don't see all that much risk from disease by getting your dick sucked at a GH. Sucking random cocks at a GH would be, though.

It does sound kind of fun to me, regardless, but I'd really prefer to see the whole guy first before doing anything with him.

Well since you can contract genital herpes when someone with oral herpes gives you oral sex I would say that is not true. So always wear a condom!

[elian]

Nothing glorious about those..most of the ones I've seen are dirty and stained - respect yourself enough to look the other person in the face.

[69luvr]

I enjoy going to a glory hole and anticipating what will happen. When the next room is finally occupied I thoroughly love watching the occupant play with himself to xxx movies. Finally when he decides to insert his cock into the glory hole it is sheer delight! I suggest that you try it.:bipride:

[69luvr]

Hey guys and gals, give me your opinions of gloryholes....Ive never experienced one but have thought about it and the idea of it sounds great. Would you advise for or against them.....Private or book store? What are y'alls thoughts?

I love gloryholes anywhere. they are fun and I love them.:bipride:

[FloridaFun69]

People can do what they enjoy, but for me it is a "no go". I'm concerned not only with STD/HIV exposure, but I enjoy my sexual relationships to involve, well, an actual relationship. If all I need is to get my rocks off, I can do that by myself in the bathroom, and I won't be exposed to some nasty disease, or somebody that didn't brush their teeth and scrape that crud off their tongue.

[bamabiguy63]

now I wouldn't dare go there. back in the late 70's early 80's did go to them. Now to risky. I must say it was hot

Likewise. I was a frequent visitor in the 70's and loved sucking anonymous cocks. Today, I don't think it's a great idea. Seems diseases are more prevalent today then back in "the day". I prefer the more personal approach these days.

[keefer201]

I have to say that this question was on my mind the other day. Even just as a fantasy I'd love to be on the other side of the wall and having guys stick their cocks through the hole for me to suck. The idea of them not having a clue as to who is on the other side really turns me on.

[welickit]

Glory holes never interested us. We have been going to porn theaters since we were teens and do enjoy that. We play around and guys stand and watch and jerk off or blow each other. The place we frequent now has a leather sofa down front for couples which is fun. Usually very slow until the snow birds arrive then it gets to be more fun. :2cents: :bipride:

[upones]

tried them and not my favorite but still like to give oral pleasure

[verruckt_wut]

the idea of it sounds hot, its great to watch in a porn and maybe fantasize about, yet in real life...sounds a bit dangerous...

If it was a group of guys I personally knew then I might consider it.

[bijohnmpls]

I went to one a while ago and was not my thing.

[MrBisex]

Tried it out and see how you feel about it.

But a lot of them are kind of dirty with old semen hanging down, but I guess some people like that too.

[othercat]

due to std's i wouldnt do it, however in a safe and controlled enviroment it sounds like a good way to give or receive a no strings attached blow job.

[keith_barb_oh]

it was ten years ago i went into a bookstore with the movie booths and started watching the movies that you watch with buy putting in a quarter for a few minutes. After 10 mins i noticed a hole in the wall with a finger sticking through.
At first i freaked out ... then I touched it and he pulled it out.
Suddenly i saw a hard cock coming through the hole... so i thought "what the hell" I'm in another state and no one knows me... so I grabbed it, he must have loved it since it got so hard. after a bit i it was leaking so much precum!
it felt so good ... i have no idea why but I just had to suck it... first time eveeeeer.

i sucked it for a while and suddenly it stiffened more and let go a load in my mouth.

it was fun but i never tried it again.

Keith

[bullhead69]

Speaking of glory holes, if there were ten holes, and ten guys with erections sticking their dicks through the holes, could your wife/partner pick it out? Just wondering..

[BiCplAz]

I also like the body contact and to know who I'm getting blown by. This isn't for me but I am aware that a lot of bi/gay men like the anonymity of this type of sex action whether it is glory holes, bj in parks, or bath houses etc. From what I hear it is all about the unknown, impersonal sex that excites some guys. I have also read where some guys will post on a Craiglist page for men that they have made a glory hole in their own home. They want a guy (stranger) to walk in and go to a certain room where there will be a hole. The "guest" sticks his dick through the hole and gets blown. Nothing is said and the "guest" leaves immediately.

I've never heard of a woman being involved but nothing is impossible. Since a lot of these glory holes are in men's washrooms, it would be unusual for a woman to walk in to a cubicle where there is a glory hole and a guy's dick on the other side:cool:

You need to go to the Yahoo group "Adultbookstoresandgloryholes" More good looking women sucking cocks through holes in ABS walls than U can imagine.

[69luvr]

Hey guys and gals, give me your opinions of gloryholes....Ive never experienced one but have thought about it and the idea of it sounds great. Would you advise for or against them.....Private or book store? What are y'alls thoughts?

I love Gloryholes anywhere. I especially love them in an adult book store while watching lesbians kissing and groping. I enjoy feeling a guys firmness and respect the way he reacts to my touching him. I enjoy cum kissing and that is virtually a no/no in a gloryhole situation- unfortunately.

[jhg50]

glory holes are fun. a married women i see introduced me to a couple and after a couple threesomes with them they invited me to a private party. since everyone had to sign a agrement saying they are df i knew it was safe. it was at a house in what looked like a big garage. there was 12 other couples and 10 single men there. after taking our clothes of i noticed after about 30 min men were going to what looked like a 10 by 10 room in back of the building. it had holes all around it. i found out the rules were 1 man and one women had to be inside together so you never knew who was sucking you. i tried it both ways and it was great. everyone rotated every 30 min and i tried it 3 times. just sat in a rolling chair and waited for the next cock to come through the holes. some were hard some were soft but it was great

[*pan*]

I've never tried, so I don't really know. But at the mo, I'm not drawn to trying it, because I like body contact and not really satisfied with just bj's.
I might be wrong though! The thrill of it might be really good.:tongue:

i feel exactly the same as gearbox, i never been but to think of just someone behind a hole in the wall is kinda scary to me to put your thing in a hole like that not knowing who's on the other side and i don't get excited thinking about it. if it were just a matter of getting off heck i can do that my self if need be and save the trip and trouble. my excitement comes from the emotions, intimacy and touching feeling taste and smelling, the body contact ect .. well sorry getting carried away gota go lol

[eyeluv2look]

I only do the ones that guys have set up in thier privet home. I believe they are safer because he one wants to be discrete and not be outed and two he's less likely to be a nut case if he owns a home. Also if a guy is unattractive I can't get hard this way on the other side he's a prince :)

[NjbiGuy01]

I used to find it very hot. Did suck a couple of guys in the 70's through one, very erotic. Now, I am a more individual, and it means more to me when I know the person, care about them, and need not fear disease or worse....not to say I still don't enjoy watching GH videos with guys and gals in them....

[cuttin2dachase]

Anonymous, spontaneous sex at adult bookstores/theaters etc. has never appealed to me..with women or men or couples. Seeking sex with total strangers in seedy places is inviting trouble...in the form of std's or abduction, rape, murder, robbery or being busted by undercover cops as a a degenerate pervert LOL Now...that being said...I enjoy seeking meetups with likeminded total strangers online..... women or men or couples.... and with no pics exchanged...that kind of "anonymous" is exciting to me. It's rarely spontaneous since I and she/he/they are being cautious and getting to know a bit about each other before arranging a meetup. The primary desire is for fun and sex and the secondary desire is to make friends or begin dating if we click and desire more....then it's time to explore....

[BatCox40]

due to std's i wouldnt do it, however in a safe and controlled enviroment it sounds like a good way to give or receive a no strings attached blow job.

With all the negative comments made, i think we have forgotten that it is not all bad. Don't get me wrong and i completely agree that the aforementioned potential dangers of not knowing what lurks on the other side of the GH are absolutely true. Though more controlled or safer environments DO exist and i have seen them at Swingers clubs where couples/groups engage in sexual activity. In one particular club, men can gather round and peer through eye holes whilst choosing to place their penis though a gloryhole or not. From then on, whoever is inside can choose to suck on any penis that may be placed through the wall.

[ErosUrge]

I've never tried, so I don't really know. But at the mo, I'm not drawn to trying it, because I like body contact and not really satisfied with just bj's.
I might be wrong though! The thrill of it might be really good.:tongue:

Obviously it's not for everyone and to comment over and over again about the risks etc is something that all of us already understand and know...but people feel the need to throw those comments in anyway...so be it.

So Gear, with understanding the risks and having the sense to know when and who to play with this way, it can be remarkable. All the descriptions of needing to know the other person, full body contact, etc....does not apply here as that should be a given with glory holes or any other sexual encounter. It's a step away from the usual. Some of us love it and some of us loathe it and some of us don't care at all or care to even try it.

The only way I know how to describe the pleasure of it comes from this unique sensation of entrusting your cock to the person on the other side. Something seems to change once your cock is dangling there or in full erection to the open air waiting for the moment that warm wet sensation of a mouth moves onto and over it. And once that mouth is on it, it's as though all the sensations are totally focused on that one area (the cock) which seems to increase and intensify since that is all your body can pick up on. If the hole allows the balls to be exposed then extreme pleasure comes from the licking and sucking of them too. And it all depends on the skill of the person on the other side too. If they're really good then the pleasure is remarkable. The pleasure for the person doing the sucking comes from the simple pleasure of an erect cock and set of balls through the hole....nothing else...and of course the sensations received from that cock inside the mouth feeling the response to the attention given; sucking, licking, nibbling, etc....and sometimes hearing the moans from the other side of the wall adds to the pleasure of sucking. And as it continues, the incredible rush that takes place at the moment of orgasm. Somehow sensations are heightened from no other part of your body being involved; it's very unique.

This isn't something to replace the enjoyment of full contact sex; how could it? But it is a nice pleasure that deviates from the norm on the rare occasion if you can find someone you trust and a nice hole to do it; perhaps in their home as some have described already.

Again, I realize this isn't for everybody; it is certainly a level of kink...but I don't think the idea of this post was to try to convince anyone that they should try it if they're opposed to it. We all have our ways and ideas of what we enjoy and this is just another possibility.

[natsuto]

A truck driver insisted through his cock, a hole in a truck parked in the nobility of the lounge booths. Who is the other side, ran ice picks, robbed him and then left him standing there screaming!

[ohbimale]

I would be open to trying it. Never done a glory hole, but it might be fun.

[BiOlyMale]

Over the years I've sucked a few cocks myself, but it's pretty much always been in a private setting and we knew each other and sucked each other. Most of the guys I have sucked were also married and were adament that they likewise did NOT want to take anything nasty home to their wives so were Very careful, and more importantly, Very CLEAN. However I do Love the excitement of the annonamous blowjobs thru the gloryholes and I visit them as often as I can. However I do NOT suck there, but I always cum Really good when my cock's thru the hole and some complete stranger is on the other side sucking it and doing his best to make me cum!! I did once get so excited that I wanted to try to hold off cumming for a bit and pulled my cock out when I got close and the other guy took that as a sign it was his turn and since I was already to Hot and he had a really nice looking cock and I could even Smell how clean he was, like he'd just got out of the shower, I dropped to my knees and went to work on it. I did stop before he came though and just finished jerking him off until he shot all over my bare chest, then I put mine back thru and he finished sucking me and swallowed my load. So I guess in my long-winded way I'd have to say "Yes" to gloryholes, at least as for getting sucked off, but not for doing the sucking.

[foreverbi]

I have never had the opportunity to visit a G/H, but when I was younger I always wanted too. Now that I am older I find myself thinking "what if" the guy on the other side of the wall is a gay/basher or just a plane old pervert. Just imagine the things someone could do to your pride & joy. Suddenly the idea of sticking my dick through a hole in the wall seems rather foolish. If this scenario were ever to happen I would much rather be the one on my knees sucking the dick that came through the hole to me. I then worry that the dick that comes in my stall to be sucked is completely full of AIDS or some other nasty disease. So my answer would have to be (begrudgingly) NO!

[funfred60]

Love the thought of having a glory hole and sucking as many cocks as possible. Ummm, all that cum to taste and swallow. My favorite fantasy is to be in a room full of guys and sucking each of them off, one right after another. Unfortunately, it's just not safe, too many bugs.

[taz321]

10 years ago or maybe it was a little longer than that, I used to go to the adult bookstore and and found that is was pretty hot to look through the peep hole and watch guys play with themselves while they were watching porn and then wait for them to stick their cock through the hole, at first I would just jack them off then after a few visits I started to suck them off and found out that it was pretty hot to suck a guy that did'nt know who he was getting sucked by! I really love sucking cock so it was pretty hot for me too, then I realized it was just to risky so I stopped going! I kind of miss the excitement of it but it is just to risky now!

[onesucker4u]

I have been seriousely considering this lately, because noone has wanted to meet me in person since my girlfriend left. I really want a private MM encounter with someone safe , but am constantly thinking of sucking cock! Why is it so hard to meet a man in Dallas?

[shyer]

I would like to try ,as long that I know who's on the other side or in a motel room with a group and someone ,put a hole in plywood and put in front of the bathroom door.but not at a public place liks an adult theater,because you don't know who it is.;)

[IndyBiFun]

Without a doubt.......no way!

[slipnslide]

Gotta agree with the majority here, way too much risk for little reward.

[romeodt]

I also use to visit them back in the 80's. It was alway's very exciting to me to suck or be sucked by a strange mouth! And like other's suggested, if you wanted to do it these day's, you would have to make your own Gloryhole and just have male friends that you know are safe on the other side of the wall. I do think you will find it rather exciting when you see a hard cock poking through the hole asking for you to suck it!

[Timmie]

if i ever encounter one, i usually will go for it

[cumplay]

Sounds tempting however, also sounds way too risky.

[BiJoe696]

I was talking to a fellow who lives in Pa about this issue, today.

He told me he was in a truck stop in Ohio, a some years ago, and a truck driver stuck his cock through a hole in the patrician of the rest room stall, at a truck stop. Whoever was on the other side, ran an ice pick through it, robbed him, then left him standing there screaming!

He not only was he hurt and lost his money, , but the police stuck him with a big fine and some jail time!

Personally, I've never been interested in being intimate with anyone I don't know well.....and glory holes would put anyone in a very bad position for this same thing to happen!!

It hurt me just to hear him discuss it!

Me thinks this is but another urban myth. Think about it, the guy has an ice pick thru his cock, screaming at the top of his lungs, and the guy that dit it takes time to rob him in a public place? Yea, right.

["Blow Job"]

I worked the Glory Holes at an adult bookstore near NYC during the middle 1960s. The owner ran a tight ship and so the customers were reasonably upscale. For someone like myself who loves sucking cock, it was an ideal situation, but I would have serious reservations about working in such a place today.

[guyinphilly]

I don't mind watching glory hole videos but doing them is not my thing

[4_oral_fun]

Don't do it, to much stuff going on. I looked through one as a mf couple were having fun, they liked being watched. As far as oral in one, no thanks.

[ExSailor]

Speaking of glory holes, if there were ten holes, and ten guys with erections sticking their dicks through the holes, could your wife/partner pick it out? Just wondering.. Those 10 men would wonder where the fuck a cocksucking man on his hands and knees is to suck them, or some would go outside of the glory holes and start sucking off the other men.

[Muddigger369]

How can u tell if a guy sticking his dick threw a hole has a disease or not?

[4_oral_fun]

Uh, no. Way too much crazy stuff going on. Best to find an exclusive buddy or couple. Know them before you get into the fun, I had an exclusive couple for awhile and we had our fun. We didn't need to go to the ABS other than to watch other people hang out and play with themselves

[cbb83]

In this era of extremely prevalent STDs, would you really want to risk a glory-hole? This is NOT the 60's/70's, behavior like this just is not safe anymore. Unless you're doing it in a club where members are vetted and regularly tested for STDs, or as mentioned earlier you're role-playing with your partner, this is just not a good idea.

[bluesky55]

Definitely no. If someone tells me they're into glory holes or even tried it, they sound to risky for me. I want to meet the person and determine if I want to go further.

[SabrinasSlave]

The transmission rate from oral sex is rather minute compared to unprotected intercourse. We do gloryholes regularly and the science plus a bit of discretion on whom you play with is pretty safe. (Yes, you can choose your partners even at a GH)

[tsmvb45]

No. I will not do it.

[bicuriousnow]

never done prob wont .enjoy seeing the face of the man who has his cock in my mouth. .especially when he is giving me his wonderful cum.

[Muddigger369]

I would love to do a glory hole