Approaching guys you'd like to suck...

[biVadude]

I see a lot of guys I'd love to suck off; and as a bi dude I know there are a lot of "straight" dudes out there who would be into it, if they knew no one would ever know. (I have two friends I've experimented with; we are all married and "normal" and "no one would suspect.")

So, what do you guys do? How do you get things started?

[apriliasxv]

GREAT Question!!! I want to blow my next door neighbor so bad. I get hard just thinking about it. But if I asked him and he said no all hell would break loose. I know he would get off and so would I.

[bothofus60]

I would like to know how to approach a friend of mine to give him a BJ. I have never done this but i want to try .I am curious and just finding these feelings that i need to explore.

[pepperjack]

I see a lot of guys I'd love to suck off; and as a bi dude I know there are a lot of "straight" dudes out there who would be into it, if they knew no one would ever know. (I have two friends I've experimented with; we are all married and "normal" and "no one would suspect.")

So, what do you guys do? How do you get things started?

really good question rite now since I've been cruising several different sites, putting myself out there, & getting nothing but game-players; just don't understand; I'm a good -looking clean guy who sucks good & I get nothing but phonies!

[goosinu]

he is a problem i also have ,,but i try to watch and pick up on the vibs of who is bi :rolleyes:

[jackbirdjay]

It is hard to really know for sure. When I was in my 30's a friend of mine his wife was out of the country for about 3 weeks. One sunday went over to his place to watch football. We were feeling no pain drinking up a strom. The football game was a blow out so he put on some porn. We were watching a couple fucking. He said he was horny no sex for a couple of weeks with his wife being away. I said so masturbate as a joke but he stood up dropped his pants sat down and started stroking slowly to my surprise. He's 7 years older than me so he's uncut. I was staring at his cock as he took his shoes socks and pants off. He said want to watch what his wife likes to watch I said yea why not. He went over to the VCR put a tape in. It was a bisexual one and he went back to his seat and started stroking then said join me so I took my pants off to but he seen me straing at his cock. He said u like my cock don't u? I said um but ah. He said u do I could use a BJ. I said wow really he said yea go for it. I got between his legs took him in my mouth. He has a 7 in very thick on with fore-skin that just covers about 3/4's of his head. After that night till he moved away I was his personal cock sucker. I said I didn't know u were bisexual. He said he wasn't till I was the first guy that ever sucked his cock. So u don't know

[tryme_nd]

It is hard to really know for sure. When I was in my 30's a friend of mine his wife was out of the country for about 3 weeks. One sunday went over to his place to watch football. We were feeling no pain drinking up a strom. The football game was a blow out so he put on some porn. We were watching a couple fucking. He said he was horny no sex for a couple of weeks with his wife being away. I said so masturbate as a joke but he stood up dropped his pants sat down and started stroking slowly to my surprise. He's 7 years older than me so he's uncut. I was staring at his cock as he took his shoes socks and pants off. He said want to watch what his wife likes to watch I said yea why not. He went over to the VCR put a tape in. It was a bisexual one and he went back to his seat and started stroking then said join me so I took my pants off to but he seen me straing at his cock. He said u like my cock don't u? I said um but ah. He said u do I could use a BJ. I said wow really he said yea go for it. I got between his legs took him in my mouth. He has a 7 in very thick on with fore-skin that just covers about 3/4's of his head. After that night till he moved away I was his personal cock sucker. I said I didn't know u were bisexual. He said he wasn't till I was the first guy that ever sucked his cock. So u don't know

W O W u just described one of my biggest bi fantasies!

[sexyone4u]

W O W u just described one of my biggest bi fantasies!

been there done that....and would do it again in a HEARTBEAT !!!!

[tennisfan]

Great question:

My wife and I are friends with another married couple and have been for years. He is 6'4" black hair / trimmed beard (HOT). One of the nicest men around. However, he is totally loyal to his wife. Not into sex outside the marriage (or so he says). I'd love to get into bed with him. Of course there are other men that I'd like to also...but I have always had the hots for him.

[NW6942]

The best approach I have found is start by have a few drinks together to lighten the mood. Then start talking about general crap like politics and religeon. As you debate one or the other, the opportunity to talk about sexuality should come natural and casual. Example, "so you talked about being a conservative on that issue what do you think about ...(incert topic of choice here) and feel the person out. If the response is unreadable talk more. if the response seems hopefull drink more, if the reponse seems very likely shut up and grab cock. :cool:

[void()]

The best approach I have found is start by have a few drinks together to lighten the mood. Then start talking about general crap like politics and religeon. As you debate one or the other, the opportunity to talk about sexuality should come natural and casual. Example, "so you talked about being a conservative on that issue what do you think about ...(incert topic of choice here) and feel the person out. If the response is unreadable talk more. if the response seems hopefull drink more, if the reponse seems very likely shut up and grab cock. :cool:

I may not be a socialite at all but, religion and politics as ice breakers in prelude to sex, really? Wow, no wonder I don't get over.

My reaction to anyone talking religion and politics as 'general conversation' is to shut down. These issues are ones which I can offer but humble opinion about. Beyond that I am lost as to who is who and what they stand for. I stand for what I stand on. Then, I'm just a simple poor rube.

But I would shut down. I don't openly discuss religion or politics as 'general conversation', that is more suited to being things like the weather, fishing tales, comic books, computers. Then if and only if it seems right do we move to religion and or politics. Um .... *facepalm* wow, been going at all wrong all this time .... .....

[goldenfinger]

I may not be a socialite at all but, religion and politics as ice breakers in prelude to sex, really? Wow, no wonder I don't get over.

My reaction to anyone talking religion and politics as 'general conversation' is to shut down. These issues are ones which I can offer but humble opinion about. Beyond that I am lost as to who is who and what they stand for. I stand for what I stand on. Then, I'm just a simple poor rube.

But I would shut down. I don't openly discuss religion or politics as 'general conversation', that is more suited to being things like the weather, fishing tales, comic books, computers. Then if and only if it seems right do we move to religion and or politics. Um .... *facepalm* wow, been going at all wrong all this time .... .....

As religion seems to control sex, it seems a reasonably safe way to get know peoples point of view on sexual matters, people are either relaxed about it or they get all hung up Once you get a feeling which way they are leaning, start to joke about some movie or tv show with gay or bi people in it, and see how that goes down.;)

[adventurerinbelize]

I'm a married guy that has let a few guys suck my cock. It started because I'm highly sexual and just need more sex than the wife. I have loved porn for a long time ad would go to porn shops with booths, spend $2, watch porn, jerk off and leave. I went to a shop one day with a gloryhole and got my cock sucked. WOW! I loved it, I think I came in like a minute. It seemed perfect, watch porn, get my cock sucked, leave, no hassles. This got me to thinking that if gay or bi guys had a relaxed attitude about casual sex AND would simply suck me off with reciprocation....perfect. I joined Gay.com, got in a chat room, found guys in my home town and commenced to getting my cock sucked in their homes. I started to love the pressureless sex of getting sucked off and my asshole munched on mercilessly, I still love it. Since then I have fucked a guy a couple of times and jerked off several guys who have sucked me off, it only seems fair! Now I live in Belize and the availability of that kind of action is severely limited, I miss it. I am always looking for a hookup of that sort and often just mastrubate on cam in Yahoo's gay chat rooms.

As to approaching a straight guy about sucking his cock I'd say this....
1. Alcohol is a plus.
2. Talking about sex in general is a must..
3. Talking about getting one's cock sucked in general is a good idea.
4. Bringing up the subject of how nice a no-strings blowjob is, especially given by an expert...still keeping it general, you could be talking about a woman.
5. Based on information you have received up to that point, you might spring the big question, "Look, I don't want this to be a big deal...but....I'd love to suck your cock, no strings, no reciprocation. You'll love it. I expect nothing from you."

The idea that we can get our cocks sucked with no expectation of returning the favor is unimaginable to most guys. I know that many would allow it to happen. The primary obstacles are....we don't want to suck your cock and we don't want anyone to know. Address those issues up front, add alcohol, have a secure place for it to happen and your success rate can be high because guess what, we want our cocks sucked and basically don't care who does it....and...one the heat is on who knows what will happen.

Oh yeah, I like the idea of porn and jacking off in front of one another leading to at least one cock getting sucked.

I am search of friends to jack off with on cam..email me at adventurerinbelize@yahoo.com. I have yahoo messenger, gmail chat and msn chat.

[void()]

As religion seems to control sex,


Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!! ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Zing!Zip!Zow! Holy cow!"

Whew doggy, this has been quite enlightening. I thought sex was a physical urge, therefore primal, not spiritual. Or at least not to the extent some bogus mombo-jumbo controlled it. Guess you can learn something new every day.

Yes I agree sex can be a spiritual experience. I've not however, noted it to be ruled by the spiritual. But ymmv and apparently does.

Void wanders along the halls of Bedlam now, scuttling after some imaginary critter in some twisted fantasy regarding glowing toasters. He chuckles every few steps muttering in sing song chat "my glass eye for a spork, yo ho!"

N.B: I probably need laid. Going to find a giant chicken.

[fredtyg]

As to approaching a straight guy about sucking his cock I'd say this....
1. Alcohol is a plus.
2. Talking about sex in general is a must..
3. Talking about getting one's cock sucked in general is a good idea.
4. Bringing up the subject of how nice a no-strings blowjob is, especially given by an expert...still keeping it general, you could be talking about a woman.
5. Based on information you have received up to that point, you might spring the big question, "Look, I don't want this to be a big deal...but....I'd love to suck your cock, no strings, no reciprocation. You'll love it. I expect nothing from you."


Nicely put. I think you've got it. Slight variations of the above worked for me in seducing a guy I had the hots for.

[R. R. Wayne]

Alcohol can help disolve barriers. In college I went out drinking with a guy I had known five years. We ended up at his off-campus room and fell down on the bed. Drunk. Took our clothes off and started to stroke our own cocks. I reached over and started to jack off his cock. He said he wanted to feel my mouth on his cock. I told him the same thing and got into the 69 position. Wow. We sucked each other off that night, the next morning and for dozens of times that school year. The amazing thing was that he as a short skinny dude, but about 7 thick inches and a huge head on his penis. I loved it.

He was the kind of guy who chicks loved and he loved them back, but secretly he preferred cock sucking to anything else. My kind of guy.

[goldenfinger]

Bwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!! ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Zing!Zip!Zow! Holy cow!"

Whew doggy, this has been quite enlightening. I thought sex was a physical urge, therefore primal, not spiritual. Or at least not to the extent some bogus mombo-jumbo controlled it. Guess you can learn something new every day.

Yes I agree sex can be a spiritual experience. I've not however, noted it to be ruled by the spiritual. But ymmv and apparently does.

Void wanders along the halls of Bedlam now, scuttling after some imaginary critter in some twisted fantasy regarding glowing toasters. He chuckles every few steps muttering in sing song chat "my glass eye for a spork, yo ho!"

N.B: I probably need laid. Going to find a giant chicken.

Doesn't most religions tell you what you can or cannot do sexually ??