Groin Expectations

[LastGent]

Greetings all! Personally, I understand my sexuality as having dozens of orientations (pet rocks, cat people from planet Felix, Megan Fox, and so forth), which I generally term "whatever, whenever", and have had erotic dreams of playing with people of ambiguous genital shape, but also of "typical" male and female shapes. I'm wondering if you all, as bisexuals, in general, are as fluid as I am when it comes to-how to put it?-the eroticism of genitalia, I guess. To better explain myself, let's contemplate a scenario. You have met someone, and there is chemistry between you, but you're not sure you want to get sexual just yet. You both are caught in a downpour and go to one of your houses to change into dry clothing. Well, you finish changing first and go to the room where your friend is still changing and notice the door ajar and you think, "Why not a little peek at what's in store?" So, having a look-see, you observe your friend bare-bottomed at the moment and notice that your friend's reproductive organs are indeterminate in reproductive function, if they have one. Would you be shocked/disgusted/sexually insecure at the abnormality of it all, or would you be thinking, "Hmm. I wonder what it tastes like?"

[the sacred night]

Definitely the "What does it taste like?" response ^_^

[Long Duck Dong]

curious and open minded..... I know people that are into extreme body modding and I have seen some very unusual and interesting things.....

[LastGent]

Your responses are interesting. I began this thread, in part, because of a conversation I had with a clinician and a psychiatrist years ago that really bugged me, and still does at times. It revolved around how to properly treat persons with unusual genitals-gender labeling and all that. Their philosophy was that one uses the pronouns and allows access to the restroom such a person requests out of respect-BUT all the while maintaining strict awareness that this person is not the gender they claim to be, that you must grudgingly play along like a boy at his younger sister's fake tea party to avoid getting into an argument. If these men met a shemale who always identified as a biological female they would smile blandly and secretly reject their friend's self-identity, waiting patiently for the day when he would get over his self-delusion. I felt really uncomfortable with their ideas; how could they keep this respect/reject dichotomy straight and not have a mental breakdown? If I treated someone like this I would feel like I was doing something unethical. I've studied human genetics and know that there is absolutely no reliable way to determine what the sex of a person will be, so I accept the identity presented. I wonder, once again, if bisexuals have evolved beyond these hang-ups. Getting back to the shemale-if you're the type of bisexual who has seasons, and you have sex with this person all the time-if in your man-season you're thinking, "I'm having sex with a fairy," and if in woman-season, "I'm having sex with a big clit," your partner, of course, unaware of these mental switcheroos. I'm thinking about hooking up with other bis and I want to know if I need to ask about these things, or if it's a total non-issue, those two men I talked to being complete asswipes?