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chalkie111
Jul 13, 2011, 6:07 PM
Very bi curious but not at all sure how to start slowly and safely. Any advice welcome.

cornholejoe
Jul 13, 2011, 8:37 PM
hunt a friend

Realist
Jul 13, 2011, 10:13 PM
First of all, I'd suggest that you make a list of the things that you want to experience (being realistic) then don't settle for less than you want. Try to meet other bisexuals who have the same interests and focus on communicating with them, with getting to know and trust them, first........with sex being the last thing on your list, rather than the first.

Everyone is different and you'll have your own set of needs and desires. Knowing yourself first, is a good start.

There's a lot of great folks who are members on this site from your country. A well-written profile would help others understand a little about you, too. You don't have to make a long-drawn out one. Short and to the point is better than a profile that rambles and is not specific.

Good luck to you and welcome to the site.

bityme
Jul 14, 2011, 9:35 AM
Very bi curious but not at all sure how to start slowly and safely. Any advice welcome.

The best way to start slowly and safely is with a smile and a hand extended in friendship. Next comes honest conversation. Let your curiosities be known, but don't try and push yourself on someone. Things will happen naturally according to the your comfort level and that of the person you are with.

Good luck,

Pappy

schecter
Jul 17, 2011, 2:50 AM
speaking from experience you want to meet someone at a party that rather than attempting something with a friend. if you try something with a friend it just creates problems like being shot down or wanting something more, but if its with a stranger you can make an ass out of yourself and not worry about it. just use your best judgement