what age?

[blikeo]

what age did you discover your bisexuality?


me, personally was when i was 16.

[goldenfinger]

Here we go again, how many times has this question been asked, please do some search before posting.:eek:

[blikeo]

doh. sorry.

[sammie19]

Here we go again, how many times has this question been asked, please do some search before posting.:eek:

Don't u think u are being a little harsh? Certain subjects will always be raised from time to time. This site does have new members joining and old leaving all the time. I suggest you show a little more understanding and accept that not everyone has the memory of an elephant named Methusalah, and also have you really tried a search by subject through nearly 20000 posts and over 11000 threads?

Don't you apologise blikeo. It isnt you thats the dork.

And for me I was 14 and the light dawned with a kiss.

[Realist]

Blikeo,

Don't sweat it, There'll always be those who want to rebuke you for various things. Ignore it. Your question is as legitimate as any other.

I agree with Sammie, why make an issue out of something, like this?

If you don't like it, or don't agree, just move on. No comment necessary.

I think it's interesting to learn at what age a person first became aware of their sexuality.

I was one day past 14, myself.

[lizard-lix]

I was 11 the first time I acted on it, but I think I was attracted pretty equally to both sexes from the time I started getting attracted to anyone...

It does swing back and forth.. I am pretty much equal most of the time, but do lean toward one side or the other, for years sometimes...

and... I agree with the others, no apologies, no one forces anyone to read any thread.. If they are not interested, just skip it.... If they want to be helpful, they can reference some of the past threads on the subject...

[vengful-tenkatsu]

i was nine or ten when i discovered it 12 when i acted on it and im 26 now and i just recently relized it is who i am and stopped being ashamed of it

[jackbirdjay]

For me I was curious at 13. I was in the woods in our tree fort when a car drove up and a couple was making out. I could see right in the front window. They were in the front seat she went down on him. She was on her side her back facing the dash. That was the first time I seen a adult cock plus he was uncut to. He was playing with her pussy under her skirt so I couldn't see her pussy. I could clearly see her licking and taking his cock in her mouth. It was daytime out I hide didn't want them to see me. He was moving in his seat so I think he shot in her mouth. After a while they left. That year went in to the 9th grade and had to take gym. We all went in to the gym showers I was now 14. I checked everyone out hoping they wouldn't find out so I would say 14. I didn't act on it till I was 20 with a guy in his 50's. And that was in 1977 not as open like it is now.

[slipnslide]

I guess around 108

[SinCityGal]

I always thought I was just attracted to the female form itself-- only in an artistic way, not sexual. I honestly don't really believe I knew it was an option for a very long time. As a small child I was drawn to pretty ladies in pretty dresses and was intrigued by full breasts and accompanying small waists. Even at age 11-12 when my best girl friend and I played "married people" and in retrospect was one step away from having actual sex with her, I still didn't connect the dots (nor did I ever believe I was sexually attracted to her, or women in general). I did not have my first boy kiss until 13, and lost my virginity to a guy near the end of 18, so this was not typical sexual behavior for me.
I didn't get the real lightbulb flicker over my head until perhaps 16, when I realized how awkward I felt to be assigned a gym locker next to the prettiest girl in school, and started questioning why that was. I perfected changing my clothes without ever taking my eyes off the floor. :tong: Funny how a high school student would almost certainly be completely socially isolated for being openly gay or bi in the late 90's (at least where I lived), yet 5-10 years later, high school girls were actively making out in public for attention! I was born too soon :bigrin: What a relief it would have been to not have to hide that part of me so deep inside, but alas, it was not to be.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I was 14, and in an odd and unexpected way, but I wouldnt have traded the experiance for the world. And Id tell ya'll, but it sounds like a bad, bizaar porn story..lol Truth IS stranger than fiction. :}
Breathe Real, Breathe..LOL
Silly Cat

[piercedcurious]

It took me being deployed and a lack of women to fantasize about, and even then I didn't actually say to my self 'holy crap I'm bi' until after I got home. BTW that was 33.

[bisexualcocklover]

Both myself and the other guy were 13. It was my first sexual experience. I still get hard thinking about it!

[curious_m_18]

I think it was around 16 for me...i got curious as to what it would be like to be with another guy.
But i was probably about 15 when I started getting into fingering my ass while I masturbated.

I cant remember exactly when, but I stumbled upon some bisexual porn and was pretty turned on. Didnt think much of it until later on when I got more thoughts and stumbled upon other bisexual porn. I think i actually accepted that i was curious when I finished high school around 17-18ish.

[Wolf_Sr]

It doesn't matter if this has been posted before, it is such interesting question that each new post brings new perspectives on the subject. I for example thought that my bisexual fantasies came after 40, but in fact I now realize they are only sub-conscious revivals from sweet memories of the childhood times when I was around 9 years old. Great that you brougth it back.
Hugs

[Bi_cycle_man]

I was 20 yrs old. Best damn bj I ever got from a guy.

[cbj4162]

23 actual play but thought about it for yrs

[Pasadenacpl2]

39. There were clues and signs along the way. And many times I had thoughts I categorized as "everyone has these thoughts occasionally". I really should have taken my love of Rocky Horror as a sign.

Pasa

[hgf33]

Fooled around a little with my BFF at 18, mostly for guy's attention. Became really curious at 19, and started really considering myself "bi" by 20. Finally had some experience last fall. That definitely reassured me! There is no doubt in my mind now. I'm 27.

[rutemptedalso]

I was around ten years old..... Thanks for asking!

[LouiseBrooks]

About 16. I started opening my eyes to the beauties of the naked male body and my own sexual fluidity at that time. I felt very denied, cut off from female sexuality, as much as I craved it...my desire began flowing where it could reach. I started appreciating the smooth, hairless, curvy bottom of a classmate whose sister I desired...I started to notice how alike they looked. All but their hair, and that thing...between his legs...which I began to think about more and more, which at first had been the one thing holding me back, but soon became a focus of my desire. I have no idea how that happened. The genesis and evolution of our desire is something that is so different from person to person, and which I don't think will ever be generally understood.

[langen]

I was 8 when aprox a 13 year old boy had oral sex with me and then several times there after.That"s how i got into it.

[cplpleaser]

I fantasized about sucking another man's cock from the time I started masterbating at 15. Had my first experience at 19, not again till my 30s. Still loved sex with females but had many m/m sexual experiences over the next 10 years and 1 m/m/f which I found I liked better than one on one with either sex. Married now and have to stay closeted and it sucks.

[rockhard123]

50 here

[Emotional Masochist]

I figured it out when i was about 16. I kind of learned that i had a huge crush on keanu reeves... and realised that staring at guys was just as much fun as girls..... heheheh

[schecter]

i was 15 it was in my sophomore year in high school, but i didn't act on it until i was 17

[Sexplorerz]

22, in an MFM threesome...

[usa1981]

From maybe 12-16 but never acted on anything. I sill have not acted on anything. I have never found a women that I feel the same as I about boys/men.None of those went anywhere. The most resent time we thirdish base.

[gypsy2522]

holy crap! i must be the only one who knew in primary school that i wasn't straight lol. I remember being with two girls on two seperate occasions, we didn't really know what we were doing, all i knew was that it ROCKED!! I've always had a fascination with sex lol. I remember wolf whistling with the guys at my primary school to the other girls in our class.

My first major crush was on a guy in my class in secondary school, her name was jess, and OMG she was to die for, 5 years crushing on her. Countless crushes on guys lol. What can i say? I have big love lol

[oraladdiction]

i sucked my first cock when i was 10 and have been at it ever since. i also very much enjoy the taste of a woman...this situation definitely has is advantages

[dolphinboy1984]

16. I very tentatively met a guy online that was 25 at the time. I loved it in the moment but came away afterwards carrying a lot of guilt and shame. Like a previous poster, it took me 10 years to accept who I am. 26 now and love men and women.

[usa1981]

The first girl I liked was when I was in 6th grade. In high school at about 16 I had it very bad for a girl. In college I liked a (2-4) of young ladies in my drama classes one of them was married. All the girls/women like boys men as I do. The thing is I have never told them and done anything with them.

[lizard-lix]

I started with my best buddy when were 11, we kept it up until we both left for college sophomore year.. We brought in some other guys on and off.

We both chased girls too, I lost my virginity to a girl at 15.

The bet part is that when we'd strike out on a date, there was always a blowjob waiting..

We are still buddies, but we live 1500 miles apart now, so we don't see each other often and he clammed up about sex over the years (marriage, kids, etc, so he seems to have gone straight). I'm OK with that, I'd just like to relive it blow by blow some time :bigrin:

[c0smonaut74]

for me 16 , though it took a lot longer to become comfortable with it . In retrospect one of the biggest cocks I ever sucked , was an older guy ; a teacher from a neighboring highschool no less.

once I moved away from my small conservative home town I had more experiences , wish I had had more earlier now!

[Jobelorocks]

Well I knew I was attracted to both at about 6, but to actually put a name bisexual on it and figure it out fully 14.

[nwmscurious]

I experimented a bit in my early teens but didn't admit to myself and actively pursue contact with other males until I was in my late 40s. Wish now that I would have realized earlier. Missed out on a lot of fun.

[treo1]

I was 13 he was 11. It almost killed me for 30 years. I was so ashamed of my self for so long. Until I dated a girl that wanted to watch me suck her gay friend. I didnt do it , but it made me think that it wasn't so bad of an idea.
So now I want to do it again

[bibottominca]

I always seemed to try and likeutting things in my ass since I was 8.

[James000]

I was 15 when I first tried it