Shy about small cock [Archive]

jackbirdjay

Jul 4, 2011, 9:51 AM

Who growing up was shy about having a small cock? In the high school gym showers I was the smallest flaccid guy there. I hated taking gym because of it. Everyone in there flaccid state was hung as I am only 1/2 in in the flaccid state. I was scared some one might catch on I was checking every one's cock out. I didn't act on it but I knew some day I would have sex with a guy. Now I don't care about my size, but growing I did. Now at the ymca gym shower I don't try to hide my size. I enjoy checking cocks out there. I remember this one guy in high school. He had the bigest flaccid cock I ever seen. He had a big I mean big mushroom head and he was about 7 ins long and about 4 ins think in the flaccid state!!! I felt guilty and confussed about wanting to play with it. I finely acted on my urge for cock at 20 years old. (I am now 54)

jimisbi

Jul 4, 2011, 2:20 PM

I was worried about having the smallest cock when I first went to high school. I didn't have anyone around to compare sizes with. I found out right away though that I needn't have been worried at all. I had one of the biggest cocks in my age group.

R. R. Wayne

Jul 4, 2011, 3:28 PM

I love to suck a small cock and get all of it in my mouth with room to spare. My partner loves that I enjoy doing this. When I go down on a guy with a small cock he seems to cum really quickly and the two guys I've done with small cocks did not cum very much. But they were very happy we met.

Gearbox

Jul 4, 2011, 3:36 PM

I remember at 15yo a classmate suddenly explained to all in the room that he was seeing a doctor about his penis not growing as it should, very openly.
I thought "Hang on! Aren't we supposed to be psychotically paranoid about our penis size, and not even voice worries about it's inadequacies whether imagined or not?".:eek:

There was this eerie silence for a few seconds as we all tried to take it in (the announcement I mean!lol). Then this wave of admiration for him.:)
It must have been worrying him for a while, and I'm sure it was other peoples reaction to his penis size that worried him. Not the actual problem so much.

I still admire his guts today. I meet lots of mature adults who still want their cocks to be bigger, even though their not even small.

look4one

Jul 4, 2011, 4:17 PM

Well that is the story of my life being an Asian, in the country (Canada) where the average penis size is about 5.5 - 6 inches.

Here is interesting charts: http://www.everyoneweb.com/worldpenissize/

tommyswing

Jul 4, 2011, 4:46 PM

I've seen small ones that are cute. I like large ones, but have had very good sex with guys that are on the small side. Size is only part of the experience.

jackbirdjay

Jul 4, 2011, 9:31 PM

I've seen small ones that are cute. I like large ones, but have had very good sex with guys that are on the small side. Size is only part of the experience. Yes your right but when young you don't know that. Of course I don't care that my flaccid cock is only 1/2 ins now.

Frankie60

Jul 4, 2011, 10:56 PM

I've seen small ones that are cute. I like large ones, but have had very good sex with guys that are on the small side. Size is only part of the experience.

I agree and disagree with that at the same time. Mine is only 4.5" erect and majority of people male and female I had sex with were happy with it. My own wife wants nothing better. But here is the catch. Most people like tommyswing and myself prefer larger ones. Now that I am almost 50 it is not as easy to meet new people. I've been trying within past couple years to meet somebody via websites like bisexualplayground, hornymatches,etc and every time there is an interested party once the conversation gets to physical details the usual answer is " you are a very nice and pleasant guy but I(we) would really prefer someone with the larger cock, sorry". What do you do about it! Being dishonest is not the answer. It will likely create more problems later on. Obviously I haven't succeeded in meeting anybody which is somewhat depressing. If they only give me a try...

Realist

Jul 5, 2011, 9:32 AM

Being a fellow, who is more relationship oriented and interested in a person's personality, character, and thought process (rather than the size of his "stuff") I have had male lovers who's penis sizes were vastly varied.

In my youth, I was amazed at the different sizes, seen in gym showers and while skinny-dipping with buddies. In cool water, some boys seemed to be immune to "shrinkage", while others' penises disappeared into their abdomen! Then, I was focused on the guys with larger penises. Even before I knew about sex, I was compelled to look for the biggest ones possible.

But, I soon learned that a large erection (for me, at least) could be awkward to interact with. Touching, or playing, with a large one is one thing, but the first large one I attempted to satisfy orally was extremely uncomfortable. I felt like trying to please him dislocated my jaws! Forget anal, that's not going to happen! So, both of us were basically left to our own devices for satisfaction.

If I were to choose a lover, based only on the size of his penis, I'd select someone with a smaller one.

In fact, the best male lover I ever had was in possession of an erection of only about 3 1/2"! Probably a close second was an oriental boy, who was similarly endowed. Both were magnificent lovers!

wrbi01

Jul 5, 2011, 10:08 AM

I was never blessed with a long penis but have been told that I tend to "fill the space nicely"... I grew up wanting a larger one, even tried a few things to no avail to increase size, but now I have just come to terms with it and have moved on. I have never had anyone look at it and say "who are you going to satisfy with that?" but I do have an answer.... "ME" :bigrin:

The first guy I did anything with was blessed with a rather large penis and at the time I was ok with it but now that I have been with a man who is well endowed I found it awkward and hard to suck (guess I still have to relearn oral). I think I would enjoy a man who is more like myself.... a little on the average size or smaller.

Maybe some day :)

twntexas

Jul 5, 2011, 12:10 PM

My shyness started in elementry school. There was a bully that would come into the restroom anytime I was trying to take a leak and make fun of my small cock. This went on for years. Even though now I would be considered average, to this day, and I'm 62, I cant pee in public restroom if anyone else is in there. Keeps me from attending any kind of public event. Like for instance I've never been to a rock concert.

Anyway, I agree with R. R. on sucking small cocks. Like Tony the Tiger says "They're great!" The one guy I've sucked with a small cock had balls that more than made up for his size. What a load and oh was it ever sweet too.

One time, when I had been arrested for a minor offense, while processing into jail, when we were required to exchange our clothing for orange jump suits, there were two guys that had enormous cocks. It took every bit of self control to keep from staring at them. Somehow I managed to not get caught giving them a glance or two. :-)

Stargazer1417

Jul 5, 2011, 12:31 PM

It seems like the majority of the men I have been with have some kind of weird complex about their size, which I find a little off-putting since they are all adults, but I digress.

One guy I dated was huge and knew it and as a result he thought technique didn't matter in the slightest and he would please no matter what he did. The result was a very sore pussy and a lot of boredom. :disgust:

Another guy was on the small side and was so worried about it he barely tried because he assumed I wouldn't enjoy it no matter what he did. The result there was frustration over his unwillingness to try and more boredom. :banghead:

The best BY FAR is the guy with a pretty average sized cock. He told me up front he isn't porn-star huge but he didn't care. He was happy with what he had. He always wants to make sure I cum and he puts in the effort to make that happen. And I don't know if its something about the way he is shaped or what but he always seems to get the perfect spot... anyway, sex with him is amazing! :bowdown:

The moral of all this, in my opinion, is that its really all about a combination of confidence and a willingness to try. Don't just think because you are big, you can just act like a battering ram and your partner will love being graced with your tree of a manhood. Please also don't assume that if you are smaller there is nothing you can do to make the experience worth while.

Just my personal experience, for what its worth. :2cents:

tommyswing

Jul 5, 2011, 1:20 PM

It seems like the majority of the men I have been with have some kind of weird complex about their size, which I find a little off-putting since they are all adults, but I digress.

One guy I dated was huge and knew it and as a result he thought technique didn't matter in the slightest and he would please no matter what he did. The result was a very sore pussy and a lot of boredom. :disgust:

Another guy was on the small side and was so worried about it he barely tried because he assumed I wouldn't enjoy it no matter what he did. The result there was frustration over his unwillingness to try and more boredom. :banghead:

The best BY FAR is the guy with a pretty average sized cock. He told me up front he isn't porn-star huge but he didn't care. He was happy with what he had. He always wants to make sure I cum and he puts in the effort to make that happen. And I don't know if its something about the way he is shaped or what but he always seems to get the perfect spot... anyway, sex with him is amazing! :bowdown:
han I have ally all about a combination of confidence and a willingness to try. Don't just think because you are big, you can just act like a battering ram and your partner will love being graced with your tree of a manhood. Please also don't assume that if you are smaller there is nothing you can do to make the experience worth while.

Just my personal experience, for what its worth. :2cents:
You have that right, a willing interested partner is more important than size. Although I prefer a large cock, I've never turned down anyone based on size. I've never turned down a women because her tits where small or her vagina was wide. I've been with women who prefer a larger and thicker cock than I have but choose me because I so love to please them.
There are a few real size queens that are only interested in size, but they are a minority

jimisbi

Jul 5, 2011, 2:50 PM

I agree and disagree with that at the same time. Mine is only 4.5" erect and majority of people male and female I had sex with were happy with it. My own wife wants nothing better. But here is the catch. Most people like tommyswing and myself prefer larger ones. Now that I am almost 50 it is not as easy to meet new people. I've been trying within past couple years to meet somebody via websites like bisexualplayground, hornymatches,etc and every time there is an interested party once the conversation gets to physical details the usual answer is " you are a very nice and pleasant guy but I(we) would really prefer someone with the larger cock, sorry". What do you do about it! Being dishonest is not the answer. It will likely create more problems later on. Obviously I haven't succeeded in meeting anybody which is somewhat depressing. If they only give me a try...

It's too bad you live so far away. Cock size doesn't matter to me. I'd be more than happy to give you a try.

Michigan_cpl

Jul 5, 2011, 3:25 PM

just remember one thing.
it is not how big it is that counts, it is how you use it that counts the most.

bluesky55

Jul 5, 2011, 10:01 PM

I used to be shy thinking I had a small cock, but it turns out that it must have been my cock that was the shy one. That guy can shrink down to nothing to a point where one guy asked me "now how big did you say you were?" By the time I was hard he was saying thing like he wouldn't have believed it could grow that much. He was so fond of it that we got together for many sessions and loved to get pictures sucking me because it seemed so big. I have to admit it is nice and thick. I no longer think of it. On the other hand I'll say that one of the hardest cocks I ever had was a gentleman that barely made 4" when fully erect and it was fun. At the other end of the spectrum I had a guy that was over * " and very thick. Unfortunately my level of excitement was not equalled by skill and technique. My gag reflex was such that I kept choking myself. If I could just find a true instructor on the art of deep throating it might be different, but for now I prefer around a 5 to 6 inch pleasure stick.

myschyfnmayhem

Jul 31, 2011, 5:18 PM

I'm still kinda shy about it but wife says "it's fine!" and to stop putting myself down over it.

elian

Aug 1, 2011, 5:59 AM

One guy I dated was huge and knew it and as a result he thought technique didn't matter in the slightest and he would please no matter what he did. The result was a very sore pussy and a lot of boredom. :disgust:

<giggles> - I'm sorry for laughing but this makes perfect sense. BTW, in my perverse mind I am reminded of the Fairy Tale "Goldilocks and the Three Bears."

Your post was good advice, thanks for sharing.

dickhand

Aug 1, 2011, 7:16 AM

I am " blessed " with a wee willie as well . High school showers were traumatic . Army shower's were worse . Got over it eventually . The story I like to tell is that being over weight with such a small cock , I could take gym showers with the girls and no one would notice ! Not true of course . My oral skills are such that they are able to satisfy her before I would mount her . Mounting her while she is still quivering in orgasm was a favorite activity of ours . I am blessed with copious amounts of cum the first time , especially if it has been a few days .

jtisbi

Sep 1, 2011, 1:46 PM

I was shy about having a small cock(uncut) when I was in my teens. After maturing and dating women as an adult, I started to feel more confident and stopped being shy about having a small cock. Most women that I dated actually enjoyed sucking on the foreskin before pulling it back to expose the and enjoy the head.

Reprob8

Sep 1, 2011, 7:49 PM

Some guys, when flaccid are fairly small but when hard most of us average about 6". Allot of people with larger cocks really don't grow much more when they get hard. Personally I like mine the way it is, it stows nice for transportation but when treated right is just about average.

Too much is made about cock size.

This guy I know is about 7 inches hard and 7 inches flaccid, I bet it is a pain to try and tuck that thing in but it sure unrolls nice :bigrin:

Wanabee

Sep 3, 2011, 9:42 AM

When I was in my late teen I measured mine once and I was proud to be an average size, about 5.75". But now I'm nearing 50 years old, way over weight and I noticed I've lost half the size under my belly! There must be at least 3" hidden under those fat! No wonder my wife left me!:eek:

fpb09

Sep 3, 2011, 9:49 AM

My first cock was a small 1, but know I have a had a 7. Size doesn't matter it how it's used & the person using it! LOVED MY FIRST TIME & NEVER WILL FORGET IT!

newporter4u

Sep 3, 2011, 12:09 PM

I can relate to the high school shower experience, I'm very small when flaccid but still get to average size when excited but entering that shower was tough back then. I'm in my 50s now but can remember it like yesterday...lol

Northerner

Sep 3, 2011, 7:39 PM

I was blessed with an average cock - not so big that I got delusions of grandeur, nor so small that I was self conscious. There is comfort in mediocrity :-)

There is an old joke about a guy who hires a hooker. When he drops his pants she starts laughing and asks "who do you expect to please with that little thing?" With a great big grin he replies, "ME!"

graniteman1953

Sep 3, 2011, 7:56 PM

I can relate there, bro. At my age, I'm still very self conscious of my cock. I'm probably 5-1/2" to 6" when hard, and all of 3" in circumference when erect.

dafydd

Sep 5, 2011, 1:09 AM

pepperjack

Sep 5, 2011, 1:35 AM

The first cock I had was forced into my mouth I was 13 he was 14 and his cock was 11 inches and thick. It gave me a complex about my 6 inches to this day.

how do u know how many inches he was? did u ask him after he orally raped u?:rolleyes:

BradNDallas

Sep 5, 2011, 3:26 PM

My cock is 6 inches and I have always felt insecure about it. My wife says she loves it and she has an orgasm almost every time we have sex. Sometimes as many as 10 in a row, so I guess there is nothing I should feel bad about, but i still do. I think it is the fact we have watched porn with super hung guys in it and have always felt bigger is better. If I could change my size I would.

dorayme73

Sep 5, 2011, 8:04 PM

I am 5.5. My wife was happy with that until she became aware or curious about bigger cocks. A couple we knew, good friends, were a lot more sexually liberated that my shy wife and I with my sexual handups. She started telling my wife about the size of her hubb's penis and how good it felt etc. MY wife was mesmerized by the whole thing. I was totally uanware of what was going on with the exception , as I now recall in retrospect, my wife relaying one or two of the conversations to me. I really didn't tune in on what was going on until I found out that the other gal had managed to get my wife into the bedroom with her hubby and showed her the object of their conversations.
Of course it took a little booze and the perfect circumstances with a very trusting relationship but, as is obvious now, it was the intent of the other couple to seduce my naive innocent wife and so they did. She has been with them several times now. It started with being all about the big cock. it is something different now.

ohbimale

Sep 6, 2011, 12:17 AM

When I consider whether or not to get naked with a guy and get in on I am not one who places cock size in the high priority list. I am more concerned with whether or not there is a mutual attraction. It is not that different than considering getting it on with a gal, is the mutual attraction there? If the mutual physical attraction is there then let the clothes come off and don't worry about body part sizes, just get into each other and let the fun begin. Believe me this approach is a great stress reducer for all parties involved no matter their gender.

We all have fantasies we like to entertain, but in the end the fantasies rarely live up to reality. Love your self and go with the flow.

maxtor

Sep 6, 2011, 8:19 AM

if we were closer then i wouldnt hesitate to meet you. i am always open to meeting new people no matter the size of anything. i am sure there would be ways to play that would satisfy both. dont give up, there are people that would love to meet you...

I agree and disagree with that at the same time. Mine is only 4.5" erect and majority of people male and female I had sex with were happy with it. My own wife wants nothing better. But here is the catch. Most people like tommyswing and myself prefer larger ones. Now that I am almost 50 it is not as easy to meet new people. I've been trying within past couple years to meet somebody via websites like bisexualplayground, hornymatches,etc and every time there is an interested party once the conversation gets to physical details the usual answer is " you are a very nice and pleasant guy but I(we) would really prefer someone with the larger cock, sorry". What do you do about it! Being dishonest is not the answer. It will likely create more problems later on. Obviously I haven't succeeded in meeting anybody which is somewhat depressing. If they only give me a try...

maxtor

Sep 6, 2011, 8:24 AM

that is exactly how me and my girlfriend gets it on....she loves me to eat/lick/suck her pussy and when she starts yelling and losing her breath i mount her with my hard cock and both of us has a big cumming together!!

I am " blessed " with a wee willie as well . High school showers were traumatic . Army shower's were worse . Got over it eventually . The story I like to tell is that being over weight with such a small cock , I could take gym showers with the girls and no one would notice ! Not true of course . My oral skills are such that they are able to satisfy her before I would mount her . Mounting her while she is still quivering in orgasm was a favorite activity of ours . I am blessed with copious amounts of cum the first time , especially if it has been a few days .