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PrettyFlowingGown
Jul 1, 2011, 4:52 PM
Did you give oral sex on your very first sexual bi encounter, or did it take you a cuppla times to do it? I've read and heard that its very natural to give oral sex on ones first time, but for me the first two or three intimate moments i've had, i only received oral sex, but i never gave it. i was scared to put my mouth around a cock.
i think it was my 3rd time that i actually embraced a penis in my mouth. i remember kissing it first, stroking it, then putting it gently in my mouth. since then i find them very beautiful. i've been seeing another cd nearly close to a year and enjoy it very much with him. he has a male freind who is gay, but not a cd. we've had threesomes and i've done him too. its very lovely.

Tom41bimwm
Jul 1, 2011, 5:55 PM
I gave oral sex in all of the first times i have been with a guy.

mwm4dik
Jul 1, 2011, 6:36 PM
Having a cock in my mouth was the main reason it happened.

Gearbox
Jul 1, 2011, 6:52 PM
It's the first thing I did. Now the first thing my lips touch is their lips, as a rule.

garretb2
Jul 1, 2011, 7:39 PM
Coming from a straight, but definitely willing to find out kinda guy, it is something of a fantasy for me, and the first time I will be close with a guy this will most likely happen. I love to look at guys penises and look forward to tasting one.

frontierman2011
Jul 1, 2011, 7:40 PM
There was never any question in my mind that I wanted to give my partner the best head he had ever had during my first and subsequent encounters. Blowing a guy was the initial impulse that drove me to arrange my first encounter to begin with and now the precedent I have set for future encounters. I'll never forget the sensations that went through my body and mind when I took a cock into my hands for the first time and brought it to a full erection. It was the first time in my life that I had ever had physical contact of that nature with another man. His cock felt so good in my hands as I wrapped my fingers around his shaft and slowly jacked him off. Like someone mentioned above, I began with licking and kissing his cock and teasing him with the tip of my tongue. His skin tasted exactly like I imagined it would and drove my own level of ecstasy higher with each passing minute. When I finally slipped his rod through my lips and began sucking on it, it was "game on" from that moment on. I'd have sucked on that cock all night long if the circumstances had allowed me to. During that encounter, my friend came three times inside my mouth; each during a different activity and since then, I just can't get enough. From now on, every encounter I arrange will begin with a hard cock in my mouth and a hot load of cum down my throat. :rolleyes:

geebee04
Jul 1, 2011, 8:03 PM
Today, I sucked a guy off for the very first time in my entire life, and it was my first bi-sexual encounter. I enjoyed pleasing him, there's a certain power trip in knowing that you made some guy cum, very much like pleasing a woman, and yet different. He did say that he thought I was very good for a first- timer. I don't know if that implied that he didn't believe me (being first time) or that I wasn't that good, though I'm inclined to think that he believed me to be a little more experienced.

Well, spending the last two decades fantasizing about sucking some guy off makes me somewhat experienced. After all, how hard is it? lol

Oh, the other thing I noticed is just how much cock can one take. It seems that everyone wants to suck a 7 inch with a 4 inch throat. I'll tell ya the truth, this guy wasn't all that long and I was on the verge of gagging.........and Ive been fantasizing for years!

Yoyome100
Jul 1, 2011, 9:53 PM
Today, I sucked a guy off for the very first time in my entire life, and it was my first bi-sexual encounter. I enjoyed pleasing him, there's a certain power trip in knowing that you made some guy cum, very much like pleasing a woman, and yet different. He did say that he thought I was very good for a first- timer. I don't know if that implied that he didn't believe me (being first time) or that I wasn't that good, though I'm inclined to think that he believed me to be a little more experienced.

Well, spending the last two decades fantasizing about sucking some guy off makes me somewhat experienced. After all, how hard is it? lol

Oh, the other thing I noticed is just how much cock can one take. It seems that everyone wants to suck a 7 inch with a 4 inch throat. I'll tell ya the truth, this guy wasn't all that long and I was on the verge of gagging.........and Ive been fantasizing for years!

Congrats

jem_is_bi
Jul 1, 2011, 11:31 PM
Yes that was what it was all about and it was really good.
But, after 5 years so much more is involed than just wonderful oral sex.

ChaiLatte
Jul 2, 2011, 12:10 AM
My first time with a guy was spontaneous, I had never even thought of having sex with another guy before that. He kissed me, we made out for a little while, then pulled off each others clothes. I kissed my way down his chest. I paused for just a moment looking at his cock realizing what I was about to do, but the instant I took his cock into my mouth I was hooked. I took to it right away and it felt like the most natural thing in the world for me to do. Loved doing it ever since.

mboobs
Jul 2, 2011, 1:03 AM
it took me a while before i had a cock in my mouth and even longer before i could swallow. i was just into my teens when i first started having sex with men or women. a man was my first. i didn't even know about useing my mouth at the time. incidently it was also a while before i licked a pussy. now i don't think twice before i do either and i always swallow now. it was a lot different in the early 60s for primary school kids, only you show me yours and i'll show you mine. if i was growing up now it would be a lot different. tv and films teach kids a lot quicker about sex.

dickhand
Jul 2, 2011, 7:08 AM
It was the same for my cousin and I . Started out with anal only until we read about oral in one of his much older brother's skin mags . First time swallowing was his "accidental" cumming in my mouth . Decided then it wasn't all that bad and have been swallowing ever since .

torguy4bifun
Jul 2, 2011, 8:50 AM
It took about 4 times for me to do it. I didn't want to at all at first as I had no desire for it.

The more I thought about it, the more I was open to the idea. If I could do it good for him, he might do it better for me.

fpb09
Jul 2, 2011, 9:27 AM
To me i was curious y women love sucking, so I did it! The only way to find out & loved it!

wrbi01
Jul 2, 2011, 11:01 AM
My first time with with a friend of mine back in High School. I really dont remember how the conversation started but he asked me if I wanted to try it. Kinda like a "I dare you to" thing and he would recip. We were in the woods where no one could see us. He pulled out his cock and I was in wonder at how large it was. I was on my knees and looked at it for a second and put it in my mouth. I sucked it for a few min and he pulled out and said "damn seaman". I was still to young to start cuming and did not know what he was talking about. He told me about it and about two months later I started cumming myself. That would be the last time for 25 years or so.

My "First" time as a full grown man was last week. We sat and watched some porn. I let him take the lead as it seemed that he was nervious about what we were doing. We were in my living room and he unzipped his pants and pulled his dick out and started stroking it. I did the same. I couldnt take my eyes of him. Stroking his massive cock wondering when we would start doing things to eachother. He finally said I could come suck it if I wanted to. I got up and finished getting undressed. Knelt down between his legs and put him in my mouth. It was just like I remembered. Firm but soft. I heard him moan a few times but eventually he started to go soft. I guess I had lost my touch or was just not what he was intrested in and he said "sorry... just dosent look like its gonna happen" He stood up and finished off himself and I watched. He told me that it was good for the most part but I needed to close my mouth more. I guess it will come to me eventually.

dbltrbl69
Jul 2, 2011, 3:44 PM
I've been with some guys who's name I didn't catch til I was done draining their balls dry. Nothing breaks the ice like a great long kiss or a blowjob. Come over, I'll prove it! Lol!

Gearbox
Jul 2, 2011, 4:16 PM
My first time with a guy was spontaneous, I had never even thought of having sex with another guy before that. He kissed me, we made out for a little while, then pulled off each others clothes. I kissed my way down his chest. I paused for just a moment looking at his cock realizing what I was about to do, but the instant I took his cock into my mouth I was hooked. I took to it right away and it felt like the most natural thing in the world for me to do. Loved doing it ever since.
You never even thought about it before? What? NEVER?:eek:

I hope you realise that your giving me free licence to go around kissing straight men?;)

jimisbi
Jul 2, 2011, 4:41 PM
I sucked a cock the very first time I was with a guy. I met him at his place. I was inside for barely two minutes when I had my clothes off and he had his clothes off. I took one look at his cock and I was down on my knees sucking him like there was no tomorrow. I've been happily sucking cock ever since.

ohbimale
Jul 3, 2011, 2:12 AM
If I am meeting with a guy, I am going down on him the first, unless I get creeped out or warning flags go off. I absolutely love sucking cock, the feel of a penis in my mouth is wonderfull. Plus I like the sweet reward at the end of giving head. The whole experience is great. Sadly its been a few years since I had a guy to give head to.:bipride::male::male::male:

indenver_indenver
Jul 3, 2011, 8:32 AM
I was so young that I won't say how young for fear of being accused of kiddie porn. I was out playing by myself in a field when two neighbor boys came along. One told me his friend was a visiting cousin and did I want him to suck my pee pee. Soon I was lying on my back in the grass while this boy sucked my little cock. Wow!

For the next couple of years I kept trying to find other boys to suck my cock to no avail. Finally I realized I would have to offer to suck theirs before I could get another boy to do mine. That went on for quite a few years - just sucking other boys' cocks just to get mine done.

Then it happened! One day when I was in midteens, a buddy of mine whose cock had grown to porn flick proportions had me lay on the floor while he straddled my chest and he fucked my mouth. All I could think about for months was his big cock swaying above my face then plunging into my mouth again and again. I loved it and served his big cock all the way through high school.

I now have an airline pilot friend with a big cock who loves to have me deep throat him. My mouth and throat are his to use and I feel so owned by his cock. When his cock is deep in my throat, there is nothing else in my world.

ErosUrge
Jul 3, 2011, 1:57 PM
My very first male oral experience happened later. Before that and at a young age, about 12, it was all fondling and being fascinated with erections; mine and the others. And then sitting around jacking off together eventually having the courage to do one another. I was always willing. Then when the suggestion to suck was introduced, I didn't hesitate. At that time there was no knowledge for me that sex with a guy was considered negative or oral sex for that matter. Actually, all sex was considered negative unless you were adult and married back in my days of spriteful youth. But did it stop us boys from experimenting? HA!....
It was when I was age 15 that one of the guys (who was also 15) use to love for me to jack him off or suck him said that we had to stop doing this because only queers engaged in such things. He always said this after it was all over, but before and while it was going on, he was very into it. You could see the guilt and then hear it when it was done....eventually, we completely stopped. Nice dick though....lol.....and of course, there were the lovely girls at this time too...but none of them ever complained about receiving oral after it was over...but then that was considered normal. I don't think they'd have liked the idea of their boyfriend jacking off other guys or sucking them....but that is for another topic

RoadWarrior942
Jun 12, 2012, 11:25 PM
What was going through your mind during the time you wanted to return the favor and go down on him, until you actually did it? Was there a "barrier" that you felt you crossed when you actually took him in your mouth?

RoadWarrior942
Jun 12, 2012, 11:31 PM
What goes through your mind? Is there a "barrier" you felt that you crossed? If you had any, how did you get past your "second thoughts" to perform the act? It seems that there will be an enormous chasm of doubt between sitting fully clothed in his living room to kneeling naked in front of him with his manhood just inches from my face. Did you feel it changed you in any way. Not as a sexual being, but as a person? Did you see things differently? Did it change your behavior in any way?

dick_pumper
Jun 12, 2012, 11:46 PM
My best friend and I were talking about sex as guys do, we were just about to go into high school. Masturbating came up and then we wanted to know how the other did it so we would jack off together. I came more then he did at the time and we decided to taste each other. So while he jacked off I got between his legs and had a first hand look at his cock and I ended up losing my balance and fell forward and ended up with his cock in my mouth. He liked it and so did I so I sucked him for awhile and he came in my mouth and I swallowed, then it was his turn. His dick was longer then mine but thinner, mine was shorter but fatter and he said it hurt his jaws. So I jacked off and just as I came he went down on me and took my load. After that I sucked him a few more times but he never sucked me.

MarriedinNJ
Jun 13, 2012, 10:45 AM
My first experience with a guy was when I was in my early 20's and he was incredibly patient. We fooled around a bit and the first few times he was "content" to suck me off. I jerked him off and licked his dicksome, but it was about 3 or 4 visits before I started to suck him off also. The first time I was nervous, so he helped coax me and did not rush me. But it felt so natural, and when he came in my mouth I came also.

olmizzou42
Jun 13, 2012, 11:00 AM
You've put it nicely in a nutshell. Times have changed. My first experience with another cock came in 1955 and was like yours. Sucking happened on our second time together. My partner initiated the oral sex which I found out later he had learned from our music teacher...a true "educator."

fpb09
Jun 13, 2012, 12:26 PM
It was wondering what I was missing that made me try it the first time! NO REGRETS ABOUT IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

androgynous34
Jun 13, 2012, 12:27 PM
The first encounter I had with a man I gave him oral sex. By the time I had found someone after searching for several years I felt comfortable with and although the bottom line was sex we did have a connection and could relate to our back rounds. I did feel an attraction so I was ready to devour him and I did. I have to admit it was just as exciting and memorable as the first time I had sex with a woman.

rb6161
Jun 13, 2012, 12:50 PM
no i was 9 at time like alot and my patners i still talk

rb6161
Jun 13, 2012, 12:52 PM
no i was 9 at time like alot and my partners i still talk i in texas no

69luvr
Jun 13, 2012, 2:27 PM
wow. what a great response. Made me hunger for a cock in my mouth again.

Waylon
Jun 13, 2012, 2:34 PM
Oral sex is the favorite and pretty much only thing I am into with men and yes, I go down on the first date.!! I only blow men I am attracted to but giving oral sex is always a pleasure. (for both of us.) I may not swallow the first time, it all depends, but if there are multiple times with the same man, it always seems to happen.

i_shoot_blanks
Jun 13, 2012, 2:52 PM
The purpose of my first time with a man was to perform oral sex on him, AND I DID!!! We were naked in a hot tub, sitting close to each other. He began fondling my cock and balls and I reciprocated and started fondling his cock and balls. Soon he was hard and stood up in front of me. I was faced with the first hard cock, other than mine, that I had ever seen. I don't think I hesitated at all, just took his cock in my mouth, started sucking and sliding it in and out. I liked the taste and smooth feel of his cock, think I tasted some precum, and after a few minutes he came in my mouth. It seemed very natural to swallow. Afterward, I was glad that I had tried it and ready to do it again!!! By the way, we climbed out of the tub, dried off and he returned the favor.

NjbiGuy01
Jun 13, 2012, 5:31 PM
The first time was with some school mates in the middle school. We agreed that the woman sucking on the super 8 movie screen we were watching made us hot and that getting our dicks sucked would feel great ! So we agreed to mutually suck one another and had fun. Technically, almost a gay not bi experience. My first experience with a couple was a little different. The three of us were on the floor and he turned around so I could get at his cock....We actually had a three way we me eating her out, her sucking him and him sucking me...as she got hotter and moaning, he got a better blow job and so did I !

jackbirdjay
Jun 17, 2012, 5:54 AM
When I was 16 my first time I got my cock sucked. It was a guy next door he was in his 20's. He sucked me a few times but I never touched him or a cock till I was 20.

BiJoe696
Jun 17, 2012, 8:42 AM
My first was 15 or so when my boss at work did me on his desk, he was mid 30's. He did not want anything other than to suck me and drain me.

falcondfw
Jun 17, 2012, 12:16 PM
Did you give oral sex on your very first sexual bi encounter, or did it take you a cuppla times to do it? I've read and heard that its very natural to give oral sex on ones first time, but for me the first two or three intimate moments i've had, i only received oral sex, but i never gave it. i was scared to put my mouth around a cock.
i think it was my 3rd time that i actually embraced a penis in my mouth. i remember kissing it first, stroking it, then putting it gently in my mouth. since then i find them very beautiful. i've been seeing another cd nearly close to a year and enjoy it very much with him. he has a male freind who is gay, but not a cd. we've had threesomes and i've done him too. its very lovely.

For me, it was all about pure lust. I HAD TO give my first time. My mind and body would not let me handle it any other way. And it was AWESOME!

kewq28
Jun 17, 2012, 2:14 PM
Had been curious for quite awhile, then in my late 50's I decided to act upon it, chatted to a guy on the net for awhile and then arranged a meet at his place, nice guy no pressure, slipped his cock into my mouth, the feeling was beautiful, it felt so natural, my only regret was not doing it sooner, it set me on the road to wanting more. ;)

Bijohn54
Jun 17, 2012, 5:28 PM
I gave oral the first time and loved every moment the cock is a beatiful thing to enjoy

bityme
Jun 18, 2012, 8:22 AM
My first wife and I began swinging in the late 60s. In 1970, we developed a very close relationship with another couple who we met with at least weekly for over six years.

In 1970, we also began using toys, including a strap-on, and our play included my performing a simulated blow job on the strap-on before she used it on me.

By 1971, the other husband and I had talked the wives into playing with each other and they found that they enjoyed it. Their play became a regular thing while we enjoyed watching them. One night we were performing oral on the other couple as the laid next to each other. After a while I looked over at my wife who motioned with her hand and said come here. As I moved closer to her she took his cock in her hand, put her other hand behind my head and, pulling me closer, slid his cock into my mouth saying "Your turn." She began kissing me and licking his balls while the other wife moved over and began sucking me. I let myself go, finding I enjoyed it much more than sucking on the strap-on particularly since I could see and feel his reactions. After a couple of minutes, he had a shuddering orgasm as I was as far down on him as I could get. When it hit the back of my throat, I swallowed and lifted up. My wife took over, taking the rest of his load. She then snowballed it with his wife who shared it with him, telling him "Now it's your turn." She then joined him sucking me off while my wife gave him the same encouragement she had given me. He and I found out later that the wives had pre-planned the event.

It became a regular thing for he and I to play while the wives did the same.

The introduction of the strap-on into our swinging and what followed is another story, but off topic. Needless to say, 1971 was a year of adventure and discovery that left all four of us completely versatile and free of any inhibitions.

Pappy

remnant13
Jun 18, 2012, 12:13 PM
The purpose of my first time was to suck cock. I can NEVER get enough :)

ron_n_pitt
Jun 18, 2012, 1:26 PM
Yes, gave head on the first time out. I was the first time for both of us, we 69ed until we both blew.

realyou
Sep 16, 2014, 3:25 PM
when I made my first contact to meet another man th was my total reason to meet.I had dreed and fantazied for so long.I was sucking that cock that day!!!

gale_mn
Sep 16, 2014, 4:39 PM
I did the first time

open2both
Sep 17, 2014, 5:01 PM
1st time & EVERY time, my darling!
wink-wink!

ba10016
Sep 18, 2014, 8:18 AM
My first time was with a man I thought was gay. I wanted a blow job. As things turned out he wanted the same thing and he was straight. He took his cock out, took my hand and placed it on his erection and suggested I suck him off. I couldn't resist and gave him two orgasms before he pushed me off. I fell in love with cock sucking that night.

eager4cum
Mar 28, 2021, 6:45 PM
for me, my 1st experience was as they say - very natural feeling. my best friend and I were already in the habit of masturbating together so we were very familiar with each other's cocks. In addition, I was already eating my own cum when ever I masturbated because that was my way of "cleaning up the mess". I was 12 when I started eating my cum and I did this completely on my own, no one taught me or suggested it to me, it was just the way I thought it should be. Talk about born this way!
Anyway, one day when we were masturbating together, my friend just came out and asked me if I'd be willing to exchange blow jobs. Well, I can tell you, I jumped at the chance. I figured why not, I already knew what it was like to eat cum so all that was left was putting his cock in my mouth which frankly was much less intimidating than eating cum the 1st time. I absolutely loved it, when his cock stiffened up and started to pulsate I could feel and taste his cum, it was like being in heaven. Then of course, he blew me and once again it was heaven.
The whole experience was fantastic and it just never even occurred to me that this was weird in any way, it did feel so natural or like something that I should have done sooner.
It is based on this (and the many more encounters with him) experience that I came to realize I am BI, even though it took many years.

BTW - now you know why my name is "eager4cum"

eager4cum
Mar 28, 2021, 6:47 PM
for me, my 1st experience was as they say - very natural feeling. my best friend and I were already in the habit of masturbating together so we were very familiar with each other's cocks. In addition, I was already eating my own cum when ever I masturbated because that was my way of "cleaning up the mess". I was 12 when I started eating my cum and I did this completely on my own, no one taught me or suggested it to me, it was just the way I thought it should be. Talk about born this way!
Anyway, one day when we were masturbating together, my friend just came out and asked me if I'd be willing to exchange blow jobs. Well, I can tell you, I jumped at the chance. I figured why not, I already knew what it was like to eat cum so all that was left was putting his cock in my mouth which frankly was much less intimidating than eating cum the 1st time. I absolutely loved it, when his cock stiffened up and started to pulsate I could feel and taste his cum, it was like being in heaven. Then of course, he blew me and once again it was heaven.
The whole experience was fantastic and it just never even occurred to me that this was weird in any way, it did feel so natural or like something that I should have done sooner.
It is based on this (and the many more encounters with him) experience that I came to realize I am BI, even though it took many years.

BTW, now you know why my name is "eager4cum"

Flypaper
Mar 29, 2021, 9:18 AM
For the first year of my acknowledged attraction to guys, I only received oral or manual stimulation. When I became a more active seeker of bisexual encounters I eagerly took the first cock I could into my mouth: no fear factor at all, quite the opposite.

Now, seven years on, I still have yet to either give or receive anal sex with a guy. The unexplored land!



Did you give oral sex on your very first sexual bi encounter, or did it take you a cuppla times to do it? I've read and heard that its very natural to give oral sex on ones first time, but for me the first two or three intimate moments i've had, i only received oral sex, but i never gave it. i was scared to put my mouth around a cock.
i think it was my 3rd time that i actually embraced a penis in my mouth. i remember kissing it first, stroking it, then putting it gently in my mouth. since then i find them very beautiful. i've been seeing another cd nearly close to a year and enjoy it very much with him. he has a male freind who is gay, but not a cd. we've had threesomes and i've done him too. its very lovely.

Oborokybiman
Mar 30, 2021, 2:31 PM
Did you give oral sex on your very first sexual bi encounter, or did it take you a cuppla times to do it? I've read and heard that its very natural to give oral sex on ones first time, but for me the first two or three intimate moments i've had, i only received oral sex, but i never gave it. i was scared to put my mouth around a cock.
i think it was my 3rd time that i actually embraced a penis in my mouth. i remember kissing it first, stroking it, then putting it gently in my mouth. since then i find them very beautiful. i've been seeing another cd nearly close to a year and enjoy it very much with him. he has a male freind who is gay, but not a cd. we've had threesomes and i've done him too. its very lovely.
Gave oral sex the first time with all of the guys except one and we met at McDonald’s...was not my type at all

BiGuy97015
Mar 30, 2021, 3:11 PM
I love sucking and especially deep throating cock so the more I can do it the happier I am...

delpark
Mar 30, 2021, 4:32 PM
On my first sexual encounter with a guy I willingly sucked his cock. It felt like a natural thing to do, it gave me pleasure doing it while my friend enjoyed me doing it. I understood that what I was doing was not acceptable to most people in my life, but I was comfortable with myself sucking cock.

KDaddy23
Mar 30, 2021, 4:46 PM
I'm at a bit of a disadvantage since I became a cock sucker at a young age but, yeah, it was the first thing I learned about. I don't know what it's like to not have been a cock sucker so much but when encountering guys - and whether we wind up doing something or not - the first thing in my mind is getting my mouth on their dick and the sooner, the better. I will only hesitate if the guy gives me a reason to and, honestly, if he does - or my instincts tells me not to - he's never going to get his dick sucked by me.

Yep... that very first time a man paid me so he could put his dick in my mouth and I was more "excited" by the money offered than anything else but once he slide the head of his dick into my mouth, was forever hooked on it. Time and experience teaches you some shit about sucking dick and especially when to say no but for me? Ninety-nine percent of the time, when I meet a guy, I'm going to suck his dick and if he happens to be one of those guys who doesn't like being sucked, well, I can be very convincing.

FredGillard
Mar 31, 2021, 12:34 AM
My first wife and I began swinging in the late 60s. In 1970, we developed a very close relationship with another couple who we met with at least weekly for over six years.

In 1970, we also began using toys, including a strap-on, and our play included my performing a simulated blow job on the strap-on before she used it on me.

By 1971, the other husband and I had talked the wives into playing with each other and they found that they enjoyed it. Their play became a regular thing while we enjoyed watching them. One night we were performing oral on the other couple as the laid next to each other. After a while I looked over at my wife who motioned with her hand and said come here. As I moved closer to her she took his cock in her hand, put her other hand behind my head and, pulling me closer, slid his cock into my mouth saying "Your turn." She began kissing me and licking his balls while the other wife moved over and began sucking me. I let myself go, finding I enjoyed it much more than sucking on the strap-on particularly since I could see and feel his reactions. After a couple of minutes, he had a shuddering orgasm as I was as far down on him as I could get. When it hit the back of my throat, I swallowed and lifted up. My wife took over, taking the rest of his load. She then snowballed it with his wife who shared it with him, telling him "Now it's your turn." She then joined him sucking me off while my wife gave him the same encouragement she had given me. He and I found out later that the wives had pre-planned the event.

It became a regular thing for he and I to play while the wives did the same.

The introduction of the strap-on into our swinging and what followed is another story, but off topic. Needless to say, 1971 was a year of adventure and discovery that left all four of us completely versatile and free of any inhibitions.

Pappy

This is a huge fantasy of mine. I think my wife would love to play with the wife of the guy whose cock is in my mouth, and mine in his. mmmmmm.

This line is the horniest - It became a regular thing for he and I to play while the wives did the same.

ScottSwallows
Mar 31, 2021, 4:24 PM
My first sexual encounter was bisexual and it involved me giving my friend a blowjob.

Rvdude05
Apr 1, 2021, 12:19 PM
My very first time, I was young, and a much older neighbor was showing me how to jerk off. He suddenly took my hand and placed it on his cock and told me to suck it. From that moment on, I enjoyed sucking cock. It took me a few tries before I could swallow, but once I did, I enjoyed that too. I sucked his cock almost every day, for many years. I moved away for work, but everytime I return home, I give him several visits. Hes much older now, his cock is not so hard, but I still enjoy sucking him and enjoying the rewards....

Rvdude05
Jun 8, 2021, 2:13 PM
Yes I did. We took turns, he sucked me for awhile, i sucked him for awhile. We kept going back and forth, until he said I'm cumming. Then he sucked me deep and i was cumming. It was wonderful, no regrets...

KDaddy23
Jun 8, 2021, 3:43 PM
It's still the "number one" entry point for a lot of guys...

Fiddlestyx
Jun 8, 2021, 3:50 PM
If I'm naked with another guy the reason is sex. If my cock is going to be sucked then I'll be sucking as well and enjoying doing so. 69 is always may favourite whether man or woman.

Waylon
Jun 9, 2021, 8:57 AM
I always suck on the first date..

Jaxxx
Jun 11, 2021, 4:01 PM
No. Like many others, it evolved through experimentation. We started jerking off together with some old, tame magazines. That evolved into watching each other more than we did the pics. Nature followed it's course and we ended up jerking each other. At some point, we got a newer magazine that had both color and coed pics. We got to a page with some blow job pics. He suggested that he would suck me, if I would suck him. Before I had a chance to think about it, no less answer, he was giving me my first blowjob. I told him I was about to cum, thinking he'd jerk me off to finish, but he kept going and swallowed my load. WHen my head came out of the clouds, I realized it was my turn. I really didn't want to. Partially because I hadn't given any thought to going that far and because I had just shot the hugest load of my life. But I thought fair was fair, so I did it. It felt or tasted nothing like I expected. I had all the same great sensations as has already been written by many here. I remember thinking it wouldn't be so bad do do, if he'd keep sucking me too. He said he was cumming, so I finished him like he had me. I had obviously liked it more than I gave myself credit for, as my cock was hard again, even though being just sucked off. So, being a good friend, I put it in his mouth. We sucked each other several times that day.

ScottSwallows
Jun 12, 2021, 10:00 AM
My first sexual experience was performing fellatio on my best friend.

RisingBi
Jun 17, 2021, 7:03 PM
1-2 weeks after discovering I had gay desires and fantasies in 1992 while driving along the west coast of the US on a 5 month road trip around Canada and the US, in search of myself, I found myself in front of a naked dancer's cock in a large striptease theatre in San Francisco. He had been shimmying through rows of theatre seats to stop in front of each man, one by one, of the 100+ guys that were there. Even though I had my cock out and was stroking it like every one of us were, I just stared at this gorgeous cock in front of me, 2 inches from my face, totally mesmerized, but did not suck it like some other guys had.

But not long after, I found myself in a video arcade booth back in Toronto, holding another man's cock for the first time (as an adult), through a gloryhole, and eventually opened my mouth, and with a combination of fear, excitement, and great lust, lowered myself on to this penis and sucked it for all I was worth. Oh my God, was it ever out of this world!

Yes, the goal of that road trip was accomplished: I did find myself--the gay part of myself and my bisexuality!

Oral_guy
Jun 17, 2021, 7:32 PM
I did but after he did for me. Since then, I always do

BackyardShaman
Jun 19, 2021, 3:19 PM
For me it was my 3rd time before I got the nerve up to put my mouth on a cock, I was turned on those first 2 times, but felt guilty about it so even with it inches away from my mouth I just couldn?t do it, I jacked and played with them and they sucked me off. Third time I had my mind made up, kissed the head licked the shaft and balls and put it right in my mouth, I enjoyed it but I did gag on it and the first few I sucked.

BJcumguy59
Jun 20, 2021, 12:16 PM
I was a little nervous at first. But he was a very kind and patient man. I was relaxed after talking to him. I?m fairly new to sucking. But when he pulled out his cock my tongue and lips were on it. I guess was natural. I sucked him deep and not fast not slow. It didn?t take long and my mouth was full! His come tasted good. :):)

BJcumguy59
Jun 20, 2021, 12:58 PM
9 WOW! I assume your lover was the same age. Did he cum? I remember getting naked with my male friends. But that?s it. I started thinking about sucking when I was 13. But didn?t actually do it. Until I was 57. Came pretty close.

NJwood
Jun 20, 2021, 2:04 PM
Yes, I wasn?t interested in anything else but sucking a cock. After he invited me to his hotel room, I joined him in the shower. He kissed me and I reciprocated but really wanted to get down on my knees to take his cock in my mouth. We spent the rest of the time sucking each other until we came, he on my stomach and I in his mouth. It?s what I desire most with a guy.

Cum1st
Jun 20, 2021, 4:43 PM
It was all about sucking the cock the first time, and he came so quickly it was over before I had time to savor the experience. I didn't even lick his balls. Following my first live in GF's example I swallowed. None of it bothered me except after, knowing I crossed the queer line back then.

Later the urge to suck built up in me. From then on it was an extreme turn on. The before AIDS proliferation of adult book stores and pick up spots was an opportunity I didn't miss out on.

The last guy I was with over ten years ago wanted to make out. I obliged him, and can see myself doing it with another if he was into it.

Godownonit
Jun 27, 2021, 10:24 AM
I sucked off my brother when I was about 11. I enjoyed it from the beginning. Even swallowed his cum. But, I didn't suck another cock for many years - I guess I was in denial about being Bi. Now, I suck more cocks than anything else. I still like women - but, perhaps I like cock more....

Rvdude05
Jun 30, 2021, 12:23 PM
My problem is put a cock near my mouth and I will suck it, drain it, swallow it. I love cock too much ....

Waylon
Jul 1, 2021, 9:30 AM
First time hookups can be awkward sometimes. I met a guy on line a few years ago, Adam 4 Adam and we arranged for him to come over to my house. When he first walked in the door, I liked the way he looked, chiseled jaw, dark latin features and when he took off his shirt he showed me a very muscular upper body with rippling biceps and a flat taut stomach. And then when he slipped off his pants to show me muscular thighs with a clean shaven 8 inch cock, I knew I hit the jackpot. He laid back on my bed with his legs spread so I could lay on my stomach and started sucking his rigid manhood. He tasted delicious as I was swirling my tongue around his helmet head, went lower to suck on each ball for a bit and then went back on top of his cockhead with my lips and then slowly lowered my mouth down his shaft giving him my full deep throat treatment balls deep and held it there letting my throat grip his cock as he moaned in pleasure. I started moving up and down his cock like a piston and he exclaimed "you are a great cocksucker man" and then he spurted his cum splashing against the back of my throat and I started gulping it all down like a good cock slut. He was a keeper and we hooked up regularly for several years. He always told me he liked the way I sucked on the first date.

Joboo
Jul 1, 2021, 12:01 PM
First time was long after we started jerking each other off. I was always waiting for him to do it, I wanted to be sucked and would have reciprocated but wasn’t desiring sucking. At 18 we had hooked up again and his dick was a lot bigger and that’s when the desire hit me, I went down on him and he was very pleased. He immediately reciprocated. We never talked about it prior, we didn’t communicate about our secret. It was the mid seventies once we started oral so we were very careful not to be found out.

Rvdude05
Jul 13, 2021, 2:37 PM
My first time., at 12, it was during a visit with my uncle. He often came by the house to visit mom, while dad was at work. My mom had to go out to shop for some groceries. As soon as she left, he took his cock out and called me over to see some magic. He told me to play with it and watch it get hard. I was amazed, it got very hard. He told me to suck on it and I would see it squirt.... I sucked him until I felt it squirting, and he told me to swallow the cream, which i did. He told me not to tell anyone, and he let me suck him a lot. Sometimes in his car, sometimes in the woods, sometimes at his house. I sucked his cock for many years, and became addicted to it. I would ask him to let me suck it, sometimes begging. I became his little man, the cocksucker. He went as far as letting me suck some of his friends. I have loved sucking cock all my life...

Rvdude05
Jul 13, 2021, 2:42 PM
I give oral to anyone that wants it! I love cock, and enjoy the juicy rewards. Always have, always will. I'm a hard core cocksucker & proud of it!

Stinger78
Jul 14, 2021, 12:05 AM
First time. we both were although nervous, crazy eager to 'try everything'.

twilde1952
Jul 16, 2021, 12:48 PM
YES, each and every time I had the chance encounter I would wrap my lips around his hard cock and suck. LOL

TGirlCougar
Jul 16, 2021, 1:57 PM
hell yes, go for it!

Findingmyway
Jul 22, 2021, 10:27 PM
I guess by most peoples standards I would be considered bisexual. That said I don't seek out other guys and so far have only had sex with another guy at my wife's suggestion while she watches and participates.

The first I time sucked a guy off it was a given that I would suck his cock and let him cum in my mouth. It was an amazing feeling his cock getting hard in my mouth. the smooth skin of his hard dick and the taste of his precum. The look on my wife's face while she cupped his balls and watched his hard cock fuck my mouth. Her verbal encouragement only heightened my excitement and if I had any thoughts about not taking his cum in my mouth they they left when he came in my mouth my wife asked me to swallow his cum.

We had several meetings with the same guy and each time it was great and with my wife's help I got better at sucking his cock. Unfortunately because we feared our threesome having an adverse effect on our marriage we have put our activities on hold until we can find a solution to our fear. I very much miss it and so does my wife but we're not giving up;)57975

Neonaught
Jul 23, 2021, 9:29 AM
I guess by most peoples standards I would be considered bisexual. That said I don't seek out other guys and so far have only had sex with another guy at my wife's suggestion while she watches and participates.

The first I time sucked a guy off it was a given that I would suck his cock and let him cum in my mouth. It was an amazing feeling his cock getting hard in my mouth. the smooth skin of his hard dick and the taste of his precum. The look on my wife's face while she cupped his balls and watched his hard cock fuck my mouth. Her verbal encouragement only heightened my excitement and if I had any thoughts about not taking his cum in my mouth they they left when he came in my mouth my wife asked me to swallow his cum.

We had several meetings with the same guy and each time it was great and with my wife's help I got better at sucking his cock. Unfortunately because we feared our threesome having an adverse effect on our marriage we have put our activities on hold until we can find a solution to our fear. I very much miss it and so does my wife but we're not giving up;)57975

I'm curious what adverse effect your experience had on your marriage?

Findingmyway
Jul 23, 2021, 10:27 AM
I'm curious what adverse effect your experience had on your marriage?

The short answer is, I was afraid of what might have happened, either my wife or I having an emotional connection with a third party either it being male or female. After a discussion with our third he did say he was enjoying having sex with my wife more than he was with me. That would have been fine but both my wife and I were concerned it was becoming not only a sexual attraction but an emotional one as well.

We have a great marriage and we want it to stay that way. Our sex life prior to introducing another player was great. Anyway, as much as I enjoyed sucking cock and being fucked by another guy while my wife verbally encouraged me, as another member here said the fear of losing our marriage was greater than the desire so we ended our sexual relationship with our third but still remain friends. We haven't given up and we are exploring other options. My wife said just yesterday how much she missed watching me have sex with another guy and I certainly do. We are currently discussing a transsexual lady or a CD. We want to have the sexual adventure but to stay safe. My wife just yesterday told me she is thinking very hard about inviting one of her friends to join us and that would be something new for us and sounds really exciting. Spit roasted by two women with strapon cocks ;)

Bluehill
Jul 23, 2021, 10:47 AM
I didn?t have oral sex with my first male partner, but have with practically every once since!

Rvdude05
Sep 23, 2021, 2:14 PM
A 19 year old neighbor, undressed and showed me how to jerk off. I was 13 at the time. After a few strokes he took my hand and put it on his cock, telling me to stroke him. After several minutes he wanted me to put it in my mouth. I did and he immediately filled my mouth with cum. It scared me and I spit it out. But I returned time after time, and learned to enjoy the taste and swallow. I sucked him off for many years.

hung4you
Sep 29, 2021, 7:49 AM
For me finding a like minded horny fellow has always been somewhat easy for me. As a frequent business traveler I find myself in situations that allow for some interesting and fun times. Hotels are full of men who need some release, most are mindful that they too desire to suck cock. Most of my encounters are older married men, that said it seems they too are well versed in their oral skills. I had men tell me that they have never had such a great oral orgasm with a woman. Most of my encounters involve 69ing, it seems they are not afraid of letting my cum enter their throats. I had a guy one time who spent all evening touching, licking and swallowing my cock until I couldn't hold back and unleashed a huge load all over his face. He too had a load for me but for some reason he really got off sucking me. So much so he visited my room early the next morning to insure my day started off proper like.

tongueteaser
Oct 3, 2021, 8:08 PM
I was nervous my first time to meet a strange married guy. Ii have always only had sex with woman and my girlfriends. I met my first and only guy and he asked for me to get into his SUV. I introduced my self and felt nervous and shaking. He finally said to grab and feel his cock and play with it. I felt my first cock and it was getting hard. He said for me to put my mouth on it as he laid back. I for some reason didnt hesitate and tasted his dick. I was turned on immediately and swallowed his cock deeper and ran my tongue around the head. I stopped shaking and started to wet and suck his cock. Yes it felt so natural to me. I was really enjoying it and being his slut on his cock. All of a sudden he grabbed my head by the back and arched up at my mouth. I was overwhelmed with cum squirting all over the roof of my mouth. I kept my composure and kept going slowly and swallowing at the same time. I actually realized I sucked cock and he came all in me. I cleaned his cock off. He and I met about 5 more times and did the same. He came quick it seemed. I need to experience another guy soon

ineedcum
Oct 4, 2021, 12:05 PM
Just go deep, and use lots of tongue. He'll get off. Some guys need a long session. Others get off in seconds. Never give up until he says " It's not going to work." Porn in the background often helps. I never give stop until I get the liquid reward, or until the guy says stop...

mr bill
Oct 4, 2021, 5:42 PM
sure did loved it

illcuminualot
Oct 31, 2021, 11:25 PM
My first and only time was a year ago and it was pretty awesome

flyingbee
Nov 1, 2021, 11:33 AM
I have fantasized for a number of years wanted to do this. Makes me feel so wonderful with hope i will get the opportunity one day when i read such a post.

mewanturcum
Dec 23, 2021, 12:12 AM
To me you're not trying to romance your "date", you're there for a specific purpose. Put his cock in your mouth and suck till you get your reward!

qiangqiang
Dec 23, 2021, 5:03 AM
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Warmnsalty
Dec 23, 2021, 6:55 AM
Unlike others here, I was a slow starter. I first started hooking up with guys when I was traveling a lot for biz. I'd look for women to hook up with but very rarely had any luck. It was back in the AOL days and found M4M chat rooms and started lurking there. I'd be horny in a hotel room and jerking off, finally gave into a guy wanting to come give me head. He was great but I didn't do anything to him. Went on like this for 6 or more months, I'd have guys come blow me but that was it. Then it happened, Vegas trip and this hot older guy, I was 30 at the time, comes to my room. Early 40's, married, strips down and starts sucking me. He's stroking his cock while sucking me, rock hard cock, perfectly straight and great cut head. I reach over and start stroking him. After a min or two that was it, I put him in my mouth. Ahhhh such a turn on, I went crazy sucking him, all the time being curious had me in over drive. He told me he was going to cum, filled my mouth, I swallowed every drop. I was hooked, have sucked ever guy I've been with since, trying to make up for all the lost loads.

wyzrd
Dec 31, 2021, 1:47 AM
Sounds like me. Traveling out of town looking at porn. Turned to checking out bi porn which lead to yahoo chat room. I was early 30s and has never even thought about being with a man. Starting chatting and decided to meet him a restaurant in front of my hotel. I got a drink or two in and brought him to my room. He sucked me first and I finally thought now or never and took his cock in my mouth. I didn't take his load that time, too nervous. I did meet him the next time around and finally swallowed my first warm load. Was sad I didn't do it sooner, and swallow every time is. Yum!

mewanturcum
Jan 1, 2022, 12:17 AM
My intent of the first conversation with a guy was to suck his cock. And since it is so difficult to arrange a meeting I had every intention of doing that. I have since found a men's only nudist camp where there are plenty of cocks to suck. Either at the Glory Holes or at the rail fence where 4 or 5 guys can stand and offer it up. Again, I don't have time to waste so first time for sure!

Jozyxt
Jan 1, 2022, 7:38 AM
I have vowed to never have another lonely evening in a motel again if I can find a man to suck or feed. I tried once in a state park, but couldn't complete the deal because cell service dropped.

Rest85
Jan 2, 2022, 1:14 PM
I guess by most peoples standards I would be considered bisexual. That said I don't seek out other guys and so far have only had sex with another guy at my wife's suggestion while she watches and participates.

The first I time sucked a guy off it was a given that I would suck his cock and let him cum in my mouth. It was an amazing feeling his cock getting hard in my mouth. the smooth skin of his hard dick and the taste of his precum. The look on my wife's face while she cupped his balls and watched his hard cock fuck my mouth. Her verbal encouragement only heightened my excitement and if I had any thoughts about not taking his cum in my mouth they they left when he came in my mouth my wife asked me to swallow his cum.

We had several meetings with the same guy and each time it was great and with my wife's help I got better at sucking his cock. Unfortunately because we feared our threesome having an adverse effect on our marriage we have put our activities on hold until we can find a solution to our fear. I very much miss it and so does my wife but we're not giving up;)57975


That is my ultimate fantasy, for my gf to assist me in sucking cock...me sucking the tip as she strokes the shaft or cups his balls. Her encouraging me by telling me she can see that I love sucking dick. Telling me she wants to see me swallowing the cum from his flexing cock.

KDaddy23
Jan 2, 2022, 3:34 PM
I actually went back and read the original post again and while I probably commented earlier, well, I'm doing it again. I have learned that for some guys, getting sucked by a guy isn't as scary as sucking a guy. Some just dive right into it and get to sucking... and some, well, it's gonna take them a while before they literally get up the nerve to suck a dick and get some cum in their mouth... or wherever they want it. And some guys just can't bring or see themselves sucking dick.

I have seen a lot of guys go through some shit in order to bring themselves to taking me into their mouth. I tell them that if they can't do it, they just can't and I'm not going to make them do it. It's okay. Not every guy can suck a dick. I've been with guys and I've been the only one doing the sucking then, one day, they're sucking me and because, well, it's what they want to do. I don't think that the taboo is the "real reason" for hesitating (but it can be) but, yeah - there's a guy's cock in your face and he's waiting for you to start sucking it... and this is scarier than having him trying to stuff his prick in your ass. You're either going to go for it the first chance you get... or maybe you'll eventually "get around" to sucking cock... or you never will. It depends.

I get having the fantasy of having a woman encouraging a guy to suck that dick. I know some guys who won't do it unless there's a woman right there and telling him to go for it. I think I know why. I just think that if someone else - a woman - has to get you hyped to suck a dick, hmm, why aren't you already hyped to do it on your own? At the root of it is being willing and able to suck a dick and no matter the fantasy involved. Preference. Getting up the nerve to do it. Scary as fuck. Might take a while before you can do it... or you never will.

Silvano1249
Jan 3, 2022, 7:49 AM
Can you describe for me how does it feel having a big black cock inside the mouth?

Waylon
Jan 3, 2022, 9:12 AM
Can you describe for me how does it feel having a big black cock inside the mouth?
It feels absolutely great! The size fills your mouth and throat and the texture of the cock is so different and tasty from white men. You know you have a man in your mouth when you suck a big black cock and you submit to his every wish to please him like a good cocksucker always does.

Fzmr9t
Jan 3, 2022, 9:55 AM
My first time was when I was in my mid 40s. I was very surprised by how readily I pulled down another man?s shorts and took his penis in
my hand and then put it into my mouth! It felt so natural!

KDaddy23
Jan 3, 2022, 4:03 PM
Can you describe for me how does it feel having a big black cock inside the mouth?

To me, it feel... crowded. I'd love to tell you how amazing and wonderful it feels to have a big black cock in my mouth... and I'd be fibbing because to me, it doesn't feel any different than having smaller cocks in my mouth... except bigger dicks take up more room in my mouth. Might be a bit harder to suck the way I want to. Hoping like hell he doesn't get it into his head to ram it down my throat. What matters most is... it's a dick that its owner is gonna let me suck until he cums; anything else are differences which makes no difference because I learned the hard way that bigger ain't always better because it's not just the size of a guy's dick you have to contend with: You gotta deal with him, too. I understand the... fascination. And I don't. Then again, big black cocks are a dime a dozen where I'm concerned because I've seen and sucked a lot of them as a matter of course. Kinda like familiarity breeding contempt. Same old stuff for me and has been since the beginning.

Justusguys69
Jan 4, 2022, 4:53 PM
It is all about the cock for me, im not attracted to anything else on a guy but give me a nice cut cock to suck and im all in, BTW, I love the taste of cum.

Skuttfarkuss
Jan 9, 2022, 1:25 PM
I had been thinking about trying sucking cock for awhile. Finaly I contacted a bi man on craigslist in my town. We talked on the phone and he gave me his address. It made me very hrony thinking I was going to drive to another mans house to suck his cock as I had never done that before. The closer I got to his place the more I wanted to have his cock in my mouth. I just needed it now. I knocked on his door and he let me in. We talked for a minute then I asked what do we do next. Well, we both stripped naked and went to his bed. We were both soft but watching another man with me on the bed naked knowing we were going to have sex was exciting. We fondled each other and soon were both rock hard. I found that the feel of a hard cock in my hand was very arrousing. I don't remember who went down on who first but I certainly remember how it felt to take his cock in my mouth. It was very pleasurable and exciting. To feel his hard cock shaft on my lips while his cock head felt so soft, that was a bit of a surprise to me and I liked it. We didn't cum in each others mouths, I wan't quite ready for that. I jacked off and shot my load on his stomach. That was excitnig and certainly something I had never done before. Anyway I knew I would do it again and I have. I very much love having a man cum in my mouth now.

Jozyxt
Jan 9, 2022, 4:21 PM
I had been thinking about trying sucking cock for awhile. Finaly I contacted a bi man on craigslist in my town. We talked on the phone and he gave me his address. It made me very hrony thinking I was going to drive to another mans house to suck his cock as I had never done that before. The closer I got to his place the more I wanted to have his cock in my mouth. I just needed it now. I knocked on his door and he let me in. We talked for a minute then I asked what do we do next. Well, we both stripped naked and went to his bed. We were both soft but watching another man with me on the bed naked knowing we were going to have sex was exciting. We fondled each other and soon were both rock hard. I found that the feel of a hard cock in my hand was very arrousing. I don't remember who went down on who first but I certainly remember how it felt to take his cock in my mouth. It was very pleasurable and exciting. To feel his hard cock shaft on my lips while his cock head felt so soft, that was a bit of a surprise to me and I liked it. We didn't cum in each others mouths, I wan't quite ready for that. I jacked off and shot my load on his stomach. That was excitnig and certainly something I had never done before. Anyway I knew I would do it again and I have. I very much love having a man cum in my mouth now.


Congratulations. My first cock was very exciting for me ass well. It really opened up my life and how I think about others in a positive way.