Help with a problem....

[Makeout79]

Hi this is my first time posting so I am really nervous...
I have had many encounters with male's and female's but there is one problem that I can't seem to fix.
When I am with a man I am mostly a bottom and that is not a problem for me at all but I would like to help the man out if he to enjoys giving head or recieveing anal, the problem is I can never get an erection while I am with a man and it sucks. I have no problem with getting an erection and keeping it with a women but any suggestions how I can improve that area with a man? I am 19 so its not a problem to get an erection period... just with guys. So please whatever advice someone has that would be great.

[cornholejoe]

you just get too nervous with GUY for some reason need to relax more

[mikey3000]

Or maybe, subconsciously, you feel that what you do with men is wrong. Look at how you were raised and also maybe why you feel the need to be with men. A little soul searching is a good thing to help overcomming obstacles.