Crossdressing: Like or Not?

[DanniNeels]

I'm a Crossdresser who is unfortunately in the closet because my wife is completely turned off by guys in girls clothes; so I would love to know how others feel about it?

[Flounder1967]

If it trips you trigger I'm cool with it. I would very bad and have ambition to CD.

[cuttin2dachase]

A number of bi married men I've met have enjoyed wearing their wives' (or their own) panties, stockings/lingerie, hi heels. It seems to be quite a turn on for them. If it turns them on and gets them hotter to trot with me, then it turns me on too and I really enjoy it!! I have yet to be with a man who is completely dressed with wigs, make up, a dress or skirt and the whole nine yards, but I would be OK with that too LOL Of course, a woman who goes out of her way to wear sexy things for me is ALWAYS a big thrill too ;) In the end all the sexy underthings are lying on the floor next to the bed and sometimes some of them are being used as blindfolds or restraints ;)

[ErosUrge]

this might seem odd, but crossdressing doesn't interest me at all. However, transgendered people do. The reason for this is that a TG person usually has all the elements of being a woman; face, voice, hands, arms, legs, breasts, and quite often a beautiful ass that looks like a woman's; in fact just about every aspect of their physique is female except for cock and balls. With crossdressing I always know it's a man. Sure, some are very feminine looking but still the feminine features aren't really there...Whereas with a TG, everything is female except for genitalia....

[Diva667]

What about women who crossdress?

I like a nice looking drag king, at times.
and a gal who can rock a pair of means jeans and a ball cap...yum

Marlene Dietrich in a tux is another hot thought.

all very hot, IMO

[raistkit]

just might be one of the most open cross dressers on sight. was happy to see your poll, butt there wasn't a place for me:( or others like me . kit

[DanniNeels]

So far 2 girls replied: "I'm a girl & it would be fun to help turn a guy into a girl"... If you like, I have some questions I'd like to ask you... Please send me an email, if you are interested. As you can see from the poll results, you are a rare find.

[DanniNeels]

Raistkit, I assume you mean you crossdress & like being with other crossdressers? If so, then I assumed those that dress liked others that did as well... But if you meant something else, then please explain.

[jackbirdjay]

I been cross dressing on and off since I was 14, now 54. I love being a naughty cross dresser

[Michigan_cpl]

i am a crossdresser and love it. also i am a bisexual and love who i am and what i am.

[raistkit]

danni: i am a female who has been dressing as a male for years. it's easier for me to pass than it is for a guy to pass as a girl. i was just kinda disappointed in the poll that it didn't include others like me. not a biggie, if i had 2 brain cells to rub together I'd run my own pole. however, don't think there are too many others out there like me. kit

[cddm50]

I too like to crossdress but it has been a while. Like you Danni my wife doesn't care for it so I don't dress around her. Dressing has always been something for my own curiosity though I have always secretly wanted to play with other crossdressers. It is what it is. And so we go on...

[Diva667]

danni: i am a female who has been dressing as a male for years. it's easier for me to pass than it is for a guy to pass as a girl. i was just kinda disappointed in the poll that it didn't include others like me. not a biggie, if i had 2 brain cells to rub together I'd run my own pole. however, don't think there are too many others out there like me. kit

Much love to you, kit :) Women who crossdress turn me on so much

[newyorker]

I like to ware open crotch pantyhose and panties under my jeans when I go out.
I have had sex with two guys who love the feel of my nylon covered legs as they take me from behind. Oh and I love it too!

[jackbirdjay]

A number of bi married men I've met have enjoyed wearing their wives' (or their own) panties, stockings/lingerie, hi heels. It seems to be quite a turn on for them. If it turns them on and gets them hotter to trot with me, then it turns me on too and I really enjoy it!! I have yet to be with a man who is completely dressed with wigs, make up, a dress or skirt and the whole nine yards, but I would be OK with that too LOL Of course, a woman who goes out of her way to wear sexy things for me is ALWAYS a big thrill too ;) In the end all the sexy underthings are lying on the floor next to the bed and sometimes some of them are being used as blindfolds or restraints ;)

You should have met me when I was in my mid 20's. I dressed fully, I was shaved totally, had very long hair, did make up and ever thing. I was very much in to it back then.

[swampbug789]

I origionally got together with my wife by crossdressing. We worked together and I overheard her and another woman talking about how they were turned on by seeing a man in women's undergarments. Later I told her that I loved to "dress up". We met 2 days later - It went so well that we have now been married for 11 years.

[cleanshaved50]

My wife has always been against crossdressing. I brought it up once to test the waters, but no go. So I stay in the closet while I enjoy wearing womens clothes. Brings on some awesome masturbation sessions too.

[debodeb]

I have no interest in crossdressing it really does nothing for me, But it doesn't mean someone else may love love love it! i love seeing my husband take a nice hard cock up his arse so each to their own.

[pantycouple]

I love crossdressing. Wearing womans panties, pantyhose and lingerie is so comfortable and keep me excited all day. I never knew so many other men crossdressed, growing up I thought I was the only one who enjoyed wearing womans clothing but many many years later found out that lots of men like to crossdress. I have made many friends over the years and its always nice to communicate with others who crossdress. I am married and my wife does know I crossdress, she has always been ok with it and enjoys seeing me crossdressed. We have had some MMF threesomes with other crossdressers, and it was amazing and have met other couples into crossdressing. We continue to explore with other crossdressing couples and crossdressers. Its always more fun to enjoy the things you enjoy doing with others and that goes for crossdressing, having friends who crossdress makes dressing much more fun. Check out our profile for more about us.

[victorKC]

I love crossdressers! However, since I'm mostly a bottom, and the majority of CD's are too, there's a little bit of conflict. The best anal sex I ever had was from a TG.
I don't dress much, even though I like the feel of the satin panties, hose and lingerie. I can't really pull it off, lol. However, if a lover wants me in panties or a thong, I'm happy to oblige him.

[rdy2go]

I am not a crossdresser, but I am or like to think i am open minded, so my 2 cents, if it floats your boat, and turns your crank, then do 'er up, and to hell with what anyone else thinks!:bigrin:

[Ms Baby]

Couldn't click on any of the given choices, but found the results and the responses interesting.

Since August 1996, I have been living fulltime as a woman. I've had no surgery, other than on my former name. I was on estrogen for several years, with limited results, but had to stop them in 11.06 due to multiple blood clots in both lungs.

If asked, I explain I am a TS (or TG), and am quite content to continue living as a woman. My grown kids know and accept and love me just the same.

Would I ever go back to living as a guy? I sincerely doubt it. I have had too much fun and learned so much about how other women live to ever want to go back to my former life.

Gerri

[Cursubm]

i love it. have my own drawer full of panties.

[biblkman]

No offence to the ladys on this site.....but when it comes to male crossdressing......to me, men are sexyier in boy shorts and thongs than women....especialy if he has a big ass and a nice buldge! Women, your sexy as hell in them too, always gets me horny.....but men....damn....thats all i'm gonna say

[_someone_]

I'm rather indifferent, but if that's your thing then more power to you.

[nudistharry]

How about the option:
I'm a guy, and don't crossdress. A man that cross dresses neither turns me off or turns me on.

I've tried it in the past, and I can understand the pleasure, especially with silky panties. I'm not a fan of it though. But if I was in a relationship with a guy who crossdressed, I'd be OK with it.

[Annika L]

I think you're not getting many responses from women, because the choices you offer us (I don't get it at all vs. I'd love to participate) are pretty limiting and probably don't apply to most of us.

Speaking for myself, I get it (I've heard lots of reasons why people do it), but I don't find it particularly sexy. It just kinda leaves me cold. I didn't see an option remotely like that, so I didn't respond.

I'd be curious to hear from other women what option(s) *they* would have liked to have seen.

[bi42guy1958]

i am a crossdresser and love it. also i am a bisexual and love who i am and what i am.

WOW, I have those black thigh highs! I recognized the pattern at the top

[DOZERLA]

On your poll, you should have an option that reads:

I'm a guy but I'm not into guys who cross-dress.

That's me. It's not that I cannot "relate" to guys who cross-dress (I understand how that could be a turn on to some guys or girls), but personally, if I'm with another bi guy I want him to be a masculine GUY, not a femme "girl" - that's the whole point for me: another guy messing around with another guy. If I wanted a girl, I'd get one.

[Realist]

Although I don't understand a man's desire to dress as a female and it doesn't do anything for me, it does not turn me off, either. I have a male friend, who loves dressing as a woman, although he cannot pass as one.

Conversely, some women dressed as men, is something I've found appealing.

I used to ride motorcycles with a female soldier, who had a flat-top and "ducktails". She was equally feminine and masculine...a strange combination. If her breasts hadn't been so voluminous, she probably would have fooled most everyone. We didn't have a intimate relationship, but I've often thought we would have been good together.

[cddm50]

WOW, I have those black thigh highs! I recognized the pattern at the top

And I have those same white ones that you have in your profile. :bigrin: R U buying from the same online store or did you purchase those locally?


It's not that I cannot "relate" to guys who cross-dress (I understand how that could be a turn on to some guys or girls), but personally, if I'm with another bi guy I want him to be a masculine GUY, not a femme "girl" - that's the whole point for me: another guy messing around with another guy. If I wanted a girl, I'd get one.

While I was growing up and dressing I always felt that if I was to be with another man I would be dressed playing the fem role. As I grew older and was learning about my feelings I felt I could also flip my role and be more masculine.

(I may get slammed for this but...) For me to be with a MtF xdresser (or TS/TG) is a more interesting thought, as they appear to me as a girl with something extra and I don't necessarily see the xdresser as a guy, particularly if they can pull it off.

Maybe this is a feeling several bisexual or bicurious guys have, maybe early on in discovering their own sexual identity. That being with a xdresser DOESN'T reinforce in our heads the idea they may be gay but they still feel more hetro than bisexual in the beginning and to find a cock on a woman is the bonus we hope for so we can explore our bisexual tendencies without subconsciously feeling bad about being with a guy. It's the "best of both worlds" scenario (yah that is an overused cliche but it fits).

I know that is how I felt while I was trying to figure ME out.

[Gearbox]

I have 'fuckcloths' that I wear when hooking up. They are male ones that (I think) I look masculine and sexy in.lol So I do get that part of dressing to feel sexy!
Cloths can be used as props to aid self confidence ,and if you FEEL sexy, you'll probably BE sexy.;)

I just don't go for xdressing. Or transgender's that have cocks.
BUT I was surprised that a pic I saw of a muscled masculine bloke who had a vagina turned me on.:eek:
I don't know what that's about, but it did something for me.

[jamiehue]

It (xdressin) keeps me motivated as far as fitness goes.Have twin sis and is always sayin we got mixed up. In reality it takes a LOT of work and proper technique abs ect then hips then got to be born with that something in the end im havin a blast searchin out those sz 5s got some cute friends fun.:2cents:

[alzgoode]

I'm a Crossdresser who is unfortunately in the closet because my wife is completely turned off by guys in girls clothes; so I would love to know how others feel about it?
I think if u can pull it off at all, it's super fucking hot!

[Naughty On My Knees]

I have to agree with some of the posters who would choose a different option for this poll. I am the wife in my husbands profile and I do all the shopping for my husband's "frilly" collection. Even though I shop sales and clearances for his lingerie, I believe I've spent at the very least $1500 on his wardrobe and we are running out of space for it all even in our huge house! He is unbelievably sexy when dressed up and gives him so much happiness, how could I NOT enjoy his crossdressing??? Don't get me wrong, I think he is sooo hot in his work clothes!!! His jeans and workboots just ....yumm So... that's how I feel about crossdressing!:bigrin:

[DanniNeels]

HunkaJunk... I couldnt agree more! I love the way women look... Sexy. But the one & only part I like about other men is their cock! So with a crossdresser/tranny, we get the best of both worlds. Ironically CD's, TV's & their admirers are often less gay than others that don't share the same attraction. Gay guys are attracted to other guys & not just for their cocks. Girls are also attracted to guys for aspects other than their cocks. My wife & others unlike you & I, will never understand that we feel less gay & are more turned on by guyrls than girls or guys! I still enjoy sharing a cock with my wife, but at times I have to get past the awkward gay feeling of man on man sex... I would feel less awkward if she were not there or strangely enough if I were dressed like a guyrlie cock slut! To sum this up I think there are 4 main categories of people:
1-Straight
2-Gay
3-Bisexual (enjoys both sexes)
4-Trisexual (enjoys the opposite sex & also the same sex, if they or their same sex partner is playing the role of the opposite sex)

[transcendMental]

HunkaJunk... I couldnt agree more! I love the way women look... Sexy. But the one & only part I like about other men is their cock! So with a crossdresser/tranny, we get the best of both worlds.

Do not conflate crossdressers and transsexuals! You may dress as a woman because you find it sexy. I dress as a woman because I am one. I agree with you that men's cocks are sexy. But when I had one, I did not consider myself as having the "best of both worlds". I simply had the wrong genitalia.

Stick to making statements about crossdressers and crossdressing, if that is what you know and relate to. Don't drag transsexuals into it. We are a completely different breed.

(And please don't call us trannies - see other threads on this topic.)

tm

[DanniNeels]

TranscendMental: No offense intended... I speak of guys who temporarily play the role of girls only for sexual excitement & not those who remove their male parts or take hormones... Guys that can look like girls, but still have functional equipment. Tranny was not meant to be derogatory & was intended to describe transvestites, not transexuals. I have never & would never even consider removing my parts & adding girl parts & I do not claim to understand those who do. For me I am not confused about my gender, I am turned on by playing the role of a girl & find it extremely kinky. I realize that we are worlds apart in our heads... Again, no offense intended, but if you have physically transitioned into a woman, then I would suggest that you try to forget rembering yourself as a man who transitioned & not find offense with those of us who will never fully understand how you think & feel... Because you will never be happy if you live your life trying to explain yourself to others who can never understand or relate to you.

[Silver1]

I don't crossdress completely. I'm not excited about wearing dresses or pantyhose. But, a sexy pair of panties and a soft, silky nighty. A pair of boyshorts, cheekies, thongs and G-strings. Bikini panties just after I've shaved and my genitals are smooth is my greatest turn on. Being Bi many of us feel and embrace that feminine side working it's way out of us.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I really don't care if a male partner is a cross dresser or not, it neither turns me on nor off. Besides, if things go right all of clothes, male or female, end up in a pile on the floor.

[jlovesbi]

ok this are some hot pics so im a yes person it is a turn on

[donlikesdicks]

I have been a crossdresser since age eight (two years shy of seventy years!), sometimes not dressing for two or three years, then going back to it in various ways from: dressing up completely with make-up and jewelry; dressing only in bra, panties, garter-belt, hose and heels; dressing only in hose and heels; and wearing women's panties under my clothes. This was always for my own excitement, or to help me be in touch with feminine feelings (the two things do not always mix). Lately, the wearing of women's panties is more utilitarian, for comfort, than for feeling feminine or arousing sexual feelings. I began to shave my body smooth because of the dressing long before shaving smooth had a sexual connotation for me. I enjoy sex with a crossdressing man, but only those men who are not fat and who shave smooth or are naturally smooth. A man in women's clothes must not look like a cartoon if I am to suck his dick and fuck him or be fucked. Crossdressing is about two things: feeling feminine or expressing feminine feelings, and on the other hand, sex. It has been going on for thousands of years.

[jwaage1986]

I am in Miami right now at the downtown Hilton and am wearing a black dress, black bra, and matching panties. My size 9 breast forms feel great!

[tobyishot59]

Real sexy. wish to know you.

[elian]

Hmm, well on the BSRI test I actually score as having more feminine responses (grew up around women, I have a few other developmental things that happened - for better or worse I was one of those "feminized" males that the establishment always complains about). I wanted to cooperate rather than compete. Growing up I was very jealous of how easily women could attract men.

I don't like to admit it publicly but depending on the hormones, early in the morning I do still long to be held as if I was someone's wife so yes, I can understand why men do it.

Having said that, I am not really into drag shows, come to think of it I'm not really into beauty pageants either. I did go to a show at a local bar once just try to try it and there were a few folks I found attractive. The way I figure is if it makes transgender folks feel better about themselves, they aren't really hurting anyone else so who am I to say no, they shouldn't do it?

Of course, crossdressing and transgender are two different things, but my response is the same. People have different fetishes, and what you do in your own bedroom doesn't concern me as long as you view it as a positive activity and you aren't harming yourself or others.

My degree of attraction varies by individual, and I try to think of how attracted I am to the whole individual, not just the clothing they wear, how much I wish they would bend me over or how much fun it would be to see how large their threshold for pleasure is. Are we are a good fit in other ways? For example, are we comfortable enough to talk freely with each other and not be offended..

Oh and here's a link - although the accuracy of the test has been questioned since the ratings are subject to self identification..

http://garote.bdmonkeys.net/bsri.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bem_Sex-Role_Inventory (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bem_Sex-Role_Inventory))

Not sure what it really means to say that you have more feminine responses, gender isn't really defined that way - but people like to classify things, it's in our nature so it was kind of interesting.

[donttellnehismy]

I LOVE it. Love soft silky things and getting in touch with my femme side

[Dragonslain]

187011870218703

I love it when some one runs there hand up my skirt and fondles my cock.

[kandt40]

I love to crossdress and would do it all the time if my life situation allowed.

[bigi56]

Not a turn on for me, but if it gets you going -go for it

[lynn175]

I usually wear stockings, a garter belt and g-string when I crossdress. I really want to have sex with a man while dressed, too. Personally, I don't find men that crossdress to pass as a woman attractive. However, I do find a hunky, masculine man wearing lingerie a huge turn on. Lingerie seems to enhance the male physique much the way it does for women.

[okbiguy]

I like the smooth silky underware not the panties with a lot of lace, I like the way they feel against my cock and balls. I like them on other men I enjoy the way it looks and feels when I rub his package with my face.

[callig77]

I guess I have a question, is the wearing of panties only considered crossdressing?

I just love the feel of panties and thongs... the materials and fabrics (microfiber) feel so good on cocks & balls. But, I also have a ton of my own guy panties and thongs.

As for the whole nine yards: dresses, bras, wigs, high heels, etc... no, I haven't had any interest in doing that myself.

When looking around or surfing, in my opinion, I like seeing guys that play the part well, I like seeing them with cleanly shaved bodies.

[elian]

I've always taken that to mean any garments obviously associated with the opposite gender, and I've always deep down resented the fact that women could wear men's clothing and not be chastised for it, but I know there was a time when that was not true (whalebone corset anyone? Oh come on, there must be at least one Masochist in the crowd..)

Knowing what I now know about how hard it is to come to terms with defining our self image I find myself feeling sad that people attach such a strong degree of stigma and guilt to it. If you aren't seriously hurting anyone else I can't see why it should matter what you wear. Obviously society may feel differently.

Society loves labelling everything, it's so much easier when people meet our expectation of what a man and woman should look like. I sort of like the idea of two-spirit people, although I admit that I am still getting over my historically programmed prejudice about gender roles and physical appearance. As with anything else, I find that if you get to know someone in person it makes a big difference.

That's how I know prejudice is irrational, because I remember being a teen and WANTING to identify as a woman and STILL having that split second reaction of disbelief when I see a transgender person. If and when I see people as fluid, I think that will be the day that a lot of my pain, anger and frustration over personal disparities will be gone - maybe by then it will be time to go home.

Again I have to remind myself that "crossdressing" and "transgender" aren't the same thing. Some people just like wearing clothes from the opposite sex, it feels good, it turns them on, ..

I looked at the pics posted here and my reaction is "kinda cute" - but what I like about it most is that a) you aren't hurting anyone and b) you seem happy - and when other people are happy I get pleasure from seeing them happy.

(gawd I hope Cat isn't reading this.. I'm not submissive, really, honest - pleading look, smiles, kisses? - )

..I hated myself, and I was angry so much for so long that I just love it when people feel a sense of empowerment and they celebrate positive self worth without having to step on others to get it.

[Ziggy74]

I've been crossdressing since my teens. Over the years, I've chatted online with probably hundreds of guys about it. I think its just part of nature. We are a smaller subset of bisexuality ( and not all crossdressers are bi) , but it does seem that for every sissy, there is a guy that is especially turned on by it.
I am a relatively masculine male, but love how feminine my body can look all shaved up. So do some guys : )

[Mike2922]

It’s my feeling that dressing for straight people and dressingfor cross dressers should be at the same standard.
I’m bi and I own afew suits that I wear to work or nights out, weddings, graduations etc…I’ lookgreat in them…I feel great in them! Paidsome good money for my suits, I can’t afford a $4,000 dollar suit like mylawyer wears but mine are nice.
Looking good in a suit has nothing to do with being a “Ken-type” or having a perfect body…Its about quality fitand quality material…quality period.
If you’re going to be a cross dresser…don’t go cheap! If you’re going to wear a dress…make sure it’sa quality dress…if you’re wearing panties or/or bra…wear quality panties andbras, that fit well and compliment you. Don’tbother wearing something you pick up at k-mart, or Target…not to insult K-Martor Target…fine stores, I shop there…I just don’t buy my suits there!
Bottom line...no, not a fan of a cheap cross dresser…a hot TVs/transgender wearing a hot sexy dressesthat’s different story. And a woman in boxers or boxer-briefs and a solid button down oxford shirt...and nothing else...HUGE HARD fan here

[Visexual]

My wife and I have a friend, wife of one of our couple friends, who is tall and very androgynous. I've often fantasized about her having a cock and testicles.

I do like crossdressers, very much. I've gotten my wife to use a 'feeldoe' several times to let me suck her cock. I just wish she'd do it more often.

I did have one encounter a few years ago. He was quite passable too. I got carried away and kissed him and that wasn't in his comfort zone so we never repeated. Too bad.

[whispering]

I've worn women's lingerie and clothes now and then since I was a teen. You could say I"m a crossdresser, but I'm not really into the dressing so much as into feeling feminine. To day a kind gentleman laid me on a bed and gave me a massage, and let me suck his cock, and spread out on the bed with his cock slipping in and out of my mouth, and then his own attentions to my cock...ummmm I went shopping at the market afterward, and I felt lovely, and all the women were beautiful, totally beautiful, every one. That's what I love about feeling femme....

[6inmypanties]

Always wanted to try it. Gonna order some kinky bottoms and surprise boyfriend.:oh:

[tobyishot59]

Yes,Toby again.
To me I have never put panties on. But I will do anything that would turn my partner on.What I really love is getting naked.And then slipping into pumps,I like them high.And then putting on my real erotic music.O MG I can not describe how good this feels.Does anyone else do this?tobyishot

[PamelaBiPantyboy]

I`m not sure of the definition of " Crossdressing " . I have worn panties for decades , but am all burly and hairy ; I couldn`t do justice to any more than just panties . I find panties quite helpful in expressing my female side .

[elian]

Crossdressing and transgender are two different things. As I said before, if you like it, and it's not hurting anyone then why not?

[ptabifun]

Not so much what is called cross dress I think but I really do love wearing Panties

Later when I thought she was sleeping I ripped old faithful Hustler out and sat on the loo playing.
So deep into the Stuff I did not see the door open and in walked the misses.
O well I ended up getting a dirty look a few angry words. I explained and all ended with a hand job for Me

[slicksean]

I'm a Crossdresser who is unfortunately in the closet because my wife is completely turned off by guys in girls clothes; so I would love to know how others feel about it?
I don't get to dress often but when I do I get so excited and horny ! I love putting on strappy high heels and painting my toenails red, I shave daily neck to knees, put on wifes dress and go outside swinging my hips like a lady and jerking off like a crazed fool. I always end up eating my cum.. I also love to skype when dressed and put on a sexy show and jerk off. write me jamest48 buffalo, ny @ Ohh Yeah msn.com

[badabing0069]

I love wearing nylons panties and miniskirts. Turns on most of the women I even dressed like this in front of. It's fun to do

[Dunmor]

agree

[BareProf]

21238Thigh highs are my fav fem wear. A silk robe is nice too along with other lingerie - sensual and sexual.

[Michele Mayelle]

The thing I find strange about cross dressing is, no one has a problem when a man or a woman sees a lady walking along a street, or wherever, wearing, what looks like a mans suit, shirt, (blouse) tie & high heels,(which is the only feminine item on them)which, as you probably have noticed, some high flying business women wear, & it doesn't mean they are lesbians. No one even turns their head, yet if it is a man wearing ladies clothes, wow, then everyone, well nearly, looks & considers him to be a pervert, why?

[purpletoes]

I'm a guy who never wears anything but women's clothes. I shop at thrift stores and buy things from the women's department. This way I can go everywhere in "drag". I'm a slim guy and love to wear short girl-shorts in summer and tank tops. In cooler weather I wear ladies jeans or whatever feels good. At home I often wear skirts etc. I also paint my toenails and wear toe rings and sandals everywhere in warm weather. I do get some looks but I LOVE running around in public totally dressed in women's clothes! I haven't had the nerve to wear a skirt in public but who knows! I do have some great sandals!

[whitehawk]

I Wonder How Many Start This Life-Style On This Evening. First Time Dressing, Not Knowing How It Would Influence Their Life. Being Funny, Hahahahaha, I'll Dress Up As A Woman On Halloween And .... OPPPPPSSSSS ! Like McDonald's Now .... I'm Loving It !

[jonibotom]

Once a girlfriend put me in panties: I was hooked! She knew what I had always wanted, but was too repressed to ever honestly admit to. Before that moment I had never admitted to myself or any one else that I needed to be feminized, and that I might be bisexual /homosexual. Even after the first time that I was put into panties; i wanted to deny it all. Lennette was pretty adamant though: all She had to do was show me the panties she wanted me in, and I would have them on. If I tried to refuse she would put Me over Her knee and spank Me..all the while telling me that all her friends knew..which I did not believe at the time..but as it would happen; they did know! A few years later I ran into a woman from that era ( Lennette's friend) Who asked Me" how is Your bottom Joni?"...I blushed..and admitted it.

[Bisexual Explorer]

I love to wear panties, stockings, lingerie -- sometimes just for myself, sometimes for pics to post here, and sometimes, when I'm feeling especially fem, for my male partners. Though all the partners I've met here are terrific, none of them cross dress. I would love to find someone who would.
BiSexual Explorer

[campfireresident]

I always thought I cross-dressed to feel aroused until I read a similar statement like the article from http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/transvesticism.htm
"Most men who cross-dress describe it as an outlet for stress, and they tend to want to dress up more during times of tension at work or at home."
Now I know. And it does follow my stressful times.

[Gumby12]

When I was a small boy I put my mothers dress on and my little thing got hard. I didn't understand why, but it did. I just know that's when I became aware that I was a boy and not a girl. Wearing it just made me feel good. Later in life it just made me horny to think of women panties. I use to put a the wives underwear on just for a short time, but it was only that I was horny for them. Has nothing to do with my feeling toward a man.

[max617]

i think it's incredibly sexy! if i could pull it off,i would....but i'm just an admirer

[exlondonboy]

I love to cross dress, but have never had the chance to have sex while dressed.

[snowcrazee]

I love to cross-dress as well, for multiple reasons, including a few that would probably have a good chunk of the psychology/psychiatry populations checking for validity, as well as a couple that I am still not sure I believe so much as just thought them up to make a reason for someone who wouldn't understand it any other way, but deserved an explanation in the best way I could give them. How much, how often, and how risky I am going to be, varies daily.

You are asking why... I can sense it! So here ya go: I am a 41yr old, 6'4, 275lbs, not "fat" but have the classic "beer belly" (which I didn't even earn the honest way because I don't drink that much beer, and wish I could give back to whoever the rightful owner is because I really like some clothes I can't quite fit into yet... getting there... sloooowly) who appears straight to anyone I meet, and acts as such around most everyone I know, because I didn't realize who "me" is until years after becoming life long best friends with these people (or they are family), and I know how they react to anything outside of the hetero scope of sexuality. There is just no way I could pull off in public even the mildest of cross-dressing schemes. I would be the person everyone looked up at (much like Asian tourists are seen doing all the time in movies as they say "take-a da picksha"), pointing and saying something like "Oh HELL NAW! There ain't no way that skyscraper walking towards us is a female!" I mean, what do you say to a nearly 7ft. tall, busty, mini-skirt and heels clad person standing next to you in line at the grocery store? These are the best ones I can come up with!

A) "You might consider panties next time you shop in China Town"
B) "Please ma'am, can you remove your penis from my shoulder? I dont care how tired it is!"
C) "GAWD DAMN Jack/Jackie! You were supposed to PLANT the magic beans, not eat them!" -or-
D) "Please tell me you smoke and drink coffee so I have hope that "stunting your growth" is a "cool" phrase meaning "Ready. Set. DUCK!"

The most daring I can allow myself in public is when I am running out for a quick errand and pull on a set of basketball-style shorts and a hoodie to cover and hide the little tank top, mini skirt, booty shorts, camisole, bra, panties, corset, and/or lingirie I might be wearing at home that can be concealed by the bulkiness of the sports wear (and when its raining, I can even get away with the hair-do, jeans, longer skirts, stalkings/pantyhose, leggings, etc... but still haven't found a way to conceal the 38-D chest I designed to fill out the outfits properly, so they stay home along with shoes). At home I wear anything and everything from basic "homewreckin' hoochie" to elaborate "ballroom princess" (seriously, even have a ballroom gown and a wedding gown). I don't really do makeup, except the occasional lip gloss and nail painting, mainly because I have no clue how or what colors to wear anyway. I have a very nice "hair-do" that matches my natural hair color perfectly, and can be styled tons of ways, and all of my shoes are heels, at least half 5" or better (6'4" + 6" stilettos = Thank Gawd I don't get vertigo... cause that is WAY up there).

There is never any one specific reason to do it, other than I just like it, every aspect of it, sexual, psychological, and physical. And I am bi (still in "curious" phase thanks to technicalities of being "virgin" to the actual act that removes the curious title) as well, not gay, not transgender. I admit it would be awesome to have these boobs for real... but I'd play with them too much and wear 'em out or break them right after the warranty expires or something. But I do not wish to "be" a woman, just dress and act like one. Ah, and should the opportunity arise to clear the "curious" label from my otherwise highly controversial title, the role will follow me to the bedroom as I only want bisexual to parameter around getting laid like one! And hey, one of these days maybe the hopes and dreams of what still seems to be the most unspoken of all "sexualities" will finally be granted and judgement wont be placed upon those who like to be different then society and that really old story book you find at churches deems we should be, and we can all walk out in public wearing our "Yay! We did it!" outfits and show off! lol. I'll be the one wearing nothing at all because all the taboo is gone and it would feel odd not getting away with it anymore (must be how all the pot smokers in this state feel now).

Lastly, my LTR/FWB/GF/Baby Momma is not only ok with it, but was the one who first brought it up in a recalled fantasy she had dreamed about, and thus is turned on by it, and adding the bisexual bonus prize sent her right back to her sexual prime (be careful guys with female significant others... no warnings, no Speeder Patrol Forces... just BAM! And next you know, you are dizzy, lost, confused, (possibly feeling pregnant) and looking at what is left of your once recognizable dick, which is now 5x thinner and smaller from the excessive abuse and wear-n-tear in such a short amount of time (they sell the dildo/dong/vibrator sleeves at head/porn stores for a reason... its like the "Reebok pump penis" for John Bobbitt... confidence restoration products.

[steve10557]

One of my earliest memories is of sitting on my Aunt's lap and lovingly stroking her stockings, from that very moment I was hooked! It progressed to trying on my Sister's lingerie and eventually to buying my own, but I always kept this as my secret, it was mine, all mine. Eventually I found the love of a good woman who appreciated my 'innocent hobby', but it still remained a very personal thing, an expression of my own femininity. Not through any desire to be a woman, just an act of simple narcissism, and up until a couple of years ago I still looked extremely Hot. Sadly, now I look more like mutton than lamb, so don't dress very much as I can't bear the image in the mirror, but the memory of me in my prime still keeps me warm.

Things my Dad said: "Good god boy, what do you look like!" (on wearing patchwork flared jeans to go out)

[bradf52]

I enjoy it on occasions! Depends on whom I'm with!

[BiOhBi]

My experimetation with this has manifested only in wearing panties and that only occasionally (I wear nice snug boxer briefs which satisfy much of that sense for me) but I have no desire to wear any other garments and I never have. I have perved on occasion at pictures CD's, usually those wearing leggings and such. I do wish better fashion sensibility came with that desire, I have to say some of the things worn I wouldn't care to see on a woman, leave alone a man. Also, it goes a long way if they're smooth.