How did you discover you were bi?

[Zarkoth]

Hey there, folks. I apologize in advance for the massive post, but it's the Internet and that's allowed, darnit!

I'm a new member, and also a new bisexual. I found out/discovered/realized I was bi about a week ago. What a trip. I've been lurking through the site, talking to a bisexual friend of mine, and generally been trying to reacquaint myself with my sexuality, and found(I'm sure not surprisingly) that the more I talk about it, the better/more comfortable I feel.

I don't know if it's a common thing or not, but I pretty much found out within the span of two minutes. See, I've lived up until this point thinking I was straight, and having a pretty good time of it. It's just that every few months or so, I'd have a homoerotic dream, or maybe see a guy and wonder what it'd be like to be in bed with him. I figured that everyone thought that every now and then, and brushed the dreams off as weird dreams. They were still disconcerting, and I'd be a little anxious until I'd see my g/f again or something, and have my heterosexual desires reinforced.

Finally I had another dream last week, was feeling really weird, and did some soul-searching. After a bit, it occurred to me I could be bisexual. But how to be sure? One can't base something like this on dreams alone.

So I thought it would be pretty straightforward to try and masturbate and focus on boys this time(did I mention I was a guy? I'm a guy.) Well, let me tell you that's a fast realization. I was elated, and confused, and relieved all at the same time.

And the ensuing days have all been kind of like that, too. It's been a bit of a roller-coaster ride. I'd be fine one minute, anxious the next, then happy. Things have been calming down as they go on and I get more used to the idea, though.

I mean, I know things won't feel normal right away, but is it partly because I didn't have any length of time where I just didn't know, and had time to prepare myself that I wasn't straight? Is it the shock of just finding out so fast? Has anyone else found out like that? What was it like for you?

[Long Duck Dong]

I discovered I was bisexual when I read a book.... lol..... and that was a few years after I have had sex with a male......

I will explain, I had never heard the term bisexual until I was mid teens, and so I * developed * as a bisexual, * untainted * by any expectations of what I should be doing, thinking , feeling, as a bisexual

to me, it was just a aspect of interaction between people.... a * supply and demand, want and desire * aspect..... it was not until I started to associate with LGBT people that I began to find out about the * rules * of bisexuality.... and even now, I do not fit the mold of a *normal * bisexual.....

when I learnt that the two terms that applied to me, were bisexual and ( more correctly ) pansexual, I was like, ok I am bi / pansexual.... big deal.... nothings changed other than the label

[biguycancun]

Obviously, the thoughts and dreams had been there for years, but when first confronted by a man making a pass at me, I ran. That was when I was 17 years old. The thoughts and dreams persisted through 18 years of a 27 year marriage and two children.

Then, while on an assignment in London, working with a man I'd known as a colleague for 10 years (and who was openly gay) on a very difficult job, I was in his hotel room, just down the hall from mine and we were reviewing the days work. It had gone very well, and as we closed the book on the job a high-five turned into an embrace, the embrace turned into a kiss and the rest is history. It felt right and it felt natural. My only regret is that it took so long.

[mikie6]

Well I guess it was when I found myself on my knees with the business end of my friend's cock in my mouth when I was around 14. :bigrin:

[kitten]

When, as a couple, we had a lovely impromptu FFM experience and I enjoyed her more than he did. With that realization, I began to understand some of the feelings and confusions throughout my life were because of my attractions to both genders.

[fpb09]

Been thinking for a long time without thinking it, on the back burner I guess u can say! LOL! After my last girlfriend it came to the front burner & i acted on it, now i love it ! GUESS I WAITED TO LONG!

[cornholejoe]

in a threesome with a man and his wife about 2 years ago liked it ever since

[Bisexual Explorer]

I was interested in men (boys) since I was ten and one of my friends grabbed by crotch while we were wrestling. I grabbed his and I was hooked on men. We wrestled a lot until I moved away. I didn't do anything else with men, other than fantasize, for a very long time. In the meantime, I discovered girls (women) when I was 14.
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[dickhand]

I started playing with a male cousin when we were 12 or so . Back then it was our secret fun . Didn't know the correct term for it was bisexual for quite some time after . As soon as I did , I knew that was me . My first woman was the woman who would become my wife the day before I turned 18 . Played with my cousin into our late 20s . Lost the wife after 30 years and 30 days to an anyurism .

[twntexas]

Well I guess it was when I found myself on my knees with the business end of my friend's cock in my mouth when I was around 14. :bigrin:

Well, kinda like Mike, I discovered I was bisexual at about 13 while laying on my stomach on a squeeking bed as my best freind drove his little boy weiney into my ass.

[ErosUrge]

I came to the realization that I was bi and accepted it fully in 1998. Prior to that, I had all my life desired both sexes and indulged in play with both. But for the majority of that time I was in turmoil over it. Except for when I first became active in my teens and into my very early 20's, I would always feel guilty and "wrong" for my urges for the same sex. Of course, it didn't help with the fact that some of my male/male experiences were negative as many guys I indulged with just didn't understand that I was interested in women too and more so with them. Since the majority of guys I played with during those years were gay, how could they understand? During my teens and early 20's I didn't really think anything was "wrong" with my indulgences.

But as I got older and married (though my first wife accepted me being interested in sex with men), I began to feel confused. It was for other reasons that we parted ways and we both were quite young at the age of 20. Anyhow, it became too much for me to handle emotionally; not because I was interested in men emotionally which was never the case nor is now, but because I had this idea that if I was going to be involved with a woman, then it should be enough for me and I shouldn't desire anything else. But every time I was involved and deeply in love (though some would argue against that), my desire to have sex with a male would always surface and I couldn't shake it. My desire for sex with males was just too intense. So, I fought against it and tried to deny it but the more I did this the more intense the desire for it.

Finally after many years of struggle I decided to try and understand it and quit fighting it. When I went in that direction and decided to be honest with myself and others about it, everything changed for the better after that. Of course I don't advertise to the world about it though most of my closest friends know. But I made peace with it all and accepted that even if people who didn't know found out, I was not going to let it destroy my well being. I knew I could handle it if they had a problem with it and accepted that they were the ones with the problem; not me.

Finding a life partner who understands and accepts this has proven difficult. But as has been pointed out by my counselor and various bi friends (couples, male/female and single), there are women who are accepting of it and understand. Since I am only emotionally and sexually attracted to women, it is with a woman I would want and have this kind of situation with. The interest with men though powerful, has always been primarily sexual. This is veering away from the original point of this topic.....

So, to close, since I re-discovered I am bi, I have been much more content with my life. I think the only thing that is bothersome from time to time is not having that deeper connection that means so much. But I have accepted that it might not ever be. Yet, I will remain true to myself. Because if one can't do that, then one can never be connected in an honest way with anyone.

[lizard-lix]

It never occurred to me not to have sex with someone I liked..... So I guess I was born bi and have always considered myself so.

I started with my best friend at about 11 (though I'd wanted to be naked with other kids as long as I can remember and before I had any idea what to do :-).

It started with the "I'll show you mine..." to "I can do that..." (while jacking), to "Would you ?", "No Way!", "OK, whip it out and let's try..." (sucking) and we were together for 7 years while we also started with girls (it was always great to know that if we struck out on a date, there was always a relief blowjob waiting back in the 'hood :-)

We did get up to 5 boys in a suck fest a few times in High School..

When I did start with girls, I liked it just as much (I like both sexes equally, but am a bit pickier with men than I am with women; i.e if I was with a guy and girl I liked equally, I'd probably hurt myself trying to decide, unless they would do a 3 -way).

[BiDaveDtown]

I discovered I was bisexual when I read a book.... lol..... and that was a few years after I have had sex with a male......

I will explain, I had never heard the term bisexual until I was mid teens, and so I * developed * as a bisexual, * untainted * by any expectations of what I should be doing, thinking , feeling, as a bisexual

to me, it was just a aspect of interaction between people.... a * supply and demand, want and desire * aspect..... it was not until I started to associate with LGBT people that I began to find out about the * rules * of bisexuality.... and even now, I do not fit the mold of a *normal * bisexual.....

when I learnt that the two terms that applied to me, were bisexual and ( more correctly ) pansexual, I was like, ok I am bi / pansexual.... big deal.... nothings changed other than the label

Aren't you asexual?

I've read posts of yours where you write about how you were born without a sex drive and how you are asexual.

What would you consider to be the "rules" of bisexuality that GLBT people claim there are?

[Gearbox]

I was having bi sex at around 10-11 with same age m/f friends. I didn't know what that was, but it sort of went away and we were all living as straight.
I couldn't fit myself into gay. But when I heard of bisexuality much later I thought "Yes! That's me!".:)

[HappyHedonic]

I came from a community that was very homophobic, so at the earliest thoughts in my life I fought the idea of "turning gay". When I was 17 I was still a virgin and very socially awkward with girls. An older guy picked up on me and I figured any sex would be better than no sex so as long as no one found out I would give it a try. It didn't go as I had envisioned...we just traded blow jobs while parked in his car at night and I was very nervous. Shortly after that I hooked up with a girlfriend and lost my "straight" virginity to a woman and knew that women were what I liked. I thought that the "gayness" was out of my system until....

A few years later, the girl dumps me and I'm single and horny. A photographer picks up on me and wants me to model (nude and hard) while he fluffs me and finishes me off afterwards. I go along with this but no reciprocation (I'm not gay, remember) and we have several sessions like this until the last time we were together. We were watching bi porn on video tapes (shows you how long ago this was) and I was suddenly curious to try receiving anal. I asked him to condom up and fuck my ass, which he did and I enjoyed immensely. After that day he moved to France and I never saw him again.

Then I was into a succession of girlfriends, all of whom I was completely heterosexual with. Seemed that as long as I was getting laid sufficiently that bisexuality wasn't necessary. After I broke up with the last GF, went through another dry spell, got a computer and got introduced to the Internet. Yup, I went right to the porn. The funny thing was, the more porn I was looking at I would notice that my focus of attention was not just the pretty girl with the cock in her mouth, but the cock itself was looking attractive to me. This led to gay porn, chat rooms, new ideas and fantasies going off...whoa...I'm not supposed to be gay, remember?

Well, I knew that I still am attracted to women, but I had to try a man again. I met a guy online, then in person, hit it off and went back to his place. The exact moment moment that his cock was in my mouth I had a revelation...this is right, this is good, I want this! I knew then and there that I was bisexual. Every time I have had sex with either gender since then has convinced me of that. Sex is good. Pleasure heals. Love the one you are with. Fuck what society says and do what makes you happy.:three:

[sammie19]

The woman to whom I am now married kissed me and I knew that I wasnt just attracted to boys.:)

[dobu1]

I had a crush on my fourth and fifth grade teacher. I was rather startled by it, but knew, even then, I was attracted to guys, and had the typical pre-teen crush on Justin Timberlake.

--db :bipride:

[Long Duck Dong]

Aren't you asexual?

I've read posts of yours where you write about how you were born without a sex drive and how you are asexual.
What would you consider to be the "rules" of bisexuality that GLBT people claim there are?

people are born without sex drives... a sex drive is a hormonal change that happens later in life ( puberty normally )..... so being born without a sex drive, is normal for people...... and the sex drive in people ebbs and flows over the years, its also normal.....
so for all intents and purposes I am a normal person... as asexuals are not a alien race......and nor are hyper sex drive people, who are at the other end of the scale

1) that I have to be sexually active to be bisexual ( posted in this site a number of times and only applies to me apparently, not any other non sexually active bisexual )

2) that as a bisexual person, I am not allowed to be monogamous ( apparently again, that applies to me only as posted in this site a number of times, other monogamous bisexuals are ok )

3) that as a bisexual that was sexually active for a number of years and was sexually active with my partner when she was with me for 3 months, 2 years ago, my opinions are invalid cos I lack a sex drive.... ( as posted in this site a number of times and again only applies to me, not the other members that have talked about thinking they are asexual )

the list goes on, but thats just in this site, that * rules * are stated.....

so why was I sexually active when I was asexual ???? its called conforming to the *standards *.......

[look4one]

I have always liked to see other boys in the locker rooms, while pretending not to stare and admiring their cocks. Even when watching porn or sex photos, I am always first attracted to see the male package before looking at the girls.

Over the years, there are certain males that just make my heart dropped whenever I meet them. I don't know how to explain it or describe it.

It was not until a few months ago that I finally admitted to my own self that I do like both. Hence I am BI :flag4:

Never really been with any man tho...

[innaminka]

Very basically - by putting my face between another woman's legs and finding it was just fine - loved everything. It answered questions in my psyche and I had no guilt.

Then on returning home the next day, and had wonderful sex with my husband.

guess that qualified!!!:three:

[Bonezs]

I actually found out I was Bi when I was 14. Before that I thought I was actually gay. I was into boys a little older than me and I even was taken by a decent sized guy. When I turned 14 I started noticing girls and wasn't sure exactly what to think because I never heard of the term bisexual.

[wrbi01]

I was 13 with a friend who was more curious that I was. He suggested we try oral. I was nervious but figured what the heck we are best friends. I still remember him unzipping his pants and watching him pull out that python of a cock. I enjoyed feeling him in my mouth and him watching me suck on him. I also remember he was the first one to tell me what cum was because as I was giving him oral and he pulled out he was worried about cumming in my mouth. I had not not personally started cumming yet. He told me what it was and what it was for. After that day we played a few more times and even tried anal. Neather of us knew that lube was important to anal so we didnt get very far because it hurt. After that I was confused about who I was suppost to like and thought it was ok to like boys or girls. Three years later I would have my first full experience with a girl and enjoyed the hell out of it. Right after my first time with a girl there was a rumor that I was gay going through the high school that I was in. It totally devestated my social life. I went through times where I thought, "what the hell... they think Im gay anyway." and started to allow myself to think about men when I was masterbating, which I did alot of. A few years passed and I finally was old enough to go to adult stores and really didnt know what the "Video Arcade" was about. I purchased some tokens and went in to the darkened little room with the TV and the chair. I sat down and started watching porn. I didnt notice there was a hole at the time but I looked over finally and someone was putting their fingers in the hole. I figured out what it was for. Finally in college there was a man I knew from high school and saw at a gas station one night after bar hopping. He was wondering what I was up to since high school and I invited him over to my house to sit and talk and have a drink. When we got to the house I went to the kitchen and got the drinks he met me in the doorway and put his hand on my chest and started kissing my chest. I let him. Still really unsure how to react to this attention I had really never had before we got naked and I wanted him to top me figuring this is what all gay men did. He would do me then I would do him.... I was wrong on that account. After he got his he said he was too tired and wanted to go home. I had been used. I kept all this to myself for years. I got married when I was 23 but still had wants and needs to do things with men. I would find creative ways, by using items around the house or my wife's toys, to take care of these thoughts. Finally, last year in November I couldnt take it anymore... I wanted to be out with my wife so she would know what I wanted. We were not have much sex and I needed her to know that I was Bi. We sat down. Talked about the situation and she was good with it. She is much less concerned about me leaving her for a man than if I had sex with other women. She even went with me to purchase toys of my own and has helped me use them. So now I am more than allowed to play on my own, which is great, and wants to watch me some time with another man. To that effect she has decided that she is Bi-curious herself and would like to find a couple that we can both have some play time with. So really for 19 years I have held back.... I have my first meeting with a guy I met the other day on a website today... But thats how it all started for me :flag4:

[badman5566]

When I was around 10, I had an older boy over for a sleep over. While laying in bed that night, we would feel each other's bodies over exploring each other including masturbating each other which lead to sucking each other's cocks and finger banging each other's butt holes. I would not do this again until my adult hood when I was involved with an older married couple. The guy obviously had the hots for me and got down along with his wife who was sucking the hell out of my hard cock and preceded to join her and took turns with her finger fucking me. I haven't seen this couple in years. For a long time before this incident, I was ashamed of doing it as I was often harassed by other students at school about being a fag, and was the butt of every gay joke. Now I could care less. I looked at the old Salem cigarette ads from the 70s and fantasize about the women posing for the ads and would often fantasize about the men posing for the ads as well. There were some hot looking Salem guys as well as them hot looking Salem gals. I guess that was why I liked smoking that brand of cigarette. I'm more into the bi scene now then when I was younger as I am less ashamed of it and am more willing to do it.

[eddievb91]

when i caught myself looking at all the hot track runners on both the guys and girls team in high school, that was around 10th grade for me

[alt4sure1]

An ex girlfriend started rubbing my asshole while giving me a BJ one night. I started grinding myself onto her fingers and by the time I came she had 2 fingers burried as deep as she could. Within a week we had her an 8 inch strap on that she was pleasuring me with. I knew from that point it was only a matter of time before I had to know what the "real thing" felt like. She wasn't into men being bi so after we split up I went to a local bath house where I sucked my first cock and eagerly let the guy fuck me.

[elian]

Fairly recently. I always knew I was different, growing up, in my heart I treated girls like sisters and boys with romantic lust. In my teen years I spent an awful lot of time and energy trying to "prove" to myself whether or not I could be happy being "straight" or "gay". I thought I would hold off on the married w/klds thing until I knew I could be faithful to a straight wife.

It's very painful in this world sometimes to confront being LGBT but I thought I could live with it if I could just figure out which gender I liked more. Boy was I in for a surprise. It was very confusing when I'd look at the male members of cross country track team running down the road with my tongue hanging out the car window and go home and still be turned on watching a young lady rubbing herself to orgasm. In the horniest of moments I still love watching or helping people pleasure themselves regardless of gender.

Having grown up in a very conservative rural area it was by reading posts on this site that I first realized that attraction and gender did not HAVE to be "black or white" but that there was a whole spectrum.

Not worrying about the labels is harder to do than it looks, but I'm trying anyway.

[dman82]

I was pulling 2 sided jokes on a friend of mine that I worked with not even thinking about the answers. I was asking things like if you had a gay man jump on your back would you beat him off? I also asked If you got on a bus full of gay guys would you get off?
Finally it was closing time and he was done with his work helping me with some of mine. I was sweeping and getting ready to mop when I looked back at him and asked "Does your mom know your gay?" His jaw dropped and he said "Who the hell told you?!!" I was stunned and all I could quietly utter was "I was only joking with you." His head sank for just outting himself.
I had grown up in a very strict religion but always told to accept others. I had also thought of men as being attrictive and even had dreams of hooking up with them. Same with women. so I did some soul searching and deep thinking while mopping, looked back at him and said "If it helps you any, you just helped me realize I am bi." He nods his head and said softly "Yes."
So since I was only 17 at the time and couldn't go to the local bar, he did introduce me to the community a little. I also came out to the school counciler and she recommended me to a youth center for GLBT and their friends. I am lucky that I had such great support.

[jackbirdjay]

In high school gym showers I started looking at all the different swinging cocks. I was 14 in the 9th grade. I started having fantasy of sucking cock. I was scared some one might find out it was the 70's and not as open like it is now. At 16 my friend next door and I started jerking off together but never any touching, just watching each other jerk. One night I asked if he needed a hand with it. He got very upset and mad so I made a joke of it saying I was kidding. If he asked me I would have sucked him dry. Then at 17 had my first sex with a older girl, she was 22. Then at 20 moved to another state and started going to the adult movie theaters and there was one adult drive-in. One hot summer night at the drive-in I met a guy I'll say was in his 50's. At his car I finely sucked a cock. After felt guilty but wanted more. So at 14 I knew I wanted both sexes but was confused with mix feelings. Oh yea my next door friend and I chat on face book. He asked if I would have really played with his cock. I fussed up and told him yes. He said if it was now he would have let me. Oh well his lost lol.

[cuttin2dachase]

I can thank my 1st wife for leading me to discover my bi-ness when I was 32. We swung with other married couples and she would play around with the other wife to turn on the guys. She always said it wasn't fair that the girls didn't get to watch the guys playing around. It was in a 4some with a bi couple that I felt a man's hand and mouth on my cock. Knowing it would turn my wife on, I went with the flow and returned the favor, to her delight. She suggested that henceforth we seek men for 3somes and I indulged her because I had become bi-curious. She was a wild, passionate, kinky wife and although I enjoyed other women in 4somes, my main thrill was to watch her and encourage her to be a total slut with other men, then make wild passionate love with her afterwards. I could now indulge her in her desire for other men, explore my newfound interest in men and make wild passionate love with her. My bi curiosity evolved to bi from there and I have not regretted it !

[hgf33]

Unlike most gays who say they knew at a young age, I didn't really figure it out until I was about 20. I guess it started before then, though. I'm a perfect example of that Katy Perry song. I kissed a girl, and I liked it! I used to make out with my best friend bc guys liked it and it was harmless fun. We'd fool around above the waste, but we were just party girls and never thought anything of it. Then, I was at a point in my life where I had mostly guy friends, so it became sort-of a habit to agree on which girls were hot and which ones weren't. Even straight girls can do that! I had also been enjoying lesbian porn, but even after all that, I still had no idea. I just assumed I was comfortable with naked women (open-minded and secure with myself) and I liked the porn because I could watch oral, which you don't always see in straight porn.

Looking back, I've realized I did have a girl crush when I was 20. She was beautiful, and we'd just met but became instant friends. We used to talk about sex a lot, including the possibility of being bi. The thought had never even crossed my mind before! We didn't do a whole lot together, sexually, minus a threesome with a guy friend of mine... But I was awful, I didn't have a clue. We hung out after awhile, even after I met my current boyfriend, but eventually, she moved away. I've tried to contact her, to no avail. It bums me out because I've figured out that I SERIOUSLY wanted that girl, and I wish I wouldn't have been so damn shy! She was amazing. *sigh*

Last year, my boyfriend let me have a "girlfriend". It didn't work out, but at least now that I've been with a woman, I know that, without question, I am definitely bisexual!!!

My biggest regret in life is that I wasn't able to figure it out when I was younger. I sure missed out!!

[glassbottle]

Ah... well, even when I started liking girls, some guys seemed to pique my interest too, ever since I was about 12 or 13.
So, I think it just came to me naturally...

But for some reason I didn't want to complicate things, so I just decided to stick with girls and be straight. Plus, I grew up in a family and town that is fairly ignorant and unhelpful with human sexuality, and all that kinda rubbed off on me so there are a lot of things I'm still learning and getting comfortable with.
So unfortunately, that whole part of me had been repressed and ignored for a long time.

A few years ago after a long relationship with a girl I decided to admit to myself that I might not fit very well into a binary sexuality.
Since then, there's still a lot of frustrating back-and-forth feelings about men and women, so as a result I've still only been with women to this day. I guess that's life, but I remain hopeful that I'll be able to open up more with myself and be more expressive...

Blah...
Another new member here, btw... Hi...

[NakedInSeattle]

When I sucked my first cock and said DAMN, that was fun.

[_someone_]

I think I've always at least been curious, although I didn't do anything before I was 20.

[thicknthin47]

for me there was no hint if bi anything until my late 30s early 40s
The wife and I have been in the swing life style (off and on) for the
Last 13=14 years. On one night I was lucky enuff to watch her play
With another woman (her first time) and a few more times after that
Well...that sparked something in me :-P but I never said anything.......
Few years go by and I find myself jacking off with other guys on webcam
I felt weird about it,but kept on doing it. A few more years goes by
And I start getting these urges to do things in person. But I never talked
About it or acted on it. Feww more years go by ok....everything is ok
And normal,then boom! Out of the blue these urges come back but
Stronger than ever. After about a year of fighting it. I told my wife about it
I was REALLY scared she was gonna leave me...but I could not hide it anymore
....this was about 7-8 months ago. She was pretty shocked at first,but
Totally supportive and understanding. If felt sooooooo good teling her
Like a huge weight had been lifted! This website has helped a lot also
We read it together

[MetalMadam]

For as long as I can remember having sexual feelings, I have been equally attracted to men and woman. In high school it caused a lot of confusion and I identified as gay. After all I thought girls were hot, so I MUST be gay right? Then I fell in love with my best friend who was a male. Over the years I have realized I do not have to stuff myself into a label to be happy. I'm very comfortable now with my sexuality even if others don't get it.

[jackbirdjay]

I was all ways looking in the gym showers. I had gym the last class of the day go home after looking at all the cocks in the showers and jerk-off thinking about them. I felt so guilty after. Then had sex with a girl for the first time at 17. Lost interest in guy for a while. Then at 18 started going to the adult movie theaters and there was a adult drive-in to. The movies made me start thinking about cock again and felt guilty about it. Then I finely sucked one at 20 years old. I still felt guilty about it but wanted more. Then at about 22 I just said the hell with it and started enjoying it. So I guess It was about 22 when I finely enjoyed it and knew I was in to both guys and girls.

[Sparkling Diamond]

I first clearly realised I was also attracted to boys at the age of 15 at high school. There was a guy of the same grade I simply couldn't help watching going by, admiring his body and his personality (he was very intelligent and kind). However, I didn't know even the word 'bisexual', so I'd classify myself as such only years later. :flag4:

[myschyfnmayhem]

I was a teen,an older friend got me drunk and I found myself allowing him to get my pants off...then playing with my ass...when he finally got his cock in me I found myself loving it....

[marius2846]

When I was about 14 a friend of mine play touch and feel with a couple of girl friends and I liked looking at him naked. Thinking nothing unusual about it I still only got envolved with women as I was growing up. I was hit on several times by guys at bars and clubs but dimissed my curiousity about being with a man, thinking, I was with girl friends and that wasn't who I was. I then had strong feelings about being with men and finally acted on my impulses and fooled around with some older guys when i was about 39, and have gone from there to being with guys and girls and emjoying every minute of it

[hgf33]

I was pulling 2 sided jokes on a friend of mine that I worked with not even thinking about the answers. I was asking things like if you had a gay man jump on your back would you beat him off? I also asked If you got on a bus full of gay guys would you get off?
Finally it was closing time and he was done with his work helping me with some of mine. I was sweeping and getting ready to mop when I looked back at him and asked "Does your mom know your gay?" His jaw dropped and he said "Who the hell told you?!!" I was stunned and all I could quietly utter was "I was only joking with you." His head sank for just outting himself.
I had grown up in a very strict religion but always told to accept others. I had also thought of men as being attrictive and even had dreams of hooking up with them. Same with women. so I did some soul searching and deep thinking while mopping, looked back at him and said "If it helps you any, you just helped me realize I am bi." He nods his head and said softly "Yes."
So since I was only 17 at the time and couldn't go to the local bar, he did introduce me to the community a little. I also came out to the school counciler and she recommended me to a youth center for GLBT and their friends. I am lucky that I had such great support.

dman, I loved your story!!!! It's touching, and your jokes made me laugh out loud!! :tong:

[hgf33]

I said I was 20, but thinking back, I was actually 19. Things start to run together after awhile, lol. Oh well!

[dolphinboy1984]

Began having this knowing feeling when I was about 12 but hated myself immensely for it. Looking back, this was the most difficult part about it because I was in turmoil about being gay, even though I was attracted to women as well.

Nothing occurred sexually because I grew up in a small town with a small-mindedness to match. Then, when I was 16, my Nan bought a computer and got the internet. I discovered MSN Chat and used to look tentatively at the gay chat rooms, before long, I plucked up the courage to actually go in and found myself wanking over the conversations within a couple of days.

About six months later I was in a lay-by suck a massive (and I mean massive) cock. I loved the taste and then feeling of being blown myself. I bolted my nuts and all the arousal seeped away allowing the guilt to creep in. I continued having the occasional foray into gay sex but stopped when I got to university aged 22. I have not had sexual relations with another man since but have recently, like a week ago, accepted my bisexuality and love that part of me.

Thanks for reading.

[Jobelorocks]

I remember being really young and realizing I liked both boys and girls (at 6 I remembering wanting to kiss one of my friends like boys kiss girls and wanting to marry her). I always knew that I liked both, but I thought everyone must and since I liked boys more, then I must be straight. I found out later on in my teens about bisexuality and it clicked, that was what I was. I have been doing things with both genders ever since, but growing up in an evangelical family I hid what I did with other girls. I am now only out with some friends and my husband.

[cplpleaser]

I started fantasizing about being with a man when I was around 15 although I totally enjoyed having sex with females. I was afraid to explore my interest in sucking a cock as that would have meant I was gay. Didn't even know there was such a thing as bisexual. So I didn't do anything but fantasize until I was 19 and this guy invites me over to watch TV. He asked me what I liked to do and I said I liked to dance. I was too young to get into clubs but he said he knew a club he could get me into. He said he wasn't sure if I'd like it cause people in this club were naughty. I knew what he meant but sat there playing dumb and asked what he meant. As I sat there getting hard and leading the conversation on knowing where it was going. Finally I asked him to show how they were naughty. He took me to his bedroom and we got naked. He had the longest, fattest cock I've ever seen. He sucked me and I then fucked him. After I came I sucked him until he came. Could bearly get my mouth over his cock head and had to stroke with both hands to complete the task. I knew then I was bi and couldn't wait to be with a man again.

[Virgo21]

I knew I was bi when I was confused I knew I liked men but I also loved woman I though ibwad a lesbian but I was not happy kbow I am happy that I am bi.I been bi for a week know .

[sixthickcut]

when i played doctor with the other kids in my hood...we all took turns and i examined them...we were like in kindergarden about age of 5-6 years old...i became an adult and have enjoyed sex with both sexes throughout my like...more women than men at various ages...peace luv and happiness everybody...:three:

[foreverbi]

I felt from a very early age that I was "different". When I was a kid 10-11 years old I liked to play house with the little girls, but I also liked to play house with the little boys too. Quite a few of my little boy friends would et me suck their dicks, but since we were all too young to produce cum I did not consider it really sucking dick. That came from my older cousin (2-3 years older than me). He had been trying for a long time to get me to suck his dick, but I always declined. One day after I had been "playing" with my little friends I went to my cousins house. I told him I was ready to suck his dick. When I was sucking he grabbed my head & asked me if I wanted a big load of cum to chew on. Since my head was being held in a death grip I had no choice. I didn't know what to do with his cum as I didn't want to leave a mess in my Aunt & Uncles house, so I just swallowed it. After that one taste I knew I was hooked on sucking dick & swallowing cum. I could eat cum until my stomach was completely full of it but I would still want more.:male::bigrin:

[sclight]

we firat discovered we were bisexual when we had a drunken kiss and fumble...led to very deep feelings we never thought we would feel..we are now completly in love and never want to be apart, we definatley argue that we are NOT lesbian..just in love with each other.and definaltely still want cock lol

[oralexpert44]

Straight my whole life and had many many sexual relationships with women. Never even thought about having relationships with a man and had always been very sexual and horny. Then one night at around age of 44 I meet this transexual in a bar and she invites me to her apartment. Well, after a few drinks and really horny I say why not. She starts giving me oral and I am really enjoying it and was so horny that I asked her if I could see her cock. Just wanted to see it. So, there is this cock right in front of my face and I couldn't resist and just started to lick and suck on it. What surprised me was how easy and natural it felt and how much I enjoyed it. I thought about that experience and how much I enjoyed it and about a year later I decided I wanted to do this again. I posted an add online that I wanted to meet well hung guy for NSA oral just for him. A gentleman a few years older than myself replied and I got the nerve to meet him. He got naked and i started running my hands all over his body, first time for me, and then went right for his cock. I just started to suck and lick it until he got hard in my mouth. He must have been about 8 inches and I was enjoying every inch of him. I sucked on his nuts and rimmed him until he could not hold back any more and let him cum in my mouth. Ever since I have enjoyed men as much as women and still surprised how much I enjoy a nice cock and I am every bit as good at sucking cock as I am eating pussy.

[Seanrtn]

Very similar way for me, I loved to sneak a peak in the shower even in Jr. High, I realized one day that even when I was not in the shower, I was thinking about a friend of mines thick cock, next thing you know at a sleep over we ended up "exploring" thats when I new I was BI.


when i caught myself looking at all the hot track runners on both the guys and girls team in high school, that was around 10th grade for me

[Playfulone926]

I enjoyed kissing my best girlfriend more than I thought I should. I got wet from her touching my breasts and I wanted more...still do.

[dm330]

I knew since I was just a kid. I always wanted to suck a dick after seeing it in a porn mag I found and actually did it with a friend of mine at age 8, pretty young I know. I started checking out girls more when I was 11, and thought I lost interest in guys until high school when we watched a video on pregnancy, then I began fantasizing about guys and girls and sucking dick all over again. It wasn't till I was 23 I got my dick sucked by a guy for the first time ever, it was at a glory hole video arcade. The arcade peeked my curiosity. When I saw the hole I looked through and saw some middle aged bald guy stroking and he came over and stuck his dick through my glory hole. I didn't suck though, because my preference is people close to my age. The next day I went back and some guy my age was in there. I put my dick through and he sucked my so good I thought I was going to collapse when I jizzed. That's when I realized men give much better head than women. 3 years after that I sucked my second dick in my life and swallowed my first load of another man's cum. Now I'd like to have a 3sum with a guy and a woman where the man cums in her pussy and I get to clean it up!:cool:

[inthehead11]

I figured out I was bi when I was about 15. A good friend and I were masturbating together and ended up having sex. We had a relationship with each other for about a year and loved every minute of it!

[jabor60]

Thought about it for a long time with out acting on my desires. During a swinging foursome it didn't take long for the male of the other couple to focus on my cock and after a while began to suck it. I couldn't believe how good it felt and how much I wanted to reciprocate, and before too long I did. The next day I told my wife how much I enjoyed the experience and how much I was looking forward to our next encounter. I've considered myself bi ever since.

[wally0075]

I figured it out from tripping on mushrooms and smoking pot, believe it or not.
I was really depressed for a long time after a bad trip, and couldn't figure out why. I quit smoking and drinking and tried to clear my mind. I couldn't shake the depression though. Fast forward 2 years, I was 20 and still depressed and anxiety ridden, and I couldn't get over it. I took antidepressants, and talked to shrinks, but nothing helped. One night I decided to get some weed and smoke myself stupid. I smoked and freaked out in my head, and as the thoughts were racing around one clicked.

"I think I like boys"

As soon as that thought happened, I tried my hardest to claim it as false, and went to sleep. After that I was constantly fighting with myself trying to denounce my feelings.
That was 2 years ago and I've put myself through the ringer. My mind is a mess and my life went nowhere, but I just recently accepted the fact. Now I need to start meeting people like me in my area, and get on with my life.

I just joined this site yesterday, and look forward to meeting new people and helping those who need it!
Thanks

[mnTIMIDguy]

First of all, welcome to the site, Wally!



Since childhood I'd always found some girls very cute, and also some guys very cute. I knew girls were for kissing and holding, but never knew what I could do with guys. So I was left with just enjoying the pleasure of looking at and imagining a cute guy's face.

Sometime in my teen years I got my hands on a Penthouse and read a letter in it that told a story about a guy at a party. At the party his girlfriend told him to go upstairs to such and such a bedroom, strip, get in bed with the lights off, and she'd come up and give him a bj. He was up there waiting for her, and fell asleep. He woke to her giving head, and after he came, realized that it was in fact another guy giving head, not his gf. That's when I realized what a guy could do with another guy.

I didn't know the name for it, but I've long known that I liked the idea of playing with a women's breast, and coupling with her (I love the way bodies meld together), and also sucking on some guys' cocks. I don't know when I learned the name for it, but I didn't need a name to know what I wanted to do. I just needed permission from God.

Still waiting.

[trentino]

I was also a late bloomer like a lot of those who have commented on this thread. Now that I think about it, I was really infatuated with a friend in about 4th grade. We had frequent sleepovers, but nothing remotely sexual ever transpired. I just remember really wanting to look like him. Maybe that was the first inklings.

When I was 5 or 6, I found a massive dildo in our side yard. My dad blamed it on the neighbor with the outdoor jacuzzi. I shrieked and cried when my mom, shocked, pitched it in the garbage can. I thought it was so cool ! Such a neat toy - maybe that had something to do with my bisexuality.

My best friend wanted to "get gay" when we were about 12. I protested vehemently. At about that time I was becoming aware of gayness and I just couldn't believe that guys stuck their dicks in each other's asses.

Just in college, living in the frat, I used to writhe with insomnia at night fantasizing about sucking cock and getting fucked. Must have been the heavy haze of hormones in the bunkbed area.

Didn't actually test the waters until a few years later and after a shattering break-up with a girlfriend. I went to the gaybar where a housemate worked (he had moved in with us het guys under false pretenses, beard, the whole bit) and ended up leaving with this little, skinny, balding, glasses-wearing guy. Disaster. Had horrible car sex which culminated with us being questioned by cops shining flashlights through the windows of my mom's station wagon.

Next, had a random hook-up with a guy in a baseball cap at a porn-theater. He had me just about completely naked in the folding velour seat ! When we left, I recognized him as the next door neighbor of a girl I had a crush on ! Anyway, I asked him not to tell and he fucked me good and hard for hours that night. I remember cuddling on the couch, looking at the full moon shimmer off the lake before I walked home in the dead of night.

I've always been a girlfriend kind of guy, so yes, though I enjoyed the gay sex immensely, I always pushed it out of my head, or my persona, although I continuosly looked at porn and fantacized about gay sex.

Still, it's girls that turn my head in the street, and I can't imagine ever setting up house with a man. But, gosh, sometimes I really crave cock ! Maybe it's the perversion, maybe it's my shyness with women. Whatever it is, I can't wait for my wife to give me the go ahead for some good gay loving !

[12voltman59]

I had a sense early on in life that I was surely not purely heterosexual and when I got older---I also knew that I wasn't also "gay"--- I really didn't know what I was---I just decided that whatever I was in regards to my sexuality-I was just "being me" and tried to figure that out and muddle through as best as I could.

It was tough at times I do have to say.

My very first "sexual contact" with another human being was with another guy--we were both pre-pubescent so we could not consummate what we did try--but I did know that it felt good and I liked it even though I was told by my dad and others that such things are what queers, faggots, butt fuckers (and other such derisive terms for such people) do and that it is wrong and bad.

I didn't feel what he and I did was wrong, bad or unnatural at all, but we did keep our activities covert and never got caught since we knew that we'd be in for it from our folks and our friends if we got found out.

[69luvr]

I went to a movie theater when I was younger. As I walked in I had a hard time seeing and I accidentally bumped into an usher. My hand barely touched his cock and I knew it. I excused myself and sat down but wanted to explore him more and more. I got up and went to the mens room aqnd lo and behold, there he was. He smiled and I smiled. I was a bit embarassed and he asked how I was enjoying the show. i said it was great. We both left the mens room at the same time and I went up to the near empty balcony as this was during the day. Soon the usher was upstairs working or so I thought. I got up to leave and he "accidentally" brushed my cock with his hand. I had no alternative but to reciprocate! He motioned for me to follow him and we went even further up the balcony to a very dark room. Once inside we kissed and I grabbed a hold of his cock for all it was worth and him mine. soon his lips were aroung the head and I LOVED it. I wanted to reciprocate and did. I sucked a cock for the first time and loved it! I have been doing it ever since.:bibounce:

[whispering]

I remember exactly the night. I was fifteen, over at a teacher's house, and his wife had gone to bed. He was talking about the Greeks--Socrates, Plato...then then naked Greek statues. He talked about male beauty as natural, and said that the Greeks had male lovers. It seemed so natural and right. I thought of Bobby Lee, a tall, freckled, red-headed boy I had a crush on, and would stand next to in the locker room to gaze at his body. I thought of my own body as desirable. The urges I'd had seemed, listening to him, a part of life, something that men share, just like women share things with each other. They were nudists, natural. In a couple of weeks, our conversation happened in the nude, and I was awestruck by his cock. Before the evening was over, the teacher was on his knees sucking my cock, and then I took his in both hands....

[firstone]

I didn't even think about it until just over a year ago, a late starter you could say. Started going to a male chat room and the thoughts started, 'what would it be like'. Then they got stronger until I decided to try it. Got into another online site, started chatting with a guy and it ended at his house with us sucking each other. I have been hungry ever since.

[Mr. Suck]

It was pretty simple really...

[mas8092]

Firstone I'm kinda similar. I watched gay porn, but stopped when I got married. When separated at age 45, after four years of marital bliss, I got stoned and picked up a guy on-line. I discovered I love sucking cock. Have boyyomed a few times. I like that too.

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

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All Humans are Bisexual....
Just to different degrees.



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[Mr. Suck]

All Humans are Bisexual.... Just to different degrees. Actually no not everyone that's human is bisexual. Most people are heterosexual and yeah it's quite possible for a person to be gay or lesbian, or homosexual, and people who are hetero/gay are not bisexual. Even Dr. Kinsey with his sex research never claimed that everyone is bisexual with the Kinsey scale, he just showed how there are variations in bisexuality and never claimed that people who are gay or heterosexual are somehow rare.

[FullSpectrum]

Actually no not everyone that's human is bisexual. Most people are heterosexual and yeah it's quite possible for a person to be gay or lesbian, or homosexual, and people who are hetero/gay are not bisexual. Even Dr. Kinsey with his sex research never claimed that everyone is bisexual with the Kinsey scale, he just showed how there are variations in bisexuality and never claimed that people who are gay or heterosexual are somehow rare.

If my memory serves me, Kinsey described our sexual orientations as forming a bell curve, with a few at each end (either strictly Homosexual, or strictly Heterosexual) and the vast majority of us somewhere in the middle.

[swartz2011]

My first experience caught me totally off guard. I had retired from the Navy and went back home to take care of some family business at my home town when it began to snow. Not being prepared for the weather I went to local mall to get some gloves. While walking through an old high school classmate and her husband approached me. They lived several hours out of St Louis and would come to shop every couple of months. It was good to see Diane and I asked them both to dinner at my hotel. During dinner they mention they were swingers and wondering if I would join them. Diane was a plain girl in high school that never dated but hung around my lunch crowd. Well I had a nice hotel suite upstairs and this impressed them. When we got to suite, we put on an adult movie and began to watch it while sitting on the end of the bed. Diane excused herself to the bathroom and emerged wearing only a leather half cup bra and nothing else. She was nicely shaved and sat in between us. Until now I did not know that Diane had such nice large breasts. It did not take long for both of us to dive in on Diane and to get undressed. About fifteen minutes into it I was licking Diane into orgasm when I felt my cock being suck beautifully. I looked down and saw Gary sucking away on my hard cock. I then looked up and saw Diane smiling and gesturing me to continue to lick her into cumming. After about five minutes I was so turned on I changed places with Gary and sucked his cock for a while. That night we tried every possible position and each of us came at least twice including Diane and myself licking Gary into an orgasm. Since then I have had a handful of encounters with other married men or bi couples.

[Jakentn]

In the high school gym class shower, I couldn't keep my eyes off a couple of the senior wrestlers...

[whispering]

Unlike most gays who say they knew at a young age, I didn't really figure it out until I was about 20. I guess it started before then, though. I'm a perfect example of that Katy Perry song. I kissed a girl, and I liked it! I used to make out with my best friend bc guys liked it and it was harmless fun. We'd fool around above the waste, but we were just party girls and never thought anything of it. Then, I was at a point in my life where I had mostly guy friends, so it became sort-of a habit to agree on which girls were hot and which ones weren't. Even straight girls can do that! I had also been enjoying lesbian porn, but even after all that, I still had no idea. I just assumed I was comfortable with naked women (open-minded and secure with myself) and I liked the porn because I could watch oral, which you don't always see in straight porn.

Looking back, I've realized I did have a girl crush when I was 20. She was beautiful, and we'd just met but became instant friends. We used to talk about sex a lot, including the possibility of being bi. The thought had never even crossed my mind before! We didn't do a whole lot together, sexually, minus a threesome with a guy friend of mine... But I was awful, I didn't have a clue. We hung out after awhile, even after I met my current boyfriend, but eventually, she moved away. I've tried to contact her, to no avail. It bums me out because I've figured out that I SERIOUSLY wanted that girl, and I wish I wouldn't have been so damn shy! She was amazing. *sigh*

Last year, my boyfriend let me have a "girlfriend". It didn't work out, but at least now that I've been with a woman, I know that, without question, I am definitely bisexual!!!

My biggest regret in life is that I wasn't able to figure it out when I was younger. I sure missed out!!

Yes, I have the same lament.....it would have been so easy to enjoy playing so much earlier, and I missed that opportunity! Ah, well, what happens is for the best...

[Basin_Bouy]

Posted this in another Thread, but it applies here too. "I had the urge and went on the old Excite.com personals in my late 30's. I met a guy online and we met for coffee, and drove to my house. I remember I was so scared. We went right to the bedroom and undressed each other. I fell to my knees and started sucking him. He was hung like a donkey and spoke with an Australian Accent. We climbed into bed and we were sucking each other. He tried to kiss me but I just could not do it. I rolled over and gave him my ass. I wanted him to fuck me but with a condom. He teased me but placing his cock agains my bum hole bareback. I wanted him so bad, but protected. It ended up he spooned me until he came over my bum, but not in it. I drove him home. I always regretted not letting him take me that night, as I never seen him again. Oddly today, I love kissing a man, deeply and romantically. The next time was a few months later with another guy. He shagged me until I cried with pleasure."

[justme58]

my wife and i had a male friend stayin with us, one night we came home from the bar and we were just playing around, next thing we knew we were naked andmy wife said some thing i allways felt,(I always wanted a three way,and to see two guys sucking) i never did find out if he did it before butit felt and tasted good, we never did it agian,but me and her always did new kinky things after that, when she died i found out i like sucking,but never got to get a threesome yet

[justme58]

my wife and i had a male friend stayin with us, one night we came home from the bar and we were just playing around, next thing we knew we were naked andmy wife said some thing i allways felt,(I always wanted a three way,and to see two guys sucking) i never did find out if he did it before butit felt and tasted good, we never did it agian,but me and her always did new kinky things after that, when she died i found out i like sucking,but never got to get a threesome yet

[1funguy]

It was a surprise to me when it happened. I was watching my parents home as they were away on vacation at the time. I had just gotten home from work after along hot day since we lived on the hi-desert. I had left the backdoor open to the house while I was taking a quick shower.
So I'm in the shower when I hear a voice calling me. Not thinking anything of it I told my neighbor who thought something was wrong I'd be right out. The reply was don't worry about it as the shower curtain pulled back to reveal my neighbor in all his glory. I was startled and confused as things like this didn't normally happen in the early 70's, at least not to me. I word about my neighbor as the age difference was large. He was 60 and I was 18 and legal. I could see he was in good shape since he was naked as he grabbed the soap and started washing my back. I really didn't know what to do so I enjoyed the rub down I was getting. He washed my back, my front playing with my nipples, and that was all. Then he washed his body and got out waiting for me. No touching of the lower body. I was thinking WTF?
As I exited I was wrapped in a towel, dried off and asked "Do you mind if I spend the night. Well, being young, horny, and inexperienced I said sure. We then went to the bedroom where I was unwrapped to climb into bed. I watched my neighbor in the dim moonlight as he climbed into the normal position at the head of the bed (head on pillow). I went to the other side and gently slid into bed with my feet to his head. No coaxing from him. I wanted him. I felt his hand on my cock which was very hard by this time. The movement was soft, slow, and erotic. Wanting to return the favor I did the same. The difference was his was now soft, and limp. As I started playing firmness started to happen. Once I had an up and coming hard-on I naturally placed my mouth over the top and started sucking like was happening to me. Oh my, did that cock taste good. It was sweet, firm, savory and mine! I could not get enough that night. I stayed in that position sleeping and waking. Everytime I woke up I'd suck cock like I could not get enough. I sucked the cum out at least three times before morning. Once morning arrived it was a new day.
I went on to marry and did not have any cock for the next 30 years. I missed a lot as there were times I know I was being hit up only to refuse due to circumstances. No more!! After divorcing in 04 I started exploring M2M sexuality. I relate back to that experience to this day as I get very turned on by sucking a soft cock into hardness and back down again.

[bi4asplay]

I have posted this is response to a few threads. I had never thought about sexy with another guy, or looked at them in the locker room. My High school sweet heart and late wife had been married for almost 4 years. She had discovered while giving me head that anal stimulation turned me on. She built a toy. as you could not buy them at that time. On her birthday when asked what she wanted, she replied," for the 4 day weekend I want you to do everything I ask of you." I loved her and trusted her totally so said sure. After getting out of the shower Fri evening after work. She asked me to lay on the bed and allow her to restrain me. Has never happened before. I trust her so said sure. She started giving me head and worked the toy in me. After a bit she asked if she could put a blind fold on me. I trust her I said sure. After a bit she got off of the bed and was gone for a bit. When I felt someone come back into the room I thought it was just her. Until the mouth on my cock was not hers. She then sat on my face, for a bit. She got up and next thing I know is that something strange is touching my face then my lips. I started trying to pull away. She reminded me of my promise, which she had to do 5 or 6 times during the evening, But never afterwards. suffice it to say that that evening and the next 3 days I sucked fucked and was fucked by everyone in the 3 couples that were with us. We played with them all for about 10 years after that weekend, until she passed. If the right lady or couple should come along I would love to go there again. Though all of the ladies that I have had LTR with since have been into it as well. If not the BI part still the pegging part.

[goodtimr]

I sucked and fucked my wifes best friends husband for an entire weekend while the girls were away on a girls weekend.He gave me anal orgasms that drove me wild.I am hooked.

[2bi2Bboring]

I had one experience as a teenager but it freaked me out because if my strict religious upbringing. I joined the military at 23 and if course there are communal showers. I saw my first big black cock and I was literally standing with my mouth open, wide eyed. I hadn't been so stricken since I first had sex with a girl I really cared about. I was slack jawed looking at another man as we were both naked and wet and I was hard as a rock. He was like a Greek statue and had a cock that was thick as a beer can and hung to his knees. I'd never had the urge to suck a man's cock before that moment. I was as aghast as I was hard. I fought the urge hard not to fall to my knees in front of him and shove his cock down my throat. I finished my shower and left.


I soon had left the military and was in the process of a divorce when a dear friend took me to a bar one night. It wasn't a gay bar I the traditional sense but the lines were certainly blurry. I noticed a tub girl who was quite beautiful, she was mixed race and had gorgeous caramel skin. I sat at the bar and it wasn't long before the the tub closed for the night and tub girl came to the bar for a shift drink. She sat two stools away and we struck up a conversation. She asked if she could sit next to me, which I gladly obliged. I invited her to breakfast and she accepted. We went and had breakfast at a local diner. We laughed and talked until well through the night, and suddenly she looked up at me and said, "I wasn't born a girl." I was dumbfounded and intrigued. I said, well you look like a pretty one to me." I asked her a few questions, tasteful ones. She asked me if I would like to see her again. I said I would love to. She asked me to take her home when we had finished eating. I was happy to, when we arrived at her house, she invited me in. She changed out of her work clothes and appeared in a short silk kimono and sat across my lap. We began kissing and soon we were naked. She was exquisite, ample enough breasts, beautiful skin, her hips were very feminine and curvy. When she slid her lace panties off her cock bounced up into view. Long and tapered to a small head, it was so big at it's bases she could get her index finger and thumb all the way around it to point it at me.


I was in heaven, we had sex for three straight days. I learned just how bi I was and have never looked back or regretted it a minute since.

[friendslick]

The funny thing was, the more porn I was looking at I would notice that my focus of attention was not just the pretty girl with the cock in her mouth, but the cock itself was looking attractive to me. :three:

This is exactly how I realised!

[Dog62]

Started with a threesome with a g/f and her ex. She convince me to suck him. The threesomes became an every other month thing and she always loved watching me suck him and watching him cum on my face or in my mouth. Sadly she moved away but he called one day and asked if I was still interested in sucking his dick. I thought about it for a bit and said sure. Been sucking his dick once or twice a month ever since.

[fpb09]

Well it was just curious why women love to do it? Ask & some might freak out, others would say try it! Well thought a while & thought try it ! DID & FELL IN LOVE !:bigrin::bigrin::oh::yikes2: PLEASE INSERT! LOL!

[SamanthaCDtoo]

I was 12. I had been doing things with this guy since the 6th grade. Almost every night after school. One night in the summer between the 6th and 7th grade he was sleeping over. I was face down, and he was doing me from behind. It just started feeling really good. He had done me plenty of times before that, but it was really more about making him happy rather than anything I really enjoyed.

I am laying there as he is pumping away into me and I am really enjoying it. It felt amazing. So I whispered to him to cum inside of me. He starts pumping me faster and deeper. It felt like his cock was getting harder and harder and the he just exploded inside me, twitching and moaning. I am nervous my folks will hear him, but i am just in heaven and total ecstasy. It was amazing. He just collapsed on me, totally spent. We laid together motionless as his cock softened and eventually fell out of me.

After that, I felt really guilty about the whole thing. I especially felt guilty about enjoying it so much. But i knew from that point forward, that it was guys and girls for me.

[Ebonybifemme7]

Well, I was very young. Not gonna say how old I was, but I got the spanking of my life when my mom caught me. Man, my mother is not a very angry person but she was angry that day. I knew that I did something bad (well, someone made me do it, I was seduced). But I think I've always known that I was attracted to the same sex, but still attracted to the opposite sex.

Wow @ some of the stories that I read!

[BareProf]

Wonderful stories! Sitting here nude and semi-erect, let me tell mine.

I'd wanted to be naked with other kids as long as I can remember and before I had any idea what to do :-). I'd guess from 10 till 12 I had maybe four different guys I knew would be comfortable and erect with me when we stripped whether it be in my bedroom, the woods across the way or in the summer in the tent pitched in my back yard. This continued at 13 when I joined Boy Scouts and everyone in my tent would strip at night and show each other our cocks. Mine was the largest. My friends and my fellow scouts would produce precum, love caressing each other's cocks but didn't understand the whole "come" thing until a troop leader, sixteen, proceeded to jack off for us to watch. Wow, the cum he produced. The following Sunday I locked myself in my parents' bathroom and like many young boys jacked to my first orgasm bringing up a couple of year's worth! But I never jacked to an orgasm with a buddy and i don't know why, just continued to get nude for a show and
tell." Oh, in the gym showers I always checked out all the other packages. Years later I bought a German VHS tape with boys in their teens running nude outside, each with a hard-on and blowing each other. Of course I jacked off as I watched.

I was slow to have sex, a trip to a whore at 17, finally a girl who would fuck at 22 (fucked her all of three times) then at 25 my first blow job with a guy I met through a swinger news letter. Somehow I knew how to do it. Do all men and women born knowing how to suck cock? There's a research project.

Gay lit, porn and bi porn aroused me and continue this day but I've only sucked four different guys. My second wife easily accepted my bi interest and when she agreed to fuck another guy my only request was that I got to eat her after he finished. Swinging had some bi contact but none to orgasm. She no longer swings but explored her bi desires when we did.

I know my bi desires are real, have dreams of sucking cock even of sucking my own, something I tried in my 20's but was short an inch from sucking myself.

I love this site and often masturbate as I read of the episodes, both girl and boy. I thought what the hell and posted full nude shots of myself hoping to hook up with another bi married guy in the Tampa/Clearwater area. My primary desire and past thrills are mutual stroking and sucking. Yes, I knew I was bi before I heard the term. Not gay, but bisexual.

Davie

[Jim505]

I am an older guy and the term bisexual was not around when I was younger.I sucked my first cock at 15yo old and had sex with a girl when I was 17yo,her name was Barb and she was great,I just I enjoyed been with both guys and girls.It seems like over the years I like being with a guy more so than with a lady.

[i_shoot_blanks]

I had been curious about oral sex with a guy for a long time, just never had a chance until in the early 1980's (pre internet) I noticed an add in the personals in the local paper. I called the guy and after a few conversations got together. We both stripped and got into a hot tub. I was a little shocked at how close he sat to me, but forgot about when he started feeling my cock. I returned the favor and soon he stood up, and I was confronted with the first hard cock, other than mine, that I had ever seen. I was surprised at how easilly and eagerly I slipped that hard cock into my mouth. I recall the taste, then the precum and then after a few minutes he came in my mouth. I swallowed every bit of what he had to give me, and had no problem doing it (I don't swallow anymore). He then returned the favor. I found that I was excited and enjoyed the entire episode, and still enjoy sucking another man's cock.

[mikeyd270]

Did not find out until later in life. Would not accept it early on. After a divorce I started going to some cruise sites just being curious. On occasion I would get the opportunity to watch a guy jack off and really enjoyed looking at his hard cock. I started visiting these places more often as I started fantasizing about sucking one. I finally got my opportunity to go down on a man. I took his hard cock in my mouth and sucked him off. I love cock and have been sucking ever since. I enjoy sex with men. Had my little ass fucked once and hoping for some more of that.

[bgorma]

I was in my first year of college and was offered a ride home ,while I was walking home.I knew the guy was trying to pick me up.I declined,but as the car was at a red light,I got in.I wondered what it would be like to be with a guy.I also wanted to suck on a guys cock.Well we parked and I went straight for that cock,and sucked on it like a true champ.I was hooked after that,and love giving blowjobs most of all.

[waughorama]

So in my early teens I played with my ass a little, and even stole some underwire from a sister a couple of times. Well I kind of stopped all that around 15 or 16. Well then when I was 17 there was an old guy that, ling story short was helping me with my race car. I spent a lot of time at his house. After some time he sucked me off, and ended up fucking me too. As it turns out he was a pedofile and was put back in jail for violating his parole, unrelated to me. Well it took me about six years after that to actually figure it out.

Im still ill not sure if I was molested or not. I was willing, but he spent a lot of time messing with my head very subtlety. But I was also 17. I don't think it affects me today though.

[Annika L]

I read it in a fortune cookie at the Golden Chan (after General Tsao's Chicken and Pork Lo Mein...altogether an edifying evening!).

[wreckerjoe50]

My best buddy I had been like brothers since we were 4. We did everything together- 50 yrs ago- both 12- we masterbated together before we had orgasms. We knew the cock was to fuck pussy. he had an oder sister & we had spied on her & her boyfriend fuckin. We saw his sister suckin her boyfriend. he screamed when he came. We immediately ran back to our barn & crawled up in the hayloft & sucked. That became our daily play after school. We always knew we wud find pussy but we had fun until......

We are still best friends. very good friends......

[pjhousbi]

had a guy talk me into playin around with him. it really opened up a new world for me. guess i found out when i agreed to touching his cock. never turned back

[NMCowboys]

I was young and became aroused by male and female peers and friends.

[Fzmr9t]

I'm not quite sure if I'm actually "BI", or if bisexuality is just one of facet of my whole sexuality. I won't go I to details on any of the other facets, but in first considered that I might have a BI side when I kept having these recurring thoughts about what it old be like to be with another male. I worked w 2 guys, not directly, but we worked in the same office and had business interactions almost daily. One of the guys was very "flamboyant" as they say, and the other guy was his best friend. I always wanted to screw up the courage to go and talk to them about their relationship, but never did.
so, one time, when my wife was away for a long weekend, I started surfing the net and found a gay website. Not a porn site, but more of a meeting place, similar to this site. I registered as "newbie" or something very cleaver like that, and poked around and found a chat room. I lurked for some time alternating between reading what was in the main room, and bouncing around to other rooms. I logged off and back on several times throughout the day, always just lurking

i finally logged on one of those time and swallowed up enough courage to type "hello", and got a smattering of greetings from the chatterers. One fellow asked to PM me, and when I figured out what he wanted, and then, how to do that, I agreed, and we chatted. He said he was also a newbie, and we chatted about what we were looking for. He said he wanted to experience his first by and to try and give one, and I said that I'd been wanting that as well.

so I had him come over to the house. I was surprised to see he looked kinda young 18-20, and was tall and thin and a redhead. We went into the bedroom and stood facing each other. He had shorts and a tank t, and I had jeans and a regular t. After a few awkward seconds of staring, I dropped to my knees and pulled down his shorts and underwear and slowly reached up and took my first male penis, that wasn't mine, and wasn't a kids that didn't need changing, into my hand. I stroked it a bit with a couple of fingers, then opened my mouth and put my lips around it. I worked on it for a few seconds with him standing, and then got up and led him to the bed, where he proceeded to sit down and then lay back, with his feet still touching the floor. I resumed the kneeling position and took him back into my mouth. After just a few minutes, he came in the back of my throat, no taste, no nothing.
we exchanged positions and he tried giving me a by, but after a few minutes said that he just want into it. And so we dressed and he left.

that left me with what has become an unquenchable desire to be with and pleasure a man with whatever talent I possess. I still LOVE women. Their curves, their softness, their scents and their minds (sorry, don't like dumb young hotties). And while I'm not turned on by just seeing men, clothed or not, I know what I want to do with then when the opportunity arises, and it feels natural to me to feel this way.

so, I guess that one skinny calico kid is when.

[abc123jd]

I stumbled across a bi porn film on the internet, a little while back. This got me more excited than any other thing in my life other than the first time I saw and ate & fucked my first woman. the film was about a white man getting topped by a bigger man who forced the guy to suck his cock while, the guy sucking had his girlfriend watch him with the other man, she was so wet and playing with herself telling him how hot it was seeing him turn bi to keep doing it, then things progressed and the man sucking cock was now on is hands and knees with the big guy getting ready to fuck his virgin ass. When the guy put his big cock in the guys tight ass, and the guy started moaning getting fucked like a girl it was almost too much, but what put me over the top was when he was getting fucked the girl made him eat her pussy and was still encouraging him and then I came.
After this it has progressed now to my wife using her toy in my ass and she did this the first time a week ago, for first time, then she sucked my cock as she fucked me with the toy, and then I came so strong, and it was in her mouth so I quickly kissed her before I chickened out, and tasted my own cum for the first time. I was surprised that I liked the taste and I wanted to for sure do this again.

I have to say that it is too much to exciting to think I am not possibly bi and just didn’t think about it until the porn got to me.

[Hypersexual11]

I was "born" hypersexual. My first experience was when I was about 5 with a friend my age. We were pretty much just exploring our bodies. I remember when he was coming over how excited I would feel knowing what we would be doing. I was masturbating and fantasizing about sex with both sexes shortly after this, probably 7 or 8. My first actual experience was when I was 35. It would have been earlier but at the time and place, there was a LOT of homophobia and sucking a dick could get you drug behind a pickup.

[mikeyd270]

I went down on a man and liked it. :tongue:

[Bishy37]

I realized it while watching hetero porn and when the women were giving amazing blowjobs I realized I wanted to do that too. That as years ago. Now I've admitted to myself I also love the bottom. I'm not in denial but I don't like to be just with a man. I prefer mmf and I've been having a great time with TS. Really great!

[GrizzlyGrinder]

I was 12 and developed a crush on a friend. 20+ years later was my first taste of cock. I was comforting a friend after a tragic loss. We began kissing and then I recall getting on top of him and placing his cock in my ass. He came rather quickly. We both felt super guilty after. We were laying there naked as I had his cum dripping out of my ass. Then we decided whats done is done and we liked it so we had sex again. This time missionary. His female roomate walked in as he shot a second load in my ass. Busted!

[tonytnt]

I would put on my sister's nylons when I was 11 years and jack off. I got jagged off and came once by a friend when I was 13. But that was it. I was in a rock band & a DJ in the late 70's, meeting drunk females & males at closing time... so I had many opportunities to play with a guy in threesomes. One of my best friends was willing to have bi sex with me in a drunken 3some with a female. She was encouraging it. He was willing I wasn't. So i don't know what came over me a few years ago where it seemed like all of a sudden I became curious a few years ago. It took me over a year to act on my curiosities and then only with a passable tranny. I was afraid if I went with a guy the 1st time, I would chicken out. So the answer as to when I knew I was bi?..When I lifted the short dress of a tranny, pulled her dick out of her panties and I put it in my mouth.

[donnybaseball79]

When I watched a porn movie with Peter North. His loads are so huge, and he has such a nice looking cock.. I just wanted to swallow it all!

[olmizzou42]

I had been sucking cock and loving it since age 13. I lost my hetero virginity at age 21 to a horny 29 year old divorcee and found out I love pussy too. Been enjoying both equally for the last 50 years!

[Jimmy Splash]

Whats a bath house?

[lookn4fun64]

In the US there are a number of "private clubs" where for an entrance or membership fee men go for sex - most are gay. There used to be may such venues until the AIDs epidemic. Most closed. Some stayed open an continue o operate.

[PeteBiguy]

I like you had thoughts and desires about men and she ales. The amount of available porn just increased my urge as I often would jack off to gay porn. A few weeks ago I finally met a man on this site and went to his house for a meeting. He is a gay man and we discussed my desires and lack of experience. We'll being the great teacher that he is we ended up in his bedroom and we kissed, hug and both became very air roused, he suck my cock then I sucked his. We each swallowed the others cum feeling his cock explode in my mouth was so great.

You should follow you gut on this you will not be disappointed if you find a good teacher.

[BiCuriousVAN]

When I was a teenager, I once played strip poker with some friends and if you lost clothes covering the good parts, the person who won got a feel. I felt very uncomfortable at the time. In my early 30's, I got propositioned by a few gay or bi-curious people. I really had no interest. The last time, was a young smooth guy. I was in cycling shorts and I could see him looking. We got chatting about things and eventually asked if he could get a feel. I said no and he left shortly thereafter. After he left, I had this feeling what if and regretted me saying no and him leaving. I still wonder what would have happened and if it would have changed the course of my life. I think that near experience got me thinking about whether I was gay or not. I eventually realized that while I had strong preference for women (both sexually and emotionally), I was only sexually attracted to guys too and was in fact bi-curious (3 on the Kinsley scale). Eventually, I decided to go on some dating sites and started chatting with a few people like myself. After a few chickened out, I finally found somebody interested in meeting me. We got together, had a few drinks and took him back to my place for some good oral sex and I was then hooked. While I have only been with a few guys (still oral only, but I want more), I still am strongly attracted to guys and always look forward to my next get together.

[curious in mo.]

It started when I was about 9 years old. An older family member coerced me into sucking his huge cock, I didn't like it at first. It went on for several years,he would always find me alone in the woods or in my room. I grew accustomed to it then began to like it. It pretty much stopped after he got married. As the years passed and I started to drink I started to fantasize about cock, I finally got up my nerve to start visiting adult book stores. It was so exciting getting sucked through the glory holes. And returning the favor with the thrill of possibly being caught if the cops raided the place. I quit drinking nine years ago and the urge to suck a nice clean cock while sober is driving me crazy. It's so hard to find someone trustworthy.

[Torontomonty]

Funny, that's how it came to me as well, I was 18 when an older guy hit on me at work and grabbed my cock. I was in shock and wouldnt have said anything if someone didn't see it happen and tell the boss, he was let go. Funny thing was I wanted to see him again and began to fantasize about him and other men shortly after, I have hardly fantasized about women in over 20 yrs now.

[elian]

I stumbled onto this web site through google, and after I read about 25 or so of the posts on this discussion forum I said, "Hey, wait a minute, I guess there really are people who like both. Maybe it isn't just either or but a whole spectrum of things people like and dislike sexually."

Well that and growing up as a child I was always facscinated by genitals, I don't know what I was "putting out there" but I've had (at various stages of life) girls, boys and men (maybe women too but they seem sort of shy you know) just want to show me their sex.. and I was strangely fascinated .. it was actually sort of weird..and sort of sad but looking back on it "sex" (and for me confusion over gender role) has ALWAYS been a part of my life.

Of course, there is no reason to despair over that really..it's mostly in the past..I'm not sure if I am "comfortable" being "submissive" or not, at times yes, at times no. I think if i didn't label things, and society at large wouldn't be so dualistic it wouldn't be so bad.

Of course you don't have to be dominate or submissive to be bisexual..as a matter of fact it's probably counter-productive as a bisexual.

[NudeDen]

I discovered my bi side very unusually. I was surfing the web looking a porn when i was about 18 or 19. Up until this point i had never thought about sex with anyone other than girls. While i was surfing there where pop-up windows advertising shemale porn. At first and for a long time i was repulsed and not interested at all and would immediately close the window and continue on to the str8 porn. Well a few years prior i was curious about anal and played with my own ass just to understand what was so interesting about it....well i enjoyed it and became very interested in anal with women. Well, i took the same approach with shemale porn one day and wanted to understand how anyone could find that hot or erotic. While i was surfing this weird trans porn i noticed that i started to get very aroused and even masturbated to it. The more i found the more i liked.

Eventually it moved to looking at bi porn and i realized that i might be bi. I am still not really attracted to guys physically or emotionally, but i am definitely interested in cock and ass. I finally had to try it for myself and found a local gloryhole to try anonymous cock. I loved it. The feeling of a hard cock in my hand that wasn't my own, feeling it pulse when he came, the taste. I was so hard and turned on, i loved every minute of it. I even fucked a guy the first time i went. The rest is history!

[NudeDen]

I discovered my bi side very unusually. I was surfing the web looking a porn when i was about 18 or 19. Up until this point i had never thought about sex with anyone other than girls. While i was surfing there where pop-up windows advertising shemale porn. At first and for a long time i was repulsed and not interested at all and would immediately close the window and continue on to the str8 porn. Well a few years prior i was curious about anal and played with my own ass just to understand what was so interesting about it....well i enjoyed it and became very interested in anal with women. Well, i took the same approach with shemale porn one day and wanted to understand how anyone could find that hot or erotic. While i was surfing this weird trans porn i noticed that i started to get very aroused and even masturbated to it. The more i found the more i liked.

Eventually it moved to looking at bi porn and i realized that i might be bi. I am still not really attracted to guys physically or emotionally, but i am definitely interested in cock and ass. I finally had to try it for myself and found a local gloryhole to try anonymous cock. I loved it. The feeling of a hard cock in my hand that wasn't my own, feeling it pulse when he came, the taste. I was so hard and turned on, i loved every minute of it. I even fucked a guy the first time i went. The rest is history!

[wonder528]

my journey started early. all the kids in the neighborhood played "doctor" from an early age. as a group we would hide behind the trash enclosures, count to three and all drop our bottoms. there was never any touching just "oohs" and "ahs" and "lookie". the guys weewees were like mine, nothing special at the time. when i started at a new school i made a friend whose father kept a large stash of Playboys in their basement. we'd pull them out and gape at the bunnies boobs and giggle and compare then to our teachers and classmates. he also taught me how to play poker and our group would play strip poker with the girls. when a girl lost a hand she usually got up and walked away. when a guy lost one; the coward and chicken calls poured out the rest of us until he took something off. and we did play until there was a clear winner with more than a few wieners proudly(?) displayed. i think that's when i first started paying attention to them and noticing the differences (cut, uncut, etc.) of course the showers after gym classes, even at that age; became a show n' tell as we paraded our "manhood" around. i also had to take the city buses home from school and while waiting downtown we would go into the restrooms to sneak peaks at the centerfolds in the janitors closet. he caught us a couple of times but didn't say anything, just closed the door and grinned. a couple of the older guys would look at us when we used the urinals but nothing ever happened. elementary school was so much fun.

eventually our family moved away and things calmed down for a bit until my hormones kicked in. the constant hardons were crazy but luckily i had kept a few of the centerfolds and a an old Nat Geo i became particularly fond of. i had also found my "bibles" buried in the basement, "Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex*", read that paperback over and over for months as well as my "The Sensual Man" and "The Sensual Woman" discoveries. don't know if they were hidden or forgotten, but i didn't care. they were great reads for a 13 year old. Christmas was great for me to as mom would always put the holiday issues of Playboy and Penthouse in dads stocking. he never hid them that well and i always could get them when i needed to. what became a gold mind for me was when dad gave mom a Playgirl in her stocking. after waiting a month or so I pulled it out of my mothers panty drawer and began to look through it. Didn't go for the pics at first but when i got to them, when i got to them, wow. the well tanned, muscular and very well endowed man in front of me caused my to glup! i had never seen a cock that large! that photo spread and centerfold i still remember to this day (and may explain my fascination with hot air balloons too, i guess!). while i still enjoyed my dads mags, i never missed a chance to see the latest Playgirl that my mom got.

as i said she had them in with her underwear and, well that started me down another path of my sex ed. i still remember the morning she was pulling a sweater out of my dresser and out came flying a pair of her panties and pantyhose. mom just looked at me while my bratty little brother was giggling. she just picked them up, said to leave them alone and walked out of the room. she never said anything else about it which i still find strange. of course i didn't. at that time i could still fit into her dresses and i played dress up whenever i could. i'd get dolled up, grab one of her mags and jerk off while i pretended the hot stud was pounding me. our fridge always seemed to be out of carrots due to the number i used as dildos. and while dressed i would use my dads mags and would become a lesbian for an afternoon. Just different carrots.

as i grew out of both my and her clothes, my focus changed to high school and college age girls and a more "normal" hetero sex life. i lost my virginity one night after a campus beerfest to a girl who was tired of waiting to lose hers. we stayed together for a couple of months and went our separate ways (classic cliche). but the tug of what i had experienced as a teenage was starting call to me very strongly. it was just a short matter of time until my first, real, bi encounter.

and that's another story.

[TerrorTwilight]

I remember being at the shower pavilion at the beach when I was young, and saw some older guy, naked, taking a shower and was very fascinated by his cock just dangling there.

[joeeileen]

I was about twelve maybe thirteen my brother was ten or eleven. We started playing some pretending we were secret agents thing that somehow turned into we had to be decontaminated so we would lay in our own beds completely naked under the covers. That went on for a while then I suggested that we get completely naked in separate rooms, after a while I ran into the room he was in, he tried to cover up and I wrestled him onto the couch all the while we were laughing. We sat on the couch for a while comparing cocks, my brother has this great curve that I now wish he had fucked me with cause it would totally hit my p spot. While comparing cocks we were playing with our own cocks and they were getting hard. They were so different that I suggested that we touch each other to see if they felt different which of course got us harder. We played with our cocks for a while and I suggested we try sucking each other and it felt incredible. We continued to suck each other for almost a year we tried anal but never figured it out, if only we had thought of lube! One day he was sucking me and he brought me to my first orgasm, I came in his mouth and he ran to the bathroom to spit it out and wash his mouth out. Sadly it came to an end that day I was shocked I had never cum before and I was scared and after an unexpected mouth full of cum so was he. To this day I wish it had continued longer. We never talked about it but to this day I jerk of an fantasize about giving him a blow job and taking his load.

[bikink]

I found out I was bi the first time I went to an adult bookstore. I was 19 and wanted to watch some porn. My friend told me about the booths, drop in a quarter and watch porn. So I went and got some change and started watching porn. I never saw gay porn, but that is mostly what was playing. I liked it. I didn't even notice the guy across the hall was watching me and was stroking his very nice cock. He waived me over and I started touching it and was amazed by the feeling. He asked me if I wanted to suck it so I said OK and went down on him. He came soon after and that was the first time I tasted cum, been addicted ever since. He then sucked me off while fingering my ass, which probably led to me being mostly a bottom.. Love sex with men, love sex with women..

[newestchester]

I knew when I was 11 or 12 that I was wired differently. I had crushes on boys and girls. When I got a little older and started having sex, I didn't really have a problem with the thought of sucking dick or eating pussy. In fact I thought it was pretty cool I could go either way.

[ZarGoth]

At 22, I had an MFM, & I can still recall the profound sense of being fully & completely who I was.......

[bigi56]

I started to figure it out in college.

I knew guys who were gay, but I didnt think I was. i was fine with their life syyle, but it wasn't mine.

Then, I started to realize that there were things I like that were generally comsidered gay. i like some thing in my ass. i liked my cock being sucked. It didn't have to be a female sucking my cock to get me off. it could be a guy.

It took a lot of years, but I finally tried it, and it was great. i loved playing with his cock and balls. Tease him. Make him hard. Make him cum. Very hot.

Then he made me cum. fantastic.

Now, not sure where I am. Like this in between.

[WildColonial]

I'd had crushes on guys since my pre-teen years. I didn't start questioning my sexuality till I was in college and a sorority sister came out to me (no, I wasn't attracted to her, nor she to me; she just got me thinking). I put it aside and had heterosexual relationships and fleeting crushes on female friends and coworkers.

I've been pretty sexually adventurous, but I didn't have my first FMF experience till two years ago. I was at a dungeon (yes, I'm kinky, too) having a very hot scene with a gorgeous Dom. His female sub came over and started playing with me, and eventually we traded places. I had a couple other experiences with the two of them. Lots of fun, but I was in a bad headspace to be with anyone.

Four months ago, I finally started acknowledging my bisexuality. I'm out to about 10 close friends, who have been very cool about it. I did lose one friend I came out to, but there were other factors involved.

I'm now in a relationship with another woman and happier than I've ever been in any relationship I've had with a guy. That's not to say I may not be happy with a man ever again. It's just that there are more important factors than gender to me.

[man4girlgirl4man]

First ever time I saw hardcore gay porn photos. A month before my 12th birthday Interracial and the black guy was really cute. And his dick was at least 10 inches long. Those photos brought out my inner gay desires. All at once and turbocharged with sexual lust as intense as any I have felt in my entire life.

I knew I was hot for girls before then. And my 5 minutes with those gay photos and that hot dude's huge black monster dick convinced me I was born to feel hot for guys too.

Was fine with it then and am fine with it now. We bisexuals are the lucky ones!!!

[man4girlgirl4man]

I knew the moment I first saw a hardcore gay porn magazine. A month before my 12th birthday and a month after my little boy dick grew into a big 8 inch dick. It was an interracial gay porn mag and the black guy was cute and he had a huge monster dick so I also knew I was a size queen and a big black cock slut at that same moment as well. And I believe everyone is bisexual to some degree - anywhere on the scale from almost totally straight to almost totally gay but nobody is 100% one or the other.

[donttellnehismy]

For me it started at the age of 5 with a guy friend (same age) showing our undies to each other... At that age we didn't know what we were doing or why but it felt good... Over time and with other partners I figured it all out... GREAT times...

[donttellnehismy]

Well, I was very young. Not gonna say how old I was, but I got the spanking of my life when my mom caught me. Man, my mother is not a very angry person but she was angry that day. I knew that I did something bad (well, someone made me do it, I was seduced). But I think I've always known that I was attracted to the same sex, but still attracted to the opposite sex.

Wow @ some of the stories that I read!
Wondering what you got caught doing

[donttellnehismy]

I was "born" hypersexual. My first experience was when I was about 5 with a friend my age. We were pretty much just exploring our bodies. I remember when he was coming over how excited I would feel knowing what we would be doing. I was masturbating and fantasizing about sex with both sexes shortly after this, probably 7 or 8. My first actual experience was when I was 35. It would have been earlier but at the time and place, there was a LOT of homophobia and sucking a dick could get you drug behind a pickup.

Wow I thought I was the only one... Inbox me if you want to swap stories

[captain1stmate2]

i think i knew when tim got that 7 1/2" dick buried in my ass

[Ilikeit69]

I don't know if I knew what bisexual was until I was in my thirties. Up until then, I knew I was interested in cocks, but that was always called gay, and I couldn't be gay because I really like girls. That didn't stop me from fantasizing about sucking cock though. I was really curious as to what it was like. The more I thought about it, the stronger the urge became.
When I got the opportunity to blow my best friend, I never hesitated. By that time the word bisexual was more prevelent and I realized that I must be bi, because despite being attracted emotional only to women, I really enjoy sex with either gender.

[donttellnehismy]

Thought I'd see if anyone wants to inbox about this

[pole_smoker]

It was pretty simple really...I would fantasize about both genders, and I had sex with both genders as an adult with women and men I dated and enjoyed it.

[man4girlgirl4man]

Around my 12th birthday. I was obsessed by the very pretty girl who sat next two me in two of my classes - and by her big beautiful tits more specifically. And at the same time I had a big time crush on the boy who I thought was the cutest and sexiest boy in my school. I was hot for both of them and with equal intensity and raging adolescent lust. I remember asking myself this classic hypothetical question: if I could choose to get naked and fool around with either that cute busty vixen or with that hotter than hot sexy boy - but only just once - and then never do it ever again with either one, who would I choose to get naked with? And I couldn't answer my own question because I was just as hot to do it with both of them equally. That's the moment I knew I'm bisexual.

PS - if I really could make this choice back then - which I didn't - I'd definitely make up my mind and almost definitely would choose the babe.

[beaverlqr]

I was the younger boy who found himself in the tree house's, and forts in the woods on my knees with the business end of the older boys dicks in my mouth or fist. I guess I was pretty popular in those forts. I realized I was bi when I went through puberty and discovered girls. yum

[SmooveJay]

Hi everyone, just joined the site right now. I have checked in on this site for maybe the past year but have never signed up/tried to message. But after reading some of your guys posts it really helped me out and made me want to share as well. I feel ive known since a very young age (as young as 5 even) that ive been bisexual, but i'm still dealing with it and figuring out how to accept it with myself let alone other people i Know. I'm 27 years old now, and have gone through countless denials, acceptances/realizations about my sexuality my entire life, and am still struggling with it. Just wanted to share that for now, don't even know where to begin with specific details, but would love to hear more from you guys, thanks.

[secretasianman]

I was always attracted to women, but I've never really been attracted to men. I always fantasized about being a woman and having sex with men and woman when I was younger, but now, I probably wish I could go back and become a post-op tranny (but still have my dick, and small boobs, not huge ones). I guess psychologically, I'm more transgender in a weird way.

Anyways, it was probably 10 years ago when I first acted out my fantasy and had sex with a guy for the first time. A gay guy was flirting with me at a bar one night, he was good looking, definitely older, but I wasn't attracted to guys so it didn't matter. I tried to hook up with a few girls, but none seemed interested, so I decided to leave. While I was paying my tab, the guy gave me his card and said if I wanted to check out some of wine collection and try out a few samples, to stop by anytime. I was into wine tasting back then, so it was a topic of conversation while we were drinking at the bar.

That night, I was really horny going to bed, and fantasized about making out with him, sucking on his cock, and then having him fuck me in my ass. When I woke up, I was still horny and fantasizing about it during work. After work, I gave him a call to see if I could stop by and take a look. He said okay, so I went over.

When I got there, I was shaking all over like I was cold, but I wasn't cold. I was just excited. He opened the door, and he showed me around. We small-talked for a while, and had some wine. Then he started talking about whether I've ever been with another guy before. I blushed, and said, "No", but added, "Not, yet." I don't know why I said that, but when I did, he got close to me, took the wine glass from my hand, and started to rub my cock with his hand - and I let him.

"Why not?" he said. At that point, to my surprise, my cock started getting hard, and I was moaning. We kept our conversation going about the subject, when he took my shirt off, licking my nipples, and then pulled my pants down and started sucking my cock. It was a good 5 minutes, maybe, until he started licking my balls, and then turned me around to lick my ass while taking off his clothes. He stood up behind me so I could feel his cock under mine, and told me to come upstairs with him. I did.

While I wasn't attracted to him, I was mesmerized by his cock, and what he was doing to me. I felt like how I think a woman feels when a man takes charge and wants to have sex with them. I felt sexy, and passive. When we got to the bed, I sat down while he was still standing, and started stroking his cock with my hand, while holding onto his ass with my other hand. I'd say it was maybe almost 8 inches, way bigger than mine, but also twice as thick. His cock was really close to my face, and I wanted to lick it, wrap my lips around it, but I was too scared. I think he knew, because he told me to get on my stomach. He started to lick my ass again, and my ass was feeling really wet, and I could feel his tongue inside. I thought it was the best feeling until I heard him pull open a drawer, and I turned around to see him put a rubber on, and then started to lube up my ass with his fingers.

He went in really slow, and I moaned or grunted every time he went in. It hurt, but at the same time, it was the best feeling I ever had. When I finally relaxed, he really started to thrust deeper, and faster. I was still moaning after every thrust, but it didn't last long, he came deep inside of me with the condom on, and I could feel the throbbing of his cock and what felt like a lot of cum. When he pulled out, I was impressed. It was like four times the amount of cum I could ever fill up.

He laid down next to me and asked if I was okay, and I was. Then he asked if I wanted him to make me cum as well, but I said it was okay. I turned over, and where my stomach was, was my own cum. I had cum from him fucking me from behind on my own. I told him I was sorry, but he was okay with it. We started talking while we laid there together, and I kind of dozed off in his arms for a little while. I woke up when I felt him put my hand on his cock, which was getting hard again. So we went at it again in different positions, but this time for like an hour or so. I asked him to cum on my face, and that's when he started to orgasm. He pulled off the condom and came while he was on top of my while I was on my back. It didn't shoot very far, so it only got on my chest and stomach. I was so aroused, I was rubbing his cum over my nipples, and around my stomach. I put some of it on my cock and started to jerk myself off with his cum. When I was about to cum, he put his mouth on my cock and started sucking, and swallowed every last drop. I normally don't cum a lot, but I think I came about twice as much as I normally would.

We took a shower together afterwards, and I left and went home. My legs were really shaky, and I couldn't walk very well. I kept fantasizing about him, thinking of what it would be like to suck his cock and have him cum inside of me, and also kissing him, but I never met up with him again. I didn't think I wanted to see how far I would really go, especially that I was starting to get attracted to him. More so because of what we did together, than that of physical attraction. I kind of regret it now, since I have sucked other guy's cocks and swallowed cum, but I probably would loved to have done that with him, probably on a daily basis. Instead, I'm on the straight and narrow path, and only fantasizing about men again.

[T.Edding]

I started with men when I was young. Then progressed to friends in school. I thought I was gay until a girl next door showed me her sexy tits and more. I was hooked for life. Got to love a sexy woman and a hard cock. It's the best combo ever!

[donttellnehismy]

For me it started with showing undies with another boy when I was young... I love to share so feel free to inbox or yahoo messenger me

[welickit]

I guess we are the odd ones here. We always accepted being bisexual and had to learn that not everyone was. That was a little awkward at times.

[TXLonestarTX69]

For me, I realized that I was very bi-curious back in my teens. My buddy (and jack friend) and I were doing our thing one day and he asked if he could suck me off. After some convincing on his part, I let him and loved every second of it...especially when, after I told him I was going to cum, he started really sucking with intent and allowed me to pump both barrels into his mouth. He swallowed every drop.

We carried on for quite some time after that. He gave me many more blowjobs than he received. I had his cock in my mouth three times. He sucked me off probably 30 times or so over the next year. He got very good at it, I might add. We had a lot of fun together.

[Luvthewater]

Think I'm still discovering. I have no physical attraction to men only the act. I have been curious most of my life and have tasted my own cum about as long as I've masturbated. I have had different fantasies throughout the years but only within the last few years have taken any action and have met up with a few random guys to give them oral. I think if I met the right guy and the situation was right I would like to explore further.

[BiCuriousVAN]

Think I'm still discovering. I have no physical attraction to men only the act. I have been curious most of my life and have tasted my own cum about as long as I've masturbated. I have had different fantasies throughout the years but only within the last few years have taken any action and have met up with a few random guys to give them oral. I think if I met the right guy and the situation was right I would like to explore further.

I am kind of like you, I have no physical attraction to men, but find a nice cock a turn on. The first time I jacked off, I tasted my cum and have done so occasionally since. I probably realized I was bi-curious about 15 years ago, but there were signs I ignored before then. In the past, I had men hit on me, but always said no. Now I think, what if. Recently, I admitted to myself, that I am actually bisexual, as it is more than just curiosity. I have only sucked a few guys, but love it and want more. I also find my bisexuality is evolving, initially, it was only oral that interested me, but now I want to try anal, both top and bottom and other things I had no interest in, I think I might give a try, but anal is highest on my list.

[loftycraig]

Hey there, folks. I apologize in advance for the massive post, but it's the Internet and that's allowed, darnit!

I'm a new member, and also a new bisexual. I found out/discovered/realized I was bi about a week ago. What a trip. I've been lurking through the site, talking to a bisexual friend of mine, and generally been trying to reacquaint myself with my sexuality, and found(I'm sure not surprisingly) that the more I talk about it, the better/more comfortable I feel.

I don't know if it's a common thing or not, but I pretty much found out within the span of two minutes. See, I've lived up until this point thinking I was straight, and having a pretty good time of it. It's just that every few months or so, I'd have a homoerotic dream, or maybe see a guy and wonder what it'd be like to be in bed with him. I figured that everyone thought that every now and then, and brushed the dreams off as weird dreams. They were still disconcerting, and I'd be a little anxious until I'd see my g/f again or something, and have my heterosexual desires reinforced.

Finally I had another dream last week, was feeling really weird, and did some soul-searching. After a bit, it occurred to me I could be bisexual. But how to be sure? One can't base something like this on dreams alone.

So I thought it would be pretty straightforward to try and masturbate and focus on boys this time(did I mention I was a guy? I'm a guy.) Well, let me tell you that's a fast realization. I was elated, and confused, and relieved all at the same time.

And the ensuing days have all been kind of like that, too. It's been a bit of a roller-coaster ride. I'd be fine one minute, anxious the next, then happy. Things have been calming down as they go on and I get more used to the idea, though.

I mean, I know things won't feel normal right away, but is it partly because I didn't have any length of time where I just didn't know, and had time to prepare myself that I wasn't straight? Is it the shock of just finding out so fast? Has anyone else found out like that? What was it like for you? ive known all my life.

[tssoepxxx]

I had a couple of experiences when I was a kid, but never really gave it much thought. I just thought I was being a foolish kid. When I got older, I noticed that when I would watch porn that I would get turned on by everything, and that I particularly like watching a guy get sucked and seeing the cum shot. I just thought I loved, I mean really loved porn.

It wasn't until my late 30's when I really started realizing that there may be more to me. I remember surfing the internet for porn and I incidentally hit a gay site. I immediately shut the browser down and though, "oh shit!" what if my wife (at the time) walked in? But then I got a little curious and went back. I found myself getting turned on by the images. At this point all I would do is occasionally look at porn.

Fast forward another year or so... My wife and I were having problems and there was no intimacy. I was craving the touch of another person, even if it was just a massage. I starting venturing out on craigslist for exactly that. An intimate massage; still with a woman. While on CL I got a little curious about some of the ads and looked at some of the m4m ad. I saw pics of their cocks and I was getting turned on. Well one of the ads was for a massage. I remember being so scared, excited, nervous, to even answer the ad, but I did. It took a while for me to build up the courage and it took him some time to reassure me that he was clean, sane, and safe. After about maybe two weeks of going back and forth with emails and text I committed to meeting him. He turned out to be a very nice and sweet guy, nice home, massage table. He got me nice and comfortable and gave me a nice massage. I realized at the point where he started rimming me that there was no turning back. I let him suck my cock and it felt so good and strange. The face of man feels different when you are being deep throated. He grab my hand and put it on his cock, my heart was pumping, I looked at his cock and shoved it in my mouth. I remember it felt silky smooth and I got super horny as I sucked on his cock. I was so excited and exhilarated, and my mind raced with a whole set of other mixed emotions: good and bad. When I left his home I sat in my car and just reflected on what had just happened. I really didn't know how to feel. Up til that day I was/thought I was straight. My identity changed in that moment. This was about six years ago. We still connect from time to time, and I've had other experiences with other men, but that was my turning point.

Even thought I had those experiences it really wasn't until this last year that I came out to my girlfriend and my best friend (girl also) that I'm bi. Up til this last year I would still say I was straight, but somehow over this last year, I discovered that I love being bisexual, and I really wish I could share this with more people, but unfortunately we live in a society where ignorance is bliss, and people fear what they don't understand. So for now, I keep my new identity to only a select few, and I'm okay with that. Anyways, that's my contribution to this thread.

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[Erikir]

I'd say late teens. There was a TV show called "My So Called Life" and I developed a TV crush on a couple of characters, Angela and Jordan. A few years later when I was seriously into road cycling I rode past what I was pretty sure was an entrance trail to Wreck Beach (nudist beach) and I had an inkling that some gay "shenanigans" happened in the area. I pulled my bike into a grassy area and sat down to have a rest and hoped for I-don't-know-what. It wasn't too long before someone joined me and he put his had on my thigh as we talked. Man, was I horny. He moved his hand up my thigh and found my cock, visibly hard through the thin fabric of my shorts and suggested we free ourselves. I was nervous, because we were near a road, but I pulled my shorts down anyway, and so did he and then there was a mans hand on my hard cock and it was incredible. I took hold of his, and was surprised by how soft and hard it was - I'd never felt another cock before. After a short while of stroking one another, I got scared of being caught, so I ended it.

Many years later I learned that the gay end of the beach was actually at the end of a long, and very steep trail, and that if one continues to the left past the main beach one can often encounter "shenanigans" in the open. I love hanging out naked there in the summer, but I've been too chicken to do anything other than jerk off with another guy. Who knows... maybe this summer I'll encounter someone with a nice shaved cock who's just interested in cock and a little (or maybe a lot?) experimentation - like me.

Damn. I'm hard just thinking about it.

[SexyBiMaleHoosier]

I realized my interest in bisexual sex when I was 14-15. While reading and jerking off to a Penthouse letters magazine there were several stories that included guys sucking guys off, etc... The one that made me cum the hardest was about a 4 way situation, where a hitchhiker played with the others. When it described the guy getting sucked by one girl, while on his back, with a girl riding his face. He described wanting to watch his cock being sucked, moving his way out from under the girl he was eating to discover the other guy was giving him head. I instantly shot my cum harder than I'd ever cum in my life... It made me very nervous about what turned me on. I told myself it wasn't right and not to read the story anymore, but I kept coming back knowing I'd cum hard. It was my favorite story and I kept using it to release my cum and searching for similar bisexual adventure stories...

Shortly after this discovery, I could only think about sucking cocks. So much that I attempted to self-suck. After a few times trying, I discovered I was able to lick the tip of my own cock and this kept me trying and stretching until I was able to self-suck the head. It was just my beginning and a great discovery of how to achieve maximum edge delayed strong huge orgasms. It wasn't until college that I worked my way into playing with other guys and I haven't looked back....

[jackofbothtrades]

Only discovered it a few months ago. Not too long ago. I never had sexual fantasies about a guy before, a. Then at a friends' party I was talking to some people on the couch, this guy walks up (maybe 23) shakes my hand and I was immediately very attracted to him. I almost couldn't release my grip on his hand because I was so stunned by how good looking he was. The rest of the party I looked at him as much or more as the women there (maybe 25 people total). After I got home, I couldn't sleep, so I lied in bed all night and had sexual fantasies about him all night. I would have asked about him, but the hosts are devout Christians and besides I had no way to know if he's gay/bi.

[bbop22]

I've always liked girls since I can remember. I even remember the first crush I had on a girl in the 1st grade, her name, and what she looked like. Things went that way until I was around 12 and I was swimming with friends in the pool. I grew up in a christian community and it happened to be a Sunday, and the youth pastor who was in his late 30's was sitting in a chair around the pool with all the other adults. He was an outdoors type of guy and he surfed a whole lot so his body was top notch. Well, as he was deep in conversation with his wife I turned and they were in my view but didn't notice me because there were so many people in the pool. Since I was barely coming into puberty I was still a short guy and my nose barely came above the water but I could see clear as day all of his goods: Dick, balls, pubic hair because we don't wear underwear under our trunks. He was well endowed and those balls and pubic hair were so hot. I was in trance. He was sitting with his legs wide open and where I was treading water I could see right up his short legs. I knew I should look away and I started to think someone was going to catch me and that would have been bad in the church community. But the sight of him just sitting there kept me there. I knew I really liked what I saw because of the growing hard on in my shorts. That was the first time I'd seen a grown man's cock and balls. I was so turned on that I had a really great dream about it. So back then, I thought maybe I didn't like girls anymore and the bible told me that it was a sin to be gay so I was really confused. I tried to stop thinking about what I saw but I couldn't. And in all reality I don't think I wanted to. But that fall when school started, I met Linda. And that just confused me even more because I really liked her and was very attracted to her. Years later I understood that I was bisexual and that it was ok to like both. It was just as natural as breathing to me.

[hornymike]

I realise that i prefer men after my uncle seduced me when i was ten

[Christine76]

Then my question for her and other girls, why the fuck would you do that if you dont like bi men?

[julyguybill]

I used to watch the body builders on tv and while watching I would really enjoy looking at the guys crotches wanted to see them naked but did not but I always got an erection and had to masturbate when watching realized I desired to suck their cocks

[goodsonformom]

I was always attracted to girls. My father was a flirt and I just assumed that was natural and I always loved everything about a female.....but as a boy the "boy next door" was very sexual and open with me about his desires. But even before he had asked me if I wanted to "play" around as boys do......we had been playing "house" in his basement. I hated it when he wanted to do that, but I made him play army and baseball with me, so I would give in as long as I could be the dad......I agreed and he asked me to wait as he went in their cellar. He came out in his mothers long slip. He asked if he looked more like a mom or wife. I said, "yes you do"......he made me a pretend cup of coffee like his mom would have done for his dad, and then sat on my lap. The cup fell out of my hand, and as I went to grab it, I felt his hard cock under the slip. His mom called us to clean up, it was dinner time and I needed to go home. I went home thinking about that, and wanting to see him naked. I didn't actually realize I was aroused by it all, but my interest in a male had begun. Some time later I asked him about that day. Did he remember, and what was he feeling? He told me he was always attracted to boys, not girls, and me in particular. Oddly I was not freaked out or disgusted, I was excited. I remember clearly, I was hard and asked him if he was as well. He showed me he was, and so we began our journey. Some years later my mother caught us outside sucking each others cocks. She was upset and made us come in the house for one of her lectures. She was upset we could have been seen or caught by someone else, and it would have been the neighborhood gossip. She also said, "I'm not sure I can stop you, even if I wanted to......I want you two to be safe......so if you can act responsible and never say a word to another person about this.......you may go to your room and do as you like.....I won't bother you." So in the end I would say I was encouraged to explore my Bisexual desires that were generated from a simple, innocent moment. It is what it is.....I love females and have always "fallen in love" with girls......with males it's more of a physical connection and purely sexual......although I have been emotionally tested by a couple of males in my later years......*sigh*

[void()]

In teen years I had sex with a guy friend one week. The next week I had sex with a gal friend. Later on discovered through a lot of research enjoying both did have a name, bisexuality. Knew I was into both most of my life though. *shrugs* I'm just wired up for kinky. *shrugs*

[Thickone55]

When I was 10, a boy I played with and I found a playboy mag. We went to his cellar and browsed the pages of naked women. Soon he mentioned to me that his cock was hard.
I told him I was too. He offered to show me if I showed him. So we did. We each squeezed one another and compared. We stroked but could not cum.
We did this quite a few more times. Once we nearly got caught and we stopped.

Fast forward to 2004. I was on a business trip and browsing a swinger site. More men seemed to be contacting me than couples telling me they loved my cock, etc.
I've always loved porn and watched much of it over the years. I noticed I loved seeing hard cocks cum. I love the smell of my own cum and jerking off.
I started watching bi porn and as very turned on. This led to some camming and jerking. Finally, I chatted with a guy and decided to meet him at my hotel room.

He knocked on the door and I let him in. I was only wearing my underwear and a shirt. I asked if he wanted to shower with me and he agreed.
Soon we were under the water, sucking cocks. We got out and moved to the bed. He sucked and rimmed me to the point that I nearly came.
We 69'd and flooded each other's mouth's with thick hot ropes of cum.

[marine20]

goodsonformom, what a great mom you had. after that day, did she let you bring that boy or other boys, home for sex ?did you continue to have sex with boys as you grew older ?

[anned]

i was raised as a nudist.

the first time i touched another boys penis was about age 6 or 7 i liked it and we played with each other a few times stroking till it really felt good.

over the years at a couple nudist camps i saw older teens and adults getting sucked off by accident.

some were MF others were MM.

one day me and another boy walked in on two older boys sucking each other off.

me and the other boy were heading to a out of the way restroom at the camp to play with each other.

we were barefoot so the other boys did not hear us walk in and we just stopped and watched.

[MissMeBi]

I discovered I was Bi when I became extremely attracted to a close friend and started thinking about what it would be like to be with her. I actually struggled with the possibility that I may be lesbian so I acted on my feelings with a few women in my early 20's but eventually I actually approached said friend and she too was interested. We carried on a long term lesbian relationship for about a year, right about the time I realized I needed and wanted a man and she realized she was lesbian.

[Jimbo712]

I was playing pool in a friends basement he asked if I was interested in a side bet, curious I said sure, he said if I win the game he would blow my, if he won I had to blow him,always curious I agreed. I won the first game, sat on the table and he proceeded to give me a great bj. We played another game and he won, so I went to work on him. I knew then that I was bi.

[mkwelsh]

To be honest I don't know yet if I am or not. I look at a lot of gay porn, though oddly I don't get a kick out of bisex porn. Somehow they just don't seem to be that into it for some reason. Maybe the guys are "gay for pay"?

Anyway, I've been interested in other males for sometime. I once lived in a gay flatshare in my mid twenties but I never felt drawn to any of my flatmates, I was in my first big love affair at the time, but I did snaffle some of their porn and jacked off to it.

About this time I went on holiday alone to Corsica, sleeping on the beach and lazing in the sun. There was a lot of nudity going on and I sent with the flow. It's very liberating and avoids unpleasant chafing. I was feeling very randy in the hedonistic atmosphere. One day I was walking along the coast away from the beach when I realised I was being followed by a naked man about my age. I was anxious and confused, but I also knew I was fascinated. I carried on slowly, losing my shadow to catch me up. The next time I looked back he was 20-30 yards away walking a very stiff, not huge, cock. What happened next is a bit of a blur but I found my self in the rocks with a cock in my hand. I was below him and he bent down to kiss me. God his breath reeked of garlic! I didn't get an erection, I've always had a "nervous" penis and I was completely stressed out. Besides, the garlic killed any kind of passion. I jerked him off till he came over my hand. He may have fumbled at my limp duck, I don't recall. He asked me if I was staying nearby but I said I was leaving that day and got my arse out of there as fast as I could. I was very confused by it all but I can't pretend I was surprised, if that makes any sense. Sub consciously I was up for it even if I didn't know it my self. To date that has been my only homosexual experience apart from fantasies.

Some time ago a guy came to my door selling some new telephone plan, Virgin or the like. I said something flippant about not having any friends to call at which he offered to be my friend. I will never know if he was just trying to make a sale or if he was flirting with me, but I do know that he was the only male I've felt I really wanted to kiss. I wonder what would have happened if I'd let him in to work his magic.

Now I'm 52 and times running out. I still look at gay porn and fantasize about going to a gay bath house or something but don't think I have the courage to go through with it. I certainly wouldn't want to do the deed with another flabby fifty year old and I can't see the slim gym bunnies getting hot and bothered over my lardy arse.

Still it would be a shame to go to my grave never having sucked a cock or felt my arse getting stretched.

[Olivia920601]

I realized that im bi when i just went to some bisexual dating sites. Feel free to ask anything you want on there. there are always people who like to help u out!
Here is the link i love to share with you. http://www.bi-sexualdating.com/

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

One day, around 12-ish... I realized there was a word for what I was at birth:
Bisexual
Then, more recently, I found a better word that described me:
Pansexual

[charles-smythe]

Hey there, folks. I apologize in advance for the massive post, but it's the Internet and that's allowed, darnit!

I'm a new member, and also a new bisexual. I found out/discovered/realized I was bi about a week ago. What a trip. I've been lurking through the site, talking to a bisexual friend of mine, and generally been trying to reacquaint myself with my sexuality, and found(I'm sure not surprisingly) that the more I talk about it, the better/more comfortable I feel.

I don't know if it's a common thing or not, but I pretty much found out within the span of two minutes. See, I've lived up until this point thinking I was straight, and having a pretty good time of it. It's just that every few months or so, I'd have a homoerotic dream, or maybe see a guy and wonder what it'd be like to be in bed with him. I figured that everyone thought that every now and then, and brushed the dreams off as weird dreams. They were still disconcerting, and I'd be a little anxious until I'd see my g/f again or something, and have my heterosexual desires reinforced.

Finally I had another dream last week, was feeling really weird, and did some soul-searching. After a bit, it occurred to me I could be bisexual. But how to be sure? One can't base something like this on dreams alone.

So I thought it would be pretty straightforward to try and masturbate and focus on boys this time(did I mention I was a guy? I'm a guy.) Well, let me tell you that's a fast realization. I was elated, and confused, and relieved all at the same time.

And the ensuing days have all been kind of like that, too. It's been a bit of a roller-coaster ride. I'd be fine one minute, anxious the next, then happy. Things have been calming down as they go on and I get more used to the idea, though.

I mean, I know things won't feel normal right away, but is it partly because I didn't have any length of time where I just didn't know, and had time to prepare myself that I wasn't straight? Is it the shock of just finding out so fast? Has anyone else found out like that? What was it like for you? …I found myself looking at pictures of TVs & got curious…as time went by I more curious & more curious…one day I got the opportunity to act on that curiosity…as soon as I got a dick in my mouth I knew I was born to suck…but I still liked girls…so…I had to be bi…

[PhilipAHuebner]

I found that about 3 years. I had sex with my gf and another couple and since then i like to repeat the experience ocasionally.

[Ann29732]

I was always curious as a teenager but just pushed those thoughts out of my head because I thought that it was just some sort of 'phase.' When I got to college and away from friends and family I felt a little more relaxed and open to the idea of exploring my sexuality. Long story short, during my sophomore year my roommate made a move on me one night while we were watching a movie and I just let it happen. I felt guilty and ashamed after we had finished but later recognized that the guilt and shame came from what would have happened if we had gotten caught. It was my first time with another girl and her second and for the next couple of days afterwards we had an open and honest discussion in private about our feelings before, during and after having sex with each other. We both agreed that we wanted to try it again a few nights later and as I woke up with her beside me naked the next morning it was then and there that I knew that I was bisexual.

[sysper]

I was always curious as a teenager but just pushed those thoughts out of my head because I thought that it was just some sort of 'phase.' When I got to college and away from friends and family I felt a little more relaxed and open to the idea of exploring my sexuality. Long story short, during my sophomore year my roommate made a move on me one night while we were watching a movie and I just let it happen. I felt guilty and ashamed after we had finished but later recognized that the guilt and shame came from what would have happened if we had gotten caught. It was my first time with another girl and her second and for the next couple of days afterwards we had an open and honest discussion in private about our feelings before, during and after having sex with each other. We both agreed that we wanted to try it again a few nights later and as I woke up with her beside me naked the next morning it was then and there that I knew that I was bisexual.
it's good u finally got that experiance. college is a good place for this to happen, alot of people around ur age all different. it's such a good occasion to learn new things, including sexually. i so wish i kept my eyes a little more open in college for opportunites, plus i wish i had the curiosity earlier in life maybe my eyes would of allready been a little more open. would of been so much easier but still it's not too late. no matter how old u are there is so much to learn.

[luvcocks]

In my early teens I found I was interested in women from looking at Dad's Penthouse mag. and that is when I begin jacking off. Later I found another book in Dad's drawer. It was a sex novel and It had a lot of sex acts in it I had never even heard of at that time. I learned about oral sex and got curious and found I could actually suck my own cock! It was my first taste of a man's cum and I really liked it. I was still attracted to womwn and now had a new pasttime. A couple of years later I had my first experience with a female. and we were busy the whole summer doing what comes natural. I later joined the army and headed south and she followed to tell me she was pregnant We did later get married.
I was in a Kmart in Georgia and had to go piss and found my first glory hole and there was a man waiting and stroking his rod. I could not help my curiousoty so I went in and sat down too. It didn't take too long for me to be hard as a rock too. I leanded over to peek and he stood up and offered me his cock and I readily took it into my mouth and sucked my first cock (besides my own). When he cum in my mouth I loved the warmth and taste! Even the texture was pure pleasure! I knew I wanted to suck as many cocks as I could. I continued sucking cock there as often as I could find reason to go there. I never missed a chance and every time I went I always found a couck or two to suck.I sucked cock off and on for about 10 years some with and some without my wife who loved to play. We later got divorced and she turned our kids against me because I loved cock! I still knew I wasn't gay so when my kids ask me I just said I wasn't gay. They were willing to accept that.
I later remarried and she was a very religious woman and I loved her and didn't want to loose her so I just kept my mouth shut. One day M son came to visit and ask me if what his mom said was true or not. I ask him what she said and was told she told them their dad was a fag and I shouldn't go around me. I told him I was not a fag or gay! Later my wife ask me the same question and I said no I loved women! She accepted that and I was fine for several years until the urges came back to haunt me after we turned 50 and she said goodbye to sex and wouldn't even touch me! One night I was reading online and spotted the term bisexual and it hit me that was me for sure.
Our son is now 22 and a computer whiz and he went searching on my computer and found where I had been looking at gay and bi porn and now after 23 years of marriage and faithfulness to her I am out on m y own again. At least I know what I am now and am learning to be ok with it. I have come out to one brother and my sister and a neice. They all agreed the rest of the family would not accept it and my kids would just think like my wife did, that I lied. I guess by some standards I did but I never felt comfortable saying I was gay but I am ok with being bi,

[cangi.j]

when my first wife came home with a strangers semen in her. i could barely wait to lick the semen from her.

[Ann29732]

it's good u finally got that experiance. college is a good place for this to happen, alot of people around ur age all different. it's such a good occasion to learn new things, including sexually. i so wish i kept my eyes a little more open in college for opportunites, plus i wish i had the curiosity earlier in life maybe my eyes would of allready been a little more open. would of been so much easier but still it's not too late. no matter how old u are there is so much to learn.


So true. College was a wonderful time to explore because people aren't so quick to judge and for most of the kids, it's their first time being away from home so you can let your guard down a bit. I wouldn't give anything for that experience. My roommate and I had a wonderful and healthy, albeit it discreet, sexual relationship that eventually fizzled out but I learned so much about another woman's body, and my own and you are so right about it not being too late; their is still plenty to learn!!

[bi_footfreak]

Great thread
When I was 13 (46 now), I was staying over with a friend of mine and his younger brother, only 1 year younger, and I were staying up later than my friend. Anyway, we got to talking and the next thing you know, we began exploring each other. Nothing really heavy, but touching and then oral. He had not reached puberty yet so he did not have any semen to shoot, but he still climaxed. I then jacked off for him so he could see an ejaculation. He sucked me a little, but i finished off by hand so he wouldn't swallow.

Anyway, never again did I explore this side of me and he and I NEVER spoke of it again. Fast forward until about 2005. My wife and I had been married for 4 years and our sex lives were beginning to fall into a rut. The internet was in full swing so I began really looking at porn more and more. The more I looked the more I realized I was not repulsed by cocks and seeing homosexual acts. This stirred up those feelings from my youth. I realized I really loved TS/TV/CD porn as well as bisexual porn. I knew I still loved pussy so I began to realize that I was bisexual. I did not act on it though until 2010. I joined Adult Friend Finders and had an experience with an older guy. It was NOT a good experience. He could not get hard and only later told me he suffered from ED. At the time though it made me think I was doing something wrong, but like I said, he told me later that it was him.

Last summer I met a guy from there who was working in my area, had an apartment to himself and could host. We met up and had a great afternoon with oral play. He soon had to go back to his home in Texas but that afternoon was a great experience. So.....I have had 2 experiences, 1 great, 1 not-so-great. I know for a fact I want to have more. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Bisexual.

[Bi_Rocker]

Childhood experimentation when I was around 11 or 12. me my friend and his sister used to look at porn magazines which led to masturbation and then playing with each other. I discovered I liked cock as much as pussy. that was in the 70s and early 80s. I didn't come out as openly bi untill about 8 years ago when I met my current girlfriend

[justafella]

The sexual revolutions hadn't affected me much, being brought up Baptist probably had something to do with that. My first wife had left me and I decided to become more open minded and placed an add in a local rag that had lots of personal ads in it. A meeting with a guy just a little bit younger than I who was also curious was interesting but as much as we got into it neither of us reached orgasm. More than 20 years later my wife decided she didn't need any kind of sex anymore and very little affection. I began looking for men using the internet and that worked out very well. So it's not really that I like men over women but I am still able to enjoy being with a man at times.

[NakedInSeattle]

While I was sucking a cock and finding I loved that all three of us (him, her, and me) were being turned on by it.

[pole_smoker]

I got aroused and hard for the opposite sex, and the same sex at a young age. This also happened to my partner.

[pole_smoker]

I like you had thoughts and desires about men and she ales. The amount of available porn just increased my urge as I often would jack off to gay porn. A few weeks ago I finally met a man on this site and went to his house for a meeting. He is a gay man and we discussed my desires and lack of experience. We'll being the great teacher that he is we ended up in his bedroom and we kissed, hug and both became very air roused, he suck my cock then I sucked his. We each swallowed the others cum feeling his cock explode in my mouth was so great.

You should follow you gut on this you will not be disappointed if you find a good teacher.
Instead of cheating on your wife who you claim to love and respect, but really do not you should have told her you are bisexual or just gotten a divorce.

Don't want to be judged? Then keep your dick and ass in your pants and actually talk to your wife, tell her how you are bisexual, tell her how you have cheated on her before with men, or just get a divorce and have sex with whoever you want.

I have no sympathy or patience for someone who goes that route of cheating. If you're that unhappy then communicate it and try to resolve things. Failing that just leave, and get a divorce.


If you cheat I relegate you to the level of barnyard animal that has no morals, values, and does not love the person who they married at all and who nobody should be in a relationship with let alone marry.

You want to treat sex as an animal game and just follow every impulse of your genitals, then you're an animal or sub-human. A fully matured adult can communicate and rectify a situation. If that means enduring some hardship from divorce or whatever.. well you made the commitment and so did she, or he, don't blame anyone else but yourself. Cheating is excusing responsibility and you can't justify it.

[pole_smoker]

Maybe the guys are "gay for pay"?


'gay for pay' is a myth as it's just marketing based on homophobia/biphobia, the guys are really just bi or gay and marketed by sleazy porn companies as being LOL "Straight" and this taps into the internalized biphobia and homophobia a lot of bi and gay men have about the fantasy of having sex with a real "straight"/hetero guy, when in reality no hetero guy has sex with other men, and they certainly don't do porn with other men for everyone else to see.

But this sort of marketing by porn companies has been going on for decades.

[delpark]

I was 69ing with a girl friend, she had me feeling soooooo good. I knew I wanted to pleasure men like she was pleasuring me.

[tommyswing]

Innatley I always knew, I was at least bi. When I was 19 I had many questions about my sexuality, and a friend of mine had been making minor passes at me, told me about the type of guys that aroused him. The type he liked was the type I fantasized about. We agreed to suck each others cock, I was confident I would hate it. His cock was about 7 inches, nice thickness. The moment my mouth went over the head of his cock I was in heaven, I loved how it was hard and soft at the same time. I was shocked that sucking a cock could be so sensual and warm. As I said on a gut level I knew I liked cock, after I sucked his cock my denial was broken.

[sisboy]

Wife caught on that I may like sucking cock and in a swinger party she stuck one in my mouth and I did like it.Actually love it and sorry I did not know sooner.Everything I do I do because of her and her ideas.

[iwantamouthfull]

When I found myself on my knees, two guys holding me and my "arch enemy" throat fucking me. After a little bit my cock became rock hard. By the time the third guy took his turn they no longer had to hold me. I just knelt there, arms at my side as he kept stuffing his cock down my gagging throat.

[pole_smoker]

When I found myself on my knees, two guys holding me and my "arch enemy" throat fucking me. After a little bit my cock became rock hard. By the time the third guy took his turn they no longer had to hold me. I just knelt there, arms at my side as he kept stuffing his cock down my gagging throat.
That's fucked up, and disgusting. People who do that to other people, or do what happened to you and the other guy are sick and disgusting, and belong in prison or in a treatment facility for sex offenders/ped0s.

[Grub Worm]

Once I had some pussy, after 11 guys. I found out I liked it also. But the dick was easier to find for me. But I did have a pussy to play with when I wanted it.

[ml830]

I cannot pinpoint an exact date and time. I know when I was in high school, I could not look at other boys' penises because I felt guilty. When I was a little older, I was hitchhiking and a man picked me up and asked if I wanted a blowjob, I turned it down wishing I hadn't. A few years later I got married and the thoughts of being with a man went deep into my subconscience. Then about ten years ago a physical therapist was giving me a message when he asked if I would like my stomach massaged. He kept getting closer to my genitals and I became aroused. The next session was after business hours and he wasted no time, he masterbated me, I felt guilty, but the pleasure was undeniable. Later I gave him a blowjob. I know I am bi. I know I am bi, but I can't say when I knew, or how I knew.

[mercury]

I was about 16 my girlfriends brother and I some how ended up in his room and we sat together jacking off and taking turns sucking eachothers cock, all though I don't do it often I love oral and most anything, although no one in my life knows about this family friends ect. so I guess im a closet bi. im 56 now.

[Oztrich]

I thought the m/m sex thing was just because I had trouble getting girlfriends and was a horny guy. I had to admit to myself that I was bisexual when a guy I had occasional sex with started becoming less available. I would get very down, and be very unhappy not to be able to see him. With that I had no choice but to admit I was totally bi.

[BiCherry]

My first wife was basically dead from the waist down. I spent a lot of time masturbating. More often than not, the masturbating involved looking at porn online. I was about 38 at the time. At some point, I realized that when I was looking at a picture of a woman with a big cock in her fist and a load of cum on her face, that I wasn't sure if I wanted to be him or her. Since then (I'm mid-fifties now), the desire to have sex with a man has only increased with intensity. I am very turned on by the idea of giving head and making a guy cum. Problem is, my wife is totally cool with me fantasizing about it but not acting on it. So, in order to satisfy my curiosity I would need to cheat on her. That's what has held me back so far. On the other hand, in the right circumstances, I may not be able to resist almost 20 years of desire. We'll see .....

[roadsucker]

I was in the 10th grade. I was raised in the south in a very racially divided city. I was in gym class dressing out and saw a skinny wimpy white kid being harrassed by 3 black guys. He was sitting on a bench and they were standing around him. One of them said suck this big cock boy, I peeked his way to see that kid with a huge cock pushed toward his face. He tried to get up but another guy pushed him back down on the bench. Soon all 3 of them had cocks out and they were being waved in his face. They never actually made contact with him just gave him a hard time. I remember sneaking away pretending not to notice and thinking if one of them tried to put it in my mouth I would have let him and sucked it a minute and then bit as hard as i could. I realized I had just agreed to my self that I would suck a cock. Although I dont bite them I do suck cocks whenever possible

[Brokentoe]

I was 20yrs yrs old, decided to take a road trip. Stopped at a rest area in the middle of nowhere at like 2 in the morning. Went into the bathroom and there was a hole in the stall, looked in it and the guy was playing with his cock. Left went back to my car,sat there trying to understand it. He came out and stood by the vending machines. I decided to go talk to him. We were the only two at the rest stop. I went like I was buying a drink said hi and talked, then he randomly ask if I liked what I saw. I stood there for a min and realized my cock was getting hard under my shorts.we talked as we walked, I told him that I wasn't sure if I liked it. We stopped at a picnic table. He asked if I'd like to see it. I said I don't know. We sat down and he had a small bottle of whiskey he gave it to me and I drank half of it, after awhile drinking, smoking cigarettes and talking about random stuff, he stood up and took off his shorts and shirt. Then sat straddling the bench very close to me. I touched and played with cock. He started rubbing mine though my shorts. He very smoothly got my shirt and shorts off and now we were both naked straddling the bench touching each other. He moved my head toward hIs cock and I took it in my mouth and started sucking it. I was feeling good and was enjoying it. He held my head and cummed I tried to pull away but he held my head down. After a few sec I decided to go with it and sucked and swallowed. When he was down he reached down and took some of the cum that was still dripping and put it on his ass as he turned over and laid across the table. My cock was throbbing and I don't think I had ever been that horny and I fucked his hole hard. Cummed a bucket load. It was my first time and the rest of the road trip was and eye opening experience.

[ml830]

I had feelings all my life, I am 66_and a few years back a physical therapist made a pass and I that's all it took. I took several online tests all indicate I am heterosexual with strong homosexual tendencies

[pole_smoker]

I had feelings all my life, I am 66_and a few years back a physical therapist made a pass and I that's all it took. I took several online tests all indicate I am heterosexual with strong homosexual tendencies
WTF what a creepy 'physical therapist'. I would not be surprised if he's a whore or ho' on the side and gives 'massages'. :rolleyes:

If you were intelligent you would have not had sex with him, documented this, and sued him and the hospital/PT place and profited. :rolleyes:

Does your wife know you cheated on her with an unprofessional creepy physical therapist that's a whore?

[Bibabyblues]

I guess when I was about 12 one night im staying at a friends house he was sleeping, and out of the blue I masturbate and think about him. Of course I denied it for years. Then a couple experiences in my 20s that became the subject of some fantasizing. Oh ya started trying toys pretty young for anal. One I figured out how to do it right and have orgasms its sort of hard to go back to just being straight. Im mostly straight and live that lifestyle. However lately ive had some opportunities to go all out and took full advantage. Im a BTM and love being giving. Love to be told what to do and role playing. Id say porn had a lot to do with it too.

[man4girlgirl4man]

I realized I'm bisexual from a personal experience that happened at the perfect time in my life and with the perfect specific details needed to have the maximum influence on my sexuality for my entire life. It was also traumatic and inappropriate and it happened because of an older relative's indifference to me that was extreme enough to be considered sexual abuse. Sexual abuse without any actual sex or touching or words or seduction... it was sexual abuse by total exposure to porn of every kind for several hours.

That's when I saw those photos of interracial gay porn on the wall of a sleazy Times Square porn shop. An unattractive white dude I totally ignored and a totally cute black dude who had a huge fucking black monster dick. Must have been 11 inches and probably longer than that. And as soon as I saw that huge thing my inner and up until then unknown gay desires came out from within me all at once and with a sexual intensity that was so overwhelming it almost made me pass out. Maybe the most intensely pleasurable sexual feeling I've ever had although I've had others that were comparable and also unforgettable.

I was a normal - extremely horny but that's totally normal - kid a month shy of my 12th birthday still obsessed and maybe also a little bit in love with my own big 8 inch dick that appeared only about 3 weeks earlier. An 11 year old with a brand new big cock but still basically clueless about sex. That was me right before this incident happened. And as soon as I saw that cute guy and his huge black cock I turned into a big black cock loving cocksucker wannabee and I knew that right then too. Four hours of hard core porn - you name it I saw it all - boy fucks girl, threesomes and groups of every combination of boy and girl possible, lesbians in pairs and threesomes and groups, and of course that hotter than hot photoset of the first ever gay sex I ever saw and when I saw it I didn't care about all the other stuff I had seen. Not the average or a very sexually healthy way to learn about sex and it confused me and maybe messed me up a bit at first, but the gay attraction that it brought out into the open would have come out eventually in some other and very likely "normal" or at least less bizarre manner. Same with the specific desires for black men with huge cocks and it turns out that I really am custom built for hot gay sex with men such as this. I'm not just able to take an assfucking from a black man with a 10 or even 11 inch dick....I also want and need a cock that's at least 9 inches in order to feel the maximum sexual pleasure I'm physically capable of and I learned this is true in two different ways: The day after this incident I fucked myself with the biggest cucumber in the refrigerator that first one was about the same length as my incher but at least twice as thick. I got it all inside me and it actually disappeared which freaked me out until I was able to pull it back out but that was after I was done jerking off with all of it still in my ass and the orgasm was a million times better than the best one I ever had before and also after it without something big in my ass. The first of many cucumbers in my ass and they got bigger and thicker each time - 12 or 13 inches and as thick as two and three real cocks on real men. I grew up and moved out and those big cucumbers were replaced by even bigger sex toys. Then my much stronger hetero desires took control and I had about 25 years of only fucking girls but my fantasies and desires of cute black men putting their huge cocks in my mouth and fucking my ass never stopped.

I don't cheat when I'm committed to someone and I never did either. But after my divorce I was free to fuck girls and also hook up with the black men and worship their huge cocks for the first time ever. I did a lot of both until I met my current girlfriend and now I'm off the fucking market but this time I'm off the market after I did lots of shopping. I'm glad I did and my personal sexuality gave me enough desire plus the ability to enjoy both women and men sexually which I was built to do and I finally did do in my real world life.

My advice to every boy or girl who desires same sex sex but hasn't done it yet is to go out and do it - and do it soon. It's what you're supposed to do so try it at least once and see what it's all about.

[mtnmen2]

My first sexual experience was with a male when I was 14. We continued to have sex for 2 years till he got a girlfriend and that ended our affair. I didn't have sex with a women till I was 20. I was always attracted to women but enjoyed sex with my friend also. I don't know if that made me bi or gay at that time but after I started dating women for a while my friend and I reconnected while I was in my mid twenties and I was eager to continue with him. It was at this time I realized that I enjoyed both sexes and still have fantasies about both to this day.

[donttellnehismy]

Still looking for others to chat with

[Lances_63]

Like so many others here (apparently) I had some m2m play when I was about 13 with my cousin who was about 17. It started pretty innocent and slowly progressed to just short of oral. Man, thinking back I get so raging hard when I remember how beautiful his cock was. We only played for a little less than a year. For some reason that memory was blocked for a very long time. Fast forward about 20 years and I am married with a baby. I love them, but I am missing something. The internet allowed me to explore and I found bi porn. One week on a business trip across the country I met a gay man and we innocently struck up a conversation. We really hit it off. No plans, no motives just a couple guys hanging out and drinking some beer. I invited him to my hotel room and he accepted. On the way he asked if I realized he was gay and I said of course. We undressed and explored each others body. Neither of us could cum for some reason (nerves?) but we each enjoyed the encounter immensely. I still talk to my cousin who eventually came out as gay. We have talked about our encounters but have never repeated them. Yes, I have told him how much I enjoyed those times and how important he is in my life, but I guess I am just not his type.

I am still married and so deep in the closet I will probably never come out. I may never get the opportunity to explore any more, either, which saddens me. But, I have a great life and a great family. I push these desires aside as selfish and destructive because of how devastated my family and friends would be. I don't think there is a single person I know who would not be shocked if they found out my deep secret.

Lance

[firebird19]

I found out when was messing a round with a guy my age and he popp out his dick and I went down on it and suck it ! We were very young at the time ! But I love pussy a lot too !

[Susurrus1964]

I'm not sure when my curiosity set in. It wasn't a bolt from the blue where suddenly I went, "God, I think I like cock as well as pussy." For quite a while, I never gave any thought to sex with men, then I most definitely had a homophobic streak. Not militantly so, but enough that I felt uneasy when the subject of men fucking men came up.

Then, somewhere along the line, I was reading one of my dad's Penthouse magazines, and came across a story where a young guy hooked up with this girl, and found out that she wasn't just looking for a boyfriend, but that she was "recruiting" a lover that would service not only her, but her mom and brother as well. The MF scenes were hot, but I discovered that I wasn't turned off by the description of his encounter with her brother, and found myself stroking to that part of the story as much as I did when he fucked the women. It's the first time I can recall where two men were fucking and I didn't feel weirded out by it.

Then as I got older, I started checking out bi porn (yes, I actually went to a video rental store - some of you might have to ask your grandparents what that was) While they seemed pretty formulaic (one MF scene, one FF, one MMF and often a MM) I was still relatively neutral on the scenes where no pussy was present.

I still am merely curious about cock. My wife doesn't want to share or be shared, and I can respect that, so I don't play (except the occasional chat). Were I to have the real life opportunity to experience a cock, I think I'd like a woman to be present, even if she took no part. Just my own security blanket, I guess. I still have no interest in men as a whole, only what lies behind the zipper of their jeans. I don't see what women see in men, but I find women damn attractive.

[a2smith09]

Well my best friend and I started having sex with each other right after we both hit puberty. I developed a very serious relationship with my first serious girlfriend several years later. It was after I had sex with both of them one day that I realized I loved them both and loved having sex with each one of them and didn't want to give that up.

[FluffyOne]

I started when I was 5 years old, playing "doctor" with the other neighborhood kids. I discovered that I enjoyed sucking a little penis of licking a little vagina about the same, so I kept on doing it as often as I could! When I was 8, my older brother (13) and his friend had saw me 'playing' with another boy my age, and slowly coerced me into 'playing' with them. That brother was the first to pop my boy cherry, and I ended up going down on both of them; first time swallowing, and I loved it. My first time 'in' a vagina was when I was 9. .... Many great stories and memories over the years; I am now a grandfather with eight grand-kids!

[Biappeal]

My journey to accepting being bisexual started when I was 12 and entering puberty on a mission. I quickly discovered the incredible pleasures of masterbation. I was finding all kinds of ways to fantasize about girls.

A new kid in town asked me to stay for a sleepover. We stayed in his rec room on a sleeper sofa. It was not long after the lights were turned off that he pulled out a flashlight and asked if I wanted to see him naked. I was a little surprised but accepted the offer. Off came his close and my cock hardened instantly. I, of course, got naked too. The first night was a lot of touching each other, especially having our cocks rub together.

The sleepovers continued and the body contacted evolved into a sexual relationship that lasted a couple of years. We never talked about it outside of our initimate settings. In fact we both had various girl friends throughout. He ended up moving. I did initiate a few experiences with other male friends in the same way but except for one they did not lead to sex with each other. One of my friends did initiate an afternoon of sex when we were 16. I do think these experinc3s were more about sex in general than a deep desire to be with another male.

Skip ahead 20 years. My wife was really getting into porn and starting to get interested in having sex with another woman. As we explored this further andd further, I started to understand my own sexual desire for men. It took awhile but I slowly let her know that I was bisexual. She has been comfortable with, and turned on by, my increasing desire for men from the start.

I really understood that my homosexuality was real at a conference I attended when I was about 40. I met another married guy on the 1st day. We had dinner together. I was so turned on by him I probably could have done him in the restaurant restroom. We never talked about anything remotely sexual but I flirted with him all evening. Amazingly, we had adjacent rooms in the hotel. That night we went up to our rooms and parted ways. As I went into my own room I had my pants off before the door swung shut. I made sure that he could figure out that I was masturbating and I could hear he was doing the same. This same routine played out for the next three days. I wanted to have sex with him and I am sure he wanted me but we were too afraid to take the first step.

I am still incredibly reserved when it comes to taking action on my desire to be with another man. But I an very open about my bisexuality with my wife and myself!

[sysper]

My journey to accepting being bisexual started when I was 12 and entering puberty on a mission. I quickly discovered the incredible pleasures of masterbation. I was finding all kinds of ways to fantasize about girls.

A new kid in town asked me to stay for a sleepover. We stayed in his rec room on a sleeper sofa. It was not long after the lights were turned off that he pulled out a flashlight and asked if I wanted to see him naked. I was a little surprised but accepted the offer. Off came his close and my cock hardened instantly. I, of course, got naked too. The first night was a lot of touching each other, especially having our cocks rub together.

The sleepovers continued and the body contacted evolved into a sexual relationship that lasted a couple of years. We never talked about it outside of our initimate settings. In fact we both had various girl friends throughout. He ended up moving. I did initiate a few experiences with other male friends in the same way but except for one they did not lead to sex with each other. One of my friends did initiate an afternoon of sex when we were 16. I do think these experinc3s were more about sex in general than a deep desire to be with another male.

Skip ahead 20 years. My wife was really getting into porn and starting to get interested in having sex with another woman. As we explored this further andd further, I started to understand my own sexual desire for men. It took awhile but I slowly let her know that I was bisexual. She has been comfortable with, and turned on by, my increasing desire for men from the start.

I really understood that my homosexuality was real at a conference I attended when I was about 40. I met another married guy on the 1st day. We had dinner together. I was so turned on by him I probably could have done him in the restaurant restroom. We never talked about anything remotely sexual but I flirted with him all evening. Amazingly, we had adjacent rooms in the hotel. That night we went up to our rooms and parted ways. As I went into my own room I had my pants off before the door swung shut. I made sure that he could figure out that I was masturbating and I could hear he was doing the same. This same routine played out for the next three days. I wanted to have sex with him and I am sure he wanted me but we were too afraid to take the first step.

I am still incredibly reserved when it comes to taking action on my desire to be with another man. But I an very open about my bisexuality with my wife and myself!
ur smart to be reserved about sharing ur bisexuality with guys. some str8 guys even if they turn u down would be flattered, but some guys would make it a point to state there heterosexuality with there fists. some of them are probably bi or totally gay neways & can't even admit it to themselves. but that's there problem. glad to hear when people are able to explore there bisexuality, it makes for a less stressfull life in the end no pun intended lol. also glad u got a supportive wife, that is the best! hope u2 support each other & grow closer togather from that & other things.

[itsnormy]

After 5 years of enjoying the pleasures of hard cocks...I was taken to bed by a lady 30 years older than, and when I woke in the morning, I was bi...I was 15 at the time...

[pole_smoker]

After 5 years of enjoying the pleasures of hard cocks...I was taken to bed by a lady 30 years older than, and when I woke in the morning, I was bi...I was 15 at the time...
That's creepy and disgusting that the woman who you met who was a lot older and who should have known better sexually abused you. But you did post about being sexually abused by male peers and adult men.

[Fzmr9t]

Wow! That was one understanding mom!

[Fzmr9t]

I'm not sure when my curiosity set in. It wasn't a bolt from the blue where suddenly I went, "God, I think I like cock as well as pussy." For quite a while, I never gave any thought to sex with men, then I most definitely had a homophobic streak. Not militantly so, but enough that I felt uneasy when the subject of men fucking men came up.

Then, somewhere along the line, I was reading one of my dad's Penthouse magazines, and came across a story where a young guy hooked up with this girl, and found out that she wasn't just looking for a boyfriend, but that she was "recruiting" a lover that would service not only her, but her mom and brother as well. The MF scenes were hot, but I discovered that I wasn't turned off by the description of his encounter with her brother, and found myself stroking to that part of the story as much as I did when he fucked the women. It's the first time I can recall where two men were fucking and I didn't feel weirded out by it.

Then as I got older, I started checking out bi porn (yes, I actually went to a video rental store - some of you might have to ask your grandparents what that was) While they seemed pretty formulaic (one MF scene, one FF, one MMF and often a MM) I was still relatively neutral on the scenes where no pussy was present.

I still am merely curious about cock. My wife doesn't want to share or be shared, and I can respect that, so I don't play (except the occasional chat). Were I to have the real life opportunity to experience a cock, I think I'd like a woman to be present, even if she took no part. Just my own security blanket, I guess. I still have no interest in men as a whole, only what lies behind the zipper of their jeans. I don't see what women see in men, but I find women damn attractive.

as a "sex object" I def find women more attractive. To be honest, I don't really look at guys and think "I want him" or "I'd do him". It's not until I'm with a guy, for that particular purpose, that my thoughts turn to sex. But women, yeah, I'm like a big majority of us who look at a female and do the "what ifs"...

[void()]

Naturally. *grins*

[TasteTester]

Well, I didn't actually discover I was bi... it discovered me. I've never had a problem with acknowledging the Beaty of a female, but the first taste of one gave me all of the affirmation needed. It was one of the best edibles that ever graced my taste buds.

[T.Edding]

I found out during a threesome with my college roommate and his girlfriend. He was working her from behind, I was working her clit. The first slip of his cock I figured was an accident. The second and third had me wondering, number four was directed by his hand right into my open mouth. I spent four years sucking him off and eating his cum out of her pussy. I was hooked!

[Masterslave]

When I discovered I liked sex with women too. I had sucked 8 cocks and had one regular for several years before I saw my first cunt. I liked that too, but I seem to prefer fucking ass and mouth, no matter what gender and sucking cock over cunt fucking...strange eh?! Lol

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[biguy1940]

WTF what a creepy 'physical therapist'. I would not be surprised if he's a whore or ho' on the side and gives 'massages'. :rolleyes:

If you were intelligent you would have not had sex with him, documented this, and sued him and the hospital/PT place and profited. :rolleyes:

Does your wife know you cheated on her with an unprofessional creepy physical therapist that's a whore? aaahh! theres the judgementalism that we all love so much and look forward to seeing...from the one person on here that has the perfect relationship and is better than the rest of us in all ways...he's probably a right wing Koch sucker trying to get out all of his frustrations with his "polls"

[The Galion]

I waited for 50 god damned years to be able to suck a cock. Why on Earth did I wait so long?
I knew all along that I was different.

[pole_smoker]

aaahh! theres the judgementalism that we all love so much and look forward to seeing...from the one person on here that has the perfect relationship and is better than the rest of us in all ways...he's probably a right wing Koch sucker trying to get out all of his frustrations with his "polls"
LMAO no I'm not a Republican; but I'm sure you did completely support Ed Koch in the 80s...since you're that old of a total closet queen. :rolleyes:

[Bipisces]

Hi everyone, I have just recently accepted that I am bisexual. I've always been attracted to girls. Even at a early age I was trying to kiss girls. I found my Dad's playboys when I was 5. I started sneaking them out to show my friends. The word got out and more and more boys started to show up at our hiding place around the apartment complex. The older boys (8-12 year olds) started to pull out their cocks and started stroking themselves and encouraged us to do the same. Saying it feels really good. So at the age of five I had my 1st orgasm (the best way i described it back then was it feels like a really good tickle). The older boys told us to keep doing that at home in our rooms because it would helps when we started dating girls. Then they asked us to kiss their dicks and showed us how to do it. I started sucking dick that night and I sucked on every boy there. Then my Mom called me for dinner and when I went to bed, jacked off again fantasizing about sucking their cocks and loving it. Everyday from then on we would all meet up and fool around with each other (sucking, jacking off and put our dicks in each other butts). I loved every minute off it.
When my family moved out to Las Vegas, I turned my interest towards girls only. i was 14 by then and still to this day have never touched a guy, but have always masturbated to fantasies of both guys and girls.
I grew up in the Mormon church, so through my teens and until now I had a lot of guilt, shame and self hatred for my feelings towards men. Yes I was only dating girls and at 23 I married a very awesome Mormon woman. She is the only person I have been with sexually since I was 14. Through high school i believed that i was secretly gay even though I am not really attracted to men. I've alway deep down inside though, wanted to suck and be fucked by men. I am attracted to women and am emotionally connected to women. I couldn't be in a long term relationship with a man, but I want hot sex with men. I love pussy and cock!!!
Now last weekend my wife had to work all weekend. so I was by my self. I couldn't stop craving to be taken by a man. All my guy fantasies hit all at once. No matter what I did all I could think about was sucking cock and having my ass fucked. Yes I am mostly a bottom. So on Monday I did some soul searching and found this site. After reading a lot of posts I was finally able to come to grips and accept that I AM A BISEXUAL!!! Yeah who
I came out to my wife on Tuesday and all she said to me was that it was about time you finally accept who you really are. She has known for years and understands me.

[chongster]

I had never had any interest in men at all until I was in my forties. I was looking at on line porn and found Shemales! I thought they were very exciting but you don't find any in my area. I started looking at bi and gay sites and a guy messaged me and wanted to hook up. It was his first time as well. The very first time I sucked a cock and put my cock in a guys ass. Still never been with a shemale but have been with a few other guys and love to suck cock and fuck ass

[mikeyd270]

I discovered I was bi when I was sucking a cock in the park over twenty years ago and liking it.

[okbiguy]

I fell mouth first onto a cock and have loved it ever since.

[void()]

The mythical cacti named Dave told me. :)

In all seriousness I never really had a grand and glorious, "ah ha" type of moment in discovering I'm bisexual. Knew from a young age I was different. Grew into an adult and gradually understood that my difference was labeled being bisexual. For myself, I'm just a me and what will be, will be. :)

[DrBimind]

The mythical cacti named Dave told me. :)

In all seriousness I never really had a grand and glorious, "ah ha" type of moment in discovering I'm bisexual. Knew from a young age I was different. Grew into an adult and gradually understood that my difference was labeled being bisexual. For myself, I'm just a me and what will be, will be. :)

Yep and if more peeps would just be themselves we wouldn't need labels so much.....

[sisboy]

I started sucking cocks because my wife wanted to see me suck a cock.We used to swing and one night I found myself sucking my first cock which turned her on immensely.After that I did not need as much coaxing to suck the second or third.etc.Then I really began to enjoy it and before I knew it as I was sucking a cock one night I felt soemone playing with my ass which drove me crazy and before I knew it I had had been mounted.I came so hard without even touching my cock.Next thing I knew the cock I was sucking shot a monster load and the guy up my ass left a big deposit too.Meanwhile my wife was getting fucked in the bed next to me and alomst fucked th guy to death she was so hot.Then it just happened I love to satisfy a nice cock now and my wife still loves to watch.We are cock whoes together.

[right2b]

When I first started watching sissy porn. Viewing cocks at length, enjoying the way they were displayed I found myself starting to lick my lips and the more I watched the more I desired to be one of these girls, being taken, punished by a huge cock and finally being a cocksucker who's only want is to please. Man I want a hug cock right now.

[davenz]

When I was young,I did not even know what bi sexual was. Just young and way too many hormones. To me it was all about sex. I use to masturbate at least twice a day, every day. Felt way better doing it with some one else. Not actually sure when I realised I was bi.

[playtoy70]

I was doing a guys wife and he pulled my hard cock of her and started sucking my cock then slide me back in her this went on till I finally blow my load in his mouth.

[BiDaddyNJ]

For as long as I remember I have liked to suck dick. I used to fool around with my cousins when I was 7 or 8 years old. We would hide under the covers and suck each other. I pretty much fooled around with the neighborhood boys after that until Junior High or so. The first boy I really liked and fooled around with was the summer before 6th grade. That was a great summer. I pretended to call my mom and then said she wasn't home. Forcing a sleepover. I remember we both said, "You can do anything you like as long as it's sexual." I found him many years later and hinted at the fact that my time with him created a "type" of guy I like.

[pole_smoker]

For as long as I remember I have liked to suck dick. I used to fool around with my cousins when I was 7 or 8 years old. We would hide under the covers and suck each other. I pretty much fooled around with the neighborhood boys after that until Junior High or so. The first boy I really liked and fooled around with was the summer before 6th grade. That was a great summer. I pretended to call my mom and then said she wasn't home. Forcing a sleepover. I remember we both said, "You can do anything you like as long as it's sexual." I found him many years later and hinted at the fact that my time with him created a "type" of guy I like.
That's fucked up and sick that you sexually abused your cousin and other male peers/friends like that. People like you need help and should be labeled as public sex offenders.

This argument that it's all about "love", "sexual exploring", that "we both wanted it", "it was consensual", etc. is just a cover-up of a deeper issue here. Somewhere down the family line no proper boundaries were given, and sexual abuse happened or is happening. I wouldn't be surprised if most of your family's lines all had some severe sexual abuse going on. So, this isn't about love or respect in anyone's family or exploring of sexuality, but disrespect, power, abuse/sex abuse, and control.

[void()]

Blah Blah Blah

You have delighted us long enough.―Jane Austen

I will always love the false image I had of you. — Ashleigh Brilliant

I like long walks, especially when they are taken by people who annoy me.―Fred Allen

[indenver_indenver]

I was so young I can't tell you for fear of being charged with kiddie porn. But it all started when a neighbor boy brought his cousin over and asked me if I had ever had my "pee-pee" sucked. He said his cousin liked to do it. And so, I let him and it felt incredible. For the next 4 years I tried to find other boys to suck my pecker. None want to so I finally had to do theirs first to get them to do mine. This went on for about two or three years and I began to like sucking the cock of one of my buddies. As he got older his cock grew big and thick and he began to shoot a lot of cum. Then I really got to like sucking his cock. All the while I was dating the girls and playing doctor with them. Then the epiphany happened. My favorite buddy had me lie on my back and he straddled my chest and fucked my mouth like a pussy. That punched my ticket. All I could think about for days was his big cock swaying above my face before he plunged it into my mouth. I have been a cock sucking bi ever since but only with adults.

[SilkyHoseLover]

"But it all started when a neighbor boy brought his cousin over and asked me if I had ever had my "pee-pee" sucked. He said his cousin liked to do it. And so, I let him and it felt incredible. <snip> This went on for about two or three years and I began to like sucking the cock of one of my buddies."


pole_smoker to the white discourtesy phone, please! We have a poster here in desperate need of judgement, condemnation and insult!!!

[BiNavyguy2004]

I knew from when I was young that I was attracted to both sexes and fooled around with friends. So it wasn't shocking to me to say I was bi but fear of being judge made it difficult. Now I don't care. I am comfortable with who I am.

[void()]

... pole_smoker to the white discourtesy phone, please! We have a poster here in desperate need of judgement, condemnation and insult!!!

Think he took a long walk. Hope the pier was long enough. ...

[pole_smoker]

I was so young I can't tell you for fear of being charged with kiddie porn. But it all started when a neighbor boy brought his cousin over and asked me if I had ever had my "pee-pee" sucked. He said his cousin liked to do it. And so, I let him and it felt incredible. For the next 4 years I tried to find other boys to suck my pecker. None want to so I finally had to do theirs first to get them to do mine. This went on for about two or three years and I began to like sucking the cock of one of my buddies. As he got older his cock grew big and thick and he began to shoot a lot of cum. Then I really got to like sucking his cock. All the while I was dating the girls and playing doctor with them. Then the epiphany happened. My favorite buddy had me lie on my back and he straddled my chest and fucked my mouth like a pussy. That punched my ticket. All I could think about for days was his big cock swaying above my face before he plunged it into my mouth. I have been a cock sucking bi ever since but only with adults.
That's fucked up and sick that you sexually abused those male and female peers/friends like that. People like you need help and should be labeled as public sex offenders.

This argument that it's all about "love", "sexual exploring", that "we both wanted it", "it was consensual", etc. is just a cover-up of a deeper issue here. Somewhere down the family line no proper boundaries were given, and sexual abuse happened or is happening. I wouldn't be surprised if most of your family's lines all had some severe sexual abuse going on. So, this isn't about love or respect in anyone's family or exploring of sexuality, but disrespect, power, abuse/sex abuse, and control.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Thanks, poley. I knew we could count on you! :rolleyes:

[Tungtwat]

As a young boy I found I liked seeing other guy's cocks when I had the chance. Some were different I had foreskin others didn't. . A neighbor boy of high school age got me to play with his cock . After a time he had me sucking him. I found I enjoyed doing it. Later on the man I mowed lawn for caught me looking at his cock when he was showering, his was the first adult male cock I had seen . I ended sucking him regularly That when I knew I liked sucking and when I became Bi.

[DownBoy]

When I watched a 'deepthroat compilation' porn video a bit too much. I had intense fantasies of getting fucked by a man and sucking his cock to where my mouth involuntarily opened when I thought about it. Once I did it, I haven't stopped. I love sucking dick and making men cum! Especially horny older ones at adult stores.

[pole_smoker]

I remember exactly the night. I was fifteen, over at a teacher's house, and his wife had gone to bed. He was talking about the Greeks--Socrates, Plato...then then naked Greek statues. He talked about male beauty as natural, and said that the Greeks had male lovers. It seemed so natural and right. I thought of Bobby Lee, a tall, freckled, red-headed boy I had a crush on, and would stand next to in the locker room to gaze at his body. I thought of my own body as desirable. The urges I'd had seemed, listening to him, a part of life, something that men share, just like women share things with each other. They were nudists, natural. In a couple of weeks, our conversation happened in the nude, and I was awestruck by his cock. Before the evening was over, the teacher was on his knees sucking my cock, and then I took his in both hands....

That is fucking disgusting. That wannabe "teacher" is creepy, a sexual predator, should have never been any sort of educator let alone holding a job around children or teenagers since he was into sexually abusing teenage boys, and he should have been put into prison for sexually abusing and raping you.


People like that "teacher" are sick, and I would not be surprised if that "teacher" had a history of sexual abuse, or if you went on to sexually abuse people. :rolleyes:

[roydo]

First time i kind of k new I was interested in males was when i was around 9. I had a friend who we watch each other pee behind his place. I was in awe as he would take out his small dick and start peeing. I did the same. A few years later i met another classmate. We became best friends. We did everything together except sex. That started when i had found some National Geographic mags. We were looking at the naked pics of women and men. I slid my hand over annd felt his cock growing. He looked at me and i slowly unzipped his pants and slid his hard cock out and started jerking it. I unzipped my pants and took his hand and placed it on my cock. We jerked each other off. I was in love watching him spurt his cum all over his stomach. After awhile we would turn and face each others cock and jerk each other off. I was always watching intensly as he came. I loved it. I tasted cum for the first time and kind of liked it. Wasnt too sure. I did slip my mouth over his cock and felt a bit of shame inside. After high school he married and moved away. Thats when i started dating women. Lost my virginity to an older woman @ 20 yrs older. I married a younger woman but you know I still had fantasies about men. I would eat her pussy so i could taste my cum. She would french kiss me after she blew me. Loved the taste of her tongue with my cum on it. She would never agree to having a 3 sum. After 33 yrs of marriage we separated and divorced. My fondness for men started to rekindle. After a few years of abstinence from sex, I posted o Craigs list looking for older men to meet. I was 58 by this time. I sucked my first cock to climax, swallowed his load and have not stopped ever since. I still love women but am not into the getting involved. I am still waiting to be Fucked by either a man or a woman with a strapon. I love my dildo and use it every time I jerk off. I want to feel a cock cum inside my virgin ass. So I guess and I know I am Bi. Love this life style.
I am looking again for a regular male hookup now.

[Annika L]

A good friend told me. He took me out to dinner, broke it to me gently, then suggested a threesome. I was really taken with his concern for me...thanked him for the threesome suggestion, but said I felt it might be better to explore it on my own for a while. I'm thinking about giving him a call one of these days, but I'm a little afraid he's gonna tell me I'm straight now.

[void()]

People like that "teacher" are sick, and I would not be surprised if that "teacher" had a history of sexual abuse, or if you went on to sexually abuse people. :rolleyes:

Let me be plain and blunt. What you post here is not related to me. There are things you do not know.

One thing you do not know is something which compels me to stand up to you. I stand up to you
because for a lot of reasons in living, people suggested I be another statistic.

There are numerous negative things I could be. I am not.

I choose to not be all those negative things which could grant other people an ability to write me
off as just another number. Sorry to disappoint you all and not be just another number.

Is this why you fear me? Is it why you hate me? Because I am living proof that your damn prejudged
numbers made up in your ivory towers, or from behind observation glass all can be disproved?

Know what? If I am capable of going against the grain, I bet others are too. I bet others can disprove
your sick made up numbers as well. In fact, I know other such people exist. You do not have even
half a chance of knowing all of us much less any of us. See? We're not afraid of you. We know you
are terrified of us. We break your rules, shatter your delusions and illusions.

You cannot define us. You cannot control us. Try having a good one. We shall.

[sysper]

A good friend told me. He took me out to dinner, broke it to me gently, then suggested a threesome. I was really taken with his concern for me...thanked him for the threesome suggestion, but said I felt it might be better to explore it on my own for a while. I'm thinking about giving him a call one of these days, but I'm a little afraid he's gonna tell me I'm straight now.
i hate to break it to u....but u have got a thing for me :cutelaugh

did that work? no? well figured i'd try

lol

[void()]

i hate to break it to u....but u have got a thing for me :cutelaugh

did that work? no? well figured i'd try

lol

I think she does but won't admit it because Dave would get jealous. Need to figure out how a person would tell.
Dave being a cacti, he's naturally green. He would not show the green of envy or jealousy. So, how could we
tell if he was jealous?

Also, I had another recent mind warping paradox. I was fixing a ham and cheese sandwich. On the ham
package I read the label "smoked ham". Now, i am wondering who smoked it and how. Did they reconstitute
it back into those preformed slices after cutting it up like tobacco, maybe? Besides that, what advantages to
smoking ham are there to say smoking salmon?

* passes his Sysper man his scrabble tiles in a very weary manner, settles into his lap and gets cozy *

Please take the letters away from me. I'm having some trouble spelling. Big mean old firewood needing
split. Ugh.

[sysper]

hmmm what to do??? i'm a lover not a fighter so i gotta backoff......or......convince dave he's got a thing for me too lollllll anyways i'm flattered u think i'm anything to get jealous over :crosseye: now sit back & rest those tired hands.......oh wait nevermind........ i hate to break it to u but u wanna do dirty things to me with those hands :upside:

[void()]

hmmm what to do??? i'm a lover not a fighter so i gotta backoff......or......convince dave he's got a thing for me too lollllll anyways i'm flattered u think i'm anything to get jealous over :crosseye: now sit back & rest those tired hands.......oh wait nevermind........ i hate to break it to u but u wanna do dirty things to me with those hands :upside:

Shhhh. Me sitting here in your lap does not exactly implying fighting. hmmm. * wiggles down a little more cozy * Dave can just go prick himself if he gets jealous. * lets his hands play with other things instead of scrabble tiles *

[Satinlover58]

When I was 12 years old a buddy of mine we're playing with each other and he asked me to suck him at first I didn't want to do it but he was able to work the tip of his cock passed my lips he had a hold of the back of my head he was pumping my mouth if he had a tight hold on to my head so I figured what the hell and I continued sucking on him just when he grabbed the back of my head and ramed my mouth into his crotch just before he started filling my mouth with his cum at first I did not like the taste but then after some time it was like I was begging him for it and that's when I discovered I was bisexual because I love girls pussy but also had a love for cock and cum

[Bottomhubby]

I was 12 with my best friends cock pumping in my ass. We fooled around off and on thru high school. His gf now wife liked to watch us. They live in another state but we still hook up when the come to town. I have never fucked her but love sucking his cum out of her cunt while he fucks me.

[Realist]

I remember this old thread, but never posted to it. Some of the best members replied to it and now most of them are gone...pity!

Anyway, I got a spanking at a birthday party, when I was 5. My mother caught me in a little gaggle of both boys and girls; we were engaged with both genders, trying to determine who was the best kisser...boys, or girls?

Before we'd developed a consensus, we had an invasion of angry mothers upon us! Their reactions may have cemented my conviction that one could be attracted to both genders and even love more than one at a time. The only thing that getting caught did for me was, to send me underground. I have always been convinced that one could have both men and women in their lives and be happy about it!

My very first sexual experience was truly bisexual; me, a female cousin, and her neighbor's boy, (all of us 8 years old) began getting naked in the woods and swimming nude. We all progressed to touching and orally enjoying our gentiles. For me and the other boy, orgasms weren't discovered, then. But, my cousin later told me she'd been having orgasms with us, but really didn't understand it. She just knew it felt really, really, good!

I remembered her contortions and moaning, but at the time, I figured she might have epilepsy!

[The Galion]

Hey Realist, did you get your pm issues sorted out here? I was trying to pm another member and..... Damn cool and funny story by the way! :-) Oof! ANGRY mothers.

Ehh Hem and excuse me. My sisters MAY have helped me when I was young. I'll never forget about them asking me to parade around in front of them (shit, I was about 12 too!) and them telling me "DXXXX, you've got a big cock" as they looked at it bounce. Big and curved down crank.
Perhaps I started associating the word Cock in my mind at that time.
OR
Could it be that afternoon out on the rock pile (country/farming area) in my very early teens that my friend and his little brother showed me their cocks and I followed suit? My friend told me "Yours is bigger than my dad's!" I'll never forget that either. :-) Thank you R!
I wish I would've had the notion to touch or suck but perhaps it was already beaten out of me from talk by mom. Later I rebelled.
OR
20 some years later the internet comes along and I actually get to see some cocks fucking some ladies. Some big ones too! They looked good!
OR
Could it be the fact that my girlfriend (now wife of a thousand years) fucked around on me before we married and when I caught wind of it I got excited about it after a few years and tried to catch her.
Wanted to catch her but wouldn't have done anything rash other than watch and/or join in! I knew that at that time too.

I knew then I was interested in Cock...
Damn good question posed and my babbling is finally stopped!

[biincarsoncity]

For me, the first time I thought of myself as "bi" was during my first threesome.
From the time we were 13, my best friend and I had been getting off together. In my mind, I never really considered it gay sex, but more of a two friends helping each other get off.
Both of us had girlfriends or were dating girls, off an on through the years. But if Friday or Saturday night didn't pan out, we would do each other. For both of us, it was a sort of alternative to masturbating alone type of deal.
Fast forward to one weekend when I was 17. My mother was going out of town for one of her New Age, Old hippie retreats. The kind where they sit around talk about spirit guides, show off their latest crystals and discuss Birkenstocks new line...
So before mom left, she asked the couple next door (Tom and Jan) to keep an eye on me and make sure I didn't do anything exceptionally stupid.
On Saturday, Tom invited me over to hang out by the pool and stay for dinner.
I jumped at the chance, partially because I was bored, but mostly because of Jan. While she was not Playboy material, there was something about her had got me going. So the promise of spending the day by the pool, her in a bikini...I was all over it.
Looking back, it really was one of those "Dear Penthouse, I never thought something like this would happen to me, but this weekend..." scenarios
Jan kept touching me, brushing up against me and steering conversations towards sex all afternoon. After dinner we ended up back in the pool. She went over to Tom and kissed him. After the kiss, Tom said "Honey, you're going to make our guest feel left out."
She waded over to me and we kissed. Game on!
The three of us made our way to their bedroom. She and I ended up naked on their bed, Tom was off to the side watching. Even then the whole "watching my wife with another guy" thing struck me as weird, but at that point I wasn't complaining.
I went down on her, she sucked me for a while then she laid back and I got on top of her. As we were fucking, he took off his swimming trunks and came over to the side of the bed. With his right had he was squeezing her boobs and pinching her nipples. His left, he was running up and down my back, each stroke getting lower and lower until he was touching my ass. I know now that he was testing the waters to see what my reaction was. The whole time she was sucking and licking his cock.
She took his cock out of her mouth and was licking the head, without really thinking, I leaned down and started licking it from the other side. We did that for a few seconds, then she pointed it up at me and I took him in my mouth.
That moment, sharing a cock with a woman while she and I were fucking, was the moment I considered myself bisexual.

[Coastocoast]

In my early 30's, I was asked to drive a guy home from a summer pool party who had too much to drink at the request of the host. I had never really felt any attraction to men and never considered having any sexual contact with a man to that point. I was aware of the fact he was bisexual but had no issue with driving him home, he was pretty intoxicated. I had both hands on the wheel on a curvy, steep driveway when he moved a hand up the shorts I was wearing. I about freaked but he did not stop and his hand was latched onto my cock and his movements were starting to get a reaction out of it. I was trying not to pile up a vehicle and figured when I got the car stopped he was going to feel my displeasure with his unwanted advances. I was navigating the last steep curves when his face started heading towards my lap. As I was putting the car into park and putting on the parking brake I thought about the woman I had been chasing that day who went home early, the fact I had not had sex in a while, the fact I was horny and had someone trying to go down on me. In a split second I made a decision I had never considered making before; I leaned the seat back and relaxed. I had never let a woman go down on me that I had not been willing to return the favor to and as he was sucking me I realized I was boxed into a corner. He got the shorts all the way off me, was playing with my balls and ass and when I was ready to cum he gripped me tight and took every bit of me. I came as hard as I could ever remember and it went on forever. I resigned myself as I was finishing to the the fact I was about to touch a guy for the first time, suck him and let him cum in my mouth. When I went to reach for him to repay the favor, he simply said no thanks and went into the house. I wondered for hours, days, then weeks what the night would have been like had he wanted me to repay the favor knowing that I would have. One morning many months later I found myself regretting the fact he refused to let me reciprocate. When that thought hit my head it dawned on me I was bisexual.

[sysper]

hope u got to return the favor on some other guy:)

[utopology]

I was about 17 and over visiting my girlfriend at her house. I really had the hots for her and it was all good. Until I met her brother. She had told me she had a gay brother but he was away at school most of the time so I hadn't met him previously. It took a while but he talked me into letting him blow me. I came but was too nervous and confused at the time to enjoy myself or really know what I was feeling.

[mikeyd270]

When I sucked a dick and liked it then later took it in the ass.

[nudist_60187]

Back in the 70s I would occasionally go to bathhouses. I don't remember what year was but I wasn't at this one bath house it was during the week later in the evening. I met someone who might have been at that time my age or just a little bit older. This man made the most beautiful love to me that I have ever had made to me in my entire life. He devoured my body there wasn't one part of my body that was left untouched. It was the first time in my life I've ever been rimmed and was a silly Wild as you all know. When he inserted his Cock I was actually ready for it it was as if my body waiting for it. It didn't hurt it felt wonderful when he came inside me and we relax for a while I was saddened by the fact that his penis off and and just came out of me. But he was not done with me yet he kissed my armpits and lick them like there was no tomorrow my nipples became on fire any sucked out of me. From that point on I knew I was bisexual. Yes I like pussy and would like to find another man who could make love to me like that again not just looking for a hookup something steady

[Outofthis99999]

So true. College was a wonderful time to explore because people aren't so quick to judge and for most of the kids, it's their first time being away from home so you can let your guard down a bit. I wouldn't give anything for that experience. My roommate and I had a wonderful and healthy, albeit it discreet, sexual relationship that eventually fizzled out but I learned so much about another woman's body, and my own and you are so right about it not being too late; their is still plenty to learn!! I agree and find it so interesting. Now my son is off to college this fall and I wonder if he will experiment with boys. I hope he does.

[sysper]

i so wish i was open to experementing with guys or even interested when i was in college, it would of been such a great time to do it. none of my friends were doing it at least that i know :) but it wouldn't of been a big deal. though i don't think i would get as much encouragement as college kids might get these days. i think the biggest problem would of been convincing myself it's healthy to explore. i hope ur son gets to experement with other guys if that's what he really wants to do. i don't think i have ever said that to another guy without expecting to get punched out lmao! but seriously he has got the right to find himself like anyone else. hope he gets to experement with girls too :) but hope he is safe.

[bw299]

When I was 15 and sucked my cousin's cock and cum and LOVED it!:bigrin:

[Bluehill]

My first sex was with a guy, but I still fancied girls, so I realised when I was in my teens!