making love to a pussy

[bizel]

i've been reading the usual about making love to a man's penis. it's become a competition between the sexes as to who does it better. clearly, any sex which brings enthusiasm and technique does a fabulous job. it's not about competing, people. it's about obtaining the 'satisfaction' goal. and then there seems so little interest on making a pussy sing when clearly there are men and women here who love pussies. i'm all about learning something new and have greatly enjoyed my education on various sexual matters here so i started a thread about erogenous zones and not one person put any comment. very surprising cos when my hubby plays mine like a piano, i usually end up exploding and a melted mess on the bed (and then he wants me to do it to him - yeah, like that's going to happen when i just want to turn over and go to sleep - my male side coming out!). i have had previous partners (not a lot and not female) who absolutely failed on the orbiting side - didn't have a clue how to pleasure a woman and after discussions with friends, found it quite common amongst them. how about here? either no person wants to mention it, or there are a lot of very happy women and don't need to mention it as much as guy's seem to need.

just in case, share your top tips on how you make your female partner orbit, explode and melt. i don't think it's a 'same sex do it better cos they have the same equipment' rule. everyone has a mouth, and yet some make us drown in drool. i think it's a 'have patience, enthusiasm and some clue as to what makes a pussy sing' rule. just in case someone's more nervous about making a woman cum and too scared to ask. i can't believe everyone here's an expert at pussies, but can't figure a cock out.

[Realist]

In my teens and early 20's I thought I was a real stud! I had one program for guys and one for the ladies. If they liked it, good, if not "There was something wrong with them!" (My theory, at the time)

Enter an eye-opening relationship:

At 21, I began a 18 month relationship with an much older bisexual lady. She was a retired nurse and, believe me, she didn't "take no shit offa nobody"! Meeting her is probably the best thing I ever did and the things she taught me, helped me with most relationships that followed.

She taught me that no two people are the same; the only way to develop decent a relationship is to LISTEN and COMMUNICATE. Just because things you did with one lover worked beautifully, doesn't mean the next one will respond to it in the same way!

You can't determine what your lover's desires and needs are, unless they can tell you, openly and honestly.

They can't know what your desires and needs are, unless you can tell them!

Listening/communicating!

Few folks are psychics, or wizards, who can see as you see with your own eyes. So, developing listening and communicative skills are the key. This may be a stereotype, but it's a fact.

Even if your partner has little or no experience, experimenting, trying different things, and listening to their reactions, will tell you if it's good, or not.

Some focus just on genitals, but I prefer to make love to the whole person.

[Darkside2009]

Personally I don't think one makes love to a person's genitals, one makes love to the person.

Communicating, each to the other and responding, each to the other. Technique is something different, one person may like something another may not. Each is different, just take the time to explore and find out. It isn't a race.

[cornholejoe]

i never had any complaints from women its all in knowing what a women wants and doing it too her but the main thing is her letting me know what she likes

[maxtor]

i make love to my girlfriend as a person....i have to have feeling for a woman to make love to her...just so happens she has some good pussy and we enjoy the same thing...she loves being fisted and a lot of vibrator/dildo and anal sex. she loves to use a strap on me and i really love that also and she cums when she is hunching away on me. we just click and i love her to death. there are other things we enjoy together but wont go into that right now. i just dont like to be without her. she is my life and love. i like to have sex with a man with anal sex being the best but also like to suck and play with a cock but no romance for me.