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[bassman3]

married curiuos male get excited thinking about sucking cock but afraid to try ,concern that my gag reflex may make it a a bad exp

[lizard-lix]

Well you don't have to be world champion deepthroat the first time out.

Take what you can... you'll want more :bigrin:

(and if you lick, there is nothing to gag on)

[Long Duck Dong]

its like eating.... you don't shove the fork so far down your throat, that you choke on it...

you know your limits, you know what you can handle and you go from there...

I have scarring in my throat from chemicals, so I have to be careful what I eat.... mashed potatos cause me to choke..... yet I was able to deep throat a feeldoe for my partner....

the trick I used was working out the best position for my head and neck so that the feeldoe didn't trigger the gag reflex....and it was a pleasurable experience....

lil advice tho.... there is the gag and the vomit reflex, one makes you gag and choke, the other is more messy... its a good idea to work out what one is what and how not to trigger the vomit reflex

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

There are instances that you dont have to completely swallow your lover; your mouth action, suction and tongue can be pleasurable enough. I cant "Swallow" but I have a very powerful suction and have honed my lips and tongue action to where I'm told its very pleasurable. When using your lips and tongue you can bring a lover off just as well as if you Were deep throating him. :} It takes time to learn and once you learn how to make love to a cock instead of merely sucking one, then you'll be a fine cocksucker! Uhmm, said in the most complimentary manner of course...lol
Good luck Sweetie. Have fun, play safe. :}
Cat

[flanudistbi]

you could be lucky too, i mean that not all guys have extremely long thick cocks big enough to kill ya. A lot of guys would like to think that and some can brag more than others, but you know if you sit down and explain your fears to your partner prior to getting romantic, he can explain his views and the both of you can come to some sort of understanding of both of your wants and needs.

[bizel]

my hubby still teases me about my first blowjob (never did one before him). i gagged, and i'll never hear the end of it. but the good side is, i discovered i love it, and according to him i'm really good at it. who knew! i don't know if it's my enthusiasm or technique - who cares. as for others mentioning deep throating, that's for later when you build up your confidence. on youporn website, there are instructional videos that i find interesting. but for the moment - just go for it!

[mikey3000]

Have no worries. Practice makes perfect. Even a good helmet wash (just sucking on the head) is sooo cool. Eventually you'll learn your comfort zone.

[Daviecurious]

I have a very strong gag reflex, to the point that it is an issue (for me) every time I took a cock in my mouth, and diminished (for me) the experience.

I went to an adult book store, bought an anatomically correct 6 in jelly dong, and used that to get used to having a 'cock' in my mouth. Being able to practice at any time has allowed me to get much more comfortable w/sucking. To the point that I can now, on occasion and for a moment or two, deep throat it.

May be something to consider/try. As a bonus, it is now a LOT easier to brush my teeth, LOL.

[69luvr]

I have a very strong gag reflex, to the point that it is an issue (for me) every time I took a cock in my mouth, and diminished (for me) the experience.

I went to an adult book store, bought an anatomically correct 6 in jelly dong, and used that to get used to having a 'cock' in my mouth. Being able to practice at any time has allowed me to get much more comfortable w/sucking. To the point that I can now, on occasion and for a moment or two, deep throat it.

May be something to consider/try. As a bonus, it is now a LOT easier to brush my teeth, LOL.

That is a great idea!

[Gearbox]

Don't even bother trying to deepthroat the first time. Just get it in your mouth and do whatever you want with it.;)
You should really know just how easy it is to please a cock.

If you want something to worry about - TOOTH-SCRAPING!:eek: