any advise on how 2 suck good cock ?

[bi_canadian_guy]

hi every1 im newly bi and curious if any1 can give me any pointers on how to suck good cock

[torguy4bifun]

Since you are bi, watch some videos by Lisa Ann.

I think it's important to use a lot of spit and to make it erotic, not just bobbing your head up and down. That's boring.
Use your hand to stroke it at the same time, play with the balls, taint, ect.

Practice makes perfect

[sdnaustin]

key thing is it is not all about "sucking"...in fact mostly it is about licking, kissing, tickling. And it is not just with the mouth, you should have one free hand in there stroking the balls while the shaft is in your mouth and stroking the shaft while you are licking the balls (or teasing the taint or rimming him).

If he moans in please because of something, remember it and cum back to it often, but tease him by not just doing it every other move.

The otehr two best pieces of advice:
1. treat the cock like it is YOU that are getting the special treat, not him.
2. eye contact with a smile as you suck

[binyc123]

eye contact is def key. looking up at him is hot. he will now you are the one in control and be at your mercy :)
also use your tounge, lick around the underneath of the head where it meets the shaft and on the hole itself. and dont forget the balls. always mind the stepchildren lol

[ErosUrge]

yes all the pointers by others are to be taken into consideration, especially treating it all as though you are on the receiving end...when you get into that zone you can be sure the response will be positive...
If you don't have passion with it and you're not getting turned on while doing it, he will know...
And of course yes, by all means, massage and milk those balls....and sucking them gently too..all this will make him moan. And if you can stomach it and he's very very clean, give him the ocassional rim too....sometimes this will send him over the top which at that point get back to the cock and take it all....he will appreciate this you can be sure. Unless of course he's ecstatic from the rimming and wants you to stay there while he cums...
There is no one way best as each person enjoys it in their own way....
The point is, make sure you enjoy it and everything will fall into place.

[ZepZep]

Such brilliant replies. It is about making love to him via your mouth. Lots of gentle fondling, licks and kisses with some long looks and little noises. Hmmm, bliss! I just like to lose myself in the pleasure of it. It is like I have forever just to induge his manhood. He can just relax and enjoy being in the zone. :tong::tong::tong:

[goldenfinger]

Try to suck on a mint lolly while giving blow job, it's sure to send him wild.:tongue:

[maxtor]

seeing how i have dentures, i can get a man turned on and really put some suction on the ole cock without having to worry with teeth. i can massage his cock with my gums which feels great!!

[69luvr]

key thing is it is not all about "sucking"...in fact mostly it is about licking, kissing, tickling. And it is not just with the mouth, you should have one free hand in there stroking the balls while the shaft is in your mouth and stroking the shaft while you are licking the balls (or teasing the taint or rimming him).

If he moans in please because of something, remember it and cum back to it often, but tease him by not just doing it every other move.

The otehr two best pieces of advice:
1. treat the cock like it is YOU that are getting the special treat, not him.
2. eye contact with a smile as you suck

wonderful advice but you did not mention what to do when he comes. I would tell the man to learn how to swallow but leave a little for a cum kiss. That is very erotic and stimulating!:bipride:

[Bisexual Explorer]

I second the idea of watching straight porn. Pay attention to what the actress does with her mouth and hands. Pay attention to how she moans, smiles, says a few words, makes eye contact to let the guy know how much she loves having that big beautiful cock in her mouth. I always watch a few episodes, as a refresher just before I am go out. Then when I am sucking, I imagine that I am the actress (my femme side coming out again) making a porn film. From what my male partners tell me, watching straigh porn has helped me become pretty good at sucking their cocks. And, you cannot be good at anything, and especially sucking cock, unless you really, really love doing it.

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[drugstore cowboy]

I second the idea of watching straight porn. Pay attention to what the actress does with her mouth and hands. Pay attention to how she moans, smiles, says a few words, makes eye contact to let the guy know how much she loves having that big beautiful cock in her mouth. I always watch a few episodes, as a refresher just before I am go out. Then when I am sucking, I imagine that I am the actress (my femme side coming out again) making a porn film. From what my male partners tell me, watching straigh porn has helped me become pretty good at sucking their cocks. And, you cannot be good at anything, and especially sucking cock, unless you really, really love doing it.

g

DO NOT take advice on how to suck a dick from women or from hetero porn.

Instead go out and get an excellent blowjob from a man who will give it better than any woman can, or watch some gay porn that focuses only on sucking dick.

I can't tell you the number of times I've seen just plain bad blowjobs in hetero porn where the women don't know how to suck a penis at all and when I've gotten head from women I have to tell them how to do it correctly and better, and this does not happen with men.

[bluesky55]

It's true that you won't be good at it if you don't like doing it. The men I'm with like it, although I'm contemplating a meeting with a guy that only indicates he likes being sucked. I'm looking at it as it might prove an opportunity to enjoy giving head without feeling like I need to share the opportunity with someone. I'd rather suck then be sucked. I even make it a point to let ladies I go out with that I'd rather eat pussy than be sucked. Don't get me wrong, I love getting head, but prefer giving.

On the swallowing front, that's a matter of choice. There's many times I just want to feel a hot load on my face and let it drip all over or get rubbed around by the cock that just blasted off. Other times I like someone to cum in my mouth so I can play with it and my tongue or maybe make it dribble down my chin for a great picture. There are times when i won't miss a drop and swallow everything I can get. When the mood hits you, swallow but don't let anybody say that you need to swallow every time. There's lots of fun to be had with cum.

Consider asking the person you're with for guidance. "I'm really new at this and I want to make it the best possible for both of us. Will you help me suck you the way you want to be sucked?" Hearing someone telling you what they want is a turn on too. Have fun.

[goldenfinger]

hi every1 im newly bi and curious if any1 can give me any pointers on how to suck good cock
How is it going, any update for us,,,,can't wait to hear,,

[shewolf50]

hi every1 im newly bi and curious if any1 can give me any pointers on how to suck good cock

The best advice I can give you is don't just suck it.
Make long, slow love to it with your mouth and tongue :tong:

Here is something a little more advanced that I've been wanting to try

The Transferring of Erotic Energy


In a group of poly bisexuals there are many combinations for exchanging erotic energy, but for this lesson I will only cover receiving from a male giver.
What you will get here (if done properly) is,
1. The physical chemistry, first is the pheromones you will inhale and absorb through touch that will heighten the senses and sexually arouse you.
2. The ejaculation. Semen contains, vitamin C, glutathione, (peptide amino acid) Glycoprotein’s, (cancer fighting agent) magnesium, zinc, potassium, selenium, (cancer fighting agent) sodium, Testosterone, Estrogen, vitamin B12, Arginine, (an amino acid that increases blood flow and blunts pain) Tyrosine, (a chemical that gets converted into adrenaline) Dopamine, (the happy drug) and Beta-endorphins, (a painkiller that lowers anxiety) to name a few.
3. You will completely absorb a large blast of erotic spiritual energy into your aura and your physical body causing a full body orgasm of epic proportion.

Here are a few things you need to know before you start.
First: Your giver does not have to be experienced, or understand, or even believe in the dynamics of auric energy. He does however have to be willing to give it and in exchange for it he will receive much pleasure and an explosive, mind bending orgasm. If your partner is inexperienced then communication is key here. Don’t try and change his beliefs or go into a long boring lesson on spiritual essence. Just a brief explanation of what you believe and what your about to do will be sufficient. Be sure to explain that some lite anal play (given by you) is involved, no large or deep penetration just a bit of finger and oral play, make sure he is ok with that and remember cleanliness is an issue here. Also as you will be inserting a finger make sure you have no sharp edges on your nails and use plenty of lube. There are lots of good organic (i.e. eatable) lubes on the market, my personal favorite is Wild Cherry Astroglide.
Second: This is no quickie, it is extremely important that both of you have plenty of time for this, i.e. nothing to do or nowhere you have to be for the rest of the day and or evening.
Third: Hard drugs or excessive amounts of alcohol and this will NOT work!!! However a little marijuana (if your into that) and or a small amount of wine or beer is ok. F.Y.I. Any amount of hard liquor makes semen taste bitter!
Ok enough of the text-book analogies, you want to be relaxed and have fun with this so that it is an enjoyable experience for both of you. The last thing you need is a bunch of systematic step by step instructions. So for the rest of this lesson I will try to just let it flow.
Now it’s time to tune out the world, i.e. work, friends, family, the every day routine that is your life. Block it, shut it out, put it out of your mind for now. Nothing in the outside world exist except the two of you rite here, rite now. Completely engulf yourselves in each others company and tune into each other. Take it slow an hour or even two of foreplay, remember you have all the time in the world to just enjoy each other, touching, caressing, some playful tickling, have fun and get those pheromones flowing. Then gradually take it to kissing, in the case of man to man play I know for some bisexual men kissing is not very desirable. I hope that’s not the case for you here because kissing is a very important part of this. Kissing is very intimate, intimacy is very important here because without it this would just be sex and sex is not what this is about. Necking as some call it, soft gentle kisses with a little tongue around the neck and behind the ears. While deeply inhaling the pheromones that are pouring out of the glands that are there will really heat things up. Don’t be afraid to spend a lot of time kissing, switching back and forth between necking and kissing. Remember soft and slow, gently exploring each others lips and tongue. Keep those hands going too, petting and caressing, but not to much in the genital area yet, you don’t want to rush things there will be plenty of that later.
When it’s time to ramp things up a bit the theme of the next phase is massage (i.e. for him) this is what you give for what you will get and trust me when I say “it’s worth it” all he has to do from this point on is lie there and enjoy. If you’re not all ready there this may be a good time to move to the bed room or somewhere comfortable he can lie down and stretch out. Also it’s time for him to get completely naked, personally I like to slowly do this for him. After all unwrapping the package is half the fun of getting at the present.
With him lying flat on his stomach, legs slightly apart and arms down by his sides start gently massaging his neck and shoulders. The use of lotion or warm herbal oils is good (I like lavender) for this. Moving up the back of his neck just into the hair line and slightly behind the ears apply a little bit of pressure with one finger on each side and rub in a circular motion. This will release the endorphin called Serotonin that will cause him to deeply relax all of his muscles. At this time you want to pay attention to his aura, if you can’t see it (as many people can not) that’s ok, all is not lost you just need to build a good mental image of it in your mind. It will be a pale pinkish color with a white opal-essence swirling around and bright silver sparkles flashing all through it. Now pull your hands down his neck and across his shoulders, then lifting both of your hands move down to his hands. With light pressure move your hands slowly all the way up his arms to the center of his shoulders, what you are doing here is you are scooping up all the silver sparkles in his aura and pushing them into a pile, envision this if you can not actually see it (trust me it’s happening) repeat this several times. Then while gently massaging his back and shoulders place the sparkles on the small of his back and hold them there with your mind. Moving down to his feet start with a good foot massage and slowly work your way up both legs, gathering and pushing a pile of sparkles along the way. Don’t forget that butt, a good massage of the Glutious Maximus is very relaxing and can be very erotic. When you have a nice big pile of silver sparkles there in the small of his back, using both hands shape them into a sphere, this should be about the size of a softball. Now with both hands gently push it through the skin into his back then have him roll over. Now repeat the same pattern on the front side only you want to push them through the belly button. A long sensuous tongue kiss is good about now.
With him still lying on his back move down between his legs and while slowly kissing and licking his inner thighs (both sides) work your way up to his groin. Spreading his legs wide apart and pushing them up (I find putting a pillow under his butt very helpful) circle your tongue around his anus lightly flicking the tip of your tongue over it and even sticking it in a little ways, this is where that intimacy thing comes in. What could possibly be more intimate then tongue kissing someone’s ass-hole? Think about the scale of intimacy here. You are literally telling this person that there is no part of there body that you don’t find desirable and an anus being about the most personal and private part of a persons body, they are telling you that no part of them is off limits to you. Now that is true and complete intimacy! That being said it’s time to bring that well lubed finger into play. Start by gently rubbing and lightly tickling before slowly and gently pushing it in, pushing it in a little at a time and pulling it out gradually working it in a little farther each time. I like to use my middle finger for this but your index will work just fine, witch ever is most comfortable for you. With your finger all the way in you want to reach towards the front and find his prostate and gently massage it. Keep your tongue in play here also, licking around his ass and the perineum area as well. Now remember that big silver ball? With your mind you are going to start drawing it down into the groin area. When you have it there, with your finger still massaging his prostate, start slowly licking your way up over the perineum to his scrotum. Spend some time there sucking and licking his testis and scrotum. Then gradually working your way up the shaft licking up all that pre-cum along the way when you reach the frenum (the area rite under the head) lay your tongue flat on this area and at the same time slowly take his cock into your mouth. Take him in as deep as you can and slowly pull back up with light sucking pressure, as you pull up envision drawing the silver ball up through his cock. Repeating this each time, now is the time to go for it, your goal now is to finally make him cum, at this point this will not take long. When he shoots what should be an enormous load of cum envision that silver ball breaking up with each squirt and the sparkles shooting out with the cum. Exploding into you and around you as you savor and swallow every drop of that warm creamy cum. Then lie back in his arms and bask in the glow, you have just been engulfed in erotic energy! The felling this brings to you should be like a full body orgasm, that has been known to last as long as a half an hour.

[maxtor]

i want to try sucking a cock since i had dentures. i can take them out and not worry about hurting someone with my teeth and can really put some suction on that cock and massage with the gums. lost teeth due to infectionof the bone in my jawbone dure to allergy to Fosamax so i had to get them out to get surgery to stop the infection. all good now except have dentures.....gf like me to take them out when i suck on her pussy and nibble on her titties and suck on them cause no teeth to hurt so am wanting to try a cock cause i know i can really make a man moan with pleasure when i suck on a nice cock......any takers???:bipride:

[dickhand]

I would choose answer D) All of the above . You remember that answer on almost all multiple choice test questions . Really , start out doing what you like done to your cock . Watch and listen to the man you are sucking off . He'll let you know if he is enjoying it . Encourage him to give you instuction . If you're enjoy doing it , it will show in how well you do it .

To Maxtor , I too am toothless due to bad dental genes ? No amount of dental care on my part helped a bit in detering cavities . Finally had 'em all yanked because I was sick of being in pain all the time . Men seem to enjoy the fact they can vigorously face fuck me with abandon . Cum to think about it , I do too !

[ErosUrge]

The best advice I can give you is don't just suck it.
Make long, slow love to it with your mouth and tongue

Here is something a little more advanced that I've been wanting to try

The Transferring of Erotic Energy


In a group of poly bisexuals there are many combinations for exchanging erotic energy, but for this lesson I will only cover receiving from a male giver.
What you will get here (if done properly) is,
1. The physical chemistry, first is the pheromones you will inhale and absorb through touch that will heighten the senses and sexually arouse you.
2. The ejaculation. Semen contains, vitamin C, glutathione, (peptide amino acid) Glycoprotein’s, (cancer fighting agent) magnesium, zinc, potassium, selenium, (cancer fighting agent) sodium, Testosterone, Estrogen, vitamin B12, Arginine, (an amino acid that increases blood flow and blunts pain) Tyrosine, (a chemical that gets converted into adrenaline) Dopamine, (the happy drug) and Beta-endorphins, (a painkiller that lowers anxiety) to name a few.
3. You will completely absorb a large blast of erotic spiritual energy into your aura and your physical body causing a full body orgasm of epic proportion.

shewolf50 posted this and I was glad to see she did. She's absolutely right;..... "don't just suck it, make long, slow love to it with your mouth and tongue"...EXACTLY.
I want to add that there is a certain way/element in which I approach sucking though it isn't as elaborate as she posted with the "Transferring of Erotic Energy"...but it's along the same lines. For me, I don't have to be close to the person I'm giving oral to. It's a matter of tuning in to the moment. I treat such moments with absolute attention and as a result am usually able to pick up on what is needed to turn the person on I'm with. It's a matter of reading them in those moments. Granted there are some guys that turn me off if they try to completely control the moment...it's not about that and in a sense, that's a power play that has nothing to do with the erotic. It may be how they get off, but it tells me that they don't know how to surrender to the moment and just allow the sensations to come through without wanting to be completely in charge. Of course there are moments in which they do take charge and in moments, that's okay. But when they want to control every aspect of how you're sucking, then for me at least, it's no longer enjoyable. I've seen that in too many porn films and generally steer away from watching those. The women don't really seem to be into it as much as they are in just submitting to having their mouths and throats used for whatever the guy wants.....the best of these moments is when you know that the woman or man is really into it and the man receiving is an equal partner in these moments...
As I've said and many others too have said, think of it as though you're on the receiving end and that will make all the difference. After a while, you're no longer thinking about "technique" if you're tuned in to the moment. Everything going on will turn you on as much as the person you're sucking. Often at the moment of orgasm for the person I'm sucking, I can't help but cum at the same time and sometimes have to prevent myself from cumming before they do. This is because I'm jacking off at the same time. But the way to remedy from cumming before them is by using that hand to massage his balls. And sometimes, I don't cum at all as I just focus completely on his pleasure....and if you're in a situation where a 3rd person is there, male or female and they're sucking you; wow!.....lol....but don't leave that third person out if both of you cum first....that would be unfair unless they're not wanting anything else....so many possibilities; indeed.
To get into more description, there are so many ways to go about giving absolute pleasure. If he's standing and you're on your knees sucking, many men love to have you carressing their legs with each of your hands from the calves, shins, to the thighs and sometimes grabbing their thighs firmly in each of your hands as you suck. It's also great to reach around behind grabbing his ass cheeks squeezing firmly and pulling him in to fucking your mouth...or spreading those cheeks....also it's nice to place your hands on his back kneading the flesh as you suck....all these things send incredible sensations throughout his body from the point of contact with your hands meeting up with the sensations of the sucking. As has also been pointed out and if he is really clean, rim him as you jack him off at the same time. You can have him turn around and you can spread his cheeks enjoying him that way from licking to poking your tongue into his hole and only if he is willing to submit to this...you can be sure this is EXTEMELY pleasurable. As you do this, you can be wanking his cock and playing with his balls at the same time. And quite often, this allows him to be relaxed enough for you to insert a finger into him and sometimes at the point of orgasm which has always made my orgasm very intense at that moment and should with him too. And remember, unless he wants to finish this way, have him turn back around and continue sucking again and if he remains turned on from all the rimming and finger fucking to continue sucking and then insert a finger again at the moment of orgasm to send him over the top and usually his preference is for you to stay on his cock with your mouth and swallow every bit of his cum. Or, no rimming or fingering is necessary at all...this depends from man to man, and everyone has their preferences. No doubt that just a very good blow job without all the added anal play can be and is as enjoyable and satisfying too. As his orgasm is done and if he's willing, suck gently and let his erection subside in your mouth. This can be great as you both are in the afterglow of it all and it's nice to feel his cock that was so full of energy and intensity, little by little go soft. It's a turn on because if you've ever had this done to yourself, you will remember it and it makes wanting to please him this way even more. Of course, there are a lot of guys who just want to move on when it's all done. Again, it's all a matter of preferences from person to person; either way, you will know.
One other point I want to make about kissing in the lengthy post (which this has become too) that shewolf50 added earlier is that as was pointed out, lots of us bi men don't get into kissing men. So this isn't something that has to be a part of it to make it a most incredible experience. I'm not against that though it's something I very rarely indulge in as I prefer kissing women. It just depends on who it is and the moment. I believe too that the aura and special energy are going on in these moments as was described in shewolf50's post, and to me, it's that zone of being in the moment. It's so amazing when you're there.....
I went on a lot longer than intended but as I was typing things out, so much was coming through. If you've read all this, I thank you.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

LOl Last time I discribed how to suck a sweet cock, I had men all over the damn place complimenting me and it clogged up my email thingie..lol.
Just treat it like you would want Yours treated, and you'll be fine, Love.
Have fun. ;)
Cat, cock sucker extraordinare...lol

[shewolf50]

LOl Last time I discribed how to suck a sweet cock, I had men all over the damn place complimenting me and it clogged up my email thingie..lol.
Just treat it like you would want Yours treated, and you'll be fine, Love.
Have fun. ;)
Cat, cock sucker extraordinare...lol


Gee Cat I would love to read that, is it in the archives here? lol