Joining or creating a Poly Family in any Place of the Earth

[MaaTini]

I am half German - half Brasilian, living in Thailand for the Moment, but I can live anywhere on this Earth

My personal Dream is to join a poly bisexual Household - or if this not exists yet, to create such a Community

In my Imagination, such a poly bisexual Community should be placed on a Farm - USA or Australia for Example - in an "All-Year" pleasant Weather Location

Sexual Freedom should be the Way to live - no Limits, no Shame, no Borders

I wellcome anybody to disccuss, join or creating this Project

Or get invited to an existing Community, living this ultimate Lifestyle

[Diva667]

I agree this would be a good thing (at least in theory.)

Keeping in mind that not everyone in such a community would be (or have to be) "with" everyone.

I think it could be anyplace you wanted it to. However certain places might be more accepting of glbtq folks. Too, you don't always have to advertise that you are poly I suppose.

[matutum]

I am half German - half Brasilian, living in Thailand for the Moment, but I can live anywhere on this Earth

My personal Dream is to join a poly bisexual Household - or if this not exists yet, to create such a Community

In my Imagination, such a poly bisexual Community should be placed on a Farm - USA or Australia for Example - in an "All-Year" pleasant Weather Location

Sexual Freedom should be the Way to live - no Limits, no Shame, no Borders

I wellcome anybody to disccuss, join or creating this Project

Or get invited to an existing Community, living this ultimate Lifestyle

Ultimate life style??just because u feel a certain way doesn't mean u have to live that way.What about the bi's that believe in Christianty wher this is a major sin?Like u said in your imagination, that can produce many things that have negative concequences.Look up firemanDonn in Az,read his profile,you will see where he places his values..

[genera101.2]

i think it's a wonderful idea. don't listen to the nay-sayers, religious types busy themselves with telling everyone else how to live and they are usually the last to want to see people living together in peace loving each other. sign me up, i want to join!

[Diva667]

Ultimate life style??just because u feel a certain way doesn't mean u have to live that way.What about the bi's that believe in Christianty wher this is a major sin?Like u said in your imagination, that can produce many things that have negative concequences.Look up firemanDonn in Az,read his profile,you will see where he places his values..

No one is forcing you to join in.

Don't like poly , don't be part of a poly family.

:eyeroll:

Let people be who they want to be.

[genera101.2]

very well put diva

[elian]

I tried dating a couple once, I really wanted to be there for both people and it was tough, hard work worrying about making everyone happy.

Reminds me of a T-Shirt I saw once - http://www.bustedtees.com/iheartheartheartpolygamy

[Realist]

I've been in two successful poly relationships, that were excellent, and one that failed. I wouldn't trade anything for the experience.......even the one that failed netted some fantastic experiences. It's not easy to get 3, or more, folks on the same bandwagon, but when it works, it's great..

[DuckiesDarling]

As several have already said, as long as everyone is on the same page in your family there is no reason you can't have your dream. Good luck :)

[mikey3000]

Ultimate life style??just because u feel a certain way doesn't mean u have to live that way.What about the bi's that believe in Christianty wher this is a major sin?Like u said in your imagination, that can produce many things that have negative concequences.Look up firemanDonn in Az,read his profile,you will see where he places his values..

Dude I just read your profile. Don't be too quick to judger others. Not nice for someone who just got here. Behave!

[Falke]

Eh, I am living in one. It's much easier to run a household with 3+ people contributing/working than 2!

[Briar Rose]

I know at least one long term poly family. They've been doing this for 21 years with no end in sight. As friends of mine, I've seen some of the ups and downs they've had over the years. It does require that all the adults be, well, adult. When there's a problem, everybody has to listen and work together. When people's baggage gets in the way, that can be hard because there are more personalities to deal with. There's a lot of compromise involved. But my friends do it and they do it successfully. They have two great kids and a very nice life style because they can rely on each other when there are troubles. It can work, but it's as much work, or more, as any other set of close relationships.

Building any kind of strong family is not work for wimps. :)

[chapear]

I'd sure give it a try. Maybe it will happen one day.

[matutum]

I've been in two successful poly relationships, that were excellent, and one that failed. I wouldn't trade anything for the experience.......even the one that failed netted some fantastic experiences. It's not easy to get 3, or more, folks on the same bandwagon, but when it works, it's great..

why did u leave?

[matutum]

As several have already said, as long as everyone is on the same page in your family there is no reason you can't have your dream. Good luck :)

u said the key word..dream...if it was such a good thing then every one would be doing it..

[DuckiesDarling]

u said the key word..dream...if it was such a good thing then every one would be doing it..

I said dream because that's what the OP referred to his desire as. While I may have a monogamous lifestyle there is nothing wrong with people who want to have a poly lifestyle. As I said, as long as everyone agrees then there shouldn't be a problem. People could even live together in a community as was stated by the OP with not everyone sexually involved with everyone else. As long as everyone involved understands the group dynamics there is no reason it shouldn't work.