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Mrs.F

Apr 30, 2006, 8:43 PM

Well, I can state right now that I will never use it on a woman.. :eek:

I have never used one but am more than willing to try..I guess that means I better get one first..huh??

:female: :tongue: :male:

Mrs.F :)

Flounder1967

Apr 30, 2006, 11:13 PM

I wish my wife was as open you Mrs f.

:flag3:

cumslut4u

Apr 30, 2006, 11:51 PM

my ex girlfriend would use the strap-on as often as possible, cause it served two of us instead of just me. dual pennatration, vagina and anal. cool device and great sex toy. was worth the 90 dollars spent. :flag3:

innaminka

May 1, 2006, 12:56 AM

Straps? Been there done that! -But only with other women. :)

I know that there is a section of the genuine lesbian community who use and love them - they're an integral part of the fem/Butch dynamic.

However, as far as this little Bi-gal goes .......... overrated.
I felt (both as user and usee) that something isn't quite right - the angle of the dangle and the pushin in the cushin didn't quite hit the right spots.
I know some gals love them, and I'll readily tolerate having one used on me, but its not the same.

For me, personally, with another woman, if we're going to do the plastic penetration thing, a dildo can be far more sensuous.

As far as with a guy - haven't explored that scene yet. Probably never will. :eek:

bigregory

May 1, 2006, 1:10 AM

Me and the wife love the strap on we have.
We like toys and the strap on is up near the top of the list.
I dont know why this post was directed at woman,because we both enjoy it..If you get 1 spend the few bucks more for a good 1 :2cents:

jedinudist

May 1, 2006, 9:18 AM

The Mrs. and I have not crossed that brigde yet. I think I seem to recall her having some aversion to the idea. I find it intruiging though. :)

crowznest

May 1, 2006, 11:54 AM

I don't know why I can't get into the mood with my love behind m with a strap? I think it probaly has to do with dominance in our usual bedroom activities....LOL my poor baby is so submissive, then again I've seen her control a woman before! (smiles)

anne27

May 2, 2006, 2:05 PM

I bought a strapon a few months ago and it's still sitting in the box in my toy closet. I dunno, I just haven't been in the mood to torture hubby with it lately ;).
I'm a strap virgin, though my ex g/f kept promising to initiate me but we never got around to it.

krisssi

May 2, 2006, 8:45 PM

I would love to use one, if only I could find a willing partner :female:

bigregory

May 2, 2006, 11:01 PM

if you want to (join) with your man girls this will do it.

DareMe

May 2, 2006, 11:20 PM

The whole strapon thing is about who owns the power. Traditionnally the penetrator (he or she) would seem to hold the power when in a superior position penetrating the subordonate.

I find this power game very arousing.

StrapOns, why not!

DM

CBRFAN

May 3, 2006, 2:54 AM

I've always fantasized about having a girl use a strap-on on me, I've told 2 ex-g/f but then again, imagine, they are now EX-g/f, so I'll just keep on searching for that fantasy... STRAP-ONS EXCELLENT!!!

HwdBiGuy

May 3, 2006, 12:57 PM

Either you are into it or not.
I think a lady with a strap on is very exciting.
I'm lucky that my wife knows how much I like it and is willing to use it on me.
Tip for the guys: start out with a small one, it takes some getting used to.

smokey

May 3, 2006, 5:51 PM

Dog62

May 4, 2006, 12:02 AM

I am not into anal sex, but my g/f LOVES it so I let her use her strap-on on me whenever the mood hits her. It is so exciting to hear her moan and cum simply from using it. And I guess it was/is some sort of payback, because watching her use it on a female friend was one of the hottest things I have ever witnessed.

hairless

May 4, 2006, 12:46 AM

I'm not a woman but I would'nt mind letting my wfe use one on me once in awhile. Sounds like it could be fun.

Gemini523

May 4, 2006, 1:16 AM

Once you get over the shock of seeing your g/f being well hung, they are a lot of fun. She enjoys it, I get needs served, all is good.

Good advice about starting small, by the way.

yaknowthatguy

May 4, 2006, 1:22 AM

we love ours so much that if they didn't exist, we'd probably invent one.

csrakate

May 4, 2006, 2:08 AM

I have been fucked in the ass by both strap on's and dildos and I generally don't praticularly care for them...they just don't feel like the real thing and that counts for so very much. If I am going to have anal sex, give me a nice large real dick anytime...besides dildos and strap on's can't cum.

Smokey,
I feel so very bad for you...because what you fail to acknowledge is the love and feeling that goes along with the use of a a strap on or a dildo....It's not just the act of fucking someone's ass. Between two loving and consensual adults, it can be a very beautiful thing! But for the rest of you, if you feel as Smokey does...do yourself and your partner a favor...don't allow them to do it...how humiliating could that possibly be???

And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!

Hugs,
Kate

onewhocares

May 4, 2006, 3:35 AM

Kate,

It is not often that I am at a loss for words, but I have nothing to add.

WELL DONE !!

Belle

sylviafemme

May 4, 2006, 3:43 AM

I've had some strapons for a couple of years now? Have used them on both women and men but mostly women. It's a thing you have to be in the mood for. When i'm in a naughty mood with my partners they can sure be fun;

smokey

May 4, 2006, 12:54 PM

There is nothing for you to feel sorry for me over Kate, I don't care for the feel of a strap on or dildo in my ass, it just doesn't feel real to me. If I want to get fucked in the ass then I want it by done by the real thing, in short another man...its not just the penis its the whole experince. The same is true with a woman...I want a woman, not a man pretending to be. I know you can express love and caring all sorts of ways but that doesn't change the fact we all have preferences, nor does that mean because something can be done lovingly, that we are obliged to practice it.

mistymockingbird

May 4, 2006, 2:35 PM

Well I haven't used on yet, but the plans have been made. I have a very special guy in my life that loves anal play. He wants me to use one on him next time we see each other and I can't wait. I agree with Kate, in this situation, its not about just a fuck, its about a shared experience. There's something different about being the one who is penetrated. Without the strap on, he wouldn't be able to feel like he is letting me take him. And that's something we both want. The idea of me penetrating him is hot as hell. Fortunately we are both able to talk about it since it will be a first for both of us. And laugh about it too, cause no one's a porn star all the time. lol

curious married m

May 5, 2006, 9:45 AM

And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!

Hugs,
Kate

I agree Kate, CMM

P.S. I have had both and the security of not wondering if your going to get Aids after the condom slipped is a big plus for strap-ons.

Lisa (va)

May 5, 2006, 10:42 AM

Strap on, strap off. Like anything else, folks preferences should prevail. Have I used one during sex? Yes, with women on rare occasions. Do I enjoy them? Not so much. Would I considerusing again? To please my partner, yes. But, be that as it be, I prefer a 'real' man over dildos / strapons, and likewise when with a woman I like the feel of being with a woman as two women, not a woman with a penis. But to each his / her own, as someone said it's not the act itself, it's the feelings behiond the act.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

HwdBiGuy

May 6, 2006, 9:44 AM

Here is a funny anecdote about the first time I went to the 'toy' store to buy a strap-on.

I had talked it over with my wife and she agreed to try it with me. So, I went to the adult store to buy one but couldn't find any so I had to ask the clerk who proceeded to show me where they were. Since I had no experience I told her it was for my wife and I so I asked her opinion on which ones were better. She was not embarrased although I was and she picked one out and showed it to me. She recommended it because it went over your penis and stuck to your groin with a water soluable adhesive, and she assured me that worked very well.

Then I told her it wasn't for me to use on my wife, it was for my wife to use on me. She said, 'Aaaahhhhhhh, whoopsee.'

Sparks

May 6, 2006, 11:47 AM

It is about the passion of two people sharing. Although I prefer the real thing, I'm very open to a woman using a strapon with me.

Tx46M

May 6, 2006, 11:57 AM

Kate,

It is not often that I am at a loss for words, but I have nothing to add.

WELL DONE !!

Belle

I concur!!
:) :2cents:

trip1

May 6, 2006, 12:04 PM

In my way of thinking. If I can have anal with my partener I think it only right for her to use a strap-on and allow me the feelling of what it's like for her. The other part is that it feels so good having her do me and feel breasts on my back as well as her reaching around and getting me off with her hand Emmm Yes!

hydropop

May 7, 2006, 9:38 AM

in the interest of strapons this would be very interisting....................................... ....http://www.feeldoe.com/page2.html

zanybrainy

May 17, 2006, 8:57 AM

The wife and I use the feeldoe. She is still working on holding it. But with me on top it is the greatest.

;)

billy_campbell

May 17, 2006, 7:07 PM

Smokey,
I feel so very bad for you...because what you fail to acknowledge is the love and feeling that goes along with the use of a a strap on or a dildo....It's not just the act of fucking someone's ass. Between two loving and consensual adults, it can be a very beautiful thing! But for the rest of you, if you feel as Smokey does...do yourself and your partner a favor...don't allow them to do it...how humiliating could that possibly be???

And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!

Hugs,
Kate

I too agree with Kate.

Why is that most stories, pictures, and videos about a woman using a strapon on a man are of the FEMDOM manner. I like a woman to make love to me in a very loving and gentle manner with a strapon just like I do to her. I don't care for the FEMDOM where the woman punishes the man with the strapon.

titeabs

May 18, 2006, 1:22 AM

To each his / her own. The Femdom way can be found to be very exciting. VERY, VERY, EXCITING......... :eek:

biandu

May 18, 2006, 10:46 PM

I like them.

If my partner is into it.. male or female.. i think it is awesome. It is such a cool experience to share with a guy especially... having him look at you while you're penetrating him.. and he's feeling something new.. and reaching another level of his sexuality and yours... wonderful.. intimate moment.

with a woman is fun too.. but truth be told.. women for the most part are used to being penetrated.. and well.. it's fun.. and erotic and lovely..and damn satisfying...

but I enjoy using my strap on, [and other toys] with my male partners a bit more i must admit..., i just feel like I'm sharing more than just sex with him.. I feel as if we are learning about each other.. and there is a shared vulnerability, that is present and increases the emotional bonding, for me anyway.

bigregory

May 18, 2006, 11:19 PM

We have the most amasing stap on ever invented.
Its made by Doc Johnson called the "male strap-on.
It has a nice 6 inch rubber cock and a 4 inch butt plug.
under the cock is a hole for the real penis to hang out,with a tight clip that acts as a cock ring.The penis hole when worn bi a girl gives access to her whole pussy if you open the built in cock ring thing.Best part is if you dont want the butt plugg it comes off or the dick same thing.
its a vaculock system too so if you want a diffrent dick or plug just go to the sex store and bi a diffrent one, they just snap it in.nice leather too. :tong:We both love it..

moonlitwish

May 19, 2006, 7:58 PM

Never used one...My gf has on her ex. She wasn't too excited about the idea. But suddenly she got the urge to fuck me. Hmmm. So off we went to buy a new one (her grandmother found hers and threw it away after she moved out) and didn't see anything we liked but the double headed dildo looked like fun so we got that instead. Stuck it up in me and bent it up between my legs and I swear we couldn't stop laughing long enuf to have sex. I'm not sure if we ever find a strap we both like that we'll actually be able to use it. We're both very much girls who enjoy girls as girls and can't quite adjust to girls having penises. Sounds like fun if the day ever comes. I'm always open to something new... :tong:

hunkpapa

May 20, 2006, 7:35 PM

I'd love a woman to take me with a strap-on one day

littlerayofsunshine

May 20, 2006, 10:07 PM

I use one regularly on my husband and would be more than willing to try using one with a girl. I enjoy it alot.

billy_campbell

Jun 21, 2006, 4:44 PM

Drew posted this link on another thread which sort of fits here too:

http://www.goodiebag.tv/video/do_you_take_it.htm

IndyBiFun

Jun 21, 2006, 6:06 PM

Mmmmm......I'd love it if my wife would strap one on. I can only wish.

wildangel

Jun 21, 2006, 8:39 PM

So let's see. The strap-on? I own one. My husband is intrigued by it. He likes having things in his posterior. I just can't seem to get past the idea of the wife fucking the man, though I'm sure he would make sure it was an everyday occurence if I ever did. ;)

Never used one...My gf has on her ex. She wasn't too excited about the idea. But suddenly she got the urge to fuck me. Hmmm. So off we went to buy a new one (her grandmother found hers and threw it away after she moved out) and didn't see anything we liked but the double headed dildo looked like fun so we got that instead. Stuck it up in me and bent it up between my legs and I swear we couldn't stop laughing long enuf to have sex. I'm not sure if we ever find a strap we both like that we'll actually be able to use it. We're both very much girls who enjoy girls as girls and can't quite adjust to girls having penises. Sounds like fun if the day ever comes. I'm always open to something new... :tong:

But I didn't say it had never been used. My current girlfriend and I have both tried to use it on each other. We fell victim to the same circumstance as Moonlit and her girl. :bigrin:

bigulfcpl

Jun 21, 2006, 8:50 PM

Chrissy and I just enjoyed some strap on sex, and it is always awesome! We have a Feeldoe now, and it is great to hear her get off, her orgasms are intense, and mine, well, I get a double orgasm, anal and the old fashioned one!

We don't have pics of the Feeldoe yet, but, here is a couple of pics of us using the regular purple monster!

:tongue:

hotbiwoman@yahoo.com

Jun 22, 2006, 3:19 AM

:tongue: I think strap-ons can be very sensual for both females and males but more for females. I think it is a quite a turn on and stimulating too. Just have fun with an open mind.

Rocker

Jun 23, 2006, 10:27 AM

I'd love my wife to do me with a strapon but after discussing it she's just not dominant enough in our relationship to feel comfortable wearing one. Shame really because I can't think of a sexier image than a woman in a black bodystocking, knee length leather boots and a strapon! :tong:

She has used a vibrator on my bum while I wank or she sucks me and that blows my mind but again she's not very comfortable with it.

Rocker

NightHawk

Jun 23, 2006, 6:02 PM

My wife prefers to use one on a man. She does heavenly things with a dildoe or on rarer occasions with a strap-on. :male:

lisavp

Jun 23, 2006, 6:20 PM

I love strap on when someone do me with a strap on it drive me crazy ;)
lisa

billy_campbell

Jun 28, 2006, 3:11 PM

david_artoro

Aug 22, 2006, 1:19 PM

It is hard to find in our middle eastern society, people that like to try new things, and of course we dont have those lovely shops where we can buy strapons or toys!!!!

im really into changing places with a girl, being in her role, and her being in my role, with a feeling of hr taking some revenge on me:P

my ex-G/F used to finger my ass .... and i cant find any that even interested in touching my ass:(

instead, i have my webcam, and look for ladies that like watching me fucking my ass hole infront of them, and letting them tell me what to do, till the day i find my naughty girl:)

Cpl4BiCocks

Aug 23, 2006, 5:32 AM

My wife is making a new one right now..She makes them better than you can buy using shorts and this one is 8 1/2",thick and life-like.I love to be Fucked by her..Want to try the real thing while she watches,or suck a hard cock while she fucks me,or.....there are so many possibilities!!!Any Ideas??Write Us

Greywolf269

Aug 23, 2006, 10:01 PM

I love it when my wife uses her strap-on on me, hers is 9 inches long and 2 1/2 inches round, I love it when she goes deep inside me with it! It is the greatest feeling, now if only I could find a guy, so I could feel the difference...sigh.

innaminka

Aug 23, 2006, 11:06 PM

Stuck it up in me and bent it up between my legs and I swear we couldn't stop laughing long enuf to have sex. I'm not sure if we ever find a strap we both like that we'll actually be able to use it. We're both very much girls who enjoy girls as girls and can't quite adjust to girls having penises. Sounds like fun if the day ever comes. I'm always open to something new... :tong:

What a wonderfully refreshing outlook. I really believe laughter is the best aphrodisiac.

And girls, it doesn't matter as long as you are having fun.

Tynary

Aug 26, 2006, 12:36 PM

um I've um never used a stap on. I would love a girl to use one on me. I know I would feel self concious wearing one myself at first but I'm sure I would get use to it. I love vibrators and dildos though. They rock. Don't think sex with the same gender is as good without that.
Dotell me do stapons feel the same as vibrators or dildos?

(I feelreally embarrassed asking that)

etncple

Aug 26, 2006, 12:49 PM

Smokey,
I feel so very bad for you...because what you fail to acknowledge is the love and feeling that goes along with the use of a a strap on or a dildo....It's not just the act of fucking someone's ass. Between two loving and consensual adults, it can be a very beautiful thing! But for the rest of you, if you feel as Smokey does...do yourself and your partner a favor...don't allow them to do it...how humiliating could that possibly be???

And to those that are considering it...please..don't shove a strap on in your lover's face and say..."here...mind using this?"....talk about it as a couple...make plans to use it...and together learn to experience it for what it can be....a wonderful and very loving experience!

Hugs,
Kate

I agree, its one of the most sensual things we have done, mainly because it was a "shared" experience.
J

vertroue

Aug 30, 2006, 6:37 AM

Wonderful, wonderful stuff....when i could get it.

My wife is now my exwife and although she preferred just using a dildo or vibrator on me (because strap-ons werent comfy to her), I still have non femdom fantasies of having a woman treat me like she were the jock and I was the naive woman.... :bigrin:

But a real cock is pretty yummy too! ;)

jazzpoet

Aug 30, 2006, 9:41 AM

haven't had the pleasure yet by i'm hoping to find an open minded woman. your description inspires me, trip.

ytownohm

Aug 30, 2006, 12:30 PM

I wish my wife was as open you Mrs f.

:flag3:

mine too !!

jamie63

Aug 30, 2006, 1:48 PM

:tong: ,

I've only had the pleasure of my ex wife fingering me in the ass, and that's about it! Would love to meet a lady or couple for some hot toy fun - but will probably grow old disgracefully still wishing!

jamie

goldylocks79

Aug 31, 2006, 10:17 AM

Well I have one, I am saving its use for a very special woman whos visiting in December. I think using it is going to make me cum out of my head!!!
And to all of those who enjoy it- long live the strap-on!! It is a sure way especially woman can make love to each other on a different level- I feel it brings an extra dimension to the bond you gain through love making.

Everyone should be able to express themselves and I see strap-ons as just an extention of the body in which you have the means to do this. I did get asked to use it on a guy before, but I actually couldnt be bothered to get the train at the time!! Sure I will get the opportunity soon though.

Love to all xxx :flag3:

Slurpie

Sep 4, 2006, 10:39 AM

We have a feeldoe and although we only use it occasionally we love it. IT is about the relationship though. The anal feels nice but the relationship is the thing.

Philbert

Sep 4, 2006, 3:01 PM

I've had a dildo used on my by me ex gf, it felt wonderful, i can't compare it to the real thing but i'm hoping to try that soon. guess i just need to meet the right guy.

Seeker72

Sep 4, 2006, 4:45 PM

I've had a dildo used on my by me ex gf, it felt wonderful, i can't compare it to the real thing but i'm hoping to try that soon. guess i just need to meet the right guy.

You took the words right out of my mouth.

kickasstrinity2

Sep 5, 2006, 9:32 PM

Mmmmm......I'd love it if my wife would strap one on. I can only wish.
Hey Indy....I'd slip my feeldo into you baby! :tong: :bigrin: ;)

nick3635

Sep 6, 2006, 9:43 PM

My ex-wife's fantasy was to do me with a strap on .. I finally agreed to it but it never happened .... but I allways fantasized about it even though never been done that way by a guy or a woman .. but the thought of her doing that drove me nuts and with the right person would let a woman do it :-)

mtenn

Sep 7, 2006, 1:30 AM

i think it would be wonderful to change roles with a woman, me on the bottom, my legs spread on her shoulders, and her entering me.

tony455

Sep 7, 2006, 8:05 AM

I would luv to be done by a woman with a strapon

wtp09

Sep 9, 2006, 3:55 AM

well... i love the strap on thing. i wonder if my gurl loves it as much as i do....

as far as the power issue. i am definately willing to give it up to her. we trust each other that way...

she has the strap-on with the vaginal and anal attachments. she loves getting off a i am getting off. i just wish i was sucking on a cock while i can feel her femine thrusts behind me in pounding exstacy...

lol i am such a glutten for a pounding lol
;) ;) ;) :bipride: :bipride: :flag4: :bigrin:

ztsepesh

Sep 9, 2006, 6:30 AM

One of my greatest fantasies in fucking a man with a strap-on. I would love to fuck a woman with one also, but the idea of fucking a man with a strap-on is completely taboo, which turns me on even more.

I personally think that women need to have that penetration as well. The thing with women is that I do not want the woman I am with to feel like she is with a man, so I prefer not to use a strap-on, but prefer a vibrator.

S :flag1: :bipride:

Sparky

Sep 9, 2006, 11:26 AM

My wife and I just got a Feeldoe. When I mentioned it to her she was somewhat interested in the idea, but I figured that it would be more a case of her accomodating me. Boy was I wrong! She really likes it, far more than the vac-u-loc type we've used, which I thought was pretty good.

-Sparky

stroker

Sep 9, 2006, 7:36 PM

[QUOTE=ztsepesh]One of my greatest fantasies in fucking a man with a strap-on. I would love to fuck a woman with one also, but the idea of fucking a man with a strap-on is completely taboo, which turns me on even more.

its a shame you're so far away !!!

titeabs

Sep 11, 2006, 1:02 AM

[
B]
One of my greatest fantasies in fucking a man with a strap-on. I would love to fuck a woman with one also, but the idea of fucking a man with a strap-on is completely taboo, which turns me on even more.[/B]

I personally think that women need to have that penetration as well. The thing with women is that I do not want the woman I am with to feel like she is with a man, so I prefer not to use a strap-on, but prefer a vibrator.

S :flag1: :bipride:

PLEASE CALL ME WHEN YOU'RE IN MICHIGAN....PLEASE!!!

bestofyou

Sep 11, 2006, 8:11 AM

Personally i would pre-fer to use them on a chick!! :bigrin:

sth419

Jun 6, 2012, 8:43 AM

My wife has one and we find it very rewarding for both of us

othercat

Jun 8, 2012, 1:54 AM

I have a strapon. just need a girl to use it on me. (hint hint)

bib4u

Jun 8, 2012, 2:47 PM

Check out "Lisa Berlin" strapon queen! You simply won't believe your eyes!

Agoofball

Jun 9, 2012, 1:56 AM

Lisa Berlin is an epic GODDESS! I would love to find a woman like her.... from feminine fucking to at times all out Domination "take my ass" sex!!

peanut804

Jun 9, 2012, 2:39 AM

"As far as with a guy - haven't explored that scene yet. Probably never will."
Probably never will????? why not?

indenver_indenver

Jun 10, 2012, 7:08 AM

I'm strictly and oral bi male. When my wife uses her lifelike dildo on me she has me kneel to suck her off and her persona changes. She has me kneel in front of a floorlength mirror so I can watch her fuck me in the mouth, she whips my face with "her cock," she likes to have me feel her calves flex as she thrusts her cock into my mouth, and she loves to see how far into my mouth she can shove it. She really turns me on. Then when I am helplessly hot, she puts the dildo into her pussy and has me lick her pussy where the cock enters her until she has an earthquake of a climax - in fact three of them.