Date-a-palooza 2011...

[TaylorMade]

I don't know if this has happened to anyone else, but ... over the next 48 hours I will have three dates with three different men. It's a first for me, admittedly an ego boost b/c I didn't ask THEM out, they asked ME out. So, here's the rundown.

----------Today (Thursday)

Candidate 1: 41, Canadian... from what I can tell, between jobs. I was a little sexually aggressive initially, then played it down. Not entirely physically attractive, but very nice. Will be meeting him for drinks at a diner. Prolly won't actually drink, just listen to what he has to say.

Candidate 2: 43, from Chicago . A yacht outfitter. He's a second date. We had sparks from day one. He backed off to pursue some other bird, and now he's back. I'm giving him a second chance due to the chemistry making me do it. Dinner and a Movie (The Adjustment Bureau). Extra points if I actually SEE the movie. May ask him if he's free Sat Night/Sunday morning for the last week of the RenFaire. Probably will give it up at that point. I am not sure about long term with him. He seems comfortable with the idea, but the rocky pause and restart makes me want to hold back a bit.

------------ Tomorrow (Friday)

Candidate 3: 35, from LA. . . personal trainer. He's the one whose sexuality I can't quite pin down. He is tagged as straight but his personal desire to transcend normal gender boundaries (due to feeling like he does not conform to normal male likes and dislikes) sets off my not straight instincts. I like his Eastern approach to life and enthusiasm. Dinner at his place. I may bring a bottle of wine or flowers. Leaning more toward flowers. If #2 isn't free for Sunday, will ask him. Prolly won't give it up to him unless chemistry overrules. He seems unjaded and possibly willing to think long term with the right person. I mostly want to pick his brain and see what makes him tick.


------------So...now you know, that I'll be busy. Any suggestions? Questions to ask? Smart alecky things to say? What to wear?? :bigrin:

Yes, there will be after action reports and updates. :p

*Taylor*

[softfruit]

Blimey, go you! Just so long as they don't think they're already into any kind of exclusive turf... and you can make your excuses politely in time to get from one to the next!

[Katja]

When in my teens I often dated numerous men in quick succession. It did get me into some trouble more than once over the evening when I got mixed up, met my date, and called him by the wrong name. Once I even forgot the name of the guy, only that I was to meet him, what time and where. It was a very tense evening because I was so stressed out about it.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Whoo Hoo Taylor! You GO Girlfriend! If the mood strikes you, pounce on all Three of them..lol Just have fun and play safe at all costs.
Muah
Cat

[darkeyes]

*hands ova queen tart crown 2 Taylor* Enjoy Taylor me luffly..;)

[TaylorMade]

4:21 EST. I'm waiting outside the diner. My pastor already saw me, I told him I was waiting for a friend. He arrives. Meh is my first impression. That, and creepy, beady little eyes. Ew. There's no natural charisma there. But I'm nice, and play the great date to the hilt We talk about work, our jobs and other mundane topics. It's obvious he hasn't met too many people off the site, my acceptance a rare treat. Mercifully, it ends. I pop into work to pick up my check and to use their bathroom to change into my other outfit for the other date.

7:15 EST. I run by Victoria's Secret to pick up a pair of free panties. They can't find a bag small enough, and I am afraid I'll miss meeting him. I get to the theatre and I shouldn't have worried. One of my former co-workers sees me, we make small talk. I scan around for him- he's 6'5", pretty thin and not too hard to miss. He finally shows up a couple minutes late. We end up getting tickets for the later show... we can't possibly eat and show him around in an hour. I take him by Lush...some of the stuff interests him, but I think he's more looking at the fact that my eyes light up when talking about all the stuff. Can't help it. We walk around some more and end up right across from the theatre at a sushi place. I get the JB roll, and a Jack and Coke. He gets iced tea and tempura and steak. I slip my foot out of my shoe and run my toes up the back of his leg. He smiles...that knowing smile, an almost cheshire cat grin-So you want me, you'd better believe I want you too, missy. To take his mind off of my tease, we talk about deeper things- - religion, life philosophy and what we did in college versus what we wanted to do. The meal ends quicker than I thought it would - -a little past 9, so we sit on the benches for an hour. We don't even talk. We just hold hands , occasionally looking up to kiss. I whisper in his ear, " You know, I had an orgasm last night with your name on it."

He responds, "I had an orgasm this morning with your name on it." He lets it digest , then says out loud, "I wish there weren't so many people out here."

"Why?"

He whispers again,"Because I would take you right here and now on this bench." My mind believes him and my body responds. I rarely have such lusty chemistry outside a computer screen or instant message. But here it is. Articulate, devilish, witty, and oh so delicious.

I take it a step further inside the theatre, in the dark. Laying across him with the arm rest between us up, I realize he IS proportional to his height. From my middle finger to my wrist - - could I REALLY take all this inside me when the time comes? I think about it... I lean up to kiss him. I ask him if he's familiar with what I'm about to do. He says he is a little bit.

I unbuckle his belt, unbutton and unzip his jeans. I reach inside his boxers. Yes... it IS as big as I think it is...I stroke and I hear him breathe in sharply.I get a hand on it and I can feel a little drop of pre cum and another. I taste each on my fingers, then bend down to suck. I hear him beathe in and exhale slowly, raggedly. I finally stop. He kisses me. I put everything back in place, just in time for the movie.

BTW, The Adjustment Bureau is VERY good. I recommend it highly. :D

Tomorrow is my third date... so far, so good. :p

*Taylor*

[Orlando157]

Taylor I was sitting in the row behind you - I didn't recognize the back of your head or I would have said hello ----- :three:

[Darkside2009]

4:21 EST.
I unbuckle his belt, unbutton and unzip his jeans. I reach inside his boxers. Yes... it IS as big as I think it is...I stroke and I hear him breathe in sharply.I get a hand on it and I can feel a little drop of pre cum and another. I taste each on my fingers, then bend down to suck. I hear him beathe in and exhale slowly, raggedly. I finally stop. He kisses me. I put everything back in place, just in time for the movie.
*Taylor*


And all this before the lights dimmed in the theatre.:rolleyes: I'll bet he was praying for more adverts and trailers. I hope the rest of the audience enjoyed the floor-show, makes a change from the rustling of sweet wrappers and the slurping of drinks.

[TaylorMade]

Are you into being fisted?

No.


Taylor I was sitting in the row behind you - I didn't recognize the back of your head or I would have said hello ----- :three:

Impossible... we sat in the VERRRY back row of Stadium seating. :p


And all this before the lights dimmed in the theatre.:rolleyes: I'll bet he was praying for more adverts and trailers. I hope the rest of the audience enjoyed the floor-show, makes a change from the rustling of sweet wrappers and the slurping of drinks.


The lights were dim by then. I'd NEVER have done something like this in a place like this with the possibility of fully being seen.


And now... the conclusion of "Date-a-palooza 2011"

Friday, 9:30, EST. I stand in front of a large house in Boca Raton. It's dark, but I ring the bell. The door is green in that faux copperish/patina deal. Nice. The doorbell rings back.

"Hey, it's you... i'll be out, give me a second...."

The large door swings open. It's him. I give him a hug and am led through a roman style courtyard, another set of doors, and a lovely living room, all sculpture and never-read books. Through there to the kitchen where dinner's set out. It's lovely...steak and steamed veggies. They taste amazing. We talk some more.

Having worked with celebrities, he sheds a new light on them -- it actually kind of sucks. You're no longer really a public person, you become kind of common property.

With dinner over, he brings out a jar. "This is moonshine. I got it while working in North Carolina. You sip it, don't drink it. " He's right. It's VERY powerful stuff. We start talking about ourselves instead. My dancing and adult retail. His modeling career. Then he says something interesting.

"It's funny. Like I said on the phone, I really wish there was another gender because I don't feel like I identify with guys."

"What do you mean?"

We'd talked around this issue, this out of phase part of his personality, till he said it. "I'd call myself bisexual, but I actually am not sexually interested in men. I appreciate their looks, but sex with a man just isn't for me."

That's just something new I'd never encountered. Someone who is bi in theory and is happy just with that. Not interested in poking further just because. No religion is keeping him back, neither the bonds of marriage or reputation. Just simply not interested.

So... there it is. I admit I have chosen one above all others... :p

But it was fun, though.


*Taylor*

[Bicuriousity]

Enjoyed your reports, please post more!

I csn kind of see where he was going with the bisexual but not wanting to sleep with guys thing.

I realize that i am attracted to amfar lower percentage of men than women, but i am definitely bisexual