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jeffrey495
Mar 3, 2011, 11:46 AM
I am married bi-asian male. I am into mature MWM in their 50's. I am having hard time finding someone who is willing to be a teacher/mentor. I am into mutual oral, nipple play. Never tried anal but willing to try it for the right person. I want to find that one person who can host (I know its hard) and teach me about how to be a good bottom. BTW, I am in DCMetro area.

bityme
Mar 3, 2011, 9:14 PM
I am married bi-asian male. I am into mature MWM in their 50's. I am having hard time finding someone who is willing to be a teacher/mentor. I am into mutual oral, nipple play. Never tried anal but willing to try it for the right person. I want to find that one person who can host (I know its hard) and teach me about how to be a good bottom. BTW, I am in DCMetro area.

There should be all sorts of U.S Senators or Representatives that would respond.

Sorry Jeffrey, I just couldn't pass that one up.

You might try SilverDaddies dot com. It seems to be a fairly good site for men wanting to hook up. Hope it works for you.

Pappy

_Joe_
Mar 3, 2011, 11:08 PM
I have the belief it's hard to find a compatible person no matter your desires. I'm sure we all know someone who is looking for someone; gay, straight, bi, young, old, etc.

Was thinking this tonight while busting my butt on a treadmill feeling lonely like I do in cycles.

Of course, the ability to hook up even on a friend level is tougher when you are married. Add kids, and it's worse. Add a job and a yard to mow, hell. You ain't got time to get out it seems.

So you take the time for yourself. Get involved in some activity or sport, or club, or whatnot. Then you gotta wade through all the others that aren't compatible right off. Then you realize damnit, everyone hides their sexuality in some sense and our gaydar sucks, why can't they wear it on a shirt or something. Then you realize you probably wouldn't do it yourself.

So then you rejoice when you realize in this day and age, we got internet. Now we can confirm we're not the only ones alone and looking around for simple companionship, and sometimes more.

Aint technology great...

Dont mind my rambles. After a long workout my mind leaves this corpeal body, but the fingers still type.