Bisexual men and bath houses

[Wolf_Sr]

Chatting to various bi-married men I found that many of them (at least those who live in a big city) consider gay bath houses a very convenient way to meet and have sex with other men and some of these houses are 24/7 so that time availbility is also convenient (although some days and hours seems to be more funny than others). Some of these married bi-sexuals would even travel from the small towns they live to come to the big city and enjoy. I have never been in one but after chatting with these guys I can't say that I am not curious. Did you experimented on this too? What is your opinion?
Hugs
Wolf

[Bicuriousity]

I have never gone and while id be curious to be a voyeur in such a place id be way too scared to have sex in one. I think the risks are way too high at such a place.

[NakedInSeattle]

The risks are no higher than any other way to meet and/or play. There's a lot of mairried bi guys out there and this is a VERY convenient way to have fun. Some of the gay guys like to play with us "switch-hitters," too.

[bityme]

Chatting to various bi-married men I found that many of them (at least those who live in a big city) consider gay bath houses a very convenient way to meet and have sex with other men and some of these houses are 24/7 so that time availbility is also convenient (although some days and hours seems to be more funny than others). Some of these married bi-sexuals would even travel from the small towns they live to come to the big city and enjoy. I have never been in one but after chatting with these guys I can't say that I am not curious. Did you experimented on this too? What is your opinion?
Hugs
Wolf

Bath houses are certainly the most convenient way to meet and have sex with other men and the 24/7 operating hours give you greater flexibility. Most in my area (southern California) also have certain times for different groups of men; i.e., bears, asians, twinks, etc. This give you the ability to go during a particular time when the group you are most interested in is likely to be there. It makes it, easily, the fastest method of finding someone you are likely to be attracted to physically. If you are looking for romance, a bath house is probably not very high on the list of locations to find "your true love" considering the fact that the primary motivation for going there is to find a physical, sexual experience.

When you go to a bath house in my area, the rental of a locker or a room is usually for anywhere from 6 to 8 hours. If you take advantage of all your allotted time, you have ample opportunity to have a conversation with someone prior to engaging in physical activity. If you act intelligently, you can help minimize the risk by discussing STD and HIV status before getting involved. Clubs are required by law here to prohibit barebacking and, in fact, they encourage safe sex. Some even provide counseling and free STD/HIV testing. Of course, it is impossible to police what goes on inside a locked room. Whether you go to a bath house, hookup over the internet, or meet someone through a social connection, you are really the one who determines the risk you are exposed to.

If all you are looking for is getting laid, a bath house is probably the quickest, easiest way to accomplish that goal. If you desire a range of sexual practices and a variety of partners, it's also usually a one-stop-shopping place.

Hopefully, if you take advantage of such a place, you will use the head on your shoulders and keep your other head safe.

Pappy

[Arthas]

We don't have bath houses (not that I know of), but in city where I am, there's a sauna where everyone can go. Some people just go for health, some go for a little action. Everything is discrete, you can rent "normal" rooms, just bed there and special rooms who have slings and transparent mirrors. Some places are visible (have mirrors and usually someone behind them), some private.

It's an excelent place to hook up with someone and I'll definatelly go there at least once a month. Last week I had an amazing experience with some athletic guy...:cool:

[jackbirdjay]

Never been to one. Been to plenty of gyms that had saunas, steam, whirlpools. Had a few encounters in saunas. It's a little risky some one might come in. One time I was the only one in the sauna a guy walked in sat right next to me. His thighs were touching my thighs. When after a while he seen I wasn't moving he peeled back his towel showing me his cock. He was shaved and it looked hot. He then pointed at it. I knew what he wanted. I reached over started stroking his till he was hard. I then went down on him sucking him till he exploded in my mouth. I sat u he covered up said thanks and left. Just as he was leaving another guy walked in. I just missed getting caught.

[mboobs]

we used to have two bath houses in perth western australia, now there is only one. they are a great place for casual sex and the ones here are safe. i used to worry about meeting someone i knew when i was younger, it took me quite a while to realise that they would be there for the same reason.
if you have never been, try it some time. if you are open minded you will enjoy the experience.

[Biboz49]

Chatting to various bi-married men I found that many of them (at least those who live in a big city) consider gay bath houses a very convenient way to meet and have sex with other men and some of these houses are 24/7 so that time availbility is also convenient (although some days and hours seems to be more funny than others). Some of these married bi-sexuals would even travel from the small towns they live to come to the big city and enjoy. I have never been in one but after chatting with these guys I can't say that I am not curious. Did you experimented on this too? What is your opinion?
Hugs
Wolf
I've been very curious as well. The thing that's holding me back is I'm not one for sex with someone I don't know. I like to get at least a small connection to get a feeling for the guy before having fun. Now if I had a fwb who I could go with I'd love to check one out.

[69luvr]

I have had wonderful experiences at bath houses. I went to one in california for the first time several years gao. I was tentative when I first went in. Saw full nudity at its finest and was excited.:male::bigrin: The I got more comfortable and was approached by a nice guy. We went to his cubicle and it was grand!


The next time was in florida. It was terrific. Pool side was a gas! the steam room was hot as can be! enjoyed it and was comfortable as can be.:bipride:

[69luvr]

Never been to one. Been to plenty of gyms that had saunas, steam, whirlpools. Had a few encounters in saunas. It's a little risky some one might come in. One time I was the only one in the sauna a guy walked in sat right next to me. His thighs were touching my thighs. When after a while he seen I wasn't moving he peeled back his towel showing me his cock. He was shaved and it looked hot. He then pointed at it. I knew what he wanted. I reached over started stroking his till he was hard. I then went down on him sucking him till he exploded in my mouth. I sat u he covered up said thanks and left. Just as he was leaving another guy walked in. I just missed getting caught.


Did you enjoy him in your mouth? did you swallow? You are leaving us wondering!

[NotLostJustWandering]

We've had a long-running thread on this topic. There are some very interesting posts.

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2032&highlight=bathhouse

[FinkDoodle]

No thanks . . that's a little too desperate for me . .


And as to it not being any more risky than any other meeting places . . I guess that really depends on where you prefer to meet people.

Personally I'm not quite so reckless with my health . . but, hey, whatever works for you . .

[tvoyemat]

Just another facet of the jewel that is sexuality. Not for everyone, but can be a mind blowing experience. It's something I've done occasionally, although not for many years, but a part of me really gets off on sex with total strangers.

[pabicur27]

I'm curious about going, fantasize about what would happen.

[Young pussy and dope]

I have been to bath houses they are pretty boring for the most part.

[Bisexual Explorer]

I loved to go to bath houses in NYC and a other big cities a long time ago. Had my first MM experience in a NYC bath house (oral, swallowed, great). Being watched and watching others made the experience even more exciting. The only time I found them boring was when there were only a few guys there. As far as I know, NYC has closed them all down. I would go if I had the opportunity.
Bisexual Explorer

[BareProf]

Years ago I visited one in Manhattan, very clean with closet-sized rooms for quickies, open rooms with mattresses and two TV rooms. Oh, there was a shower and a steam room too. Brazenly I draped the towel I'd been issued around my neck while the rest there kept their around their necks. Most gys walked around waiting for contact. I was nervous but wanted to show my nice cock. One of the TV rooms showed gay flicks. There was a set of bleachers facing the wall-mounted TV. Guys watched the porn as if dazed. A younger guy was several rows up, slowly jerking his cock under his towel. I sat next to him, let my towel fall open and rubbed his leg with my right hand. His left hand went to my cock, quickly giving me a hard on. I pushed his towel away and stroked him.

It was so liberating to be stroking and being stroked in a situation where others could see. The porn had all young guys sucking each other that porn and his hand really aroused me. My stroking bud and I produced copious amounts of precum. I wanted so much to suck him, to be sucking cock as others watched. He sucked my nipps, a gay first for me. My current wife does that and I love it.

We recently moved near Tampa, Florida where there's such a place. Ideally I'd make friends with a bi guy on this site and visit together.

D

[NjbiGuy01]

I went to one in my late teens in Queens where I grew up. I enjoyed watching, a few guys jerked me while enjoying sex with others. That was both safe and hot ! I did not participate, although tempted for sure. It was around the time I tried a GH, and I was open to it, but could not muster to confidence....I did end up getting sucked by a dude on his back who was getting fucked...he was on the bench in the locker room....it was awesome...today, with diseases being what they are I would pass. I (like others in this thread) seem to like actually knowing their partner...which I like as well.

[whispering]

The idea of sex in bathhouses is really, really appealing: naked, lustful, men offering their cocks while others watch. wow! I most like sex with friends, when the "chemistry" is good, though bathhouses have a good kinda chemistry, too. The carnal lust of a bathhouse or club is undeniable, and if it weren't for the specter of disease, I'd be there in an instant.

So what is the story on disease? There seem to be infinite threads on this, some of them old, some current. Here's a summary of my thoughts, from what I've gleaned from seemingly reliable sources:

(1) Abstinence works, and stacking the odds in your favor helps.
(2) The odds of having sex with a frequent flyer in a bathhouse may not be better than a quick hook-up on craigslist, but they must be higher than a well-screened friend. That said, friends don't necessarily tell the whole truth.
(3) Certain ages are more promiscuous and so carry more disease, particularly those under 25 years old.
(4) Certain demographics are more likely to be promiscuous, but it all depends on the individual.
(5) Anal sex is MUCH more likely to result in an HIV infection than oral sex, but oral sex is not immune.
(6) Oral sex can result in other STD's, and there is currently a cure-resistant form of gonorrhea appearing, which can result in a significant illness.
(7) Pre-cum can contain HIV just as semen can, although the quantities of each differ.
(8) Receiving oral sex is a much lower risk than giving oral sex, unless there is an open cut that would leak blood. (Saliva is not a good transmitter, blood is).
(9) Condoms work, and testing does too.

Personally, I love giving oral sex....:oh: