A have a bit of a problem here

[theflirt77]

ok here is the thing I'm Bi and I cross dress but the thing is I can't tell my family cause they will disown me forever I really want to get this off my chest I want to be totally out I havent even bought any girl clothes for me cause I'm to embarassed to do it please someone help me out here and tell me what i should do cause I'm going out of my mind and I'm stressing really bad over this and I really want to buy the Clothes for myself!

[just2real]

First why do you need to tell your family, are you talking spouse, sisters brother, who?
I am Bi but I feel that not any ones business but me and my husband.
Just asking and trying to understand.:)

[DuckiesDarling]

Well, TheFlirt, whether you come out or not is a personal choice. I noticed from reading your profile that you don't drive and you can't host. Do you live with your family and that's why you want to come out to them? Do they know about your being bi already and the crossdressing is what you want to come out to them with?

If you are concerned about shopping for clothes, I gotta tell you online is a good start. Just read the directions about how to measure yourself for close to accurate fit and have fun.

[roy m cox]

ok here is the thing I'm Bi and I cross dress but the thing is I can't tell my family cause they will disown me forever I really want to get this off my chest I want to be totally out I havent even bought any girl clothes for me cause I'm to embarassed to do it please someone help me out here and tell me what i should do cause I'm going out of my mind and I'm stressing really bad over this and I really want to buy the Clothes for myself!

well i never told my dad about me being BI but my mom knew , and as for CD'ing if you have a bf or gf do-it at their place any time im staying with my boyfriends i CD and he loves it makes him go nuts or for my nuts heh :tong: any way not a thing wrong with keeping private about your self "hugs"

[theflirt77]

First why do you need to tell your family, are you talking spouse, sisters brother, who?
I am Bi but I feel that not any ones business but me and my husband.
Just asking and trying to understand.:)

no i dont have no one in my life yet i want to get the stuff to make me me and i want no one in my family to find out hold on let me refrase that im tired of hiding i want to be out and tell my family about me but when they do find out im affraid they will disown me

[theflirt77]

Well, TheFlirt, whether you come out or not is a personal choice. I noticed from reading your profile that you don't drive and you can't host. Do you live with your family and that's why you want to come out to them? Do they know about your being bi already and the crossdressing is what you want to come out to them with?

If you are concerned about shopping for clothes, I gotta tell you online is a good start. Just read the directions about how to measure yourself for close to accurate fit and have fun.

yes i live with my family they dont know im bi and cross dress and your right shopping online would be the best idea but how would i know what size clothing and bras to get?

[theflirt77]

well i never told my dad about me being BI but my mom knew , and as for CD'ing if you have a bf or gf do-it at their place any time im staying with my boyfriends i CD and he loves it makes him go nuts or for my nuts heh :tong: any way not a thing wrong with keeping private about your self "hugs"

thanks man you really are putting a smile on my face to make me feel better about myself everyone is on here

[DuckiesDarling]

yes i live with my family they dont know im bi and cross dress and your right shopping online would be the best idea but how would i know what size clothing and bras to get?

Most online shopping areas give you measurements. Like a normal bra it would tell you to measure just under your breasts (yes men have them too) with a soft tape measure.

You can get ideas about dress size and so on from the pages themselves. Most have an indicator of what size to get from measurements around your chest, waist and hips.

I would caution you though, if you have a friend you trust, send the packages there if you don't want to come out to your family by having something arrive from Lane Bryant or Victoria's Secret.

Only you can decide when and if you tell them, I wish you luck.

[theflirt77]

Most online shopping areas give you measurements. Like a normal bra it would tell you to measure just under your breasts (yes men have them too) with a soft tape measure.

You can get ideas about dress size and so on from the pages themselves. Most have an indicator of what size to get from measurements around your chest, waist and hips.

I would caution you though, if you have a friend you trust, send the packages there if you don't want to come out to your family by having something arrive from Lane Bryant or Victoria's Secret.

Only you can decide when and if you tell them, I wish you luck.

thank you hunny ill try and give a look around

[yanzeek]

Its the problem of ppl who never had a secret to hide, now because of society we often find us in a position to go against our nature, and it's very tough to do that.

I am afraid you have to live with a secret all your life or tell everyone face the consequences, the only help you can get is counseling with a professional.

[BareHunter45]

Goodwill might be a good place to buy as wll. you could do it in person, the products will be less expensive and all you have to do is say it ids for your sister or Mom who are shut ins???? Just a thought...