Best position for anal sex!

[taz321]

Hello,
I am pretty new to this site and have really enjoyed it so far. My lover is coming over today and I decided to finally let him top me. I have only had a real cock in me once and he was to big so he only got his cock in me a little way, so I was wondering if there is a position that allows for easier penatration as my new guy is not huge but he has a good 8 inches with pretty good girth. I can suck him all the way down with my mouth and now I want to be able to get him all the way in me so I can finally feel a man all the way in me and feel what it's like to have a man cum in my ass as I have heard it feels fantastic!! Any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks and have a great day, if all goes well I hope to have a fantastic afternoon!!:tongue:

[cornholejoe]

get him to lay on his back and ride him cowboy style

[taz321]

Thank you I was hoping someone would give me an idea, he will be here in about an hour and he does'nt know what he is getting today!!

[DuckiesDarling]

There are many ways you can try depending on body types of yourself and your lover. Basically on your stomach with a pillow under your hips and lots of lube and you should do fine. But whatever position you use, lots of lube and use protection. Go slow and expect just a twinge of pain, if the pain is intense stop, don't worry about hurting his feelings, it's more important you don't get torn. Have fun.

[Intoital]

My favorite is to make them lay on their back and straddle him. Easy to control how much goes in and how fast/hard up want to pump. A lot of fun!

[bizel]

was on internet researching this for hubby. they recommended you warm up first with fingerplay. take one, then two fingers up the arse, slowly and with lots of lube. then you be on all fours, and with lots of lube, gently back onto the penis. this allows you to take as much or little at your pace until you feel totally comfortable. best of luck. hope it's all you wish. hug, b

[NjbiGuy01]

I like receiving on my hands and knees and to be entered from behind. Slowly, gently, and lots of lube is the way to go. Once I relax, I can handle a pretty decent 8 or 9 inches, as long as the girth is not too much. I've tried taking a guy on my back with my legs up, but cannot seem to make that work well... to each his own. Hope you had fun ! :eek:

[jackbirdjay]

It's all in your mood. The best is u on top so u can control how deep and fast u want it. I like it on my back legs on his shoulders. My lover likes me to wear stockings. I rub them on his face and I jack as he fucks me. He loves the stockings rubbing him. He hits my sweet spot and cum just comes out of my cock.

[Intoital]

So how'd it go?

[smokey]

It all depends on how your gut is shaped. Usually its straight for about 7 or 8 inches then does a right turn but not always.

I like the doggie for both doing and getting it. I was with a woman who preferred it spooning... I have heard that if it hurts doggie the missionary with your legs over his shoulders works well. Smokey

[taz321]

I want to thank everyone for your interest in my situation and your info on a position to help get my guy all the way in me for the first time! We had a great time friday but unfortunately I was either to tense or he was just to fat to get his wonderful cock all the way in this time!! I think I was able to only get him about two or three inches in as he is bigger around the farther down his cock you go than I thought! I will say though that even though I was only able to get him in a little bit I still had an orgasm with me sitting on him and kissing and touching and just really getting into the moment feeling our bodies moving and rubbing against eachother. I will say he is a very patient lover and did'nt mind that I could'nt go deep in one way but I can always go deep the other way if you know what I mean so he was satified either way! We are going to keep working on getting him to where he can pound me like I want because I really want to feel what it is like to have a guy give it to me like I have fantasized about since I realized that I am a bisexual male that loves a good cock! We are getting together next week so maybe we can go a little further than this week. I will keep you all posted on the sexcapades! Hope you all had a great weekend!! Hug back bizel

[bizel]

mate, we were all rooting for you (please excuse expression - may be an aussie/kiwi thing). am thrilled you took the step and i'm sure we wish you and your guy all the best. hug, b.

[biguycancun]

I like doggie style where I can sort of control the depth and even the speed, but I never can cum that way without manual stimulation. But if I'm "dressed" in heels and stockings and on my back with my lover deep inside me, I usually cum, but not like a hard ejaculation from an erect penis. I usually remain soft and the cum just streams out as I have my orgasm. He loves the feeling of my nylons on his shoulders and neck. For me, the sight of my legs and the heels on my feet is a major turn-on and when he's rocking on my prostate it's the best, particularly while he's rubbing my legs and thrusting into me.

[bicuriouscd]

I want to thank everyone for your interest in my situation and your info on a position to help get my guy all the way in me for the first time! We had a great time friday but unfortunately I was either to tense or he was just to fat to get his wonderful cock all the way in this time!! I think I was able to only get him about two or three inches in as he is bigger around the farther down his cock you go than I thought! I will say though that even though I was only able to get him in a little bit I still had an orgasm with me sitting on him and kissing and touching and just really getting into the moment feeling our bodies moving and rubbing against eachother. I will say he is a very patient lover and did'nt mind that I could'nt go deep in one way but I can always go deep the other way if you know what I mean so he was satified either way! We are going to keep working on getting him to where he can pound me like I want because I really want to feel what it is like to have a guy give it to me like I have fantasized about since I realized that I am a bisexual male that loves a good cock! We are getting together next week so maybe we can go a little further than this week. I will keep you all posted on the sexcapades! Hope you all had a great weekend!! Hug back bizel

Hi Taz,
Maybe it would help you to use some anal plugs to get you opened up for your lover , start with a small one and work your way up to one that is the approximate size of you partner , like the others have said use lots of lube !
I hope this helps you to reach your goal of getting a good hard pounding !
Have fun !!!!

[roy m cox]

i like doggy and missionary style :) and this site may help you .

http://www.anal-sex-positions-tips.com/

[NotLostJustWandering]

I used to prefer seated in his lap so I could control the movement, but have found the old bent over, taking it from behind position easier, it just entails letting go of control and trusting the other man. Once the sphincters have loosened up, though, I prefer to turn so we can see each others' faces.

Definitely takes practice, time and patience. I disagree with the calls for lots of lube; I think only a little is necessary, and using more amounts to a failed attempt to compensate for the sphincters' not being ready yet.

I still would like to know how to get a prostate orgasm, or even stimulation, though. So far all the pleasure I've gotten out of bottoming has been vicarious, or out of wanting to submit.

[seatraveler]

OK, I have bit my tongue long enough. Three basic things about anal sex! Preparation, lubrication, and how you receive your lover.

First, preparation, this if you are a M/F couple is straight sex, just go at it and enjoy, but don't get off. This also can be done in a threesome, witch is enjoyable. Just get turned on.

Next, lubrication, an article in one of our forums covered this, and stated was silicone is the healthiest. It’s about the salts in water based product that can be irritating!

And last, the thing my mentor 40 years ago taught me, this is not the most pleasant way to explain it, but don’t get up tight with your butt, almost try to push out, like trying to go to the bathroom. I know, I know, sounds nasty but it works.

I have tutored many partners both M & F over the years and this has worked, but I’m a very patient guy and it has always been enjoyable. If this doesn’t work for you send your partner over and I will work with them.

[AsianDream]

I'd always advise someone new to anal sex to practice as much as possible before doing it for real.

I was very lucky - as my first boyfriend bought me two dildos (one smaller) to practice with long before he penetrated me.

I had about two months of solo practice. The big advantage is that you learn how to relax the inner sphincter (not nuormally under voluntary control) and get used enough to the sensation to not lose your erection on being penetrated.

Also after many solo orgams with a dildo inside you this becomes very strogly associated with pleasure. Plus you'll have no difficulty with any position.

[jimisbi]

I don't know if it's the best position, but the one I like best is missionary. I find that my partner can penetrate me deeper (probably not, but it sure feels like it) and the sensation is much better. It's the only position in which I can cum when being fucked.

[taz321]

It did'nt go as I was hoping, I guess I was not relaxed enough or something cause I was only able to get him a few inches in and it just hurt to much to continue. I really enjoyed it even though it hurt and wish I would have kept on trying cause I really want to be tottally topped if u know what I mean. Even though he did'nt get to pound my backside he still got to pound my mouth so it was all good!! Will most certainly try again!! :bigrin:

[slutjoey1]

I prefer on my back

[dafydd]

them lying on their back, missionary, as long as they're flexible. or any position where you can look into each others eyes and smile/laugh/kiss.

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