Never done this...

[emalee31310]

So... my man and I have been talking and I recently discovered that I am Bi-sexual. I have never been with a woman... and I really wanna be... I also want to involve my man the first time... any ideas on how to link up with someone... I'd like to think I would be someone a woman would want to be with... and my man has a huge dick... lol

[rigamatorboy]

we have found alot of nice fun bi ppl on Adult Friend Finder

[Michigan_cpl]

you will have to talk to your man about what you want again.

my wife and i did meet this other women in another state, i wanted to see my wife with another women so bad, so we meet with her and ended up staying at her place for a week. all the 3 of us did was make love in the morning and go to bed making love all week long.

i loved seeing my with with another women, it was a huge turn on for me, yes all 3 of us did make love to each other. now my wife wants to see me with another man, so i will make that happen for her.

you both will have to remember that all it is, is just sex, also you both will have remind the each other that you love your partner enough.

hope that this has helped.:flag3:

[Paul B.]

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[emalee31310]

I appreciate all of the great advice! For us it is just sex. We have a wonderful relationship. I want to fulfill his fantasies and I know he does want to do the same for me. In fact just us talking about the possibility of having sex with another woman has made us closer and really increased how amazing our sex life is... and I can only imagine what actually doing it would do for us!!

Still unsure of where to go to find someone willing to get into bed with us... It's not like you can just go out and ask around...

[Floridaguy4u]

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[12voltman59]

Since you put this out there--this is simply my :2cents: on your question.

For your first time being with someone of the same gender after merely "thinking about it" can be a bit of an overwhelming thing in many ways---kind of a big thing to go through on your own---let alone to do it with a third party present.

If you have never been with another woman--how do you know it is something that you are totally comfortable with and when you start--it might be the case that all of a sudden you sort of shut down and say to yourself--or even out loud: "what am I doing??--I don't like this--I cannot do this after all---I thought I did, but I guess I was wrong!!!"

So--while it may be awkward to have that happen when it is simply you and another lady---it would have to only be even more awkward to have a bout of cold feet if your partner was around, I would think.

My suggestion to you is---try being with another lady on your own--with your hubby/b/f's blessing, of course, to see if it really is something you want, can deal with and feel good about.

That is just my suggestion--I really think you might be setting yourself up for a bad outcome if you were to have your first time in the context of it being a three-way with your "man."

Once again--you did ask and this was my :2cents: worth.

Good luck whatever you decide to do.

[DrBimind]

"12voltman59" and "mich cpl" both offer good advice...I've heard of bad hook ups because someone didn't know that they react completely different then how they thought they would, and my wife and also had a wonderful week with a male friend like they did with their female friend Sometimes you feel right with someone you known for a while and sometimes you might meet someone new on line or other places. Keep an open mind, make sure every in comfortable and having a good time and maybe discuss the possibility of what to do if anyone isn't. Have fun and good luck.

[innaminka]

Voltman gave you excellent advice.
You say you want to be with another woman - fine. But what happens if ..... believe me, what you see on silky, smooth f/f porn shoots is nothing remotely like being with another Ms Average.
Before you even contemplate a 3'some, you have to find out if you are actually into women as much as you hope.
I've been there - I've seen it occur a few times.
Simply and rather crudely said - how are you going to react when it comes time for you to put your face between another woman's legs?? And vice versa!
Please, please ascertain that simple thing first - otherwise .....a disaster is quite possible.