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chinaboy6969
Nov 26, 2010, 9:07 AM
for all the guys does size really matter;)
BJ Hunter
Nov 26, 2010, 11:07 AM
I'm sure it does. I'm only 6", but have been told it's a very nice one, perfect size to suck. I'm almost 6" around to, great for the ladies ;). I have no experience sucking, but a big unit does interest me enough that want to play with it.
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ubersmack
Nov 26, 2010, 11:15 AM
Yeah I think it does. When you really want to be filled up, a little dick isn't going to do it.
fredtyg
Nov 26, 2010, 12:05 PM
It matters, but in different ways to different people.
I always fantasize about sucking larger cocks but, realistically, unless you suck a lot of big cock and are used to it, they can be hard to deal with.
I was with a very well hung guy on Thanksgiving Eve. I'd sucked him off once before and loved it. Problem was, this time he was playing the Dom role and into deep throating. He wanted me to pretty much swallow his whole cock and keep it down and was forcing it down my throat.
That didn't work out very well and I kept gagging and almost threw up. If it was more of an average cock, like mine at 6", it would of been fine and I could of handled it. I didn't mind the forced face- fucking, but he was too big for me to handle it.
If you're used to putting big things up your ass, a large cock would be the preference for me for anal sex. Since I rarely have things in me nowadays I'd be hoping for a cock at least my size or a little smaller, at least to start with.
I was pleased the other night (before I ended up with the well hung guy) when a guy showed up at my house with a cock a bit shorter and skinnier than mine. That would of been a good starter cock for not having had anal in some time. We ended up not having intercourse, though.
cornholejoe
Nov 26, 2010, 1:25 PM
6 to 8 is what most people i know want if i am getiing topped 6 to 7 is just right for me i have 6 and everyone i fuck men and women are happy with it
xxxbody44
Dec 14, 2010, 3:17 PM
It doesn't matter for me, just be clean. Size, color, long, short, its all good.
_Joe_
Dec 14, 2010, 3:19 PM
They always say more than a mouthful is a waste.
I like to add it's also a choking hazard!
jem_is_bi
Dec 14, 2010, 6:54 PM
I like it very big because my present partner is very big (9+).
I have had plenty of practice with him, so big is not more than a mouthful for me nor a choking hazard. However, I do have to back off to breath when I take him all the way down my throat.
But, I definitely do not want him poking me in the butt.:eek:
bizel
Dec 14, 2010, 7:45 PM
haven't been around enough to make big (excuse pun) comparisons, but isn't it supposed to be how you use your equipment, not what you've got? you can be hung like a horse and sex is ouch. had that, not nice! would never go back for seconds. think it's like a deep passionate kiss. some can do it knee-shakingly well, and some just fill your mouth with a worm in a bucket of saliva and you choke.
but then, i've never made out with a 'cheerio sausage'.....
smokey
Dec 15, 2010, 6:50 AM
Perhaps its a question of the prostate,
I don't know but if I am with a man who has a small dick, I'll suck or fuck him but I won't let him fuck me, but if he has 5 or 6 inches and up to say 8 or so I'll bend over and spread em in a heartbeat.
I wanna know he's in me, not just knocking at the door. At the same time anything over 8 inches or if its too thick, it hurts.
suckthebloated
Jan 27, 2011, 5:20 PM
Yes. For me the bigger the better, if I can't get it in my mouth I just move my lips and togue over the expansive leaking head........and moan!
cornholejoe
Jan 27, 2011, 7:25 PM
i like 6 to 8 inchs i have 6 and have pleased everone i have been with if i am getting topped i really like a guy with 6 to 7 inchs
runwildtonight
Jan 28, 2011, 6:29 AM
I can't put a big dick in my mouth. 9'' is the biggest I've sucked at that was difficult. I rather have a dick around 5''-7'' to suck on. As for in my virgin ass, you could guess that I don't want something too big in there either 5"-7". I got a but plug in the 5" range which I'm practicing on so that I can bend over and enjoy it... hopefully soon.
I have a 6" dick and women and men have told me that its the perfect size to suck on. I wish I had 7" but I'm glad I got what I got.
I think I'll go practice ;)
mikey3000
Jan 28, 2011, 10:07 AM
Actually I prefer no too big at all. My ex was large and it was uncomfortable sucking on it for extended periods of time. I much prefer average, that way I can take my time and really get into it.
goldenfinger
Jan 28, 2011, 6:28 PM
If you are in to this
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=684752236
I think it would matter.
Posted this before in a same question.:eek:
rabbit16
Jan 28, 2011, 10:16 PM
Um, wow. I think if I could suck my own member I likely wouldn't be married ;) But other then self pleasure that would be kind of hard on a woman I would think. But it would still be cool to give myself a BJ.
Bisexual Explorer
Jan 29, 2011, 8:42 AM
For me it's the man, not the size of his cock. My current FWB is larger than average. Sucking him off is wonderful!! Sooner or later, he is going to get my ass as well. I have also enjoyed sucking off smaller cocks.
My own cock is smaller than average. I've never had complaints from partners of either sex.
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guycurious
Jan 29, 2011, 10:12 AM
If you are in to this
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=684752236
I think it would matter.
Posted this before in a same question.:eek:
I would jump on that in a heartbeat ! Be fun to see if I could get him all the way down my throat. Then I'd grab a bottle of lube and do my best to fit him all the way in.
Arthas
Jan 29, 2011, 12:01 PM
Size does matter because I'm with guys mostly for sex, but it doesn't have to be something special. I'm not demanding.
MrBisex
Jan 29, 2011, 3:01 PM
I guess it depends on the person, that's why it is always a good idea to be able to use your tongue and mouth as well:rolleyes:
open2both
Jan 29, 2011, 3:06 PM
Depends on what hole of mine it's going in!
smallandbi
Sep 10, 2024, 1:04 PM
I was nuddging a thick 4 inches in my prime. 30 years of being impotent it has lost a few more inches. I have to sit down to urinate, but it still works for that purpose. Therefore all good with me!
KDaddy23
Sep 10, 2024, 2:32 PM
I've had them big, small, and in between in my mouth and ass and smaller than 8 inches is more comfortable for me but I've never been a size queen..
AbiMan69
Sep 10, 2024, 5:03 PM
Different sizes. Different tastes. Here's some nice one's :tongue:
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Fiddlestyx
Sep 11, 2024, 11:38 AM
I've never played with a cock bigger than 7" and that was plenty. When it comes to having a cock in my mouth I really don't care the size much as long as it gets reasonably hard and the head is a nice size. In my ass something in the 5-7" range is ideal, Too much smaller than that and it won't get the prostate all excited and bigger... just unnecessary...
joshua280964
Sep 12, 2024, 12:44 AM
for all the guys does size really matter;)
My first bf was 10 inches uncut which took some getting used to. Anything less just fails to satisfy me now. So yes the bigger the better.
querty
Sep 12, 2024, 9:41 AM
Enormous cocks are fun to look at and probably play with, but I prefer between 6 and 8' as I like to deep throat and I enjoy a nice fuck. Anything bigger than 8' and it's more work/pain than pleasure. Mind you this judgement is based on toys I experimented with as I haven't had anybody bigger than 7'. And I agree with the above, most important to me is that the guy is nice and hard (though I do enjoy playing with/oral on semi-erect cocks)
Kip2june
Sep 12, 2024, 4:03 PM
For sucking I like smaller. 4-6 inches will do. Big ones are a lot of work!! I guess then it is a real job. Small ones are so nice to just fit all the way into my mouth.
Orgasmus
Sep 12, 2024, 4:39 PM
The notion that size doesn't matter was probably put forth by guys who don't have much to offer. Of course, size matters, but that's not to say bigger is better.
In the phallic world there are three sizes -- too small, too large and just right. The ideal size for both oral and anal sex seems to be about six to six-and-a-half inches in length and about five inches in girth.
Most of my male partners have been in that category, but over the years, I've played with two unusually well-endowed guys. I can tell you from experience that sucking a very large-girth cock for an extended period tends to give me a sore jaw, and that having an eight-inch member thrust into one's throat isn't much fun either.
Likewise, I suspect being penetrated anally by the owner of a colossal penis would probably be quite uncomfortable, if not impossible. Some years ago, I offered to let a young man with a truly impressive cock have a go at my anal virginity. Try as he might, he couldn't get it inside me, which was just as well, as it would probably have hurt like hell. Being fucked years later by my buddy, Dave, who has a very average-sized cock, resulted in a sensation of pressure and fullness I could have easily done without.
Now, where sex with women is concerned, well, perhaps bigger really is better.
Back in my prime, I was certainly no slouch. My fully erect cock measured about 6.75 inches in length and maybe 4.75 inches in girth, and I rarely had any complaints from female partners. My wife, however, used to incessantly comment that her former boyfriend had a significantly larger cock and the ability to make her cum harder and more often. I don't know how big he was, but she claimed she'd sometimes have to hold a pillow over her face to stifle her cries of orgasmic joy. Sadly, I rarely achieved such results.
jimkimball
Sep 12, 2024, 10:31 PM
I like 7" or bigger 9" is my favorite.
Bob6cock
Sep 13, 2024, 1:49 AM
6"" to 8"" length cocks are great but I need dia thick 4" to 6 1/2" is nice an thick really fills me up
MNBiGuy
Sep 16, 2024, 9:00 AM
If he is thick with a head to match. 3-8 inches don't care. Im on my knees.
Mushroom head cocks. On my knees.
shaved please....lol
Neonaught
Sep 16, 2024, 9:49 AM
If he is thick with a head to match. 3-8 inches don't care. Im on my knees.
Mushroom head cocks. On my knees.
shaved please....lol
Like this?62808
MNBiGuy
Sep 16, 2024, 11:38 AM
yep big time
Rest85
Sep 16, 2024, 12:20 PM
The biggest I've sucked was a thick 7" cock. The smallest, maybe 4 1/2. The big cock fed me such a small load, I honestly wasn't sure he had cum. While I really, really enjoyed playing with his thick cock, I love a big load. The smaller cock dripped a steady stream of precum and I spent a good bit of the time licking it off the tip of his dick. Fuck! That turned me on!. When he came he spurted a few times then drooled a nice amount. Sure gave me the feeling I like...of being a slutty cum whore.
So, would I prefer a fairly thick 6 1/2 inch perfectly shaped dick with a proportionately sized mushroom head that drips a steady stream of precum and swells when he gets off, pumping spurts of slightly sweet cum into my eager mouth, over a smaller dick that cums an average load? Yes....but I've enjoyed every cock I've sucked.
All factors matter and a good balance of size with a nice amount of cum is ideal. I appreciate and enjoy a hard cock...simple as that.
Gregshaw
Sep 18, 2024, 12:35 PM
For me there's 3 variations on what size.
First, am I just playing with it? In which case the bigger the better....& preferably black.
Second, am I sucking it? Depending on thickness I'm happy with 8" max.
Third, am I taking it in the ass? Again, thickness matters, but 5-7" is about right. I've had bigger, but it took a while & they have to pump slowly.
grover
Sep 19, 2024, 12:17 PM
The difference between a small dick in my ass and a big one is night and day. Give me an average to big dick any day. A little one just doesn't do it for me. For the record I am a fat 7 inches.
Pantyhoseguy88!
Sep 19, 2024, 11:28 PM
Big is nice but there is a too big in my opinion being a bottom
flexenbuns
Nov 8, 2024, 4:17 PM
5 to 6" is plenty for me but I'm really into girth, the fatter the cock the better
Orgasmus
Nov 10, 2024, 12:02 PM
I suppose the ideal size depends on the sexual activities you want to explore. I can say with some authority that I enjoy performing oral sex on my buddy, Dave, who is just medium girth and a skosh over six and a half inches fully erect. At that length, I'm able to take in the whole of his cock without triggering my gag reflex. Frankly, I think deep throating is overrated, but Dave thoroughly enjoys it, and it's become something of an expectation. I've only consented to bottoming for Dave eight or nine times over the years, but I've become accustom to the fullness and pressure that accompanies having him inside me. In recent outings I've begun to appreciate the prostate stimulation his six-and-a-half inches provides in certain positions. Frankly can't imagine being impaled by a bigger member.
Orgasmus
Nov 10, 2024, 12:03 PM
OMG, that's beautiful!
cumagain68
Nov 16, 2024, 6:11 AM
6 is good for oral, but I like big toys, so the bigger the better for my butt.(15 max)
iamcontent
Nov 16, 2024, 6:45 AM
A nice size is good.
It depends on what you are looking for and like.
DLazguy
Nov 21, 2024, 9:48 AM
I think that size does matter. I want to suck a cock that I have to work at getting it all in my mouth, so around 7" and thick. As for getting fucked, I want long and thick. I want to feel the stretch of a thick cock and I want to feel multiple inches sliding in and out of me.
magaron
Dec 4, 2024, 6:54 PM
for some people it matter so much!
BootyBuffet
Dec 5, 2024, 9:13 AM
I will admit it. I like to get fucked by a big cock . . . 8"+ and I love to see my wife take it as well. The biggest that I have had was 9.5" and thick and it felt great! Yes sucking a cock that big is a challenge, but getting my ass filled up . . . another story altogether! LOL! That's not to say that I will not take smaller, but bigger is always my preference!
redngoldpride
Dec 5, 2024, 2:08 PM
From my experience it matters to some but for a wide variety of reasons , myself I am right around 7in. When flaccid uncut and we'll over 11in. When erect I have always been on the large size which when young can be treated as freakish . In fact even with adults it can be treated as more of a novelty some can really love it where some can be hesitant or intimidated. The larger size can be a real pain at times like when getting in and out of vehicles or riding motorcycles which I do .
Personally whether small , average , or large it should be all about the pleasure people can and should have .
DMercator
Dec 10, 2024, 11:07 AM
Never met a cock I didn't like. Love swallowing a small cock whole and love the heft and weight of a big meaty cock in my hands and the novelty of having something that big in my mouth. When it comes to anal, I don't want a cock with a monster girth.
BiVers240
Dec 13, 2024, 10:10 AM
Yes. Size does matter. I just want to be filled up. The smaller guys I have been with made up for it by giving me unusually large loads.