Bluebiyou
Nov 4, 2010, 3:46 PM
Ian recently (slightly) rebuked Fran in his thread "I'm puzzled"; expecting a castrating woman lesbian response.
The castrating female is often a premise to defend off or filter out the penis aggressive male.
Castrating females are typically either 'daddy's girls' whom life did not sweep away - fairy tale style as their initial relationship with 'daddy' promised, OR castrating females were raped/physically abused by males as children and anger is the first defense of the ego (you have to use your mind in the preceding 17 words of this sentence). This anger I speak of is most obvious in the scorn in lesbian circles if a woman (lesbian) of the group chooses to date a man (movie example: CHASING AMY). There are other castrating females, yet a majority fraction lay within these two basic types.
It must seem (to many women) that the world is filled with sociopathic roaches (men) with no other objective in life except stick their penis in girls several times for self gratification.
The best defense is a good offense. "I'll cut your penis off at my first opportunity".
Some raped women identify with a predator and masculinize themselves (become masculine) in order to protect themselves from that which harmed their feelings so much.
There are masculine women by nature also, no question.
Some women simply don't like aggressive penises, or penises at all; that's all there is to it.
This said:
Fran undoubtedly has exhibited some 'castrating woman' characteristics.
History of her 'cleaver' in posts and 'the lesser sex', among other text book examples.
Why do I love Fran?
Fran is exceptional in that, it is acceptable in western society to forcefully sexually mutilate/harm little boys.
Yet as a woman with castrating tendencies, her morality (by my observation) controls her decision.
METAPHOR WARNING: This is like a NAZI party member to absolutely refuse to partake in any part of 'the final solution' because she knows it's wrong.
She has every emotional and several rational inclinations to say, "Don't harm the girls, (reactively) harm those harmful-by-nature males (premise of justice)."
She would be backed by western culture and all modern pseudo (medical) science.
But she holds to her morality above her feelings.
This is one of the principle reasons I hold her so dear.
Very, very, few people choose the higher path.
Fran truly understands 'do no harm'.
I challenged Fran about her use of her 'cleaver' (to cut off penises) in so many posts on this site.
I asked her if her violent threat of castration (cleaver) was similar to a male threat of raping a female (violent harm/violent harm)
Fran conceded.
(Although, there are SOME times when some horny('randy' in GB'')/obnoxious adult asshole talking dirt to her IS better dealt with by a quick threat of the 'cleaver' than a rational rebuke)
I cannot sing enough praise for Fran. Fran's holding to the higher path has won my unconditional love.
I have only dated women for the past 30 years in the usa that (uninformed of my position) show similar morality and disdain our 'popular mutilation' of little boys.
This narrows the heterosexual possibilities considerably, but I have been with the cream of the moral female crop. So MANY females would unblinkingly/obediently kill their children if it was 'pop' culture.
Besides this:
Am an optimist an have been ever since I was just lil... dunno wy cos have had knocks an rejections, humiliations jus like most rest of us.. but I always look 2 the future an what I have in huge abundance is hope an belief in the best of human beings.. I believe in human beings absolutely for the long term an that none of us is unsaveable from our own worst traits.. we can always get better.. some never will, but my belief in our species is so strong that all of us should be given the opportunity.. it is my belief in people and that they can get better that makes me believe so much of what I do in so many other things...:)
And Fran has demonstrated this so many, many times. She has much more faith in humanity, certainly more than I. I view that to her credit.
In spite of the fact I will probably never see her, or materially profit from singing love to her, I love Fran. She is head and shoulders above...
The castrating female is often a premise to defend off or filter out the penis aggressive male.
Castrating females are typically either 'daddy's girls' whom life did not sweep away - fairy tale style as their initial relationship with 'daddy' promised, OR castrating females were raped/physically abused by males as children and anger is the first defense of the ego (you have to use your mind in the preceding 17 words of this sentence). This anger I speak of is most obvious in the scorn in lesbian circles if a woman (lesbian) of the group chooses to date a man (movie example: CHASING AMY). There are other castrating females, yet a majority fraction lay within these two basic types.
It must seem (to many women) that the world is filled with sociopathic roaches (men) with no other objective in life except stick their penis in girls several times for self gratification.
The best defense is a good offense. "I'll cut your penis off at my first opportunity".
Some raped women identify with a predator and masculinize themselves (become masculine) in order to protect themselves from that which harmed their feelings so much.
There are masculine women by nature also, no question.
Some women simply don't like aggressive penises, or penises at all; that's all there is to it.
This said:
Fran undoubtedly has exhibited some 'castrating woman' characteristics.
History of her 'cleaver' in posts and 'the lesser sex', among other text book examples.
Why do I love Fran?
Fran is exceptional in that, it is acceptable in western society to forcefully sexually mutilate/harm little boys.
Yet as a woman with castrating tendencies, her morality (by my observation) controls her decision.
METAPHOR WARNING: This is like a NAZI party member to absolutely refuse to partake in any part of 'the final solution' because she knows it's wrong.
She has every emotional and several rational inclinations to say, "Don't harm the girls, (reactively) harm those harmful-by-nature males (premise of justice)."
She would be backed by western culture and all modern pseudo (medical) science.
But she holds to her morality above her feelings.
This is one of the principle reasons I hold her so dear.
Very, very, few people choose the higher path.
Fran truly understands 'do no harm'.
I challenged Fran about her use of her 'cleaver' (to cut off penises) in so many posts on this site.
I asked her if her violent threat of castration (cleaver) was similar to a male threat of raping a female (violent harm/violent harm)
Fran conceded.
(Although, there are SOME times when some horny('randy' in GB'')/obnoxious adult asshole talking dirt to her IS better dealt with by a quick threat of the 'cleaver' than a rational rebuke)
I cannot sing enough praise for Fran. Fran's holding to the higher path has won my unconditional love.
I have only dated women for the past 30 years in the usa that (uninformed of my position) show similar morality and disdain our 'popular mutilation' of little boys.
This narrows the heterosexual possibilities considerably, but I have been with the cream of the moral female crop. So MANY females would unblinkingly/obediently kill their children if it was 'pop' culture.
Besides this:
Am an optimist an have been ever since I was just lil... dunno wy cos have had knocks an rejections, humiliations jus like most rest of us.. but I always look 2 the future an what I have in huge abundance is hope an belief in the best of human beings.. I believe in human beings absolutely for the long term an that none of us is unsaveable from our own worst traits.. we can always get better.. some never will, but my belief in our species is so strong that all of us should be given the opportunity.. it is my belief in people and that they can get better that makes me believe so much of what I do in so many other things...:)
And Fran has demonstrated this so many, many times. She has much more faith in humanity, certainly more than I. I view that to her credit.
In spite of the fact I will probably never see her, or materially profit from singing love to her, I love Fran. She is head and shoulders above...