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tcoz524
Nov 3, 2010, 3:56 PM
I would like to see some thoughts as to how I can prepare for anal sex the first time. How should I get ready to receive?

NEPHX
Nov 3, 2010, 5:26 PM
I would like to see some thoughts as to how I can prepare for anal sex the first time. How should I get ready to receive?
Use the search option... been covered every 2-3 months for years.

Here's a couple, hope they help:

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8543

http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8378

elian
Nov 3, 2010, 5:27 PM
1. Lube - Lots of Lube

2. Get some toys to play with, or your own clean fingers with trimmed fingernails - relax - insert something, start small and thrust it in and out - see if you even like that sensation - do give it some time to work though - it might not feel so good at first.

3. Find a partner who is understanding and cares more about you then getting his own rocks off because anal sex, like all sex - is not as easy as they make it look in the pornos. It's not a race.

4. Did I mention the lube? And that you should relax? This is where having a partner that you trust comes in handy.

Good luck, I think if more men realized that they could have multiple orgasms with anal then maybe it would have more appeal.

-E

cornholejoe
Nov 3, 2010, 7:40 PM
let him lube you up first and work some fingers in and out your hole get up on all fours like a dog and relax if he starts out easy for a minute or two to get you used to it you will be begging him to pour it to you

smokey
Nov 4, 2010, 8:32 AM
A lot of foreplay.

The asshole is quite sensitive but it needs more coaxing than a pussy or cock to want it. Rimming is a good way to start with rubbing and fingering... maybe a vibrator and of course a lot of lube. I have found; if you are with someone you don't need a condom with, coconut oil is great with vasaline a close second.

If you are screwing someone you need a condom with, perhaps you should reconsider.